JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER


October 1, 2024

28 Elul 5784



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"MAY YOU BE INSCRIBED

FOR A GOOD YEAR"


A HOLIDAY MESSAGE FROM OUR JCC PRESIDENT




L’Shana Tovah to each of you and to your families!

 

We live in particularly trying times as Jews. Anti- Semitism in these great Unites States is at historic highs. Jewish kids on esteemed college campuses frequently feel unsafe and cannot escape being harassed, threatened and demonized because they are Jewish. Jew hatred seems to carry no stigma, yet we live in a hyper sensitive time when “micro aggressions” against any other group of people are not tolerated and indeed are aggressively punished. Purportedly civilized countries such as Ireland, Spain and Norway “rewarded” the Hamas terrorists by recognizing a Palestinian state. Israel’s hostages are not free. And as I write this message, Iran has launched an unprecedented missile attack on our Jewish homeland. 

 

Security costs at Jewish institutions are at all-time highs. And politicians on both sides of the aisle seem entangled with personalities who spew anti-Semitic bile and diminish our rightful place in society. And we are left to wonder—what next?

 

As I shared with those who attended or participated in either our welcome back brunch this past early summer, or our congregational meeting in August, the JCC and its members who form our community must stand proud, tall, firm and strong in our resolve to be openly Jewish, to think about and advance Jewish ideals and values, to come together to celebrate, worship, pray, socialize, eat, drink, joke, commiserate, support each other. We will never again cower in fear, even when fear may be the natural emotion evoked by the scary and threatening global environment in which we live. We will not be silent in the face of evil and wrong. We will not apologize or diminish who we are and how we pray. We will not hide from or avoid the broader community in which we live. And we will vigorously support the right of Israel to exist as an independent, free, Jewish state with a 3,000 plus year old deed to the land that false rhetoric and distoritions of fact cannot take from us.

 

We can, and indeed must, recognize too that there are more good people in the world than bad, and that we as Jews in America have so, so many genuine friends, supporters and people of moral clarity and fortitude who support us in ways seen and unseen.

 

At this happy time of renewal and reflection, introspection and contemplation, I wish for everyone that they find the strength to forge a new course with joy and optimism in 5785.

 

Phil Rosenzweig

 


The Torahs are ready for the holidays with their special mantles (covers) beautifully created by Judith Pripstein z"l.

The silver has been polished.


CANDLELIGHTING

TIMES

(Southern Ocean County)


Wednesday evening

October 2, 2024

6:19 PM


Thursday evening

October 3, 2024

7:16 PM


Friday evening

October 4, 2024

6:16 PM

JOIN US FOR

SERVICES


SHABBAT SHUVAH

refers to the Shabbat that occurs during the Ten Days of Repentance between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. Only one Shabbat can occur between these dates. This Shabbat is named after the first word of the Haftarah (Hosea 14:2-10) and literally means “Return!


Friday

October 4, 2024

6:00 PM

ON ZOOM ONLY

Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday,

October 5, 2024

9:00 AM

IN PERSON AND ON ZOOM

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SHABBAT


TORAH READING

Parashat Ha’azinu 

Deuteronomy 32:1-32:52

In Ha’azinu (“Listen”), Moses recites a poem praising God and criticizing the sins of the Israelites. He describes the misfortunes that the Israelites will face and the damage God will ultimately wreak on their oppressors. The portion ends as God commands Moses to ascend Mount Nebo, where he is to die.

Here is Parshah


HAFTORAH

Hosea 14:2-10; Joel 2:15-27

Here is the Haftorah Hosea

Here is the Haftorah Joel


NO HAVDALLAH THIS WEEK


WEEKDAY SERVICES

Monday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation

from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday- Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT


TASCHLICH & SHOFAR SERVICE


Tashlich is a ceremony that takes place on the afternoon of the first day of Rosh Hashanah. The word "Tashlich" literally means "casting off". During the ceremony, participants symbolically cast away their sins of the previous year by throwing bread crumbs or pebbles into a body of water. The ceremony is inspired by the Biblical passage Micah 7:18–20, which says "God will hurl all our sins into the depths of the sea". 


Join us for Taschlich and Shofar Service on Thursday, October 3rd at approximately 12:15 PM at the Spray Beach Yacht Club. ALL ARE WELCOME!




MONDAY, October 7

Rabbi's Class

10:00 PM

CLICK HERE TO JOIN THE CLASS

REMEMBERING OCTOBER 7



We will have a memorial service for the first anniversary of the October 7th attack in Israel.

Monday evening after minyan.

September 7, 2024

7:45 PM

Here is the link for the Service:

https://us02web.zoom.us/j/83559208295?pwd=ZGNQbFlxR3Y4S1Vuc1hiYUNCMnNuUT09



The Jewish Federation of Ocean County is providing us with the opportunity to connect and commemorate as we mark one year since October 7. Join us for three special conversations from Israel - where you can hear first-hand about what is happening and how people here are feeling and reacting. These are opportunities you won’t find elsewhere.


SIGN UP HERE

Sun. Oct. 6 11 AM

The impact of

October 7 on Israeli

society – challenges,

divisions, and

opportunities. With

journalist Jessica

Steinberg of the

Times of Israel.

Sun. Oct. 13 11 AM

How Israelis have

responded to

October 7:

Perspectives

through the lens

of poetry. With

noted educator

Rachel Korazim.


Sun. Oct. 20 11 AM

Israel on the world stage-

where does the country go

from here? Can there be

peace? And how does

antisemitism fit in? With Avi Mayer

former editor-in-chief of The Jerusalem Post



NO MAH JONGG & CANASTA

10/9


NO PICKLEBALL UNTIL 10/15



 

Break the Fast at JCC


Restarting a Tradition...

This year the JCC Board is sponsoring a Break the Fast after the final Yom Kippur service. There is no cost but we do need RSVPs, no later than October 10th, so we know how much food to buy. We know many people break the fast with family and friends but many congregants don’t have that opportunity. We hope many of you will join this special community event.


CONTACT THE JCC OFFICE TO MAKE YOUR RESERVATION

DEADLINE FOR RSVP 10/7


609-492-4090

jccoflbi@gmail.com


WAX BOOK GROUP

WEDNESDAY AFTERNOONS EACH MONTH

NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING

NO BOOK FOR OCTOBER


Wednesday, November 20th at 4:00 pm

Discussion Leader: TBA

The Little Liar

By: Mitch Albom

Eleven-year-old Nico Krispis has never told a lie. His schoolmate, Fannie, loves him because of it. Nico’s older brother Sebastian resents him for both these facts.When their young lives are torn apart during the war, it will take them decades to find each other again. Nico’s innocence and goodness is used against his tightly knit community when a German officer

barters Nico’s reputation for honesty into a promise to save his loved ones. When Nico realizes the

consequences of the betrayal, he can never tell the truth again. He will spend the rest of this life changing

names, changing locations and identities, desperate to find a way to forgiveness—for himself and from the

people he loves most. Albom’s extraordinary storytelling is at its powerful best in his first novel to confront

the destruction that lying can wreak both on the world stage as well as on the individual lives that get

caught up in it. As The Stranger in the Lifeboat spoke to belief, The Little Liar speaks to hope, in a breathless page-turner that will break your heart open and fill it with the power of the human spirit and the goodness

that lies within us all. Narrated by the voice of Truth itself, The Little Liar is a timeless story about the power

of love to ultimately redeem us, no matter how deeply we blame ourselves for our mistakes.

SUNDAY, OCTOBER 13 TO GIVE OUT WATER AND CHEER THE RUNNERS PARTICIPATING IN THE 18-MILE RUN


Come to the front of the JCC building at 10:00 AM. Let the office know you will be volunteering.


The run is dedicated to the Israeli Olympic Athletes murdered in Munich 52 years ago.

"May their memory be a blessing"

Again this year with our participationn

in the PJP Consortium,

you can visit Jewish communities around the world virtually.

To Order your Shirts or Caps, Click Here
To pay by credit card on the JCC Website

NEW!!!!!!


The Wax Gift Shop in the lobby is currently Show Casing a local crafter of candles and soaps- Lavinia’s Haven. Please stop by for your holiday hostess gifts!



CONGREGATION NEWS

The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Frieda Baker

Howard Brody

Melvin Leistner

Katie Shrensel*

Muriel Nelson Stein

Ann Taub

Herbert Klosk

Martin Reiff*

Morris Treiber*

Irma Golden*

Robert Husak

Henry Levitt

Muriel Powitz*

Sandy Rifkin

Isadore Brecher

Helen Koseff*

Leon Segal

Dorothy Sherry*

Ida Steinberg

Helaine Bennett

Zena Josephson*

Sol Koslowsky

Michael Norman Kreiger*

Leo Slomovitz

Stuart Elkind


We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about 45 minutes to an hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.


*Denotes yahrzeit plaque which will be lit this week

Marc Wisotsky

October 5


Gerald Faich

October 7


Ethan Sheffet

October 7


Mark Rosen

October 9


Jeffrey Carson

October 11

 

Phillip & Debra Belena

October 9

25th Anniversary


Mark & Eileen Rosen

October 11

9th Anniversary


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CONTACT: 

rvalen1963@aol.com


CARING COMMITTEE


This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.


Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349 


YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.

Go to jccoflbi.org - community - forms

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb z"l and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2024 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW



JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP


OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Jon Geier

Treasurer- Stu Cofsky

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Lorna Klein

Paul Levine

Ken Podos


Sondi Pripstein

Terri Robinovitz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

Rose Valentine

Ken Yudman


WOMEN'S AUXILIARY


President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst

Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein


*New Board Members

JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2


NO JCC BUSINESS DONE

ON SHABBAT


 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Irene Babst