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Rethinking Grief & Loss in 2020
- Tornado of Chaos & Change -

by Selacia

As our society devolves into more disintegration and chaos - many norms of life disrupted or unavailable - there is a need to rethink the impact of grief and loss, and to find better ways to cope. In this article I'll outline a long view of our unprecedented situation and provide key remedies.


Years from now, when we look back on 2020, we will realize the sheer magnitude of cherished things we've needed to leave behind, the relentless adjustments we've had to make, and for some of us the loved ones we've lost.

For now, however, since we're in the midst of what I'll call a "tornado of chaos and change" - figuratively inside the tornado - we are unable to grasp the full picture of our predicament. In some ways, that's probably a good thing, for our ego-self would have a melt down knowing the details and being unable to stop the world from changing.

Rethinking Grief and Loss

While grief and loss are a part of the human condition, coping mechanisms of the past are like a small band-aid on a giant still-bleeding open wound.

Why is now so different?

First of all, the pandemic arrived in early 2020, upending our lives and forcing us to make constant adaptations. Uncertainty has been at an all time high. It's much more than the pandemic of course, but that one thing has had a huge impact on our daily experience. That one crisis, and how it's colored our view of reality, influences our reactions to other losses and crises.

  • Illness or death of loved ones and pets - not related to the pandemic - can be more difficult to process when we are already coping with pandemic-related life changes
  • Losing a job, stressful on its own, can take an even bigger toll on our well-being in today's uncertain environment
  • Even a thing we want to do, like moving to a new home, can involve unique challenges if things like home deliveries of furniture aren't available

For people who have lost loved ones to the corona virus, often unable to be with them towards the end, there is an inconsolable sadness and sometimes rage about the gross mismanagement of the pandemic by authorities.

There's a new buzzword in 2020 - corona virus grief.

What is it? It's pandemic-connected grief involving losing one's daily routine and familiar things. That will look different for each person, but the general impact is the same for all of us.

This is an example of how it plays out:
  • You can't go to your regular places or have the same type of physical contact with people you're used to seeing
  • There's a sense of loss, and perhaps disorientation - for you are accustomed to your routines
  • Negative thoughts arise about the changes
  • Emotions like anxiety or anger then come into play, catalyzing more negative thinking
  • Before you know it, your energy drops and you may feel weary and simply want a nap, as your creative juices are unavailable and you're not inspired. Sound familiar?

What We Can Do

I suggest we update our thinking about grief and loss - factoring in the big picture of humanity's mega changes that will be unfolding in the 2020s. Pandemics will come and go, as will other things we can't possibly foresee ahead of time - all of these things requiring us to be flexible and open-minded as we find ways to adapt.

We must have a long view, for this isn't just about 2020 or the duration of the pandemic. The more we think short-term, in fact, the harder it will be for us to cope with loss and the disorientation of changing how we live.

We must discover an evolving set of coping mechanisms we can apply this year and beyond. The foundation of these involves developing and applying spiritual qualities: adaptability, flexibility, openness, patience, gratitude, being able to forgive, and being willing to change one's mind. In the process of developing these qualities, we also develop more self-compassion and self-love. These things factor into our ability to be resilient in crisis - this year and beyond.

Most likely, you're already developing these spiritual qualities. If that's the case, know that these qualities take lifetimes to develop. Therefore, if you are already familiar with them and are currently able to apply them some of the time, this reflects lifetimes of spiritual development. This means you have long prepared to be here now, and that you are more resourced than you can now perceive! Allow that knowing to register in your heart and being, and use it as an inspiration for the next steps.

I look forward to your feedback on these themes and knowing how I can serve you in an expanded way in 2020. Feel free to contact me at my website.

Copyright by Selacia - a globally known writer, DNA intuitive healer, spiritual teacher, and the creator of The Divine Changemakers * All Rights Reserved * * Feel free to share these articles with your friends and post to your blog or website as long as you include this entire copyright notice, with link back to website, and the full article text.

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2-Divine Changemakers 2020 Course - Resilience - Still Open to Register
3-Predictions 2020 - Your Timely Guide to This Rare Year
4-Private 1-1 Virtual Sessions with Selacia via Zoom, phone, Whats App, Skype
5-Staying Connected in 2020 - Social Media Pages to Follow
Spiritual Heart Activation Live & Recorded Global Meditation
Dear friends,

October 10 our annual Spiritual Heart Activation meditation - not to be missed!

We're living in times of great polarity and division - when compassion needs to be felt and expressed more, and yet oftentimes we see little or no compassion during power plays by world leaders and self-serving corporate moguls.
Here's another thing. The "us vs them" dynamics of groups - online and off line - leaves little space for compassion.

Our focus on the spiritual heart at this meditation will help you elevate your energy above the fear you see in the world. In an energy activation process - facilitated by The Council of 12 - you will be connected with your spiritual heart. This is a precious part of you - it is sacred as you are at your core. When you connect with it - or reconnect having accessed this before - you will be able to tap a quantum field of compassion. Continue reading below for more details and link to register.

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Spiritual Heart Activation
Virtual Global Meditation

Selacia's annual Spiritual Heart Activation meditation to connect you with your high heart - the spiritual heart.

Timed to help you navigate our current emotional roller coaster energies and the unique challenges of 2020.

To connect you with your enlightened heart that knows how to love, how to receive love, and how to respond to a world caught up in chaos and fear.
As you connect with this part of yourself, you will be resourced to experience more joy and abundance, and to connect with a higher view of life circumstances.

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This healing meditation can help you bring new life into areas that may have become stagnant. You will benefit from a re-balancing and resetting of energies, too, so that you are better positioned to live your best life.

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Begin to receive the beneficial energies of this event by registering early. If you have been to these meditations before, you know that you also benefit for weeks after one of these events - new insights and healing catalysts occurring in your life.

In the global peace process, you and other participants from around the world will help generate healing and higher frequencies needed for a more loving world. Another plus: attending these meditations helps you to stay connected with others and feel a part of a loving community involved with service and transformation of our society.

Whether you attend live or with the recording, you can benefit from working with the MP3 a second time - each time receiving new insights and energetic support.
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More info below about Predictions 2020 and other offerings.
Selacia's Predictions 2020 eBook

Your Guide To This Rare Year Of Upheaval & Change
In this book, I describe the happenstance and energies of 2020 and provide insights about our potentials during this rare year. For context I describe themes continuing this year and how to understand them with a long view.

A year setting the foundation for 2020s. To help you understand just how pivotal 2020 is to our future, I outline themes unfolding now that will continue throughout the decade. This is a long view and big picture perspective of what we have in store - and how to best prepare.

Predictions 2020 Book Excerpt:
"In the year 2020, our world is deeply polarized and chaotic as despots in key countries dismantle the very foundation of democracies. Do we allow our fear of the 'other' to blind us to what's happening in country capitals like Washington, or do we open our eyes and hearts - rising up to protect and restore our freedoms, the rule of law, and fair treatment of all beings? I believe we rise up, using our awareness and light to begin reversing the fear-based stranglehold of ego-driven hierarchies."

Thanks to all of you who have purchased this 95-page book, read it, and either posted a review on amazon kindle or emailed me one. If you enjoyed the book, please tell a friend you sense would benefit.

In case you haven't yet ordered the book or want to review it, links are below. Thank you for being a part of my journey!
Divine Changemakers 2020 Course
-Still Available to Register
-New Annual 4-Week Live Course
-September 20 to October 24
Resilience & Self-Awareness in Crisis

  • Adapting to New Norms
  • Embodying Your Divine Self
  • Managing Emotional Distress
  • Manifesting Your Higher Purpose
  • Interpreting Symbols & The Esoteric

For anyone not yet registered:
Please note that the text of the course title and website link to the 2020 Divine Changemakers Course haven't been updated, but the link gets you to the page to register for our course. Feel free to tell your friends, too, as this is open to all across the world - no prerequisites. Registrations for the live course available throughout October, followed up by 2 live course practicums in 2021.

Not yet registered?
Please let Selacia know now so she can factor in your personal energy.

As outlined in today's article, the ability to have resilience in crisis is key to how we will experience 2020 and this decade.

If you are new to my Divine Changemakers courses, know that they are created to be experienced in quantum vs linear - and participating in them helps participants increase their ability to live in a quantum vs linear way.
This includes how the course is viewed in terms of timing - there are 4 weeks of material and 4 live recorded group calls. When one takes the course live as this one is, it's experienced with others across the world taking at the same time. That said, the material is created to be worked with over time, not simply during the 4 weeks - it's a living body of work. There are no deadlines, no tests, no linear 'shoulds.' Participants continue working with the material and tools into 2021 and beyond - being able to join, if desired, 2 live Practicums for the course in 2021 - when they connect live with Selacia and others in the course.

It's here! Selacia's brand-new 4-week live global course for 2020!
This experiential course is tailored to these unique times and energies. We live in a rare junction, during which we and our entire world are being turned upside down and reconstructed. Navigating these moments is a challenge none of us anticipated. However, we've prepared for lifetimes to be here and our larger selves are totally on board and ready!

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Rare junctions necessitate a new set of eyes and enhanced self-awareness. We must learn to "see" ourselves and our reality in a quantum way. And we must expand our self-awareness to meet the new types of challenges we will face. Resilience is key to our success.

Selacia recently wrote this on Facebook for context:
"In 2020 humanity is experiencing an unprecedented spiritual initiation. Our norms have been upended, our daily life disrupted, and our views about countless things turned upside down. It’s like the ground we stood on has disappeared. We are being prepared, in fact, for more of this during the 2020s. What we learn about ourselves and how we respond to this year’s initiation sets the stage for what unfolds next. When you feel overwhelmed or disheartened, keep this big picture in mind."
Here's a comment from a past participant in the Divine Changemakers Series:
"I've been on the path of spiritual transformation for a long time – finding the helpful experiences in this Divine Changemakers course to be complimentary to my earlier training and daily process. Because of participating in this course, I now can go deeper with myself, receiving a more clear sense of why I am here."
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Private Virtual Sessions With Selacia Via Zoom, Phone, Whats App, Skype
During 2020 as the pace of change accelerates, so do your opportunities to self-evolve and grow spiritually. You may be a seasoned traveler of the path, or relatively new to spiritual awakening - either way, this year is radically different. The process of spiritual growth and healing now takes on a new meaning and potential.

What does this mean? Firstly, it means that your potentials to break from the past are greater. Secondly, it means that your potentials to live fully as your best self are magnified. Thirdly, it means that the divine spark within you is shining even more brightly - guiding you to see things you couldn't see before and to do things you couldn't do before.

Most likely, last year you began sensing that this year would bring big changes in the world. You may have sensed, too, that you would be revamping your life in some way and discovering how to be more resourced so you could thrive during the ups-and-downs of societal changes.

When the pandemic arrived, you likely began sensing that big shifts were in store for you on many levels - personal, life purpose, relationship dynamics, contributing in the world. In private virtual sessions with Selacia, you are assisted in making the most of these moments. As part of that, you are assisted in accessing and clearing issues blocking you. As that happens, you can access greater clarity and energy for manifesting your highest visions in the world.

This indeed is the time to access and clear what has been blocking you, perhaps for years as you struggled to find yourself and your higher purpose.

A big theme in most inner work involves relationships. They provide us with the mirror for self-growth. At the same time, our conditioning is a block to seeing ourselves fully. That's why most of us, including healers and other professionals, seek outside counsel.

Most likely you are quite intuitive, and perhaps do inner work and healing for yourself. Despite this, having a neutral and trusted professional like Selacia work with you can help you see and clear things that your ego-self isn't letting you fully address.

In private virtual sessions with Selacia, you will benefit from a deeper kind of work that fully supports you as you navigate the uncertainty and unknowns of 2020. This work is a process over time, allowing you to become more comfortable with yourself and grow your bond with spirit so that it's unbreakable and solid.

Private sessions give you a safe space to talk about your concerns and your personal issues coming up now. They help you to validate what you know to be true. They support your life revamping and new actions you will need to take to facilitate a new life structure more suited to the quantum being you truly are.

Virtual sessions can be by Zoom, phone, Whats App, or Skype.

The basic modality is DNA healing which addresses your present, conditioning, ancestral patterns, connections with loved ones on the other side, and soul journey involving past lives. Other modalities include astrology, pet sessions, crystal journey sessions. Private intensives are offered as advanced work for established regular clients. Note: private work with Selacia is a commitment you make to yourself and your evolution - it requires your active participation and dedication.

If this work calls to you, visit Selacia's website and order your DNA session now. As soon as you do this, you have set in motion a powerful and tangible healing alchemy that begins the process. Energetic support begins from that moment, preparing you for this deeper work with Selacia.
To get started, order a DNA session at the website and contact Selacia for details/scheduling.

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