St. Patrick Parish News & Updates

December 19, 2025 | Issue 51

Fourth Sunday of Advent –


Pastor Notes


As we arrive at the Fourth Sunday of Advent, the Church turns our hearts toward the quiet but powerful mystery at the center of our faith: the Incarnation, God becoming one of us. Advent has been leading us step by step toward this moment, inviting us to wait, to prepare, and to open our hearts for the coming of the Lord. Now, in these final days before Christmas, the tone becomes more intimate, more personal, as we encounter the figure who stands at the heart of this mystery—Mary.


In today’s Gospel, we hear the familiar but ever-new story of the Annunciation. The angel Gabriel greets Mary with the words, “Hail, full of grace! The Lord is with you.” Mary is surprised, even troubled, but she listens. She opens her heart to the message God brings. And through her humble “yes”—“Let it be done to me according to your word”—the world is forever changed.


Mary’s response is not passive. It is the response of a woman of deep faith, trust, and courage. She does not have all the answers. She cannot see the full path ahead. But she knows the One who calls her, and that is enough. Her “yes” becomes the doorway through which God enters human history.


On this final Sunday of Advent, Mary teaches us how to prepare for Christ’s coming:

with openness, trust, humility, and a willingness to let God work within us.

Like Mary, we are invited not just to welcome Christ into the world, but into our hearts, our families, our struggles, and our hopes.


The First Reading from 2 Samuel reminds us that God’s promises are faithful and everlasting. The house and kingdom God establishes will endure forever. This promise is fulfilled not in a building or earthly throne, but in the humble womb of Mary, where the eternal Son of God takes flesh. God chooses simplicity, humility, and smallness to reveal His greatness.


As Christmas draws near, this Sunday becomes a moment of quiet reflection:

What is God asking of me?


Where is He inviting me to say “yes”?

What space must I open in my heart so that Christ can truly dwell there?

May Mary’s courage inspire us, and may her humble “yes” echo in our own lives, so that Christ may be born anew within us and among us.


Prayer:

Lord, give us hearts like Mary—open, trusting, and ready to welcome You. As we approach the celebration of Your birth, help us to say “yes” to Your will and to prepare a place for You in our lives. Amen.


Fr. George G. Perez, CJM


Christmas Mass Schedule


Wednesday, December 24

4:00 pm (English) in the church

4:00 pm Family Mass in the Parish Center

6:00 pm (English) in the church

8:00 pm (Spanish) in the church

10:00 pm (English) in the church



Thursday, December 25

7:30 am (English) in the church

9:00 am (English) in the church

11:00 am (English) in the church

1:00 pm (Spanish) in the church

1:00 pm (Spanish) in the Parish Center


NO Mass in the evening on Christmas Day

Family Mass on Christmas Eve



On December 24, Christmas Eve, we will celebrate our Christmas Family Mass at 4:00pm in the Parish Hall (not in the church where a different Mass is being celebrated). If they want to participate in our brief Christmas enactment of the gospel, children are invited to come dressed as an angel or a shepherd.

Last Advent 2025 Penance Services in North County 


Friday December 19, - 6:30pm at St. Marks (San Marcos) 


Monday December 22, - 6:30pm at St. Marks (San Marcos) 


There are no confessions on Wednesday December 24 or December 31 at St. Patrick.

A Catholic Mom’s Guide for Having a Less-Materialistic Christmas



How do we keep our celebration of Christmas from getting too materialistic? This is the question that Simcha Fisher tried to answer in her recent article in America Magazine. See if she sheds any light for you on this important question.


The Nativity of the Lord

(Christmas)


A Note from the Pastor 


Today, we celebrate the greatest gift ever given: the birth of our Savior, Jesus Christ. In the simplicity of a stable in Bethlehem, God chose to enter our world not as a king in a palace, but as a vulnerable child, embracing the fullness of our humanity.


Christmas invites us to pause and recognize the profound mystery of God’s love. In the humility of the manger, God’s power is made perfect in gentleness and vulnerability. His love comes not to dominate, but to serve; not to demand, but to give freely. Each year, the Nativity calls us to remember that God is near, especially in ordinary and hidden moments of our lives.

The shepherds in the Gospel show us how to respond to this gift: with wonder, simplicity, and prompt obedience. Though ordinary, they were chosen to witness the extraordinary event of Christ’s birth. Likewise, each of us is called to receive Christ with open hearts, recognizing Him in our families, neighbors, and even in strangers.


As we exchange gifts, share meals, and rejoice together, let us not forget the true reason for our celebration. Christmas is a call to live God’s love concretely: through forgiveness, acts of kindness, and reaching out to those who are lonely or suffering. In doing so, we become, like the shepherds, witnesses to the light that has come into the world.


Reflecting on Michael Barber’s The True Meaning of Christmas, we are reminded that Christmas lives in the Word of God. Before the lights, music, or celebrations, there is a sacred story: Mary and Joseph’s “yes,” a humble manger, angels who sing, and a Child who is God-with-us. Barber urges us to slow down and carefully reflect on the stories of Jesus’ birth. Only then can we celebrate Christmas as it is truly meant to be celebrated.


When we return to Scripture, Christmas becomes more than a season; it becomes an encounter. We celebrate not just a memory, but a God who still comes to us, seeks room in our lives, and brings peace to hearts that welcome Him. This Advent and Christmas, let the Gospel guide your prayer and family traditions. Stand with Mary and Joseph at the manger, and celebrate Christmas with faith, wonder, and love.


Merry Christmas, and may the peace and joy of Christ fill your hearts now and always.

Holiday Parish Office Hours 



All of our parish offices will be closed from December 24 thru January 2, and will reopen on Monday, January 5, 2026. In case of an emergency, call the parish phone (760-729-2866) and when the recorded message begins, press extension 6. That will connect you to a priest. This is for urgent needs only.


Wishing everyone a very happy and 

         peace filled Christmas and New Year!

Holiday Newsletter


The next email newsletter will be sent out on December 31. This will cover the whole holiday period. We will resume the regular Friday delivery on January 9, 2026.

Christmas Readings at Mass


The Masses of Christmas Eve and Christmas Day offer a variety of readings. The lectionary readings for Christmas celebrate the incarnation of God in Jesus, the coming of the promised Messiah and King, and the fulfillment of salvation history, emphasizing that God's eternal Word became flesh to bring light, grace, and peace into the world's darkness, revealing God's glory to all people and calling believers to be children of that light, no longer slaves to sin but heirs of God's promise.


Some key themes include:

  • The Word Made Flesh (John 1:1-14): The central message is the divinity of Jesus—God's eternal Word becoming human, bringing life and light to humanity, dwelling among us, full of grace and truth.
  • God's Saving Purpose: Jesus' birth isn't just a historical event but the beginning of God's plan to save the world, fulfilling Old Testament prophecies about a Messiah.
  • Light in Darkness: Jesus is the Light of the World, overcoming the darkness of sin, and his coming brings hope, peace, and true freedom.
  • Revelation to the Humble: The Nativity story, particularly to the shepherds, shows God revealing Himself in unexpected, humble places, inviting ordinary people to witness and share the good news.
  • Adoption as Children: Through Christ's coming, believers become children of God, receiving the Spirit to call God "Father," transforming them from subjects to heirs. 



In essence, the Christmas readings

proclaim that God has personally entered human history in Jesus to save, redeem, and indwell humanity, offering light, peace, and a new identity as children of God. 

Solemnity of Mary, Mother of God – January 1


Way back in 431, there was a bitter controversy among theologians over the role of Mary in the Catholic Church. They debated the question: Who is Mary in God’s plan?


In the end, the bishops declared that Mary is really the mother of Jesus and Jesus is really God. So, it must be said that Mary is the Mother of God. The oldest Christian greeting of Mary was proclaimed when Mary’s relative Elizabeth called her “Mother of my Lord.” When Elizabeth welcomed Mary, she recognized both the great privilege God had given Mary and Mary’s great faith in accepting it.


For centuries, Mary has been praised because she believed. She is Mother of God because of her faith in God. The Solemnity of Mary, Mother of God, celebrates Mary’s faith and trust in God alone. The Church wants us to imitate her faith.


This feast day is not observed as a holy day of obligation in the Diocese of San Diego, but it is certainly an excellent way to begin the New Year. Our parish Mass is at 9:00 am.

Year End Giving


Online Giving users please remember to login to your account and set up your Christmas and year-end gift.


Be sure to complete all gifts by Wednesday, December 31, 2025 to qualify for tax savings on this year’s tax return.


For guidance on making gifts of stock to benefit St. Patrick Catholic Community, visit the link below or call the parish office for more information.

Gifts made from an IRA or similar retirement plan may result in little or no tax on those withdrawals. Check with your tax advisor for specifics regarding your situation. Wills and Trusts-Naming of St. Patrick Catholic Church, Carlsbad is an excellent way to leave a legacy for our Parish. If you sold securities this year and will owe capital gains tax, remember that gifts to St. Patrick Catholic Community of cash or other securities may reduce your gains. Please check with your tax advisor.


Tax donation letters will be mailed out at the end of January 2026.

Online Giving Reminder


If you currently use Online Giving for your electronic giving, please make sure you login to the application frequently to make sure your payment method is current and your donations are being processed.


Click on the Online Giving icon below to create or access your account.

Catholic Trivia


"Catholic Trivia”... not because they are trivial but because these might be things that not everyone knows. Test your knowledge by reading the five questions, remember your answers (or jot them down), then click the link below to find the answers.



  1. Which gospels do not include events surrounding the birth of Jesus Christ?
  2. What does the word Epiphany mean?
  3. Who are the Holy Innocents?
  4. Does the Bible specify how many Magi visited the Holy Family?
  5. What was Jesus’ hometown?


Feel free to email Fr. Ron with ideas for future Catholic Trivia questions rmbagley@yahoo.com

Fourth Sunday of Advent –

Year A


First Reading

Isaiah 7:10-14

Ahaz proclaims the sign that the Lord will give: a virgin shall give birth to a son, Emmanuel.


Responsorial Psalm

Psalm 24:1-2,3-4,5-6

The Lord is the King of Glory who established the earth.


Second Reading

Romans 1:1-7

Paul greets the community at Rome and declares himself a servant of Christ Jesus.


Gospel Reading

Matthew 1:18-24

An angel appears to Joseph, directing him to take Mary as his wife and telling him that the child she will bear will be called Emmanuel.


Background on the Gospel Reading


Finally, on this the Fourth Sunday of Advent, our Gospel Reading permits us to begin our contemplation of the mystery of the Incarnation we celebrate at Christmas: “Now this is how the birth of Jesus Christ came about” (Matthew 1:18).


The Gospel of Matthew tells the story of the birth of Jesus from Joseph's perspective. Today's Gospel passage is the second movement in this story. In the preceding verses of the first chapter of Matthew's Gospel, the Evangelist has listed the genealogy of Jesus, tracing his lineage through King David to Abraham. In the chapter to follow, Matthew tells of the visit from the Magi, the Holy Family's flight into Egypt, and Herod's massacre of the infants in Bethlehem. (The other stories which we associate with Christmas, the Annunciation, the Visitation, the angel and the shepherds, are found in the Gospel of Luke).


We must not gloss over too quickly the difficult circumstances described in today's Gospel. The way that Joseph and Mary face these circumstances tells us much about these holy people and their faith in God. Joseph and Mary are betrothed to be married. This is sometimes described as an engagement period, but it is more than that. Betrothal in first century Jewish culture was in fact the first part of the marriage contract. A breach of this contract was considered adultery. Mary is found to be with child. If adultery is proven, the punishment might be death. Joseph has rights under Mosaic law, but chooses to act discreetly in his plans to break the marriage contract, so as to protect Mary. Then God intervenes.


The message of the angel of the Lord given to Joseph in his dream tells us much about the child that Mary bears and his role in God's plan. He is conceived by the Holy Spirit. His name will be Jesus, which in the Hebrew means “Yahweh saves.” He will be the fulfillment of the prophecy heard in today's first reading from Isaiah: “. . . The virgin shall be with child . . . and shall name him Emmanuel [God with us].”


Joseph does as the angel of the Lord directs. He takes Mary to be his wife and accepts the child in her womb as his own. Joseph and Mary are both cooperative with God's plan. They are both models for us of what it means to be faithful servants of God.



Feast of the Holy Family


First Reading

Sirach 3:2-7,12-14

Honor to one's parents will be rewarded.


Responsorial Psalm

Psalm 128:1-2,3,4-5

Happy are those who follow the Lord's ways.


Second Reading

Colossians 3:12-21

Do all things in the name of Jesus and give thanks to God.


Gospel Reading

Matthew 2:13-15,19-23

In a dream, God tells Joseph to flee to Egypt to protect Jesus from King Herod.


Background on the Gospel Reading


Today we celebrate the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph. As we do so, our Gospel invites us to consider Joseph's protection of Jesus in the face of danger. Just as in the announcement of Jesus' birth, an angel appears to Joseph in a dream. The angel warns him of Herod's plans to harm Jesus. Joseph follows the command of the angel and takes Joseph and Mary to Egypt, returning only after receiving word in another dream that it was safe to do so.


This feast is part of the Christmas season, so we should look at today's Gospel in the context of what Scripture tells us about Jesus' birth. Today's reading is found in the Gospel of Matthew, following the story of the visit of the Magi. Recall that Matthew's story about the birth of Jesus makes Joseph the primary character. Among Matthew's themes in this infancy narrative is Jesus as the fulfillment of the Old Testament prophecies about the Messiah. Indeed, the story of the Holy Family's flight to Egypt recalls the story of Moses in the Book of Exodus.


It should also be noted that today's reading omits the verses that recount Herod's order of the massacre of the infant boys in and around Bethlehem. We mark this event on the Feast of the Holy Innocents.


These events remind us of the difficult reality of Jesus' birth. While the story of the Magi's visit will be recalled in our liturgy on the Feast of the Epiphany, our Christmas celebration is made more sober by the recollection that not everyone received Christ's birth with joy or obedience. Herod's jealousy and malice contrast with Joseph's obedience to the words of the angel. The Holy Family's escape to Egypt and the massacre that Jesus is saved from remind us of the struggles and sacrifices that are required as preparation for God's salvation.

Eudist Seminarian Takes a Step Forward



Asim Ashiq has been living in our parish for almost a year. He studies at the Franciscan School of Theology at USD. Now he is ready to take the next step as he discerns his vocation to priesthood with the Eudist Fathers.


He has been accepted as an official candidate for the Congregation of Jesus and May (Eudist Fathers).



Join us to celebrate this important step. See the attached flyer (or flyer below)

Christmas Flowers Offering


Before long we will be celebrating the birth of our Savior. We want to make our church festive for our celebration of Christmas. In your packet of envelopes that we mail to you, there is an envelope marked Christmas Flower Offering


If you would like to make a contribution to assist in paying for our Christmas flowers, please place your donation in that envelope (or a plain envelope) and write on the envelope the names of anyone you would like remembered at our Christmas Masses. Indicate if they are deceased (“In memory of…”) or living (“In honor of…”)


Place your envelope in the collection basket, mail it to the parish office or drop it off. If you use Online Giving, just put the names on a paper and put it in the collection. All the names will be listed in our parish bulletin and newsletter shortly after Christmas.

Oficinas cerradas 



Todas nuestras oficinas parroquiales permanecerán cerradas desde el 24 de diciembre hasta el 2 de enero y volverán a abrir el lunes 5 de enero 2026. En caso de emergencia, llame al teléfono de la parroquia (760-729-2866) y, cuando comience el mensaje grabado, pulse la extensión 6. Así se pondrá en contacto con un sacerdote. Esto es solo para casos de urgencia.

IV Domingo de Adviento


Notas Pastorales


Al llegar al Cuarto Domingo de Adviento, la Iglesia dirige nuestra mirada hacia el misterio más profundo y tierno de nuestra fe: la Encarnación, Dios que se hace uno de nosotros. Después de semanas de espera, conversión y esperanza, este último tramo del Adviento toma un tono más íntimo. Nos acercamos al corazón del misterio navideño de la mano de María, la mujer cuyo “sí” abrió las puertas de la salvación.


En el Evangelio de hoy escuchamos el relato siempre nuevo de la Anunciación. El ángel Gabriel saluda a María diciendo: “Alégrate, llena de gracia, el Señor está contigo.” Ella se sorprende, incluso se turba, pero escucha. Se abre al mensaje que Dios le trae. Y con su humilde y valiente respuesta—“Hágase en mí según tu palabra”—el curso de la historia cambia para siempre.

El “sí” de María no es pasivo. Es la respuesta de una mujer de fe profunda, que confía en Dios aunque no entiende todo lo que vendrá. No conoce el camino completo, pero sabe en quién ha puesto su confianza. Su disponibilidad permite que Dios entre en nuestra historia y se haga cercano, pequeño, vulnerable, como uno de nosotros.


Este último domingo de Adviento, María nos enseña cómo prepararnos para la venida del Señor:

con apertura, confianza, humildad y disposición a dejar que Dios obre en nosotros.

Como ella, estamos invitados no solo a celebrar el nacimiento de Jesús, sino a darle un lugar en nuestra vida cotidiana, en nuestras luchas, en nuestras alegrías y en nuestras esperanzas.

La primera lectura del segundo libro de Samuel nos recuerda que las promesas de Dios son firmes y eternas. El reino que Dios establece no depende de construcciones humanas, sino de su fidelidad. Esta promesa se cumple de manera sorprendente: no en un palacio, sino en el seno humilde de María, donde el Hijo de Dios toma nuestra carne.


Al acercarnos a la Navidad, este domingo es un momento para preguntarnos:

¿Qué me está pidiendo Dios hoy?

¿A qué me invita a decir “sí”?

¿Qué espacio necesito abrir en mi corazón para que Cristo pueda habitar verdaderamente en mí?

Que el ejemplo de María nos inspire, y que su “sí” humilde resuene también en nuestra vida, para que Cristo nazca de nuevo en nosotros y en nuestro mundo.


Oración:

Señor, danos un corazón como el de María: abierto, confiado y dispuesto a tu voluntad. Que, al acercarnos a la Navidad, sepamos decirte “sí” y prepararte un lugar en nuestra vida. Amén.


P. George G. Pérez, CJM

La Natividad del Señor (Navidad)


Mensaje del Párroco


Hoy celebramos el mayor regalo jamás dado: el nacimiento de nuestro Salvador, Jesucristo. En la sencillez de un pesebre en Belén, Dios eligió entrar en nuestro mundo, no como un rey en un palacio, sino como un niño vulnerable, abrazando la plenitud de nuestra humanidad.


La Navidad nos invita a hacer una pausa y reconocer el profundo misterio del amor de Dios. En la humildad del pesebre, el poder de Dios se perfecciona en la ternura y la vulnerabilidad. Su amor no viene a dominar, sino a servir; no a exigir, sino a dar libremente. Cada año, la Natividad nos llama a recordar que Dios está cerca, especialmente en los momentos ordinarios y ocultos de nuestra vida.


Los pastores en el Evangelio nos muestran cómo responder a este regalo: con asombro, sencillez y pronta obediencia. Aunque eran personas comunes, fueron elegidos para ser testigos del evento extraordinario del nacimiento de Cristo. Del mismo modo, cada uno de nosotros está llamado a recibir a Cristo con el corazón abierto, reconociéndolo en nuestra familia, vecinos e incluso en los desconocidos.

Al intercambiar regalos, compartir comidas y gozar juntos, no olvidemos la verdadera razón de nuestra celebración. La Navidad es un llamado a vivir el amor de Dios de manera concreta: a través del perdón, actos de bondad y acercándonos a quienes están solos o sufren. Al hacerlo, nos convertimos, como los pastores, en testigos de la luz que ha venido al mundo.


Reflexionando en The True Meaning of Christmas de Michael Barber, recordamos que la Navidad vive en la Palabra de Dios. Antes de las luces, la música o las celebraciones, existe una historia sagrada: el “sí” de María y José, un humilde pesebre, ángeles que cantan y un Niño que es Dios-con-nosotros. Barber nos invita a detenernos y reflexionar cuidadosamente en las historias del nacimiento de Jesús. Solo entonces podremos celebrar la Navidad tal como verdaderamente debe celebrarse.


Cuando volvemos a las Escrituras, la Navidad se convierte en algo más que una temporada; se convierte en un encuentro. Celebramos no solo un recuerdo, sino un Dios que aún viene a nosotros, que busca un lugar en nuestra vida y que trae paz a los corazones que lo acogen. Este Adviento y Navidad, que el Evangelio guíe tus oraciones y tradiciones familiares. Ponte junto a María y José en el pesebre y celebra la Navidad con fe, asombro y amor.


Feliz Navidad, y que la paz y la alegría de Cristo llenen sus corazones ahora y siempre.

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Carlsbad, California 92008

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