JCC the Place to Be The Jewish   CommunityCenter of LBI 

 E-Letter                        
 April 5, 2018
 20 Nisan   5778

Friday nite services now begin 
at 8:00 PM
Contents
A Message from the Rabbi
Kol Hakavod
Winter Office Hours
The Week That Was...
Interfaith Shabbat
Federation Event
Around the Neighborhood
Giving Opportunities
TD Affinity Program
This Week's Events
Shabbat Information
Yahrzeits
Congregation News
Kiddishes
Sisterhood Stuff
Volunteer
Celebrate a Milestone
Bulletin Ads
Name Badges
Text Blast Sign Up
Documents & Links
A MESSAGE FROM RABBI JAY
 
Yizkor means, "May God remember" or "God will remember".   This is the definition but, in reality, it isn't only about God remembering; I think it is mostly about us remembering. We have lost someone and we do not want to forget that person; and that person would not have wanted to be forgotten.
 
Why do I consider this issue now? This Saturday, April 7, 2018, will be the first Yizkor service since my mom passed. I don't want to forget the voice, the smile, the laugh, the kind words, the gentle touch. I don't want to forget the life-lessons she taught me.
 
And this past week, as Passover began, we ensured that my mom would not be forgotten. We held the first Seder in the Social hall at the JCC. Why the social hall you ask? Aren't Seders usually held at home? Because we were 37 people. With blessing, all of my Israeli relatives (including my mom's baby sister, Aunt Estelle) came to LBI to share the Seder with their American relatives. That is 17 Israeli adults and 2 babies, plus, 18 family and friends from the States.   The Seder, indeed our entire time together was in honor, and in memory, of my mom.
We sat around the reading the Haggadah, talking, singing, and eating, until 1:00 in the morning.
 
We had services in the morning, led with the joy that the holiday cries for. And then we all got together for the community Seder on Saturday evening. As you may know, in Israel there is no second Seder, so our community extravaganza was a treat for them. Again, we all participated in the Haggadah, sang songs, ate and danced.
 
My relatives had such fun that they are looking forward to spending some time with us when our community travels to Israel this coming October. If you have not signed up, I look forward to hearing from you!
 
What a joy it was to be together, and how meaningful it was to remember my mom, Zena Jay, with most of our loved ones during this first Passover after her passing.
 
This year the Passover Yizkor service will have meaning, and we will pray fervently for God to remember. But even before the Yizkor service, we have had the honor of remembering and honoring, and we have expressed our love. Remembering is a holy act.
 
Join us this Saturday morning to remember and to honor your loved one(s).
 
Chag Pesach Sameach - Rabbi Michael S. Jay
  • Passover Service - Friday morning 9:30 AM
  • Shabbat & Passover Service - Saturday morning 9:30 AM, Yiskor will be recited.

 
 
T RAVEL TO ISRAEL WITH THE JCC

The JCC trip to Israel will take place October 7-18, 2018. The itinerary will take us from Tel Aviv to the Golan Heights, to a winery, to the Kineret, to a Kibbutz, to Sefad, to Jerusalem, to the Dead Sea, to Massada, to many museums, and more. At Massada we will be sharing in a bar mitzvah of one of our fellow travelers. What joy!
The JCC's first trip to Israel will take place October 7-18, 2018. The itinerary will take us from Tel Aviv to the Golan Heights, to a winery, to the Kineret, to a Kibbutz, to Sefad, to Jerusalem, to the Dead Sea, to Masada, to many museums, and more. At Masada we will be sharing in a bat mitzvah of one of our fellow travelers.
 
We will be immersed in Israeli history and culture and, at the same time, we will get to better know our selves, and each other.
 
So far an extraordinarily nice group of people have chosen to travel with us.
 
This trip that has been designed both for the person who has never been to Israel, and for the person who has visited frequently.  Come be a part of what is sure to be a trip of a lifetime.
 
In addition to a set itinerary, we will have some evenings where we will be free to explore on our own.  We will be provided with information on concerts or cultural events in the places where we 
will be. 
 
The tour is officially flying El Al; however, if you want to fly United, ITC can help you to make arrangements.
 
To view a full itinerary and to download an on-line application, go to  ISRAEL TOUR.
 
For additional information, call Rabbi Jay at 973-865-9534 or email him at  mjayrab@gmail.com



KOL HAKAVOD CAMPAIGN

Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.   This is a separate, voluntary commitment  and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD

 

WINTER OFFICE HOURS

Beginning January 3, the JCC Office will be open Monday, Wednesday and Friday from 9:00 - 1:30.
THE WEEK THAT WAS....

A wonderful Community Seder was enjoyed by 90 attendees last Saturday night.  Thanks to Carole Nunberg, Jody Brusilow and Lexa Merson for doing all the work to make the Seder possible and to Rabbi Jay for leading a fun seder evening. 


Special thanks to Cliff Farin for his annual Plague presentation
and to Susan Sheehan for leading us in song.  The evening was made extra special with Rabbi's family from Israel and their spirited participation.

 
INTERFAITH SHABBAT
ANNUAL INTERFAITH SHABBAT
Friday, June 1
7:30 PM

Guest Speaker: Reverend John Anderson, the new pastor at the Holy Trinity Lutheran Church in Brant Beach

The Island Singers will perform

OCEAN COUNTY FEDERATION EVENT

The Place to Be
Tuesday, April 26, 2018
with comedian 
Joel Shasnoff


Ramada Inn  of Toms River
6:30 pm Dinner -  7:30 pm Entertainment

General Admission $60/person
Price after April 9 $65/person
for tickets call
732-363-0530 or click on this link:
AROUND THE NEIGHBORHOOD

ST. FRANCIS SPRING CARD  
& GAME PARTY LUNCHEON 

TUESDAY, MAY 8th 
              11:30AM - 4:00 PM
ST. FRANCIS CHURCH HALL

COST: $20.00 PER PERSON

INCLUDES: LUNCH, DOOR PRIZES, 50/50, BASKET AUCTION


FOR INFORMATION CONTACT:  JUDY CAPPERELLA.   
609-488-1588
TICKETS MAY BE PURCHASED AT THE ST. FRANCIS CENTER
GIVING OPPORTUNITIES

S END ONE OF OUR NEW TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF
See order form here: 

ENDOWMENT FUND

Join Herb and Selma Shapiro z'l to help assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. 

A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes.  All such name funds will be joined together to be part of the endowment fund portfolio. 

We are proud to announce that Judith & Donald Pripstein have joined the Shapiros with a $50,000 donation and have established The Pripstein Family Endowment Fund.

All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this fund whether as a specific named fund, or as a general donation. 

Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly.

A Endowment Fund Committee has been established headed by Arnie Galer.


YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary.  Here is the order form: 

TREE OF LIFE (located in the Social Hall)
You can purchase a leaf in honor of an occasion or in memory of a loved one. 
Here is the Tree of Life Form:  TREE

PAVERS ( in front of the Front Entrance) 
Only 4 x 8 and 12 x 12 size pavers are available 
Here is the Paver Form: 

TD AFFINITY PROGRAM

Easy money! 

Do you have an account with TD Bank? 

You can contribute to the JCC without it costing you a cent. TD Bank will pay us on the number of accounts in our TD Affinity Club. There is no minimum number of members. We automatically receive $10 for every checking account and .01% of the balance on Savings Accounts. In addition we receive $50 for any new accounts.  This is strictly confidential and the JCC does not know the amount in any of the accounts. 

We just received a check for $456.00 from TD Bank. So think about joining this program and helping the JCC to reap the benefits.
 
JCC INFORMATION
 
 
 
THE OFFICE IS LOCATED AT
2411 Long Beach Boulevard (24th Street)
Spray Beach, NJ 08008

ENTER THE BUILDING DURING OFFICE HOURS
THROUGH THE FRONT DOOR.
PRESS THE ENTRY BUTTON ON THE NORTH SIDE OF THE ENTRANCE FOR ADMITTANCE.


Mailing Address:
2411 Long Beach Blvd.
Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090
FAX: 609-492-7550

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  
  
    WINTER OFFICE HOURS:     
 
MONDAY 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
WEDNESDAY 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM
FRIDAY - 9:00 AM - 1:30 PM




Mary Beth, Tony and Leslie


Office Staff:
 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager
 Marcie Deutsch, Computer Admin.
Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member
Tony DrGregorio, Custodial Staff


 
CONTACT INFORMATION:
  
Rabbi Michael S. Jay

Rose Valentine, JCC President
rvalen1963@aol.com

SEE NOV/DEC/JAN BULLETIN
with this link
 
E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine rvalen
1963@aol.com



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SHABBAT SHALOM
HAG SOMEACH

Shabbat

Candle Lighting Time

Thursday,
April 5, 2018
7:07 PM

Friday
April 6, 2018
7:08 PM

(So. Ocean County NJ)

HERE IS A CALENDAR OF ALL CANDLE LIGHTING TIMES
ON LBI FOR 5778


Join us for Services



SHABBAT 
PASSOVER 
SERVICES

 


Friday, April 6
Passover Service
9:30 AM
Torah Reading
Exodus 13:17 - 15:26
Numbers 28:19 - 28:25
See Parshah here:
Haftorah
II Samuel 22:1 - 51
See Haftorah here:

Torah Leyners
Aaron Lombardi
Rabbi Jay

Friday, April 6
Shabbat Service
8:00 PM

Saturday, April 7
Shabbat & Passover Service
9:30 AM
Yiskor will be recited
Torah Reading
Exodus 13:17 - 15:26
Numbers 28:19 - 28:25
Here is the 
Haftorah
Isaiah 10:32 - 12:6
Here is the  HAFTORAH

Torah Leyner
Rabbi Jay



The Last Two Days of Passover In a Nutshell
What and How We Celebrate

The seventh and eighth days of  Passover are celebrated as  Yom Tov, holidays, capping the weeklong celebration that begins with the first  Seder. In  Israel, only the seventh day is celebrated. In Hebrew, the last two days are known as Shvii shel  Pesach (Seventh of Passover) and  Acharon shel Pesach (Last of Passover), respectively. 

What Happened on the Seventh Day of Passover? 

On the 15th day of the month of Nissan, the children of Israel left Egypt, where they had served as slaves for generations. Despite his original stubborn refusal, after 10 debilitating plagues, Pharaoh relented and allowed Israel to leave Egypt for a three-day spiritual retreat in the desert.  
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Three days later, when the Israelites failed to return, Pharaoh realized that they were gone for good, safely on their way to independence and freedom in the Promised L and. He bridled his best warhorse and called his nation to join him in pursuit of his erstwhile slaves.

After a short chase, the Egyptian army caught up with the Israelites at the banks of the red sea. The Israelites were trapped; there was nowhere to go but into the sea.
Then  G-d commanded  Moses to raise his staff and the sea split, allowing the Israelites to comfortably cross on dry land. When the Egyptians attempted to follow the Israelites across, the sea came crashing down on them. Chariots, riders and horses all perished in the sea.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Overwhelmed with gratitude, Moses led the Israelites in singing the Song of the Sea. Miriam led the women in an additional song of thanks, accompanied by tambourines and drums. 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
This miracle took place in the wee hours of the morning of the Seventh of Passover.

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
  
 
 
 
 
 
 
Please help us create a special atmosphere by not using electronic devices (phones, cameras, games etc) in or around the synagogue on Shabbat and Holidays. No
food or drink is permitted in the sanctuary.






YAHRZEITS
FOR NEXT WEEK

These names will be read at services on Friday, April 6, 2018


Fanny Dickman
Samuel Troum*
Joseph Callet*
Sylvia Evans
Deborah Gottlieb
Anita McMillan
Richard Saivetz*
Geraldine Isanuk
Barbara Sher*
Marian Selsky*
Ben Weisberger
Kurt Albu
Raleigh Liebenberg
Jacob Saferstein
Bill Sisenwine
Dora Haber
Raphael Haber
Anna Schwartz
David Weinstein
Mae Hirschorn Cohen*
Morris Ross
Calvert I. Waranch*

 

* Yahrzeit Plaque - These names are lovingly enshrined on our synagogue memorial boards.
CONGREGATION
NEWS
 




KAREN & DAVID SHATZ
on the birth of their
grandson
Aidan Micah Shatz
Baby Blocks

   
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CARING COMMITTEE
   
Caring
This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.  
Please contact Chairperson, Kem Spencer if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.     
201-819-3210

KIDDUSHES 
on Saturday morning

Contact  the office 609-492-4090
for information about 
sponsoring a Kiddush

SEE DONATION & MENU:
SISTERHOOD STUFF




 
SHOEBOX RECYCLING
PROGRAM
FOR DETAILS, PLEASE CLICK:

VOLUNTEER




VOLUNTEER 
at 
Interfaith Health & Support Services of Southern Ocean County, Inc. in Manahawkin. 
  • a coalition of different faith communities, social service, and health care organizations
  • that provides volunteer physical, emotional and spiritual support to those living at home who are vulnerable because of age or disability.
Here is a list of various volunteer opportunities at Interfaith: INTERFAITH



Interfaith is collecting old cell phones, glasses, hearing aids and used stamps on envelopes.  

We will have a box at the JCC for any donations.

CELEBRATE A MILESTONE AT THE 
JCC OF LBI

The JCC is a beautiful place to celebrate a milestone: wedding, anniversary, baby naming, birthday.

Contact the office for further information. 609-492-4090

ADS FOR JCC BULLETIN

Please contact the JCC Office (609-492-4090) if you would like to place an ad in the Bulletin
 
NAME BADGES

If you did not order a name tag, we will be putting in another order.  Here is the link for the form to order your name tag:  TAGS

TEXT BLAST SIGN UP

If you would like to receive JCC of LBI reminders and alerts via text message on your cell phone, please contact the office by email (jccoflbi@gmail.com) or phone (609-492-4090) We would be alerting you for example that "Services are cancelled" or "Last opportunity to sign up for Community Seder".

 This information will not be shared and will only be used for JCC purposes. 

DOCUMENTS AND LINKS

JUST CLICK AND YOU'RE THERE!!!

  

LATEST BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE

 

 

MEMBERSHIP FORMS

MEMBERSHIP 

 

 

PAVERS:

PAVERS 

 

 

TREE OF LIFE

TREE 

 

 

JEWISH JOURNAL: 

JOURNAL

 

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

PLAQUE 

 

  

KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD

 

 

KIDDUSH SPONSOR

KIDDUSH