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Do you believe that happiness is about what you get? Research indicates that the happiest people are those who share their love with others - who give to others from a full heart - rather than those who try to get love or get things. Today, focus on loving yourself and then sharing your love with others.
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Self-Love vs. Selfless Love
Dr. Margaret Paul
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Have you ever been confused about the boundary between loving yourself and also being loving to others?
This is what Rosanna is struggling with. She asked:
"How do I know where the boundary is between self-love and the selfless love I need to provide for my child? How much do I give? I know this is just a temporary situation when my child is young. Also same question for a relationship, where is the boundary between self-love and what you need to give to keep the relationship nurtured? THANK YOU!!!"
If I was working with Rosanna, I would ask her:
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New! Passionate Purpose, Vibrant Health! A 30-Day at home Experience with Dr. Margaret Paul
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(Click on the Video to watch it)
Have you struggled with discovering your passion, your purpose, your calling?
Has low energy stopped you from doing what your heart desires? Have you had a hard time feeling motivated to make a change in your life?
Do you feel blocked in your creativity?
Are you ready to learn how to discover your passionate purpose and create a vibrantly healthy, joyful life?
To learn more about this new course and to register, click here
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post to a new member from another member:
"Such support here in IBVillage. Hugs to all! I can't describe how much my heart is soothed by your responses and interest."
You, too, can receive all the wonderful support and benefits of Inner Bonding Village.
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| Featured: Emily Agnew Happy Birthday: The Joy of Being Fully Yourself |
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A favorite childhood book by Dr. Seuss inspired this article about appreciating your intrinsic worth.
Long before I thought of having a child myself, I went out and bought myself a copy of Happy Birthday to You!*. From early childhood it was my very favorite Dr. Seuss book, and possibly my favorite by any author. And no wonder. It is a riot of delicious, exuberant images: the hotdog feast on the Smorgasbord's back, the washing off in the Mustard-Off Pools, the Official Katroo Birthday Pet Reservation, the giant cake made of guaranteed, certified strictly Grade-A peppermint cucumber sausage-paste butter--but most of all, the Birthday Bird, who picks you up, escorts you through these extravagant delights, then flies you home on a very soft platter.
I now perceive that as much as these extravagant events thrilled me, there was a depth in my reaction that went beyond visual delights and imagined adventures. Dr. Seuss is exploring the meaning of...
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Member Article: "Love Betrayed Me and is Untrustworthy"
Dr. Margaret Paul
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Do you have a hard time opening your heart because of all the hurt you have experienced at the hands of people who supposedly loved you?
Sasha submitted this post in the Advice section of IBVillage:
"This is more of a "thank you" than a question. After listening to your April podcast, I asked myself 'Why don't I choose to align myself with the power of Love more often?' The answer that came - 'Love betrayed me and is untrustworthy.' I can see that the practice of slowly, day by day, opening my heart to Love is helping this distrustful inner child experience the truth about Love. Thank you, from a slow learner. :)"
I was quite moved by this post. The very sad thing is that so many of us were deeply betrayed when we were young.
To read the rest of this article...
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Become a member and join in the lively and fun discussions over Dr. Erika's Everything Blog!
"What clarity this post brings. Thank you, Erika. There is so much beauty in truth. 'he real learning is the buried treasure, the gem unearthed, the feeling underneath. The self awareness you gain is your path to peace.'"
"I can't tell you how much it means to know I have a place to go where you are there being loving, authentic, savoring your life, nature and relationships with so much devotion and appreciation. I wish some day I could meet you and give you a big hug."
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Telephone Support Group Every six weeks, Dr. Margaret starts a new Inner Bonding Telephone Support Group.There are many advantages to working in a group. Often, you receive as much or more benefit from others' work as you do your own. Others' issues can touch off your own and lead you deeper into the work you need to do.You can call the number below to join the next 6-week group. The cost of the group is $50 for the 90 minute session. Telephone and Skype Sessions Dr. Margaret Paul and other Inner Bonding facilitators work with individuals and couples on the phone and Skype. For information, to register for an intensive or a support group, or to set up a phone session with Dr. Margaret Paul, call Valerie at 888-646-6372 or 310-459-1700.
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