Activity 3: What’s Best About Me?
(Skills - Self-Awareness/Social Awareness)
Suggested for: Advisory Group Leaders
Time allotted: 20 minutes
After reviewing and discussing people they respect, ask the students if, based on these qualities, they would add their own names to the list? Students may suggest that this would be bragging, or some might make jokes.
Explain to the students that they deserve a chance to earn respect from everyone, especially themselves. Point out that each student has special qualities, just like the people they listed.
Write
Self-Respect on a separate Padlet. Ask students to volunteer to look up the definition of “self-respect” and record their finding on the Padlet titled
Self-Respect.
Ask your students to consider the respect-worthy qualities of other people they discussed earlier and ask them to list a few of those qualities that apply to themselves on a sheet of paper. Then, ask them to think about an instance in which they demonstrated one of those qualities.
Have students break into pairs in breakout rooms and share that instance with their partner. How did these actions make the student feel? If necessary, prompt students with the following examples:
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Standing up for a friend or family member;
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Winning an audition;
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Getting a job;
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Studying hard to pass a difficult exam.
As each student speaks, ask his or her partner to take notes, describing the tone of voice, facial expressions, and body language of the speaker. Have partners switch roles so each student can share their experience.
Next, ask students to briefly share with their partner a moment that they would be happy to forget. Again, ask the partners to take notes on the tone of voice, facial expressions and body language of the speakers.
Once all of the students have had the opportunity to share and record both positive and negative experiences with their partner, ask the group to come back together. Have students report on what they noticed about their partner’s behavior.
Suggested Processing Questions:
- Did you notice a difference in your partner’s tone of voice, facial expressions, and body language when he or she described a positive event as opposed to a negative one? (Most students are likely to report that the partner’s tone of voice, facial expressions and body language were far more confident when describing a pride-filled moment rather than one of embarrassment that included things like:
- a lively tone of voice;
- good eye contact;
- laughter;
- upright posture;
- positive facial expressions.
- When a person displays confidence, are you more or less likely to want to interact with and/or be a friend to them?
- (Self-confidence - the outward sign of self-respect- empowers us to function effectively in the world because it draws others to focus on our best qualities.)