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JEWISH COMMUNITY
CENTER OF
LONG BEACH ISLAND
E-LETTER
March 13, 2025
7 Adar 5785
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PURIM AT THE JCC OF LBI
Thursday, March 13th
dress in your finest costume as we dine and read the Megillah
Pizza, Salad and Hamantashen at 6:30 PM
Megillah Reading at 7:30 PM
(In-person and zoom)
Friday, March 14th
Services at 8:15 AM including Megillah Reading
(zoom only)
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A PURIM MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI
AKA Barney Rubble
We celebrate Purim tonight, Thursday, March 13th, and Friday morning, March 14th. Most of us probably recall Purim from our childhood.
We remember a crowded synagogue with groggers (those infernal noise makers), Hamantaschen (the triangular cookie filled with prune, apricot, poppy seeds, chocolate, or whatever makes you happy), and gift bags filled with candy or other treats. We also may recall the over-simplified story of Purim; we remember mean Queen Vashti, Beautiful Esther, and heroic Mordechai who refused to bow down to evil Haman (Boooo!)
Here is the basic summary:
• King Ahasuerus dethrones Queen Vashti.
• Esther is crowned queen after winning a beauty contest.
• Mordecai uncovers a plot to kill the king and reports it.
• [King Ahasuerus promotes Haman, making him more powerful than all the other officials.]
• Mordecai refuses to bow before Haman [a close confidant of the king].
• Haman seeks to destroy the Jews after his run-in with Mordecai.
• Mordecai appeals to Esther to save her people. Esther approaches King Ahasuerus and invites him and Haman to a banquet.
• Mordecai is honored for having saved the king's life. Esther entertains the king and Haman, and invites them to a second banquet.
• Esther pleads for her people at the second banquet. She accuses Haman.
• The king grants Esther's request and condemns Haman to die on the gallows that he built for the Jews.
• The Jews defend themselves throughout Persia [against those following out the decree to destroy the Jews].
• The holiday of Purim is established and Mordecai advances to a position of importance.
The Purim of our childhood interesting, but I have some news for you. The Purim story, if we read it cover to cover now, with our adult eyes, is more like a Shakespeare play than a children’s story. The summary above is correct, but in the full story there is drama, humor, political intrigue, murder, sex, and more.
Tonight, we will enjoy Pizza, Israeli salad and, probably, too many hamantaschen. We will have the treat of Cantor Geller chanting the Megillah, together with Stu and Eve Lehrer, and Ira and Ina Morgenthal. If you want to read a little piece in Hebrew or English, just come to the JCC or come on Zoom.
As I am writing this I am observing “Taanit Esther”, “The Fast of Esther”. Why am I starving myself? I’m glad you asked. In the Megillah, Esther and all the Jews of Persia fast for three days. They do this on Esther’s behalf, before she goes to visit the King to request that he help to save the Jewish people. In the story, the fast was successful. The Jewish people were ultimately saved from Haman’s evil plan.
There are four Mitzvot specific to Purim. They are:
1)Hearing the Megillah
2)Seudah – Having a Festive Meal
3)Mishloach Manot – Sending gifts (of food) to friends, and
4)Matanot Levyonim – Giving to the Poor
In keeping with our theme of “Have You Done Jewish today: These are all easy to do:
1)We will be reading the Megillah tonight evening beginning at around 7:15PM. Join us in person or on Zoom.
2)Make your own meal or invite friends to join you for a meal on Friday.
3)Give friends Hamantaschen or some other sweets at some point over the next few days.
4)Now is a good time to give some extra Tzedakah!
Chag Purim Sameach and Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay
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Candle Lighting Time
(Southern Ocean County)
Shabbat Eve
Friday, March 14, 2025
6:45 PM
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Friday
March 14, 2025
Services
7:30 PM
ZOOM ONLY
Here is
your invitation from
Rabbi Jay to join Services
on Zoom
FRIDAY NIGHT
Saturday
March 15, 2025
9:00 AM
IN PERSON AND
ON ZOOM
Here is
your invitation from
Rabbi Jay to join
Zoom services
SHABBAT
TORAH READING
KI TISA
Exodus 30:11-34:35
Ki-Tisa (“When You Elevate”) opens as God tells Moses to collect a half-shekel donation from all Israelites and to anoint the Mishkan (Tabernacle), its vessels, and the priests. The Israelites worship the golden calf and Moses breaks the tablets. Moses beseeches God to forgive, and returns with a second set of tablets.
Here is Parshah
HAFTORAH
I Kings 18:1-39
In this week's haftorah, Elijah the Prophet demonstrates the worthlessness of the Baal, just as Moses chastised the Israelites for serving the Golden Calf, as discussed in this week's Torah reading.
Here is the Haftorah
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HAVDALLAH
7:15 PM
ON ZOOM ONLY
Here is
your invitation from
Rabbi Jay to join
Zoom services
HAVDALLAH
WEEKDAY SERVICES
Monday - Thursday
Ma'ariv Service
7:30 PM
Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:
MA'ARIV
Sunday - Friday
Shacharit Service
8:15 AM
Sunday at 9:00 AM
Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:
SHACHARIT
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Stu’s a-stu-te sayings….
That Old Time Rock ‘n Roll Expressions
Have you ever heard someone say or refer to something and then add additional Hebrew words? Well here’s a few ‘Old School’ traditional sayings that might be what was referenced
When one talks of a loved one and/or a person of tremendous distinction, we will often add: A”H which is short for alav/aleha hashalom, which means “peace be upon him/her.” Alternately, z”l stands for zikhrono/zikhronah livrakha, meaning “May his/her memory be a blessing” and zt”l stands for zekher tzadik livrakhah “May the memory of this righteous one be a blessing.”
חס ושלום -חס וחלילה - Chas v’Shalom and Chas Chah’lee’lah
The expression Chas veShalom appears often in Talmudic literature –
Chas is a form of חוס:“have mercy” and Shalom means peace, expressing the hope that the feared danger will be replaced with peace and quiet – Chas v’Chalilah is a recent variation - Chalilah, חלילה, which is found in Abraham's prayer for Sodom in Gen 18:25,
is nothing more than a synonym for Chas – They both mean, as I said, have mercy, or forebear, or “may it be unthinkable to You.”
אִם יְרצֵה הַשֵׁם
Eem Year’tzay Ha’Shame which means May It Be God’s Will
This is often used as a hope or wish invoking the help of Providence as
I have an important appointment tomorrow and I hope all goes well then add: Eem Year’tzay Ha’Shame
Another example which hits home for those who know me,
I hope the Orioles win the World Series, Year’tzay Ha’Shame
[obviously I’m hoping just for hitting home runs, Year’tzay Ha’Shame]
As you can imagine, there are a ton more of these sayings which some might say they are superstitious but shush why break with tradition.
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NO PICKLEBALL
THURSDAY MARCH 13
SUNDAY, March 16
Pickleball 10 - 1
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TUESDAY, March 18
Pickleball
10 - 1
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WEDNESDAY, March 19
Canasta & Mah Jongg
12:30 PM
WAX Book Club
4:00 PM
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THURSDAY, March 20
Torah Study
11:00 AM
Pickleball
10 - 1
PJP Israel Program
8:30 PM
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FRIDAY, March 21
WAX Brunch
LBI Table
11:00 AM
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Wednesday, March 19
WAX Book Club
4:00 PM
Thursday, March 20
PJP Israel Program
8:30 PM
Friday, March 21
WAX Brunch
LBI Table
11:00 AM
Monday, March 24
Navigating Through the Health System with
Stevie Kiziuklewicz
CONTINUED
8:00 PM
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MAH JONGG & CANASTA
WEDNESDAYS
12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM
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PICKLEBALL
Sundays, Tuesdays
and Thursdays
10 - 1
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IF YOU MISSED THE EXCELLENT PJP PROGRAM ON
JEWISH MEXICO
HERE IS THE LINK AND THE PASSWORD
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ABOUT THE COMEDIANS...
Robin Fox
New Jersey Stand-Up Comedian Robin Fox spent 17 years as a full-time mom and dieting. Then one day, Robin gave up dieting and decided to make her life long dream of being a comedian a reality. Today she is happier than she can ever remember and will never look back! Original and funny, she talks from her heart about the frustrations of suburban living, marriage, and being an empty nester. No longer is she willing to just be the funniest mom on her New Jersey cul-de-sac. This New Jersey mom is now a regular on the comedy scene playing at the top clubs in NYC and performing nationally.
Joe Bublewicz
A 20 year veteran of the national comedy circuit, Joe’s ability to take you on a tour of life’s absurdities will create an atmosphere of non-stop laughter by blending just the right mix of sarcasm, logic, and personality into a hilarious stand-up performance. His creative humor and sardonic style of comedy has made him a favorite at all the major comedy chains throughout the country. It’s a night out that will leave you wanting more.
Wayne Cotter
Wayne Cotter is a veteran of the talk shows, having appeared dozens of times with both David Letterman and Jay Leno. A top nationally touring comedian, Wayne hosted the Fox Television Network series “Comic Strip Live” for many years, and has been nominated as “Best Standup Comedian” in the American Comedy Awards. Although he studied Electrical Engineering at the University of Pennsylvania and began a career with a New Jersey computer company, before long Wayne started moonlighting as a Philadelphia comedian. He continued this double life for some time, and ultimately came to the visionary conclusion that the computer industry was going nowhere and left town to pursue showbusiness full time.
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JCC WOMEN’S AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION
WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM
NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING
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Wednesday, March 19th at 4:00 PM
Discussion Leader: TBA
The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier & Clay
By: Michael Chabon
A young escape artist and budding magician named Joe Kavalier arrives on the doorstep of his cousin, Sammy Clay. While the long shadow of Hitler falls across Europe, America is happily in thrall to the Golden Age of comic books, and in a distant corner of Brooklyn, Sammy is looking for a way to cash in on the craze. He finds the ideal partner in the aloof, artistically gifted Joe, and together they embark on an adventure that takes them deep into the heart of Manhattan, and the heart of old-fashioned American ambition. From the shared fears, dreams, and desires of two teenage boys, they spin comic book tales of the heroic, fascist-fighting Escapist and the beautiful, mysterious Luna Moth, otherworldly mistress of the night. Climbing from the streets of Brooklyn to the top of the Empire State Building, Joe and Sammy carve out lives, and careers, as vivid as cyan and magenta ink. Spanning continents and eras, this superb book by one of America’s finest writers remains one of the defining novels of our modern American age.
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PJP Israel Series 2024-2025
Thursday, March 20 @ 8:30 PM
Hadas Cohen, Visiting Assistant Professor, University of Oklahoma – Norman
“Israel and Jews in America – The History and Future of This Contentious Relationship”
How have political ideologies, different understandings of justice, and questions of identity shaped the contentious relationship between American Jews and the state of Israel?
Discussing crucial historical moments from the fervent Zionist dreams of the early 20th century and the dramatic birth of Israel in 1948, to the Six Day War and today’s dynamic, sometimes divisive, relationship, this talk will unravel the intricate tapestry of political, social, and cultural threads that bind and separate American Jews and Israel. To understand what the future holds for this important relationship, we will explore key issues such as the rise of antisemitism, questions of religious pluralism, and the generational shift and decline in support for Israel.
Dr. Hadas Cohen is a visiting assistant professor at the department of history at the University of Oklahoma, where she is also an Israel Institute Teaching Fellow. She holds a PhD in political science from the New School University, a master’s degree in human Rights and International Affairs from Columbia University and she is a licensed lawyer in Israel with a B.A. in law from the Hebrew University. She wrote her dissertation about women traitors within the context of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, after which she continued to carry out research in Berlin about the Israeli immigrant community in the city. Later she became a post-doctoral fellow at the Faculty of Law at Bar Ilan University and was a visiting researcher at the Davis Institute for International Relations at the Hebrew University.
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The JCC section at Crescent Memorial Park is available for sales. Please contact Bonni Rubin-Sugarman at 609-417-7148.
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We are very excited to add to the WAX Gift Shop items from local merchants and artisans. Stop in to look and buy one (or more) of these beautiful pieces for your home, as a gift or just for yourself. Here is a sample of some of our new products. The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.
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The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:
Claire Kirschner
Ernest Schmalz
Sol Walkes
David Cousins
Joseph Dicicco Jr.
Jonah Herzenberg
Robert Jonas
Lottie Levy*
Salvatore LiVecchi
Henrietta Nagel
Shirley Teplitsky
Morris Weiner
Murray Elefant
Bella Garb
Gerald Golden
Margot Lippmann
Sarah Livshitz*
Ann Nogi
Elizabeth Tittelbaum
Arthur E. Weinstein
Florence Yablon
Gerald Abrams
Abraham Fisher
Rhoda Herman*
Norman Ketzlach
James Norberg Sr.
Esther Renzin
Harry Sisenwine
Barbara Abramson
Damary Hernandez
Maidie Kaplon
Dr. Richard Snyder
Netti Turek
Eric Weinberg
Helen Applebaum
Jetchen Karo
Stanley Karp
Adam Benjamin Lewisohn
Susie Sisenwine
Joseph Friedman*
Nathan Levison*
Abraham Pervin*
We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45.Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral.
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Louis Beckerman
March 15
Renie Carniol
March 15
Lexa Merson-Koel
March 15
Hana Cofsky
March 16
Joanne Glass
March 16
Janet Greene
March 17
Eric L. Jay
March 17
Ronnie Konner
March 17
Steven Silverman
March 17
Richard Davis
March 19
Stewart Fisher
March 20
Mark Rosenthal
March 20
Renee Ward
March 20
Daniel Litovsky
March 21
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Bernard & Beverly Rosenberg
March 18
58th Anniversary
Brian & Sara Jane Harris
March 19
30th Anniversary
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SHARE YOUR NEWS
AND PICTURES
CONTACT:
rvalen1963@aol.com
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CARING COMMITTEE
This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.
Please contact Chairperson,
Debby Schweighardt
if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.
973-634-5349
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AROUND THE OCEAN COUNTY
JEWISH COMMUNITY....
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YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.
Go to jccoflbi.org - Giving/Pay
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GIVING OPPORTUNITIES
PAVERS
Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building
8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"
SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:
PAVER FORM
Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.
Purchase a personalized paving stone
in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.
Please contact Diane Hoffman
with your order or with any questions:
dihoff1@aol.com
PRAYER BOOKS
There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.
See Order form here: Prayer Book
TRIBUTES
SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF
See order form here: TRIBUTES
TREE OF LIFE
Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE
Bronze Leaf $90
Silver Leaf $126
Gold :Leaf $180
ENDOWMENT FUND
Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.
Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.
A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.
Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly.
YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary.
Here is the order form:
YAHRZEIT
KOL HAKAVOD
Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD
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2025 MEMBERSHIP FORMS
Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.
Here is form for renewal:
RENEW NOW
And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:
JOIN NOW
BE A PART OF THE WOMEN'S AUXILLARY
2025 DUES FORM HERE
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JCC FUNDS
Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.
ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.
GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.
KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.
RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.
ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
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JCC LEADERSHIP
OFFICERS
President- Phil Rosenzweig
1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman
2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman
3RD Vice President- Jon Geier
Treasurer- Stu Cofsky
Secretary- Cliff Denker
Immediate Past President -Michael Babst
BOARD MEMBERS
Howard Babbitt
Diane Buskirk
Lorna Klein
Paul Levine
Ken Podos
Sondi Pripstein
Terri Robinovitz
Bonni Rubin-Sugarman
Rose Valentine
Ken Yudman
WOMEN'S AUXILIARY
President - Diane Buskirk
Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll
Co-Vice President - Jill Denker
Treasurer - Suzy Geier
Secretary - Joanne Babbitt
Immediate Past President - Irene Babst
Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein
Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader
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