JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER


October 6, 2023

21 Tishri 5784

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A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI

We had the distinct pleasure of waiving Lulavs and eating in the Sukkah this past Sunday. For those present it was a glorious Sukkoth holiday. Here is a poem I wrote that captures some of the meaning of Sukkoth:

 

Life is like a Sukkah.

Temporary; fleeting; and, yet, somehow ever-present

7 days for Sukkoth, a permanent, set time.

Is the time of every soul established and permanent?

 

A Sukkah is like life.

Canvas blowing in the wind; the sky our ever-changing szchach.

Pieces of our lives as ornamentation; artwork hanging by string.

We are visitors in God's universe, God's Sukkah.

 

God is like an Etrog.

Beautiful. There for us to see and hold and smell;

Yet, amorphous just the same.

Nourishment? Adornment? Or something just to please the senses?

 

Man is like a lulav.

Multi-faceted; with a strength like the date palm.

And a presence like the pleasant scent of hadas

Yet weak like the leaves of the willow that wither quickly when out of water.

 

And somehow, just as the etrog is incomplete without the Lulav,

God is incomplete without Man; 

Man is unfinished without God.

Each needs to hold the other gently, acknowledging existence together...East, South, West, North, to the Heavens, to the Earth.

  

Saturday morning, October 7th, is Shemini Atzeret. This means that we will have a Yizkor service that morning. Services begin at 9:00 am, and I expect Yizkor to be at about 10:30 am. As part of Yizkor observance, it is customary to light a Yahrtzeit candle the night before. Thus, this year, you should light the candle on Frida evening, October 6th, before lighting Shabbat candles.


Saturday evening at 6:00 pm we will be having Pizza-in-the-Hut. After dinner we will have Simchat Torah services which will include taking all the Torahs out and dancing with them.


Sunday morning, we will be a first. Services will begin at 9:00. At 10:00 AM, members of the congregation will be handing water out to runners engaged in the 18-mile run. While we normally would not participate in a sectarian event on a holiday, this year, since it only involves setting tables out in front of the JCC and handing water to thirsty runners, we are going to observe both our holiday and the run. 



This will lead to the fulfillment of at least two mitzvahs. First, by giving water to the runners, we will be taking care of the needy. Secondly, everyone who joins us to hand out water, will be invited to join us in the JCC to dance with the Torahs! 


When we are done dancing, we will finish reading the Torah and roll it all the way back so that we can read the very beginning of the scroll.


This is a momentous time in our tradition. The symbolism is, among other things, that every ending is a beginning. The Torah has been read completely, every year, for millennia.


We shift from the awe of the Holy days of Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur to the wonder of Sukkoth, to Shemini Atzeret, to helping runners to succeed in their goal, to the boundless joy of Simchat Torah. Join us for any, or all, of these happy events!


Shabbat Shalom and Moadim L’Simcha – Rabbi Michael S. Jay

Candle Lighting time

Friday evening

October 6, 2023

6:14 pm

October 7, 2023

7:11 pm

(Southern Ocean County)


JOIN US FOR

SERVICES



Erev Sh'mini Atzeret

Friday, October 6, 2023

at 7:30 PM

IN PERSON & ON ZOOM


Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

FRIDAY NIGHT



Sh'mini Atzeret

Saturday, Oct. 7, 2023

9:00 AM

YISKOR WILL BE RECITED


Simchat Torah

Sunday, Oct. 8, 2023

9:00 AM


IN PERSON AND ON ZOOM

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SHABBAT & SUNDAY


TORAH READING

Sh'mini Atzeret

Deuteronomy 14:22-16:17;

Numbers 29:35-30:1

Here is the Parshah

DEUTERONOMY

NUMBERS

HAFTORAH

  I Kings 8:54-66

HERE IS THE HAFTORAH


TORAH READING

Simchat Torah

Deuteronomy 33:1-17

Genesis 1:1-2

 Numbers 29:35-30:1

Here is the Parshah

DEUTERONOMY

GENESIS

NUMBERS


HAFTORAH

Joshua 1:1-18

Here is the Haftorah

HAFTORAH

.WEEKDAY

SERVICES

Sunday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday- Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT

Simchat Torah

SOME MORE THANK YOUS TO THOSE WHO MADE THE HOLIDAYS SO SPECIAL...


Terri Robinovitz and her assistant Julia Farin for making the children's holiday experience so special with the Children's Program on Rosh Hashanah & Yom Kippur.


Irene Babst, Jill Denker, Cliff Denker and Terri Robinovitz for decorating the Sukkah and the Social Hall for the holiday.


SUPPER AT THE JCC THIS SATURDAY NIGHT

6:00 PM


Join us for a dairy supper: soup, pizza, pasta, salad and dessert. It has been a tradition at the JCC to have dinner together Erev Simchat Torah followed by the joy of dancing with the Torahs.


Reply to rvalen1963@aol.com if you are planning on attending.


CHILDEN ARE ENCOURAGED TO JOIN IN THE FUN!!!!

This Thursday the weather was perfect on Long Beach Island. And it was perfect day to enjoy a WAX lunch in our beautiful Sukkah. Two kinds of soup (butternut squash and vegetable) and salad with all sorts of additions, tuna, bread and of course ice cream and cookies for dessert were enjoyed by 17 ladies. Kudos to all the WAX gals who put this great event together!!!!


See the JCC Cookbook for the recipes.

Noralyn Carroll & Diane Buskirk with Luncheon Salad

What a beautiful table in the Sukkah

THIS WEEK'S ACTIVITIES


TUESDAY, OCTOBER 10

Pickleball

3:00 PM Beginners Session

4:00 PM Regular Play

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WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 11

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 PM

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THURSDAY, September 12

Pickleball

10:00 AM


Torah Study with the Rabbi

11:00 AM 


INTERMEDIATE HEBREW CLASS WITH IRA

2:00 PM

Contact Ira for more information

inaira213@gmail.com


CLICK FOR THE THURSDAY TORAH STUDY

PICKLEBALL


SUNDAY 10:00 AM

TUESDAY 3:00 PM

THURSDAY 10:00 AM




Pickleball will start at 3:00 and we invite people who have never played and want to learn to play, or people who want to practice and improve their serve or net play, to attend at that time. We will still play from 4-6.


Reminder: Pickleball for members only!

MAH JONGG & CANASTA


WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM

UPCOMING ACTVITIES



Walk the Bridge & Brunch at Old Causeway Inn

Sunday, October 15 at 10:30 AM


Boscov’s Friends and Family, In-person Shopping Only

Wednesday, October 18


WAX Book Group

Wednesday, October 18 at 4:00 PM


 An evening with Carl Steinberg: “A Bob Dylan Night”

Saturday, October 21 at 7:30 PM


Pinelands Walk with Lisa

Thursday, October 26 (Rain Date October 27)


PJP Zoom Program

Itzhak Brook “A Physician’s Personal Account of the Yom Kippur War”

Thursday, October 26 at 8:30 PM


SUNDAY, OCTOBER 8TH TO GIVE OUT WATER AND CHEER THE RUNNERS PARTICIPATING IN THE 18-MILE RUN


Come to the front of the JCC building at 10:00 AM. Let the office know you will be volunteering.


The run is dedicated to the Israeli Olympic Athletes murdered in Munich 51 years ago.

"May their memory be a blessing"

Click here to RSVP for the Walk

JCC WOMEN’S AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION

 WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM

NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING

Wednesday, October 18th at 4:00 PM

Discussion Leader: TBA

A Pigeon and a Boy: A Novel By Meir Shale


During the 1948 War of Independence—a time when pigeons are still used to deliver battlefield messages—a gifted young pigeon handler is mortally wounded. In the moments Wednesday, November 15th at 4:00 PM Discussion Leader: TBA Code Name Sapphire By: Pam Jenoff 1942. Hannah Martel has narrowly escaped Nazi Germany after her fiancé was killed in a pogrom. When her ship bound for America is turned away at port, she has nowhere to go. 2 3 Volume 16/ Issue 6 before his death, he dispatches one last pigeon. The bird is carrying his extraordinary gift to the girl he has loved since adolescence. Intertwined with this story is the contemporary tale of Yair Mendelsohn, who has his own legacy from the 1948 war. Yair is a tour guide specializing in bird-watching trips who, in middle age, falls in love again with a childhood girlfriend. His growing passion for her, along with a gift from his mother on her deathbed, becomes the key to a life he thought no longer possible. Unforgettable in both its particulars and its sweep,


A Pigeon and A Boy is a tale of lovers then and now—of how deeply we love, of what home is, and why we, like pigeons trained to fly in one direction only, must eventually return to it. In a voice that is at once playful, wise, and altogether beguiling, Meir Shalev tells a story as universal as war and as intimate as a winged declaration of love.


NEW PROGRAMS WITH PJP


Thanks to our membership in the PJP we were able to enjoy a variety of programs last year. Here are the new programming lists. We will send out a Reminder and Link prior to each event. No need to register in advance.


Thursday, October 26 @ 8:30 PM

Itzhak Brook “A Physician’s Personal Account of the Yom Kippur War”

The presentation includes a description of the historical background of the Yom Kippur War and its effects on the Israeli society, as well as Dr. Brook’s personal experiences and challenges as a battalion physician in the Sinai. He will address the physical and psychological traumas his soldiers had to cope with, the effect of religion on them, the cost of war in human life and suffering, and the daily struggle for survival in the difficult war which threatened Israel’s existence.

Itzhak Brook, M.D., M.Sc., is a Professor of Pediatrics at Georgetown University School of Medicine in Washington DC. He was born and raised in Haifa, Israel and earned his medical degree from Hebrew University, Hadassah School of Medicine, in Jerusalem. He served in the Israeli army as a medic in the Six Day War in 1967 and as a battalion physician during the Yom Kippur war in 1973. Subsequently, he completed a fellowship in adult and pediatric infectious diseases at the University of California, Los Angeles, School of Medicine. He served in the medical corps of the US Navy for 27 years. Dr. Brook has authored several hundred publications in scientific journals and ten textbooks. He authored the books:" In the Sands of Sinai- A physician's Account of the Yom Kippur War" and “My voice - a physician’s personal experience with throat cancer.”


PJP Series "What Jews Think”

2023-2024

SEE PROGRAM DETAILS HERE

PJP Travel Programs

2023-2024

SEE PROGRAM DETAILS HERE
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To pay by credit card on the JCC Website

LAST CALL FOR PAVER ORDERS

If you would like to order a paver for this 2023 installation, please fill out the form ( click below ) and return it to the JCC office with payment.

CLICK HERE FOR THE PAVER WORK SHEET

CONGREGATION NEWS


The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Judith Blumberg

Rose Goldstein*

Marcia Nelson*

Lenore Traster*

Stanley Bloom

Leonard Einhorn

Esther Gottlieb

Lessie Markowitz*

Shirley Morgan

Edith Nissenblatt

Joseph Nudel

Bessie Okner

Abe Hirschorn*

Andrew Rothschild

Irene Schiff

Henry Schragger

Olly Alexander*

Sheldon Shapiro

Samuel Finkel

Irving Kern

Yetta Miller

Minnie Schrank

 

 We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.

CLICK HERE FOR EVENING SERVICE
CLICK HERE FOR MORNING SERVICE
Cake

Gerald Faich

October 7

Ethan Sheffet

October 7

Mark Rosen

October 9

Jeffrey Carson

October 11

Lori Steigerwald

October 12

Joe Fleischer

October 13

Carl Greenberg

October 13

Jacqueline Printz

October 13


Phillip & Debra Belena

October 9

24th Anniversary

Mark & Eileen Rosen

October 11

8th Anniversary

Ken & Sue Fuirst

October 13

33rd Anniversary

 





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CONTACT: 

rvalen1963@aol.com


CARING COMMITTEE

  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.

Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349 


FROM OUR CONTRIBUTOR TO OUR SHABBAT REMINDER, SHEILA WEISEL



I Believe

 

I believe that God listens for our prayers and knows what is in our thoughts.

I believe that everything happens for a reason whether we know what that reason is or not.

I believe that what goes around, comes around. If you are kind to someone, someone else will be kind to you.

I believe that when we are born there is an invisible stamp on the sole of one of our feet with our expiration date on it.

I believe that we are tested all the time but God will never give us more than we can handle.

I believe that we get signs from those who have passed away showing us they are watching over us.

I believe that some day we will be reunited with those we love and lost.

Live simply, Love generously, Care deeply,

Speak kindly and leave the rest to God 

YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.

Go to jccoflbi.org - community - forms

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES

PAVERS
Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building
8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"

SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:
Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.
Purchase a personalized paving stone
in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.

Please contact Diane Hoffman
with your order or with any questions:


PRAYER BOOKS
There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.
See Order form here: Prayer Book


TRIBUTES
SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF
See order form here: TRIBUTES


TREE OF LIFE
Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE
Bronze Leaf $90
Silver Leaf $126
Gold :Leaf $180


ENDOWMENT FUND

Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.

Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.

A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.
 
Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 


YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 
Here is the order form: 


KOL HAKAVOD

Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD

2023 MEMBERSHIP FORMS

Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.
Here is form for renewal:

And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:


JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
JCC LEADERSHIP

OFFICERS
President- Phil Rosenzweig
1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman
2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman
3RD Vice President- Rose Valentine
Treasurer- Ira Morgenthal
Secretary- Cliff Denker
Immediate Past President -Michael Babst

BOARD MEMBERS
Howard Babbitt 
Diane Buskirk
Mitch Frumkin

Jon Geier

Paul Levine

Ken Podos

Terri Robinovitz

David Shatz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman



WOMEN'S AUXILIARY


President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst

JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2

CLOSED THURSDAY



 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Irene Babst

Contributing Columnist

Sheila Weisel