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Jesus said to his apostles:
“Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me, and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me; and whoever does not take up their cross and follow me is not worthy of me.
Whoever finds their life will lose it,
and whoever loses their life for my sake will find it.
Whoever receives you receives me, and whoever receives me receives the One who sent me.
Whoever welcomes a prophet because he is a prophet
will receive a prophet’s reward,
and whoever welcomes a righteous person
because he is righteous will receive a righteous person’s reward.
Anyone who gives even a cup of cold water to one of these little ones to drink because the little one is a disciple—will surely not lose his reward.”
Matt 10:37-42
As we reflected on this Sunday's Gospel in our Lectio Divina group, the first comments suggested that Jesus' words should be taken symbolically rather than literally. After all, when would we ever be in a position that involved choosing between Jesus and our loved ones?
"I think it means just putting God first," was one response.
"Or extending hospitality to people who are doing God's work," was another.
"But what if..."
The "what if" preoccupied us for the rest of the evening. Unlikely as this may seem, there are countless theoretical scenarios that illustrate having to choose between what Lutheran theologian Dietrich Bonhoeffer calls "costly discipleship" and the well-being of those closest to us. For example, a whistleblower--the primary provider for his or her family-- exposes fraud at work and gets fired as a result; or protestors engage in non-violent civil disobedience and end up being imprisoned, even killed.
From the theoretical, we quickly transitioned to historical examples: St. Maximilian Kolbe's heroic actions in first opening his monastery as a shelter for Polish and Jewish refugees during WWII and then in volunteering to take the place of a prisoner selected for starvation in Auschwitz; or St. Oscar Romero's commitment to stand with the poor of El Salvador and denounce military violence, despite knowing that he would be targeted by the Death Squads; or in our own time, the Christian physicians confronting the Ebola outbreak in the Congo or risking their lives in war zones from Ukraine to Lebanon...
As the evening progressed, one thing became clear: putting Jesus first can be costly, and it is often the people closest to us who, whether willing or not, must also pay the price for our discipleship.
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