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As Sacred Groves aims to support a cultural shift towards a more natural and ecological approach to end-of-life, our Board has often talked about hosting a Death Cafe. Of course, talk and action are two different things, and it is thanks to the initiative and enthusiasm of our volunteer intern Cecilia Rodriguez that our first Death Cafe awaits us, right around the corner.
What are Death Cafes? They began in 2011 in London, when a man named Jon Underwood invited friends to his home to talk about death. His mother Sue Barsky Reid, a psychotherapist, facilitated the discussion. Since then, thousands of Death Cafes have occurred around the world-- in living rooms, libraries, coffee shops, and community centers — offering spaces for honesty, curiosity, and connection. People discovered that these conversations were not morbid but deeply life-affirming.
The main organizing hub of this movement is Deathcafe.com, which describes the objective of death cafes as "to increase awareness of death with a view to helping people make the most of their finite lives".
There’s no set agenda, no attempt to direct beliefs or outcomes, and no cost to attend. The aim is simply to open up the conversation about death.
While we may touch on tender topics,
this is not intended to be a grief support group.
For Humboldt-based grief resources, visit
humboldtgov.org/429/Hope-Center.
Our intern and death cafe organizer and facilitator, Cecilia Rodriguez, is a graduate student at CalPoly Humboldt in the Environment and Communities program. Their graduate research explores the estrangement of US death practices from the ecological cycles of life. After graduation, Cecilia aims to enter a PhD program to continue their work with ecological death advocacy, with a focus on how representations in public art can serve as a method of re-imagining our relationship with death.
We look forward to this inaugural Humboldt Death Cafe on November 1st from 1pm-3pm at Froth Cafe in Arcata. Space is limited, so if you plan to attend, please RSVP here. We will cap attendance at 30, but we also plan to host more death cafes in 2026.
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