Jewish Community Center of Long Beach Island E-Letter



April 9, 2021
27 Nisan 5781



A MESSAGE FROM
THE RABBI
With Pesach now behind us and the countdown to Shavuot well under way this is a good week for reflection and some quick observations.
 
I have often been struck by a portion of the Haggadah that appears just after the Maggid (telling of the story), beginning with L'Feekhach. The Paragraph is an introduction to the Hallel (Psalm of praise) that we sing just before and after the meal. L’Feechach means “therefore” and this section tells us about the obligation to praise God for what God has done for us and our ancestors. It then lists all of the things God had done for us. What intrigues me is the series of dualities presented in the text: slavery/freedom, sorrow/joy, mourning/festivity, darkness/light, servitude/redemption. 
 
It is as if you cannot have one without the other. Each coupling’s polarity inherently draws them toward each other, like magnets. What dawns on me is that the Pesach story presents everything in black and white terms. In real life we don’t have this luxury; things are mostly shades of grey. One question to pose is “where is God in all of this?” If , as our tradition tells us, God is everywhere, then God exists in the extremes and in everything in between.
 
This is important, because in a traditional sense, we should be praising God for the good things that happen, and seeking God’s guidance when bad things befall us. But we also need to acknowledge God’s presence in our lives for all of the things in between. This is not easy. It is one of the reasons for counting the Omer as we do now until Shavuot. We daily acknowledge our connection to God. Good, bad, or somewhere in the middle, the connection is made.
 
The second thing that piqued my interest is that this week’s Parsha, Shemini, contains the laws of keeping Kosher. Of all of the commandments, Kashrut is one of the hardest to explain. Those who don’t keep kosher always ask me why I observe the dietary laws. 
 
They want to know the purpose of the laws. While many rationales have been proposed for why God requires us to keep kosher, perhaps the most frequent assertion is that these laws were created for health purposes, because, in part,  the prohibited foods were thought to be carriers of disease. In reality, the answer for why we are commanded to eat kosher is actually given right in the text of the Parsha. At Leviticus 11:44, it says: “For I the Lord am your God: you shall sanctify yourselves and be holy, for I am holy….For I the Lord am He who brought you up from the land of Egypt to be your God: You shall be holy for I am holy.”
 
I am not sure that this answer is satisfactory, but there is certainly something inherently holy in regulating our diet. The natural human propensity would be to eat whatever we can, whenever it is available. Kashrut forces up to be mindful, at all times, about what we ingest. When we carefully consider what we eat, we are better attuned to our real needs. Perhaps, by restricting food choices, we are training ourselves to take what we need, and not necessarily what we want. It may be a small difference, but there is something holy about intentional limitation.
 
Finally, with regard to keeping kosher, perhaps if we are careful with what we ingest, and thoughtful about what we put into our mouths, we will put ourselves in a position to better control what comes out of our mouths. 
 
Just a little food for thought as we prepare for Shabbat.
 
As we count the omer toward the receipt of Torah, may we seek God in the extremes and in between. May we consider the importance of the things that we need rather the things we want. May we find connection in the middle.
 
Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay

SHABBAT SHALOM
Candle Lighting Time
Friday evening,
April 9, 2021
7:11 PM

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Hazzan Sara Geller
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Friday evening
April 9 2021
6:00 PM
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your invitation from 
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Saturday morning
April 10, 2021
Torah Study
9:00 PM
Services
10:00 AM
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A Lombardi will be reading Torah.

Torah Reading
Parashat Shmini
Leviticus 9:1-11:47
Here is the Reading

Haftorah
II Samuel 6:1 - 7:17
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April 14
2 Iyar

YOM HAZIKORON -
 




is the national remembrance day observed in Israel for all Israeli military personnel who lost their lives in the struggle that led to the establishment of the State of Israel and for those who have been killed subsequently while on active duty in Israel's armed forces. 
YOM HA'ATZMA'UT
April 15-
3 Iyar

Israeli Independence Day

.THIS WEEK'S SCHEDULE

MONDAY 4/12 @ 10:00 AM
Chumash Class

WEDNESDAY 4/14 @ 8:00 PM
Rabbi's University Class

THURSDAY 4/15
11:00 AM Torah Study with the Rabbi
2:00 PM Beginning Hebrew with Ira

HERE ARE THE LINKS FOR THE ACTIVITIES FOR THIS WEEK
VIRTUAL TOUR OF ISRAEL 4/4 - 4/9
Each night brought us another visit to Eretz Yisroel with views of many special places and stories of Israel and its heroes. Thank you to our wonderful guide Mordecai, our able JNF Tour Coordinator Rick Abrams and to JCC member, Mary Pleeter, for bringing this program to the JCC of LBI.
You are invited to attend our seventh Shabbat dinner on Friday, April 16, 2021 at 6:00 PM. Please plan on joining us for a Shabbat filled with friendship and community.
 
We will start our evening with the blessings and services, followed by a period of sharing your Shabbat dinner with family and friends in a breakout room. If you have no specific request and are open to making new friends, please respond to this email and we will arrange for you to be seated with a fabulous group of people. 
 
Please click on this link and fill in the form by Friday, April 16 at 3:00 PM. List your name(s), (couple(s) or single(s), and include the names of friends and family to be included in your private breakout room or send an email to: JCCOFLBIShabbatDinner
 
Or join at the last minute, all are welcome!
 
This is our seventh celebration of this type of event, hoping to see you then!!! If you have any questions, please feel free to contact Rabbi Jay (973) 865-9534 or Irene B. at (856) 904-5145 for dining arrangements.
 
Click this link to join our Friday night Shabbat Service/Dinner. 

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4/9
Kabbalat Shabbat with
Hazzan Sara Geller
at 6:00 PM
4/16 at 6:00 PM
Shabbat Dinner

4/22
12:00 Noon
WAX Earth Day Picnic
at the 68th Street Pavillion
.7:45 PM
Movie Nite


4/25 @ 11:00 AM
Blessing of the Animals

4/28 at 4:00 PM
WAX Book Discussion at
Jephte's Daughter
by Naomi Ragen
THIS WEEK'S YAHRZEITS

The following names will be read at Friday night services.''

Mae Hirschorn Cohen*
Morris Ross
Calvert I. Waranch*
Ruth Brasch
George Foosaner
Alfred David Frumkin
Ruth Goldman*
Matilda Tubis
Izzy Ungar
Marvin Einhorn
Larry Holt
Audrey Konwiser
Evelyn Miller*
Jennie Shapiro
Nathan Blumberg
William Frank
Ann Hirsh Mednikoff
Anna Blumenthal*
Dr. Morton Kaplon
Aaron Powitz
Fred Gottesman
Ada Heller
Fanny Kelsen
Lazar Lebovitz
George Rosner
Pearl Elefant
Jack Halpern
Batia Shatz
Tessie Weisel
 
In this Zoom era, we have been able to have a daily minyan at 8:15 AM and at 7:30 PM and on Shabbat. We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one. 
Sharon Hendler
April 10
Barry Freedman
April 11
Stanley Wallach
April 11
Sandy Rosenbloom
April 12
Karin Foreman
April 13
Karl Mayro
April 13
Frederic Schragger
April 14
Arthur Abramowitz
April 15
Donald Pripstein
April 15
Vick Pashman
April 16
 
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CARING COMMITTEE
  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.
Please contact Chairperson,
Debby Schweighardt
if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member
that needs our help.
973-634-5349 
GIVING OPPORTUNITIES

PAVERS
Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building
8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"

SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:
Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.
Purchase a personalized paving stone
in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.

Please contact Diane Hoffman
with your order or with any questions:


PRAYER BOOKS
There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.
See Order form here: Prayer Book


TRIBUTES
SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF
See order form here: TRIBUTES


TREE OF LIFE
Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE
Bronze Leaf $90
Silver Leaf $126
Gold :Leaf $180


ENDOWMENT FUND
Join Herb and Selma Shapiro z"l to help assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full- congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. Judith z"l & Donald Pripstein have joined the Shapiros with a $50,000 donation and have established The Pripstein Family Endowment Fund.

A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such name funds will be joined together to be part of the endowment fund portfolio.

All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this fund whether as a specific named fund, or as a general donation. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly.


YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 
Here is the order form: 


KOL HAKAVOD

Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD

JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC support our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
The Pergula on the JCC property is for sale. $600.00. Contact Sherry for further information
fsherryf@yahoo.com
JCC INFORMATION
THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT
2411 Long Beach Boulevard (24th Street)
Spray Beach, NJ 08008
Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550
web site: www.jccoflbi.org  
  
THE OFFICE IS TEMPORARILY CLOSED.
PLEASE USE THE PHONE OR EMAIL WITH REQUESTS.
OUR OFFICE STAFF WILL BE CHECKING IN REGULARLY.
  Staff:
 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager
  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member
Tony DeGregorio, Custodial Staff
Kitchen Manager: Susan Berube

USEFUL LINKS
LATEST
BULLETIN:

PRAYER BOOK:
 
WEB SITE:

PAVERS:

TREE OF LIFE
  
YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM
KOL HAKAVOD

TRIBUTES:


CONTACT INFORMATION:
  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

Michael Babst, President

 
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