It seems like not so long ago our family was new to Sequoia and still trying to figure out our way around.  This year we're figuring out our way again, in the balancing act of parenting our daughter long-distance during her first year of college.  My husband and I are eager to hear how she's doing but we don't want to smother her in her first months of independence.  It reminds me of when my son was little and learning to ride a bike and I held the back of the bike as he tried to pedal.  One day he said, "Mom, let go, I can do it!"  I reluctantly let go, knowing full well he'd fall...except he didn't.  He was right, he could do it, and I learned a lesson that day about listening and believing in my kids.  And of course, letting them take a risk.

 

So, before I get "demoted" (or is it a promotion?), I'm enjoying the time while my son is still at home and making the most of our last year in the amazing Sequoia High School community.  Speaking of college, if you find yourself chatting with a senior, I encourage you to discuss a subject other than the colleges they're planning to apply to.  Many seniors are already pretty anxious about the process so perhaps ask about their favorite activities at school (sports, music, art, clubs, classes, etc.) or what they did last summer instead.  Just a friendly suggestion from the parent of a senior!