October 2025 Newsletter

Sacred Groves Community Update

Anticipated County Planning Hearing, Tabling at NCF, & Survey Results


Dear supporters of Sacred Groves,


Exciting news! After months of working to comply with a series of requirements from the Humboldt County Planning Department, we anticipate that our Conditional Use Permit for the Kneeland Memorial Woodland and Savannah (our first conservation burial & spreading site) will come before the Humboldt County planning commission for approval on Thursday evening, November 6. Please consider attending to show your support. The hearing will be in the Board of Supervisors Chambers on the first floor of the Humboldt County Courthouse, 825 5th Street in Eureka. We will send out a separate email with details once we are confirmed on the agenda.


This County Planning hearing is the result of hundreds of volunteer hours by our Executive Director Michael Furniss and Board Advisors Aldaron Laird, Jon Forsyth, and Jennifer Wheeler. Thank you all so much for moving this project forward!

Tabling at North Country Fair

We had a wonderful morning tabling and connecting with community members at the North Country Fair in Arcata on Sunday, Sept. 21. There was great interest in green burial and our Kneeland project.


Big shout-outs go to Board Advisor Tracy Jordan French for lining up our booth at this dynamic event; our intern Cecilia Rodriguez for helping to design a beautiful new Sacred Groves pamphlet; and Board members Kerryanna Reynolds and Gretchen Zeigler for obtaining the lovely Sacred Groves table runner. We are now ready and "able to table" at future events!

Want to d(EAT)h lunch together?

Our 1st Death Cafe is Nov 1

As Sacred Groves aims to support a cultural shift towards a more natural and ecological approach to end-of-life, our Board has often talked about hosting a Death Cafe. Of course, talk and action are two different things, and it is thanks to the initiative and enthusiasm of our volunteer intern Cecilia Rodriguez that our first Death Cafe awaits us, right around the corner.


What are Death Cafes? They began in 2011 in London, when a man named Jon Underwood invited friends to his home to talk about death. His mother Sue Barsky Reid, a psychotherapist, facilitated the discussion. Since then, thousands of Death Cafes have occurred around the world-- in living rooms, libraries, coffee shops, and community centers — offering spaces for honesty, curiosity, and connection. People discovered that these conversations were not morbid but deeply life-affirming.


The main organizing hub of this movement is Deathcafe.com, which describes the objective of death cafes as "to increase awareness of death with a view to helping people make the most of their finite lives".


There’s no set agenda, no attempt to direct beliefs or outcomes, and no cost to attend. The aim is simply to open up the conversation about death.


While we may touch on tender topics,

this is not intended to be a grief support group.

For Humboldt-based grief resources, visit

humboldtgov.org/429/Hope-Center.


Our intern and death cafe organizer and facilitator, Cecilia Rodriguez, is a graduate student at CalPoly Humboldt in the Environment and Communities program. Their graduate research explores the estrangement of US death practices from the ecological cycles of life. After graduation, Cecilia aims to enter a PhD program to continue their work with ecological death advocacy, with a focus on how representations in public art can serve as a method of re-imagining our relationship with death.


We look forward to this inaugural Humboldt Death Cafe on November 1st from 1pm-3pm at Froth Cafe in Arcata. Space is limited, so if you plan to attend, please RSVP here. We will cap attendance at 30, but we also plan to host more death cafes in 2026.


Community Survey Results:

A Shared Vision for Green Burial


We’re grateful to everyone who took part in our recent community survey — 117 people in total. Your responses offer an inspiring snapshot of shared values and a desire for meaningful and sustainable end-of-life choices.


Who took the survey

Our survey reflected the wisdom and perspective of experience, with 70% of respondents age 70 or older and 25% between 56 and 69.


Likelihood of seeking a green/conservation burial option

An overwhelming 97.5% said they are very likely or somewhat likely to seek a local green or conservation burial and spreading option — with 80% saying they are very likely. This confirms what many of us already know: our community is ready for natural, conservation-centered burial grounds close to home.


Top Factors

When asked what top 3 factors are most important to people as they pursue a green burial for themselves or loved ones, 85% cited conservation values & practices. A close second, at 78%, was the desire to have one’s last effect on the earth be positive. Nearly half — 47% — said they are motivated by the wish to create a meaningful end-of-life experience for family and friends. Together, these priorities reflect a deep sense of caring for the earth and for loved ones.


Burial options

Respondents also shared their preferences for different natural burial settings. About half envisioned burial in grassland meadows, and an equal number were drawn to individual burial with a tree. About one-third expressed interest in a couples grove or in incorporating cremains or human compost, while significant numbers favored family burial in either a mature or newly planted grove.

End-of-Life Planning

The amount of end-of-life planning that respondents have done varied (see pie chart above). About one-third have formalized their plans through a signed and witnessed Advance Directive and a Living Trust or Will. Another 29% have shared their wishes with loved ones, while 23% know what they want but haven’t yet taken action. Nine percent said they have only some ideas so far. These responses demonstrate that there’s still an important opportunity for guidance, conversation, and support in putting those wishes into place.


The written comments from survey participants captured the spirit of the green burial movement more than any statistics. Here are a few of our favorites:


“I want to become the earth which has supported and nourished me all my life.”


“I believe I’m part of the earth and I want to go back to it, without chemicals or plastic boxes.”


"I love the idea of having my body recycled into the earth."


These reflections express the heart of what green burial represents — returning to the land in the most natural and life-affirming way. Thank you to everyone who participated and continues to support this work. It was lovely to read your responses, and your voices guide our next steps in creating a local, conservation-based memorial ground that honors both people and the earth.


Oh wait, you didn't take the survey yet? It's not too late, just click the button below to share your perspectives.

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As the year-end approaches, many of us are reviewing our required minimum distributions and other taxable retirement withdrawals. If you’d prefer your dollars nurture the earth and serve local families rather than disappear to taxes, please consider directing a portion of your funds to Sacred Groves.


Your gift will have an immediate and meaningful impact as we move towards opening the Kneeland Memorial Woodland and Savannah, our first conservation burial & spreading site.


We’re deeply grateful for your support and partnership in bringing this service to life. Together, we’re creating a legacy of care — for people, for place, and for the planet. Thank you!


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