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March 13, 2025

7 Adar 5785



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PURIM AT THE JCC OF LBI


Thursday, March 13th

dress in your finest costume as we dine and read the Megillah

Pizza, Salad and Hamantashen at 6:30 PM

Megillah Reading at 7:30 PM

(In-person and zoom)

Friday, March 14th

Services at 8:15 AM including Megillah Reading

(zoom only)

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A PURIM MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI

AKA Barney Rubble


We celebrate Purim tonight, Thursday, March 13th, and Friday morning, March 14th. Most of us probably recall Purim from our childhood.




We remember a crowded synagogue with groggers (those infernal noise makers), Hamantaschen (the triangular cookie filled with prune, apricot, poppy seeds, chocolate, or whatever makes you happy), and gift bags filled with candy or other treats. We also may recall the over-simplified story of Purim; we remember mean Queen Vashti, Beautiful Esther, and heroic Mordechai who refused to bow down to evil Haman (Boooo!)


Here is the basic summary:


•  King Ahasuerus dethrones Queen Vashti.

•  Esther is crowned queen after winning a beauty contest.

•  Mordecai uncovers a plot to kill the king and reports it.

•  [King Ahasuerus promotes Haman, making him more powerful than all the other officials.]

•  Mordecai refuses to bow before Haman [a close confidant of the king].

•  Haman seeks to destroy the Jews after his run-in with Mordecai.

•  Mordecai appeals to Esther to save her people. Esther approaches King Ahasuerus and invites him and Haman to a banquet.

•  Mordecai is honored for having saved the king's life. Esther entertains the king and Haman, and invites them to a second banquet.

•  Esther pleads for her people at the second banquet. She accuses Haman.

•  The king grants Esther's request and condemns Haman to die on the gallows that he built for the Jews.

•  The Jews defend themselves throughout Persia [against those following out the decree to destroy the Jews].

•  The holiday of Purim is established and Mordecai advances to a position of importance.


The Purim of our childhood interesting, but I have some news for you. The Purim story, if we read it cover to cover now, with our adult eyes, is more like a Shakespeare play than a children’s story. The summary above is correct, but in the full story there is drama, humor, political intrigue, murder, sex, and more.  


Tonight, we will enjoy Pizza, Israeli salad and, probably, too many hamantaschen. We will have the treat of Cantor Geller chanting the Megillah, together with Stu and Eve Lehrer, and Ira and Ina Morgenthal. If you want to read a little piece in Hebrew or English, just come to the JCC or come on Zoom.


As I am writing this I am observing “Taanit Esther”, “The Fast of Esther”. Why am I starving myself? I’m glad you asked. In the Megillah, Esther and all the Jews of Persia fast for three days. They do this on Esther’s behalf, before she goes to visit the King to request that he help to save the Jewish people. In the story, the fast was successful. The Jewish people were ultimately saved from Haman’s evil plan. 


There are four Mitzvot specific to Purim. They are:


1)Hearing the Megillah

2)Seudah – Having a Festive Meal

3)Mishloach Manot – Sending gifts (of food) to friends, and

4)Matanot Levyonim – Giving to the Poor


In keeping with our theme of “Have You Done Jewish today: These are all easy to do:



1)We will be reading the Megillah tonight evening beginning at around 7:15PM. Join us in person or on Zoom.

2)Make your own meal or invite friends to join you for a meal on Friday.

3)Give friends Hamantaschen or some other sweets at some point over the next few days.

4)Now is a good time to give some extra Tzedakah!


Chag Purim Sameach and Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay

 

Candle Lighting Time

(Southern Ocean County)

Shabbat Eve

Friday, March 14, 2025

6:45 PM

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Friday

March 14, 2025

Services

7:30 PM

ZOOM ONLY

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Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday

March 15, 2025

9:00 AM

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

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Zoom services

SHABBAT


TORAH READING

KI TISA

Exodus 30:11-34:35

Ki-Tisa (“When You Elevate”) opens as God tells Moses to collect a half-shekel donation from all Israelites and to anoint the Mishkan (Tabernacle), its vessels, and the priests. The Israelites worship the golden calf and Moses breaks the tablets. Moses beseeches God to forgive, and returns with a second set of tablets. 

Here is Parshah



HAFTORAH

 I Kings 18:1-39

In this week's haftorah, Elijah the Prophet demonstrates the worthlessness of the Baal, just as Moses chastised the Israelites for serving the Golden Calf, as discussed in this week's Torah reading.

Here is the Haftorah


HAVDALLAH

7:15 PM

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HAVDALLAH


WEEKDAY SERVICES

Monday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

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MA'ARIV


Sunday - Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

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SHACHARIT



Stu’s a-stu-te sayings….


That Old Time Rock ‘n Roll Expressions


Have you ever heard someone say or refer to something and then add additional Hebrew words? Well here’s a few ‘Old School’  traditional sayings that might be what was referenced


When one talks of a loved one and/or a person of tremendous distinction, we will often add: A”H which is short for alav/aleha hashalom, which means “peace be upon him/her.” Alternately, z”l stands for zikhrono/zikhronah livrakha, meaning “May his/her memory be a blessing” and zt”l stands for zekher tzadik livrakhah “May the memory of this righteous one be a blessing.”


חס ושלום -חס וחלילה - Chas v’Shalom and Chas Chah’lee’lah

The expression Chas veShalom appears often in Talmudic literature –

Chas is a form of חוס:“have mercy” and Shalom means peace, expressing the hope that the feared danger will be replaced with peace and quiet – Chas v’Chalilah is a recent variation - Chalilah, חלילה, which is found in Abraham's prayer for Sodom in Gen 18:25,

is nothing more than a synonym for Chas – They both mean, as I said, have mercy, or forebear, or “may it be unthinkable to You.”


אִם יְרצֵה הַשֵׁם

Eem Year’tzay Ha’Shame which means May It Be God’s Will

This is often used as a hope or wish invoking the help of Providence as

I have an important appointment tomorrow and I hope all goes well then add: Eem Year’tzay Ha’Shame

Another example which hits home for those who know me,

I hope the Orioles win the World Series, Year’tzay Ha’Shame

[obviously I’m hoping just for hitting home runs, Year’tzay Ha’Shame]

 

As you can imagine, there are a ton more of these sayings which some might say they are superstitious but  shush why break with tradition.

 

NO PICKLEBALL

THURSDAY MARCH 13


SUNDAY, March 16

Pickleball 10 - 1

******

TUESDAY, March 18

Pickleball

10 - 1

******

WEDNESDAY, March 19

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 PM


WAX Book Club

4:00 PM

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THURSDAY, March 20

Torah Study

11:00 AM


Pickleball

10 - 1

PJP Israel Program

8:30 PM

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FRIDAY, March 21

WAX Brunch

LBI Table

11:00 AM


CLICK HERE FOR WEDNESDAY BOOK CLUB
CLICK HERE FOR THURSDAY MORNING TORAH STUDY
CLICK HERE FOR THURSDAY PJP ISRAEL PROGRAM

Wednesday, March 19

WAX Book Club

4:00 PM


Thursday, March 20

PJP Israel Program

8:30 PM


Friday, March 21

WAX Brunch

LBI Table

11:00 AM


Monday, March 24

Navigating Through the Health System with

Stevie Kiziuklewicz

CONTINUED

8:00 PM

MAH JONGG & CANASTA

WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM

PICKLEBALL

Sundays, Tuesdays

and Thursdays

10 - 1

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ABOUT THE COMEDIANS...


Robin Fox

New Jersey Stand-Up Comedian Robin Fox spent 17 years as a full-time mom and dieting. Then one day, Robin gave up dieting and decided to make her life long dream of being a comedian a reality. Today she is happier than she can ever remember and will never look back! Original and funny, she talks from her heart about the frustrations of suburban living, marriage, and being an empty nester. No longer is she willing to just be the funniest mom on her New Jersey cul-de-sac. This New Jersey mom is now a regular on the comedy scene playing at the top clubs in NYC and performing nationally.


Joe Bublewicz

A 20 year veteran of the national comedy circuit, Joe’s ability to take you on a tour of life’s absurdities will create an atmosphere of non-stop laughter by blending just the right mix of sarcasm, logic, and personality into a hilarious stand-up performance. His creative humor and sardonic style of comedy has made him a favorite at all the major comedy chains throughout the country. It’s a night out that will leave you wanting more.


Wayne Cotter

Wayne Cotter is a veteran of the talk shows, having appeared dozens of times with both David Letterman and Jay Leno. A top nationally touring comedian, Wayne hosted the Fox Television Network series “Comic Strip Live” for many years, and has been nominated as “Best Standup Comedian” in the American Comedy Awards. Although he studied Electrical Engineering at the University of Pennsylvania and began a career with a New Jersey computer company, before long Wayne started moonlighting as a Philadelphia comedian. He continued this double life for some time, and ultimately came to the visionary conclusion that the computer industry was going nowhere and left town to pursue showbusiness full time.



JCC WOMEN’S AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION

 WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM

NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING

Wednesday, March 19th at 4:00 PM

Discussion Leader: TBA

The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier & Clay

By: Michael Chabon


A young escape artist and budding magician named Joe Kavalier arrives on the doorstep of his cousin, Sammy Clay. While the long shadow of Hitler falls across Europe, America is happily in thrall to the Golden Age of comic books, and in a distant corner of Brooklyn, Sammy is looking for a way to cash in on the craze. He finds the ideal partner in the aloof, artistically gifted Joe, and together they embark on an adventure that takes them deep into the heart of Manhattan, and the heart of old-fashioned American ambition. From the shared fears, dreams, and desires of two teenage boys, they spin comic book tales of the heroic, fascist-fighting Escapist and the beautiful, mysterious Luna Moth, otherworldly mistress of the night. Climbing from the streets of Brooklyn to the top of the Empire State Building, Joe and Sammy carve out lives, and careers, as vivid as cyan and magenta ink. Spanning continents and eras, this superb book by one of America’s finest writers remains one of the defining novels of our modern American age.

PJP Israel Series 2024-2025


 Thursday, March 20 @ 8:30 PM

Hadas Cohen, Visiting Assistant Professor, University of Oklahoma – Norman

“Israel and Jews in America – The History and Future of This Contentious Relationship”

 

How have political ideologies, different understandings of justice, and questions of identity shaped the contentious relationship between American Jews and the state of Israel?

Discussing crucial historical moments from the fervent Zionist dreams of the early 20th century and the dramatic birth of Israel in 1948, to the Six Day War and today’s dynamic, sometimes divisive, relationship, this talk will unravel the intricate tapestry of political, social, and cultural threads that bind and separate American Jews and Israel. To understand what the future holds for this important relationship, we will explore key issues such as the rise of antisemitism, questions of religious pluralism, and the generational shift and decline in support for Israel. 



Dr. Hadas Cohen is a visiting assistant professor at the department of history at the University of Oklahoma, where she is also an Israel Institute Teaching Fellow. She holds a PhD in political science from the New School University, a master’s degree in human Rights and International Affairs from Columbia University and she is a licensed lawyer in Israel with a B.A. in law from the Hebrew University. She wrote her dissertation about women traitors within the context of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, after which she continued to carry out research in Berlin about the Israeli immigrant community in the city. Later she became a post-doctoral fellow at the Faculty of Law at Bar Ilan University and was a visiting researcher at the Davis Institute for International Relations at the Hebrew University.  


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The JCC section at Crescent Memorial Park is available for sales. Please contact Bonni Rubin-Sugarman at 609-417-7148.



We are very excited to add to the WAX Gift Shop items from local merchants and artisans. Stop in to look and buy one (or more) of these beautiful pieces for your home, as a gift or just for yourself. Here is a sample of some of our new products. The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.


CONGREGATION NEWS



The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Claire Kirschner

Ernest Schmalz

Sol Walkes

David Cousins

Joseph Dicicco Jr.

Jonah Herzenberg

Robert Jonas

Lottie Levy*

Salvatore LiVecchi

Henrietta Nagel

Shirley Teplitsky

Morris Weiner

Murray Elefant

Bella Garb

Gerald Golden

Margot Lippmann

Sarah Livshitz*

Ann Nogi

Elizabeth Tittelbaum

Arthur E. Weinstein

Florence Yablon

Gerald Abrams

Abraham Fisher

Rhoda Herman*

Norman Ketzlach

James Norberg Sr.

Esther Renzin

Harry Sisenwine

Barbara Abramson

Damary Hernandez

Maidie Kaplon

Dr. Richard Snyder

Netti Turek

Eric Weinberg

Helen Applebaum

Jetchen Karo

Stanley Karp

Adam Benjamin Lewisohn

Susie Sisenwine

Joseph Friedman*

Nathan Levison*

Abraham Pervin*


We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45.Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral.

CLICK HERE FOR EVENING SERVICE
CLICK HERE FOR MORNING SERVICE
Cake

Louis Beckerman

March 15

Renie Carniol

March 15

Lexa Merson-Koel

March 15

Hana Cofsky

March 16

Joanne Glass

March 16

Janet Greene

March 17

Eric L. Jay

March 17

Ronnie Konner

March 17

Steven Silverman

March 17

Richard Davis

March 19

Stewart Fisher

March 20

Mark Rosenthal

March 20

Renee Ward

March 20

Daniel Litovsky

March 21

 

Bernard & Beverly Rosenberg

March 18

58th Anniversary

Brian & Sara Jane Harris

March 19

30th Anniversary

 

David & Karen Shatz


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CARING COMMITTEE

  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.

Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349


AROUND THE OCEAN COUNTY

JEWISH COMMUNITY....

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YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.


Go to jccoflbi.org - Giving/Pay

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2025 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

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BE A PART OF THE WOMEN'S AUXILLARY

2025 DUES FORM HERE


JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP



OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Jon Geier

Treasurer- Stu Cofsky

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Lorna Klein

Paul Levine

Ken Podos


Sondi Pripstein

Terri Robinovitz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

Rose Valentine

Ken Yudman


WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst

Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein


Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader


JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2




 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

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PRAYER BOOK:

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WEB SITE:

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PAVERS:

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TREE OF LIFE

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YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

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TRIBUTES:

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CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Mary Beth Kreiger

Contributing Articles by

Stu Lehrer