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Step 9 Reflections
Many years ago, I went through the steps and did amends with family members and a few friends. They were gracious enough to listen to me go on about how sorry I was. Some were accepting
of what I was doing, others not accepting at all and didn’t want to hear anything about amends
or what I had to say. My sponsor told me that it was OK if people didn't accept my amends. I
did my part and that was all I could do.
A few years ago I went through the steps again and I had a much different experience. Some of
the people I approached wanted to know more about what and why I was doing what I was
doing. The responses to my simple, to the point, amends were accepted. I was then able to let
go of long term resentments and began to feel free.
What happened after I finished the process amazed me. I had always believed in God, but
never felt like I had a connection to God. After completing this process I felt a definite
connection to God and it changed everything for me. The time I spend in prayer and meditation
changed. I joined an early morning meditation group. I began to have a much greater trust
in God, and it continues to grow.
I encourage anyone who has not completed Step 9 to do so. Keep it simple and don’t be afraid
to approach people. Let go and let God guide you in this process. It changed me and it can
change you too.
In OA Love and Service,
Robin L.
Overeaters Anonymous has given me the 12 wonderful Steps to help me be aware of my thoughts and actions so I can make corrections as needed and have meaningful relationships with family and friends. I don't want to return to my lonely isolated life of the past where my thinking and behavior kept me in a dark place. I practice daily taking a quick inventory to try to keep my self on a positive track because I have and will continue to make mistakes. I have gratitude for the tool of making amends.
-Anonymous from Connecticut
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