There is a very beautiful commentary on the first word of this week’s parasha, Re’eh by Bachya ibn Paquda, the author of “Guidance to the Duties of the Heart”: the first Jewish system of ethics. It was written in Judeo-Arabic around the year 1080. 


“Re’eh” means “see” or “behold”.  The first few verses proclaim, "See, this day I set before you blessing and curse: blessing, if you obey the commandments of the Eternal your God….and curse if you…turn away from the path.” Moses is about to enter into another involved discourse with the people of Israel filled with laws and concepts about how they should live their lives. Here are a few examples: taking care of the vulnerable, the preservation of equality in society, kashrut, celebrating the holidays, and the importance of recognizing a false prophet. Bachya observes that the word “Re’eh” is in the singular, but that afterwards, the text moves to the plural. His take: while the mitzvot are set before the whole people, each individual must “see” and decide for themselves whether to obey or disobey.


This teaching illuminates the holiness and sovereignty of each one of us. It is the duty of each one of us, every individual, to examine for themselves how to live a holy and just life. May we take this charge to heart as we continue to chart our Jewish way through the confusion of our currently charged political landscape, both at home and in Israel.


L’shalom,

Cantor Emily Wigod Pincus


Shabbat Services

Friday, August 22nd at 7:00pm


Find strength, spirituality, and community at Shabbat Services.


Service led by Cantor Emily Wigod Pincus and Rabbinic Intern Jules Ilian



Services are live-streamed at rtfh.org/live and youtube.com/reformtempleofforesthills

Dear Congregants:


Great News!!! The new stairlift providing accessibility to the upper lobby has been installed. We apologize for the inconvenience this may have caused and appreciate your patience and understanding during this time. Together with our new ramp and stairlifts, we look forward to providing greater accessibility for our congregants and other

community members.


Kind regards,

Allan Hoberman

Director of Operations & Finance


Wednesday 8/20 - Adult Choir Rehearsal - 7pm


Friday 8/22 - Meditation Sits - 1:30pm


Saturday 8/23 - Torah Study - 9am


Thursday 9/4 - Mens Study Group - 7:30pm


Friday 9/5 - Shabbat Reshon - 6:15pm


Sunday 9/7 - Finding Beauty in Brokeness (WoCo Event) - 1:00pm


Learn more about RTFH High Holy Day Services and ticket purchasing at www.rtfh.org

Time to register for Temple Tots!

 

Join us in an interactive Shabbat for

 children 5 years & younger and their families.

 

Fall/Winter 2025 Session

Saturday, October 4th at 10:00am (Sukkot)

Saturday, November 1st at 9:00am

Saturday, December 13th at 9:00am (Chanukah)

Saturday, January 10th at 4:00pm* (Tu Bishvat)

*Temple Tots Havdalah

 

Cantor Emily, Rabbi Mark and the Temple Tots Team invite you and your family to a fun and interactive Shabbat full of songs and joy.

We'll share in story time, music, and crafts!

 

Don't miss out on updates and programming!


Register here

Kintsugi; Finding Beauty in Brokenness

Sunday, Sept 7th – RTFH Garden Room

1pm – 5pm (Lunch is provided)


Join us as we host award-winning Jewish educator Jane Tuv to facilitate the workshop experience “Kintsugi; Finding Beauty in Brokenness. ” In this workshop, we’ll explore the Japanese art of Kintsugi, or the practice of mending broken pottery with gold. Jane has hosted this workshop for audiences all over the US, including some families of hostages who remain in captivity. 


The Velveteen Rabbi writes, “Torah teaches that we are beings of the earth: we too can become pure and whole not despite our brokenness, but in and through it. Or as Leonard Cohen wrote, “There is a crack in everything. That’s how the light gets in.” 


Kintsugi is the ancient Japanese art of repairing broken ceramics using glue mixed with gold, silver or platinum. It can symbolize life’s journey in that sometimes unexpected events shatter our lives, dreams, and aspirations. Instead of hiding our cracks and wounds, we embrace and celebrate imperfections using precious metals. Kintsugi can help us reframe certain events, turning adversity into something resilient, beautiful, and transformative.


 In this workshop, we will “Break and repair a Japanese bowl as you reconnect with your inner self, bond with other community members, and learn a beautiful new art form that heals both heart and vessel. This practice will be supported by Jewish spiritual texts.”

 

This program is made possible through a grant from the Women of Reform Judaism  (WRJ). A special catered lunch and all materials are included for 35 participants. Current WoCo members can reserve their spot for $18 until August 14. Registration will then open up to non-members and guests for $36. If you still need to pay your WoCo dues for 2025/2026 click here!


*Accessibility notes: This program will be held in the garden room. We will break a bowl with a small hammer and glue it back together with gold paint. You will need to carry your bowl home.


RSVP: https://www.rtfh.org/engage/womens-connection/kintsugi-finding-beauty-in-brokenness/

Queensborough Performing Arts Center

presents DRASTIC ACTION in

JUST STAND BY


A powerful contemporary dance performance rooted in the rise of anti-democratic leaders around the world and in the director's history as the child of a Holocaust survivor.


Saturday, September 6th at 8pm

Queensborough Performing Arts Center

222-05 56th Avenue


FREE tickets for the RTFH community


For more details about the performance and complimentary tickets:


https://juststandby.bpt.me/

ENTER DISCOUNT CODE: DAFriends

The College Connection Package


Calling all parents of college students, The College Connection Committee are pleased to let you know that we will be sending packages again during Rosh Hashanah, Chanukah, and Passover.


We are now updating our list of college students and their current addresses.


In order to include your student(s) in this program, please complete this form by Friday, September 5th, 2025. For more information and more detail on registration, click here

King David Comes!


Torah Study has arrived at the fascinating stories for King David. This is the perfect time to join in! Join Torah Study on Zoom each Saturday from 9-10 am as we begin the Book of I Samuel.


Friendship. Romance. Lust for power. Infidelity. Betrayal. God.

The Book of Samuel beats any contemporary soap opera in its intrigue and emotion.  Explore the richness of these tales that shaped the Jewish people in one of the most memorable parts of the Tanakh.


No previous reading or knowledge needed. Join any time.


 Study with us on Zoom:

https://zoom.us/j/703706086?pwd=empYdzZNVWU3cGtuQTRkVTU3d1huZz09

 Phone Dial-in: 1-646-558-8656

Member ID: 703-706-086

Password: Numbers36

Meditation Sit with Cantor Pincus

Fridays at 1:30 pm


Get ready for Shabbat with some quiet relaxation time! This 30-minute Meditation Sit with Cantor Emily will incorporate Jewish text, music, and, of course, silence.


 Meditate with Cantor Emily on Zoom: 

https://zoom.us/j/929864997?pwd=N2c2WCtyM2UzRVJQQzltelpWNk9lZz09

Birthday Connection


Acknowledge someone's special day by sponsoring a birthday greeting! 


Each month, a list of Temple members celebrating birthdays is posted to the RTFH Birthday Connection. Simply click on the link, create or login to your Member's Account, and fill out the online form.

Women's Connection will send that person a personalized Happy Birthday greeting to everyone who donated in their honor. At only $1 per greeting, Birthday Connection is an easy way to manage a monthly mitzvah for everyone on your list! 


Lists of upcoming Birthdays with instructions are available in plastic hanging bins in the lobby of the temple near the coat room or use the links below.


Send Birthday Wishes

Birthday Connection-August

Birthday Connection-September

See the Social Action Team's Worldwide Efforts page of our website for ways you can help support Ukraine. 

Spearheaded by the Israel Support and Action Committee (ISAAC), our congregation supports Israel by giving to The Shiloni Project, a grassroots organization formed to meet the needs of displaced families and soldiers.


Please give generously by clicking here. See the Israel page of our website for more details.

Music Together at RTFH!


We are so thrilled to be in our RTFH home with our beloved

Music Together®️program! for Babies through 8 yr olds

 

Enroll Today!

MusicTogetherwithMusicandMe.com

718-229-0033

We're thrilled to have RTFH as our newest school base offering full time childcare education for children aged 2-5 years old


For more information

please call 718-569-5902,

E-mail melvillemontessori@gmail.com

or click here www.melvillemontessori.com

Thank you for your support of The Reform Temple of Forest Hills

 

We welcome you to learn more about our Temple at our new website www.rtfh.org

 

To donate, click “Donate" at the top of the page or go directly to rtfh.org/donate

 

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  •  Yahrzeit Fund: send a donation in memory of loved ones, and a private note is instantly sent to the recipient!
  •  The Temple Office will provide tax benefit letters after the end of the year fully detailing your donations.