5 Ways to Honor and Memorialize Your Pet
Sunday, August 28 is Rainbow Bridge Remembrance Day – a day set aside to honor and remember the pet companions we have lost. It was founded in 2015 by Deborah Barnes in honor of her cat, Mr. Jazz.
Many animal lovers believe that pets cross over to a place called the Rainbow Bridge when they die, and they wait for us there until our lives end so we can meet again. Whether or not you believe in the Rainbow Bridge, it’s healthy to set aside time to think about the pets who were so special to you and to honor their memories.
The death of a pet, whether furry, feathered, or exotic, is felt deeply. Mourning their death is different for everyone, and observances like this can aid in healing the ache of loss. The empty space left by the loss can be a difficult void to overcome. Each person’s grief is different – as unique as the bond they shared with their beloved pet. Remembering the loving home you provided and the companionship and comfort they offered in return is something to celebrate as you navigate the journey from grief to gratitude.
Ways to Observe the Day
There is no right way to grieve or pay tribute to loved ones, and your own process will be deeply personal. We hope that these suggestions inspire you to memorialize your pet in a way that brings comfort and helps you to move forward, but never forget.
1. Talk About Your Pet
The simplest and, perhaps, most effective way to memorialize your pet is to be intentional in talking about them on this day. Take time to enjoy memories of your pet. Look through pictures. Share stories. It can be painful to talk about the pets we’ve lost. But many people find it helpful to focus on the good times and to honor that love by sharing positive memories with others.
2. Have A Ceremony
Sometimes a pet loss is unexpected or happens so quickly that we don’t have time to hold a memorial service. It doesn’t need to be elaborate. Gathering a few family members or friends to share stories and grieve together can lift the burden of loss. Shared grief is Good Grief.
3. Carry A Tribute
A tangible way to remember your lost pet is to keep something that reminds you of them close by. A photo, a piece of jewelry, or a keepsake can be valuable reminders of the love and good times you shared.
4. Create Something
Many people find comfort and healing in making something that pays tribute to their pet. You don’t have to be a renowned artist to create a story, drawing, video, song, or even just a journal of memories. The action of putting your thoughts and emotions into something is comforting, and you’ll have a lasting memorial. We post obituaries on our website and social media and invite you to submit your free pet remembrance.
5. Visit a Shelter
If you feel you’re ready, consider a visit to an animal shelter. Donating supplies or volunteering your time can help ease the adjustment and is a beautiful way to honor the pet you’ve lost. If you’re still struggling with grief, give yourself time to fully experience the loss and prepare your heart to open again. You’ll know when the time is right to bring a new companion into your home.
