Houston Psychoanalytic Society

Online Meet-the-Author Event

Passion, Shame, and the Freedom To Become:

Seizing the Vital Moment in Psychoanalysis

Discussion with Author

Peter Shabad, PhD

Interview by Cynthia Mulder, LCSW

Thursday, May 8, 2025

7:00PM – 8:30PM Central Time


Live via Zoom

This event will not be recorded


1.5 CEU/CE Credits


Registration Fees

HPS Full Members: $30

HPS Student Members: $15

Non-Members: $40


Instructional Level: Intermediate

Shame is almost ubiquitous among our clients. In his engaging new book, Passion, Shame, and the Freedom To Become: Seizing the Vital Moment in Psychoanalysis (Routledge, 2025) Dr. Shabad explores shame as a reflexive reaction to trauma. He elaborates on themes from his prior publications, summarizing the trajectory of shame. During his interview with HPS, he will describe shame's intertwining relationship with envy, self-pity, and resentment. He will also briefly differentiate shame and guilt, concluding the presentation by discussing therapeutic ways of intervening in self-shaming.

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LEARNING OBJECTIVES

After attending the program in its entirety, attendees will be able to:

  1. Describe the difference between shame and guilt
  2. Describe the relationship between omnipotence and self-shaming, and how self-shaming leads to self-pity and resentment
  3. Describe the importance of accepting disillusioned wishes as part of the mourning process

Presenter

Peter Shabad, PhD, is Clinical Associate Professor of Psychiatry at Northwestern University Medical School, Chicago, Illinois. He is on the Teaching and Supervising Faculty of the Chicago Center for Psychoanalysis and he is on the Faculty of the Chicago Institute for Psychoanalysis. He is also Supervising and Training Analyst at the Institute for Contemporary Psychoanalysis. He is an Associate Editor on the Editorial Board of Psychoanalytic Dialogues. Dr. Shabad is co-editor of The Problem of Loss and Mourning: Psychoanalytic Perspectives (IUP, 1989) and is the author of Despair and the Return of Hope: Echoes of Mourning in Psychotherapy (Aronson, 2001). He is the author of numerous papers and book chapters on diverse topics such as the psychological implications of death, loss and mourning, giving and receiving, shame, parental envy, resentment, spite, and regret. Dr. Shabad’s new book Passion, Shame, and The Freedom To Become: Seizing The Vital Moment In Psychoanalysis (2025) has just been published by Routledge.


Interviewer

Cynthia Mulder, LCSW, is a psychotherapist and psychoanalyst in private practice in Houston, Texas. She is an assistant professor at Baylor College of Medicine, faculty of the Center for Psychoanalytic Studies, and past-president of the Houston Psychoanalytic Society. She previously was employed as a family therapist at the Austen Riggs Center in Stockbridge, Massachusetts. She later joined the Menninger Clinic in Houston as an individual, group and family therapist, and subsequently was appointed as Menninger’s Director of Education and Training. Ms. Mulder began facilitating Brené Brown’s curriculum on shame, vulnerability and authenticity - The Daring WayTM to patients at Menninger and training clinicians across the country. Ms. Mulder has presented nationally about shame resilience and suicide.


REFERENCES

Shabad, P. (2022) Owing and being owed: Shame and responsibility toward the other. Psychoanalytic Dialogues, 32:4, 389-404.


Shabad, P. (2020). The forward edge of resistance: Toward the dignity of human agency. Psychoanalytic Dialogues, 30 (1): 51-63.


Shabad, P. (2017). The vulnerability of giving: Ethics and the generosity of receiving. Psychoanalytic Inquiry, 37 (6): 359-374.

Agenda

7:00 - 7:05 pm Introduction

7:05 - 8:00 pm Discussion with Dr. Shabad and Cynthia Mulder

8:00 - 8:30 pm | Presenter-led question and answer session

Disclosures

APA Accreditation Statement

Houston Psychoanalytic Society is approved by the American Psychological Association to sponsor continuing education for psychologists. Houston Psychoanalytic Society maintains responsibility for this program and its content.


HPS, through co-sponsorship with the Center for Psychoanalytic Studies, also offers approved CEUs for Texas state-approved social workers, licensed professional counselors, and marriage and family therapists.

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