Contemporary Scripture Reflections for Spiritual Seekers
Dr. Elizabeth-Anne Stewart, BCC, PCC


September 4th , 2022

Pray that

sanity will prevail and that all those suffering on account of the terrible conflict in Ukraine will find the comfort and resources they need.  


Excerpt from


EAS 1999

For those of us who find the Path of Paradox difficult to imagine let alone travel, our bondage is so insidious that we fail to notice the shackles tying us down. We fail to see that our preoccupation with providing for basic needs such as  food, shelter, and clothing distracts us from acknowledging the Mystery within; we fail to see that the very riches in which we invest ourselves prevent us-- like the rich man in Matthew 19:16-22-- from hearing God's call. Moreover, we fail to see that our intellectual sophistication can be a source of hubris, a block to humility; and we fail to see that our fears prevent us from speaking truth and following the path of integrity....

Left to our own devices, we are indeed like sheep without a shepherd, sinful fools reacting and overreacting to situations which can be diffused with love. Immobilized by fear and anxiety, we resort to competitiveness, violence and greed to ensure that we have "our share." Stifled by the desire to control, we reduce our relationship with God to a series of obligations and expected rewards; we imagine we can earn God's love by doing more.

What is called for, asserted Jesus, is a way of life -- a paradoxical way-- in which we become as free as the birds of the sky, as free as the flowers growing in the fields (Mt 6:25-34). Worrying gets in the way of trust, leaving us with the illusion that we can control the events of our lives. Idolatry-- in any form--moves us away from radical dependence upon God and, in effect, dehumanizes us.




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Link to the Sunday Readings

Great crowds were traveling with Jesus,

and he turned and addressed them,

“If you come to me without hating your

father and mother, wife and children,

brothers and sisters, and even your own life,

you cannot be my disciple. Those who do not carry their own cross and come after me

cannot be my disciple."

Lk 14:25-33

Jesus, of course, is speaking in hyperboles. The word "hate" is strong, completely antithetical to his message of love. It involves hardening one's heart -- sometimes locking others out, sometimes wishing them misfortune, and sometimes desiring revenge. One can establish healthy boundaries without hating other people; for one's own safety, it may even be essential to cut ties with certain individuals, even those related to us-- but we would still do well to avoid hatred. Hatred, you see, harms us as well as those to whom we feel animosity. When we cling to hatred, something shrivels inside ourselves -- our capacity to love, in fact. Hatred also eats at us, destroying our health and happiness, our ability to relate to others. When we hate, we discover that we have changed into something we loathe -- a hateful, hate-filled human being. And hate is contagious. When we harbor hatred, we carry a cloud of darkness wherever we go, clutching it as we head into every gathering, infecting all those around us, spoiling every event. Hatred is more lethal than Covid.

If we think of his mandate to love our enemies, then it seems even more unlikely that Jesus would literally want us to "hate" those closest to us. Rather, it would seem that he is using a rhetorical device to "wake up" his audience so that they can reflect on their values and priorities. What I believe he is saying is that discipleship involves putting God first -- before pleasing our friends, relatives and others in our lives. Sometimes, to keep the peace within a relationship, one party will go along with the other in every situation, no matter what is being asked of them. Similarly, for fear of losing friendships, people sometimes follow "the crowd," doing as they "do" even if this means going against what is right. At such times, pleasing others becomes more important than pleasing God; in effect, we have given divine status to another human, offering that person our allegiance instead of God. This is precisely what Jesus is cautioning us to avoid: we must be sufficiently detached from our personal and professional relationships that we can SEE what is right and act accordingly.

And this is where carrying one's cross comes in. To stand in opposition to the wishes of those we love is bound to cause friction, even separation; to refuse to act unethically in the work place can lead to being fired. Ultimately, however, we are answerable to God. What we must hate is all that can separate us from God's Spirit, not those individuals who may pressure us to place them first, instead of God.



* Have you ever hated another person? If so, what did "hatred" do to you, physically, spiritually and emotionally?

* What is it like to go against the wishes of another person or group because what they are asking of you is not aligned with your beliefs and values?

* Have you ever had to choose between pleasing God and pleasing someone close to you?

What price did you pay?


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