קישור שלום ~ Kishur Sholom

Staying Connected with the Temple Sholom Community

18 December 2024 ~ 17 Kislev 5785 ~ Parashat Vayeshev

Chaverim y'karim - dear friends,


Hanukkah is coming! There are several resources below for you to consider for your own home and observance. In the meantime, I hope to see you for a special gathering pre-Hanukkah Celebration at the JCC in Sherman on Sunday!


As always, there is so very much to discuss but I want to highlight as seemingly small piece of news that links us to eras long since past and yet ... not so far removed.


Long ago, I learned of a remarkably gifted musician, Danny Maseng, who has served as a cantor in southern California for many years. I have sung his Mah Tovu, which we sing in our community during the High Holy Days. His version of the Jewish wedding's Sheva Berachot (Seven Blessings) are one of my favorite to use for a wedding. But it was his personal and family story that touched me the deepest, which I came to appreciate through an album he created that tells the story of his grandfather, Dr. Rabbi Harry Davidowitz. The one-man show is called "Wasting time with Harry Davidowitz." I highly recommend your listening and taking in the remarkable lives regaled and explained.


This has been a big week for the memory of Danny Maseng's grandfather as a street named in Herzliya, Israel was named for him: Rabbi Dr. Harry Davidowitz Lane.


There are lives and then there are lives ...


Harry Davidowitz's life spans so much of the 20th century and what that meant for a young Jewish boy born in Poland. He was a talmid chacham (a great student/sage), who landed in America, excelled mightily in academics and as a rabbi, and ultimately made aliyah in 1934. He died in 1973. From the battle fields of the First World War to advising on Israel's Declaration of Independence, to being the primary translator of Shakespeare into Hebrew, Davidowitz's impact and life's lessons are nothing short of heroic.


In an era where we search for - and often falsely name - heroes and in a season when we give thanks to God for miracles, recalling this man's life feels fitting.


To learn more, see "What my grandfather Rabbi Harry Davidowitz never told me" (16 Dec 2024) by Danny Maseng in Times of Israel. The blog post and Danny's musical show deserve a fuller discussion but for now - go read, listen, and enjoy. For further understanding of the street name dedication, read from Danny Gordis, "Harry Davidowitz finally gets his street - and there is a story there."


There is a lot to discuss. When is there not? For this week, I wanted to give a piece of news that frames and reminds us of who we are, where we have been, what and who we consider great and worthy of honor, and how one person can accomplish - through strength, determination, joy, deep Yiddishkeit, commitment to Judaism and the Jewish people.


May we find inspiration and pride in this man who was, as the sign reads, "A translator and spiritual man, a Conservative rabbi, one of the composers of the (Israeli) Declaration of Independence."


L'shalom,


Rabbi Mark Cohn


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NOTE: Shabbat Services this week! Friday, 12/20 @ 6:30pm

Kids' "Moadon" מוֹעֲדוֹן

Geared for the 5-10 year old crowd ~ Moadon means 'club' or 'clubhouse'.


November's "TASTE OF SHABBAT" was a great time!


NEXT UP: THIS Friday, Dec. 20 at 4:30 PM! "TASTE OF HANUKKAH" We hope to attract temple members and non-members to this new endeavor! Click here for more details. Looking for some good resources for kids & the Festival of Lights? Check out Hadar and My Jewish Learning (more below). In the meantime, reach out if you have any questions to our volunteer coordinator - Sandy Singco (sssingco@gmail.com)!

ARTICLES / BLOGS


"How to (actually) cook with your kids for Hanukkah" (16 Dec 2024) by Jamie Betesh Carter in the Tablet Magazine.


"The Campaign to Get 'Anti-Palestinian Racism' into K-12 Schools Has Begun" (11 Dec 2024) by Mika Hackner in the Jewish Journal.


"While Mideast is in Meltdown, World still Obsessed with Israel" (16 Dec 2024) by David Suissa in the Jewish Journal.



PODCAST


"Assad's Death Factory" (16 Dec 2024) on Call Me Back. Dan Senor hosts Joseph Braude, founder and president of the Center for Peace Communications along with Ahed Al Hendi, a Syrian affairs analyst.


"Israel at War - Crossroads" (11 Dec 2024) on For Heaven's Sake. Rabbi Donniel Hartman and Yossi Klein Halevi of the Shalom Hartman Institute take on the topic of Syria's Assad falling, a ceasefire with Hezbollah, and a potential hostage deal.


VIDEO


For a purely for a "feel good moment" - have a look at a beautiful video caught when a group of Israeli soldiers (chayalim) were visiting, and greeted warmly by, a Jewish day school in New Jersey. Today's Israeli soldiers, who defend and protect the State of Israel are a modern form of Maccabee and we must never take the State of Israel for granted.

A Solidarity Mission to Israel

May 6 - 14, 2025


Led by Rabbi Amy Wallk &

Rabbi Mark Cohn

Why Israel Now?


Now is the time when it is really important to JUST SHOW UP! Our brothers and sisters in Israel have been fighting a war for more than a year. They are tired. There is little to no tourism. The financial costs of this war are real. Stores and restaurants are struggling and hotels are not booked at anything near capacity. This is a moment for American Jews to say “I was going to travel (fill in the location of your choice), but this year I feel I must go to Israel.” 


So what will this trip be like?


This is a solidarity mission. The itinerary has not been finalized because we have no idea what the situation will be like in May. At a minimum, our trip goals are to create an uplifting and inspirational journey of resilience. The trip will be an opportunity to visit with Israelis and understand how their lives have changed since October 7, 2023. We will find meaningful and important volunteer opportunities and stand in solidarity with Israelis who really are on the front of this existential war. The trip will be led by outstanding tour educator, Haim Aronovitz.


When Amy and I led a similar trip last Spring, we had great feedback. Whether you have never been to Israel before, or have been there many times, this trip will be a chance to see how Israel is overcoming its many challenges and grapple with current realities.


For the first 20 people who register, the cost of the trip is $3,618 with double occupancy; there is a single supplement of $1,278. For those who miss the early bird discount, the cost is $3,999.


If you are interested in joining us or are simply curious, please reach out and if you want to watch our Zoom meeting from last Thursday, click here for the link.


If you have any questions, please feel free to email me - Rabbi Mark Cohn, rabbicohn@tsholom.org.


How do I register for the trip? Click here to register.

HANUKKAH HAPPENINGS


Sufganiyot, Latkes, and Music! (flyer below)

December 19 (Thursday), 7pm

Jewish Federation of Western CT

444 Main Street North, Southbury

RSVP - Cathy Conti, cconti@jfed.net or call 203.405.7009


December Lunch & Learn: Hanukkah, oh Hanukkah!

December 20 (Friday), Noon

Temple Sholom


For this second lunch & learn on Hanukkah ... what are the rituals, intricacies, and magic (?) of the menorah? For part of our time together, we will share menorahs ... so BYOM!! Bring Your Own Menorah (or a picture of one you like)! Prepare to say a word or two about its 'backstory'! And maybe we will answer the eternal question: How do you spell Hanukkah? חֲנֻכָּה or without vowels: חנוכה


Community Pre-Hanukkah Celebration

December 22 (Sunday) at 2:00 PM

JCC in Sherman, 9 CT-39, Sherman


Temple Sholom and the JCC in Sherman are pairing together in order to get ready for the Festival of Lights (which begins the night of December 25). Join for latkes, singing, and a menorah lighting ... just for instruction and to make sure we remember how! :)


Resources for Home


A Beautiful Hanukkah song - Tih'yeh Or - Be a Light

(Rabbi Neal Katz)


Hanukkah at Home

(My Jewish Learning)


Hanukkah, Hellenization, and Hasmoneans

(Unpacked for Educators)


Six 13 - A Wicked Hanukkah

(Six13)

SHABBAT SERVICE SCHEDULE


FRIDAYS AT 6:30 PM

DECEMBER 20

JANUARY 3, 17, 31



SATURDAYS AT 10:30 AM


JANUARY 4, FEBRUARY 8

SHABBAT TORAH STUDY

Led by CJ Kelly


SATURDAYS AT 9:30 AM



DECEMBER 21, 28

JANUARY 4*, 11, 18, 25


*Led by Rabbi Cohn

Temple Sholom

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