Life can be busy and overwhelming for almost everyone in the family these days. Many parents and caretakers, whether single or in a partnership, find themselves juggling full-time work (or more!) outside the home, in addition to managing relationships, and taking care of their families. It’s no wonder 1 in 4 Americans claim they are so stressed they can’t function.
Kids and teens aren’t immune to the stress of schedule overload. In addition to the demands of schoolwork, children and adolescents are busier than ever, with after-school activities, sports, volunteering and finding critical time to socialize with friends. Some kids may actually be driving the busy schedule for fear of being left out by their peers, while many teens feel pressured to stack their schedules with the hope of impressing potential colleges. On top of that, many parents have the desire to keep kids productive and provide them with enriching experiences. While all parties may have good intentions, it leaves everyone’s calendar bursting at the seams.
Surveys Show Our Kids are Stressed
Finding the right balance between outside obligations and a healthy family life is more important than ever. While there may be some benefits to keeping kids busy, the constantly hectic schedules can have serious mental health consequences for both parents and kids. Surveys in some towns in Southwest CT show that 27.1% of youth in grades 7-12 reported feeling anxiety in the past year “almost always,” and 27.4% feel their anxiety makes their lives difficult “nearly all the time”. When asked what the source of this stress or worry is, most adolescents in grades 7-12 reported that it stems from academics and post-high school plans. For middle schoolers, stress from peers is also a big concern, while the overloaded schedules cause additional worry for high school students. Youth across all grades frequently admit to feeling “a lot of stress” from measures of academic performance and from parental expectations.
Read our latest blog for tips to help you find balance in your life.
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