Jewish Community Center of    JCC the Place to Be
 Long Beach Island  E-Letter

  March 27, 2020
  2 Nisan 5780




FROM THE JCC PRESIDENT

Hello Everyone;

I hope my message finds you and your family well, and that you are weathering this pandemic storm in a safe harbor. We all know someone that has been touched by Covid-19, either diagnosed, voluntarily self-quarantined, or been mandated to shelter in place. The State of New Jersey currently is second to New York with confirmed cases of the virus. Governor Murphy has taken steps to control the spread of the virus. 

I have been told that there has been an influx of people coming to LBI, to escape areas of greater contagion. As a result of this, we have seen an increase of people normally not at the JCC this time of yea. Based on our concerns for the health of our associates, and our congregation, the board has decided to close the JCC for at least the next four weeks. No one will be allowed to enter the JCC during this time. 

Our office staff has the ability to telecommute, and will be handling the day to day activities from their homes. Our custodial staff will be going into the JCC on a limited bases, to make sure that all is OK. Tony will also begin to clean and sanitize our building to make it ready when we reopen. This was an action that was not taken lightly by the board. In this time when we need the support of the community, we are being told to maintain a social distance. We are Jews, this social distancing is not in our nature, it is foreign to us, we were not raised that way!!! But it is the reality of our times. I, like you, hope it will not last long, and as soon as we can we will be gathering again on the island.

          If there is a silver lining in all that we are going through, it is that we have still found a method to be together. Thanks to the tireless energy of Rabbi Jay, we have been able to pray together, learn together, and share our fears, and frustrations. We have started using the Internet for this. We have a Kabbalat Shabbat service on Friday night, Havdalah Services on the close of Shabbat. We have Torah study on Thursday, and Psalm study on Tuesday. We started out with a small group, and each week the number of participants keeps growing. If you have not been part of this yet, now is the time to become part of our Zoomers, look for our next scheduled Internet event. It is a reason to get dressed up in your evening loungewear attire, comb your hair and put on your makeup. As this continues, we are exploring other ways for us to use Social Media, to close the gap of Social Distancing.

          In closing, Irene and I hope that you and those you love, remain safe and healthy. I want to assure everyone that we, as a community, will get through this. No matter how long it takes we are the Jewish Community Center of Long Beach Island now and for the future.
 
Sincerely
Michael Babst. President of the JCC
    

Contents
From the JCC President
A Message from the Rabbi
Kol Hakavod
The Week That Was...
Jewish Recipes
This Week;s Events
Service Schedule
Yahrzeits for Next Week
Happy Birthday
Congregation News
Documents & Links
 A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI

Thank God for Prayer.
 
This week we start the Book of Vayikra (Leviticus). It is mostly about the sacrificial system. When to bring a sacrifice, how to bring a sacrifice, where to bring a sacrifice, why to bring a sacrifice, and what to bring as a sacrifice. Notice that I used the word "bring" a lot. The reason is that when an Israelite had a reason to "make" a sacrifice to God, he/she did not perform the actual sacrifice. Instead, the person needing to make the sacrifice brought it to the priest, and it was the priest who actually physically "made" the sacrifice.
 
Query: If I want to communicate with God, whether I am thankful, seeking forgiveness, or expressing hopefulness, why should I need to rely on a priest, or anyone else, to do my communicating for me through a sacrifice?
 
It's okay to have a middleman when you are buying a house, buying insurance, or looking to have something manufactured in bulk, but why should I (or anyone) need a middleman in my relationship with God?
 
We should not need a priest to take a ram and sacrifice it in order for any of us to communicate with the Holy One. It is the actual personal and physical act of thankfulness, or contrition, or forgiveness that makes a difference.   Our prayer is our divine-self speaking with the Divine.
 
By now, it should come as no surprise that I think it is a great thing that the sacrificial system has been cast aside in favor of personal prayer. (I am pretty certain that the Rams, goats, bulls, and doves, feel the same way)
 
Personal prayer is a wonderful way of connecting with God, but it is also a wonderful way for each of us to connect internally. Prayer can help us to reflect. Prayer can help us to take a step back. Prayer can help us to breathe. Prayer does not have to be meditation, but it can be. Prayer does not have to be silent or planned or loud or spontaneous. It can be either or none of these. Prayer is human; prayer is divine.
 
Do you find yourselves praying a lot lately?
 
I find myself praying more often than usual. Of course, I pray our fixed prayers 3 times a day. But in addition, I find myself consistently and spontaneously Praying for health, praying that someone does not have coronavirus, praying that a person who has coronavirus recovers, praying for strength, praying for my family, praying for my friends, praying for my JCC family, praying for healthcare professionals, praying for the sick, praying for the healthy, praying for the government, praying for Israel, praying for an end to this need to be separated. I pray that the text that just dinged has good news. I pray that Zoom works every time I sign on.
 
I pray.......for the ability to pray.
 
As trite as it may sound, I pray for a nice day so that we can go out, take a walk, and smell spring.
 
And, I THANK GOD FOR PRAYER.
 
I want to finish this little message with a thanks to our incredible JCC community. You have accepted this new virtual reality with an incredible energy. You have attended the programming we have provided. You have advised of people who were in need of help. You have helped other people. You have done what Jewish people do. You have taken this broken world and done so much to make it better. Kol Hakavod. Each of you is to be honored for how you have handled this crisis.
 
God-willing we will soon be at a beach service, seeing the ocean, smelling the salt air, hearing the birds and the waves, feeling the soft LBI sand, and singing Shabbat songs.
 
This week we have continued virtual services, virtual classes, and virtual visits. Indeed, it seems as if we have most things virtually covered.
 
Look for emails about continuing virtual programs and send me suggestions for what you would like.
 
Stay safe, stay healthy, and don't forget to wash, wash, wash your hands.
 
Praying for a Peaceful Shabbat and week to come - Rabbi Michael S. Jay
 

KOL HAKAVOD CAMPAIGN

Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.   This is a separate, voluntary commitment  and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD

 

THE WEEK THAT WAS...

It has been amazing to join with JCC folks last week on Zoom as we welcomed in the Shabbat with a Kabbaat Service and wished everyone a good week with Havdallah on Saturday evening.  Rabbi Jay helped us to put things into perspective with the following poem by Jeanne Rikkers: 

May we who are merely inconvenienced,
Remember those whose lives are at stake.

May we who have no risk factors,
Remember the most vulnerable.

May we who have the luxury of working from home,
Remember those who must choose between preserving their health or making their rent.

May we who have flexibility to care for our children when their schools close,
Remember those who have no options.

May we who have to cancel our trips,
Remember those that have no safe place to go.

May we who are losing our margin money in the tumult of the economic market,
Remember those who have no margin at all.

May we who settle in for a quarantine at home,
Remember those who have no home.

As fear grips our country,
Let us choose LOVE.

Monday morning we had a joint Torah Study with Rabbi Jay and members of Agudath Israel in Caldwell.  We were delighted to see Herb Shapiro on line with us - his first time on Zoom.  It only shows you are never too old to learn new things.

Tuesday evening was the final session in the JCC Holocaust Study Program.  We had close to 60 people on Zoom for the class - a full living room.  

Here are some of the participants


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Please let the Rabbi or office know if you need help with groceries or medication pick up.
LOOKING YOUR BEST ON ZOOM

Been a while since you wore makeup?  Feels good actually.  But we are communicating with zoom these days.  It's nice to try to look our best and it makes us feel good too.

Celebrity makeup artist, Vincent Oquendo, breaks down the easiest tips to achieve a subtle glow ahead of your next video chat.

1. Apply a Good Moisturizer
2. Grab Some Eyedrops
3. Swipe on Mascara
4. Go Bright With Blush
5. Add Concealer

To read the entire article see: LOOKING GOOD


 
JCC INFORMATION
 
 
 
THE OFFICE IS LOCATED AT
2411 Long Beach Boulevard (24th Street)
Spray Beach, NJ 08008

ENTER THE BUILDING DURING OFFICE HOURS
THROUGH THE FRONT DOOR.
FOR HANDICAPPED ENTRANCE
PRESS THE ENTRY BUTTON ON THE NORTH SIDE OF THE ENTRANCE FOR ADMITTANCE.


Mailing Address:
2411 Long Beach Blvd.
Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090
FAX: 609-492-7550

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  
  

OFFICE HOURS
Monday, Wednesday and Friday 9 AM to 1:30 PM 

THE OFFICE IS TEMPORARILY CLOSED.
PLEASE USE THE PHONE OR EMAIL WITH REQUESTS.
OUR OFFICE STAFF WILL BE CHECKING IN REGULARLY.


  
 
Office Staff:
 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager
   Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member



   Mary Beth and Leslie



Tony DeGregorio, Custodial Staff



Kitchen Manager
Susan Berube


CONTACT INFORMATION:
  
Rabbi Michael S. Jay

Michael Babst, President

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THIS WEEK'S EVENTS   

TOMORROW!!!!!


TORAH STUDY with Rabbi Jay
Thursday, 3/26
11:00 AM

Join Zoom Class here:
TORAH ZOOM

Torah Study will continue each Thursday.  Please use the link above.

 
SHABBAT SHALOM

Shabbat 
Candle Lighting Time
Friday 
March 27, 2020
  6:58 PM
(So. Ocean County NJ)


JOIN US FOR INTERNET
SERVICES


Friday evening
March 27, 2020 
Kabbalat Service
6:00 PM
Here is your invitation to 
Join Zoom Services:




Devarim
Deuteronomy 1:1 - 3:22
Here is the Parshah

Haftorah
Isaiah 1:1 - 1:27
Here is the Haftorah:



Saturday evening
  March 28, 2020
Havdallah
8:00 PM
Here is your invitation to
Join Zoom Services:
HAVDALLAH


YAHRZEITS FOR NEXT WEEK

Michael Beck*
Louis Cohen
Irving List*
Charles Miller
Fannie Shapiro
Ruth Weisberger
Lawrence Alpert*
Charlotte Chazin*
Minnie Einhorn*
Martin Hartman
Fred Pollack
Jeanette Rosen
Dora Weinstein
Mary Halpern
Herbert Iris
Irving Maginsky
Leon Shechtman
Benjamin Epstein*
Shirley Feather*
Rita Haas
Lena Hirschman
Irving Klein
Jennie Silverman
Saul Silverman*
Benjamin Fruchtman*
Charles Kasselman*
Henry Kelsen
Bernard Mihtz
Charlotte Dzuna
Betty Husak
Harry Kaplan
Cora Korb*
Harriet Rothman
 
Rabbi will read at Kabbalat Service

PLEASE LET THE OFFICE KNOW WHEN YOU WILL NEED A MINYAN TO SAY KADDISH.  

 
* Yahrzeit Plaque - These names are lovely enshrined on our synagogue 
memorial boards.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY
Cake

This Week's
Birthdays 

Herbert Botwinick
March 28
Warren Matz
March 28
Joshua Gindin
March 29
Charles Moss
March 31
Rudolph Valentine
April 1
Lewis Chakrin
April 2
David Denenberg
April 2
Steven Goldsmith
April 3
 


If you have not given the office your birthday information and would like to receive birthday wishes, please notify the office of your date of birth.

And if you would like to have the Rabbi give you or a family member a special blessing on the Shabbat of your/their birthday, please let him know: RABBI

CONGREGATION
NEWS

CONDOLENCES TO

BEVERLY MILLER
on the loss of her 
brother
Sanford Lichtenberg


"May God remember forever our dear ones who have gone to their eternal rest. May they be at one with the One who is life eternal. May the beauty of their lives shine for evermore, 
and may our lives always  bring honor to their memory."
 

Get Well
DAVID FORSTED




BERGER HOCHBERGER &
MARTY FLUMENBAUM
on the marriage of their daughter
Judy Flumenbaum
 to 
Jonathan Conrad 
in New Orleans


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CARING COMMITTEE
   
This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.
Please contact Chairperson,
Debby Schweighardt
if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member
that needs our help.
973-634-5349 
     

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