JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER


January 5, 2024

24 Tevet 5784

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A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI

Sheri and I were in Florida last week. The weather was not much warmer than here, but we had a very nice time. Not having vacationed in a very long time, we forgot how nice it is to be away for a while. (That said, it is good to be home).


A few things of note. The drive to from New Jersey to Miami and back is not bad. On the way down, we stopped in Chevy Chase, MD for Shabbat and then drove to friends in Bluffton, South Carolina. We drove home in 2 days. 8.5 hours with stops turned out to be 10 hours, which was fine. 


Wawa is always a good place to stop. Buc-ee’s, is a bit overwhelming. If you forget your kosher wine for Kiddish on Friday night, it is lucky when a Jewish family rents the private room at the hotel restaurant so you can go in and borrow from them. The kosher food scene in, and around, Miami is awesome.


It seems I am not the only one worried about people sunscreening. This sign was on the wall outside the elevator on our floor:

This is what happened when I did not put on sunscreen and sat in the sun too long:

The Rebbetzin could not get enough of the sunset:

This may sound a bit weird, but you know that feeling you get when you are away from home for a long time, and you find yourself, for the first-time, getting into your “comfortable” clothes and sitting in your favorite chair? Or when you go to your favorite pizza place and eat that perfect slice that you haven’t had in ages? Or when you get to spend some time with that friend whom you just never seem to see enough? It is a feeling of anticipation, of joy, of familiarity; and yet you often notice something you hadn’t seen before. This is how I feel each year as we start to read the Book of Exodus. I love the book of Exodus. I am comfortable with the book of Exodus.


I have been studying Torah, in a serious way, for around 30 years now and for a reason I cannot quite explain, the Book of Exodus is a part of the Torah that stimulates and provokes me. Perhaps it’s the epic nature of the central story. It tells of the advancement of the underdog, it teaches the importance of freedom, it shows us nation forming, it exalts in the revelation. Or maybe it is that it essentially tells the story of the love of God for a particular people.  


Whatever the reason, my attachment to this Book of the Torah is strong.


The narrative raises question after question, after question. Read Parashat Shemot, (Chapters 1-6) and look at my list of questions below. Write to me and let me know which ones you felt comfortable answering! (Mjayrab@gmail.com)


1) Why are we given a genealogy at the very beginning when we just had one two weeks ago in Parashat Vayigash?

2) Why did the Children of Israel multiply so quickly?

3) How is it possible that Joseph was forgotten by a new Pharaoh?

4) Did the Children of Israel do anything wrong to make the new Pharaoh suspect that they might be a problem in the future?

5) How is it that the Israelites kept growing stronger even after they were being harassed and enslaved?

6) Who are Puah and Shifrah? And are they Hebrew midwives, or midwives to the Hebrews?

7) It says at 1:17 that the midwives “feared God”. If they were Egyptian, how did they even know who God was?

8) Is Pharaoh unbalanced? A midwife’s job is to bring life into this world. How likely would she be to kill the baby that she has just birthed?

9) How were the midwives rewarded by God?

10) Who is commanded to throw the male babies into the water and whose babies are being thrown in?

11) What is it that Moses’ mother sees that enables her to come to the conclusion that Moses was “good”?

12) Have you noticed that all of the heroes in the first part of this story are women? (The midwives, Moses’ mother, Moses’ sister, Pharaoh’s daughter)

13) How did Pharaoh’s daughter know the baby in the basket was a Hebrew baby?

14) How old was Moses when his mother brought him back to Pharaoh’s daughter?

15) Did Moses know he was a Hebrew when he killed the Egyptian who had beaten the Hebrew slave?

16) Why did the Hebrews who were fighting the next day chastise Moses instead of thank him?

17) How long did it take Moses to get to Midian?

18) Is it funny that after Jethro learns that an Egyptian (Moses) has come to the aid of his daughters, that he tells his daughters to bring Moses so he can eat bread? (Given the fact that by the end of this story everyone will be eating Matzah).

19) The Hebrews were slaves for a very long time. Why did it take God so long to heart their moaning and to remember the covenant with Abraham Isaac and Jacob?

20) Why was there a fire in a thorn bush?

21) Why is it that Moses notices the bush?

22) Why does God call Moses’ name twice?

23) Why does God require Moses to take off his shoes?

24) Why does God choose Moses?

25) Why does God need Moses, or anyone else for that matter?

26) Why does Moses initially reject the task that God sends him on? (I know what he says in the Text, but how does one say “no” to God?

27) Why does Moses need to have a name for God?

28) What is the deal with God’s name, “I am that I am”, or, “I shall be what I shall be”?

29) God tells Moses to go to the Elders of Israel and tell them that God sent him. If you were the Elders of Israel, what would be your reaction to this statement from the former prince turned murderer, turned runaway?

30) What is God’s problem with Pharaoh?

31) Why does God make Moses take the staff and turn it into a snake? Why doesn’t God just do this Himself?  

32) What is the staff?

33) Why does Moses claim to be slow of speech?

34) Why does God get angry with Moses when Moses asks God to send someone else?

35) Why is Aaron necessary to the story?

36) Why does Jethro let his son-in-law leave without even a little argument?

37) We have read many stories about the First born son bowing to the younger son. Why does God refer to Israel as His first-born son?

38) If you were the Hebrews and Moses’ and Aaron’s actions made your life harder, how would you feel about Moses and Aaron? How would you feel about the God who sent them?

39) Is there any physical proof that any of this happened?


Shabbat Shaom and Good Studying

Rabbi Michael S. Jay

SHABBAT SHALOM


Shabbat Candle

Lighting time

Friday evening

January 5, 2024

4:30 PM



JOIN US FOR SERVICES


Friday, January 5, 2024

SERVICES

6:30 PM

ON ZOOM ONLY

Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday,

January 6, 2024

9:00 AM

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM


Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SHABBAT


TORAH READING

Parashat Shemot

Exodus 1:1-6:1

Here is the Parshah



Shemot (“Names”) is the first Torah reading in the Book of Exodus. It opens describing the enslavement of the Israelites in Egypt. Moses is born, placed in a basket on the Nile, and adopted into Pharaoh’s household. He later encounters God at a burning bush and begins his mission of demanding that Pharoah let the Israelites go.


HAFTORAH

Isaiah 27:6-28:13, 29:22-23

Here is the Haftorah


HAVDALLAH

5:00 PM

HAVDALLAH

6:30 PM

ON ZOOM ONLY

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your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

HAVDALLAH



.WEEKDAY

SERVICES


Sunday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday- Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT

Eight Hebrew Words and Phrases You Can Use Every Day


 Learning new words and phrases can be enjoyable, but when they're in a new language, they can also be daunting. Not to worry! We've got you covered with some useful words and phrases to help you build your Hebrew vocabulary. 

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Honoring Bravery in the Face of Terrorism 


Israelis and Americans – Jews and non-Jews – become a formidable force when they unite against threats. In the face of challenges, this unity becomes powerful proof of strength derived from diversity – transcending religious and cultural boundaries. Israel’s cultural mosaic promotes resilience and solidarity when the Jewish state is under attack. Jews, Muslims, Christians, Druze, religious, secular, men, women, natives and immigrants all came together in a shared commitment to defend the Jewish state.

American Natalie Sanandaji owes her life to Israeli hero Moshe Sati. Natalie attended the Nova music festival during a trip to Israel. Iran-backed Hamas terrorists killed 364 civilians at Nova. Moshe and his son saved more than 100 lives by driving back and forth in their truck during the terrorist attacks. Natalie only recently learned his name when she returned to Israel: “I’m very lucky that he is who he is. It was incredible, to just meet such a selfless person who was really willing to risk his own life – not once, but risk his life over and over again.” The 28-year-old New Yorker also spoke of her fear of living in NY because of the multitude of pro-Hamas supporters: “I’m safest as a Jew in Israel.”

Read more about Heroes in this article on the Mercaz USA Web site.

HEROES

Many thanks to Iran Morgenthal who stepped in to run weekday and Shabbat morning services while Rabbi and Sheri were away on vacation. We are so blessed to have Ira as part of our congregation. Thanks too to Rose Valentine for her d'var torahs on Jacob and Simeon (copies are available on request). Friday night services were beautifully led on 12/24 by Marlene Herman and on 12/31 by Cantor Geller. Yasher Koach to all!

The New Year's Eve Party at the JCC was a tremendous success!!!!


"It was a great party!"

  "Fabulous DJ. Trivia was so much fun"

"Yummy food and fun dance partners"

"So much fun"

"Best New Year's Eve ever"


Watch the Hora to start the evening

Cliff & Malenie celebrate on the dance floor

The Carrolls

Eliann & David Katz joined the party from Virginia


The Valentines toast the new year


Having fun doing the Cupid Hustle

Thank you to Diane Buskirk who suggested we have a New Year's Eve Party at the JCC and her fabulous committee who made it all happen: Paul Levine, Joanne Babbitt, Joyce Levine, Rose Valentine, Jon Geier, Suzy Geier, David Shatz, Karen Shatz, Lorna Klein, Irene Babst, Michael Babst and Noralyn Carroll. Can't wait to do it again!

THIS WEEK'S ACTIVITIES



SUNDAY, JANUARY 7

Pickleball

10:00 AM


Dr. Hershenberg Talk

on Retirement and Aging

12:30 PM


PJP Program

"Jewish Egypt"

1:00 PM

Will be available on tape


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TUESDAY, JANUARY 9

Pickleball

3:00 PM

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WEDNESDAY, JANUARY 10

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 PM


Rabbi's Class

"The Case for Israel"

7:30 PM following minyan

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THURSDAY, JANUARY 11

Pickleball

10:00 AM



Torah Study with the Rabbi

11:00 AM


Intermediate Hebrew with Ira

2:00 PM



FRIDAY JANUARY 5

Studying the Prophets

9:00 AM


WAX Brunch

at Wally's

11:00 AM


CLICK HERE FOR DR HERSHENBERG'S PROGRAM ON SUNDAY
CLICK HERE TO JOIN THE PJP EGYPT PROGRAM
CLICK FOR WEDNESDAY EVENING CLASS
CLICK FOR THE THURSDAY MORNING TORAH STUDY
CLICK FOR FRIDAY MORNING CLASS

PICKLEBALL



SUNDAY 10:00 AM

TUESDAY 3:00 PM

THURSDAY 10:00 AM



Reminder: Pickleball for members only!

MAH JONGG & CANASTA


WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM

UPCOMING ACTIVITIES

January Shabbat Dinner

Friday, January 5

6:30 PM

CANCELLED


Successful Retirement & Successful Aging with Bernard Hershenberg

Sunday, January 7

12:30 PM


PJP Program

"Jewish Egypt"

Sunday, January 7

1:00 PM


WAX Brunch

at Wally's

Friday, January 12

11:00 AM


WAX Book Discussion

Thursday, January 18

4:00 PM


Funny Girls Part 2

Jan 18, 2024

8:30 PM



Learn Signing

Beginning Friday, January 19

10:00 AM


Cholentfest

Saturday, January 20

11:30 AM

following services


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MEN AND WOMEN ARE INVITED FOR THIS VERY IMPORTANT DISCUSSION

WAX BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION

 THURSDAYS AT 4:00 PM

NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING


Thursday, January 18th at 4:00 pm

Discussion Leader: Rabbi Jay

How to Fight Anti-Semitism by Bari Weiss


On October 27, 2018, eleven Jews were gunned down as they prayed at their synagogue in Pittsburgh. It was the deadliest attack on Jews in American history.

 

For most Americans, the massacre at Tree of Life, the synagogue where Bari Weiss became a bat mitzvah, came as a shock. But anti-Semitism is the oldest hatred, commonplace across the Middle East and on the rise for years in Europe. So that terrible morning in Pittsburgh, as well as the continued surge of hate crimes against Jews in cities and towns across the country, raise a question Americans cannot avoid: Could it happen here? This book is Weiss’s answer.  

Like many, Weiss long believed this country could escape the rising tide of anti-Semitism. With its promise of free speech and religion, its insistence that all people are created equal, its tolerance for difference, and its emphasis on shared ideals rather than bloodlines, America has been, even with all its flaws, a new Jerusalem for the Jewish people. But now the luckiest Jews in history are beginning to face a three-headed dragon known all too well to Jews of other times and places: the physical fear of violent assault, the moral fear of ideological vilification, and the political fear of resurgent fascism and populism.


Bari Weiss is an American journalist, writer, and editor. She was an op-ed and book review editor at The Wall Street Journal (2013–2017)[1] and an op-ed staff editor and writer on culture and politics at The New York Times (2017–2020).[2] Since March 1, 2021, she has worked as a regular columnist for German daily newspaper Die Welt.[3] Weiss founded the media company The Free Press (formerly Common Sense) and hosts the podcast Honestly.


NEXT BOOK

The Enemy Beside Me by Naomi Ragen




Thanks to our membership in the PJP we are able to enjoy a variety of programs. Here are the new programming lists. No need to register in advance.

PJP Series "What Jews Think”

2023-2024

Thursday, February 8 @8:30 PM

Dr. Eugene Sheppard, Brandeis University “Ideas of God in Jewish Mysticism”

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SEE ADDITIONAL PROGRAM DETAILS HERE

PJP Travel Programs

2023-2024


Sunday, January 7 @ 1:00 PM

“Jewish Egypt” with Louise Arwas


Over the course of our virtual tour we will be time travelling: From the time of Moses, through to the Golden Age of Egyptian Jewry, and right up to present day Jewish Egypt. We will visit an Egypt that was tolerant and open, yet indigenous and traditional, where Jews and their Muslim neighbors lived harmoniously, and extended, multigenerational families lived seemingly safe and joyous existences. We will be journeying through world history and Jewish history (and some of my own family history), and along the way we’ll stop at some of the most iconic Jewish sites in Egypt. We will remember what was - and maybe what can be again someday.


Louise Arwas is originally from London. Her father, grandparents and great-grandparents came from Alexandria, Egypt, but were expelled, together with 30,000 Jews, during the Suez Crisis of 1956. She is currently involved in several related education projects, including organizing heritage tours to Cairo and Alexandria with former community members.

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SEE FUTURE PROGRAM DETAILS HERE

Join us for our 2nd 3-Part Series on Jewish Hollywood


FUTURE PROGRAMS



Funny Girls Part 2 - Jan 18, 2024 - 8:30 PM


Those Were the Days - Feb 22, 2024 - 8:30 PM 
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CONGREGATION NEWS


The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Rose Kanis

Betty Berger*

Ira Berger

Barbara Black

Bette Cohen*

Stanton Einhorn

Mark Fisch

Lenore Light

Albert Margent

Jean Schiller

Betty Glassman Sitzer*

Rebecca Weinstein

Beatrice Bernstein

Elaine Dover

Albert Fagan*

Barbara Frank

Helen Berman

Joyce Blumberg

Mildred Holt

Harry Jerome

Herman Meyer

Miriam Minsky

Richard Pacharz

J. Gilbert Sholin

Leonard Wolf

Dr. Henry Abrams

Janet Appel

Helen Cweibel*

Estelle Gordon

Gussie Gross

Jerome Jay

Ruth Karp

Beatrice Koss

Amy Babst

Harriet Blecher

Canter Hirsch L. Chazin*

Harry Goldhammer

Marvin Kolsby*

Doris Luterman

Dr. Jack David Levy*


We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.

 

CLICK HERE FOR EVENING SERVICE
CLICK HERE FOR MORNING SERVICE
Cake

Scott Ranani

January 7

Diane Buskirk

January 9

Kenneth Podos 

January 10

Joan Ely

January 11

Barbara Hirsh

January 11

Marilyn Hailperin

January 12


Jason & Jamie Wasserman

January 7

20th Anniversary

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CONTACT: 

rvalen1963@aol.com

MEET THE SOUP TROOP: Noralyn Carroll, Irene Babst and new member Robin Genna. They made soup in the JCC kitchen to be given to our members who are not feeling well. Contact Irene or Noralyn if you or if you know of a member who needs some Jewish penicillin. Local delivery only!

CARING COMMITTEE

  

This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.

Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349 

YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.

Go to jccoflbi.org - community - forms

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb z"l and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2023 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

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JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
JCC LEADERSHIP

OFFICERS
President- Phil Rosenzweig
1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman
2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman
3RD Vice President- Rose Valentine
Treasurer- Ira Morgenthal
Secretary- Cliff Denker
Immediate Past President -Michael Babst

BOARD MEMBERS
Howard Babbitt 
Diane Buskirk
Mitch Frumkin

Jon Geier

Paul Levine

Ken Podos

Terri Robinovitz

David Shatz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman



WOMEN'S AUXILIARY


President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst

JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2

CLOSED THURSDAY


CLOSED

12/25 & 12/31



 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Irene Babst

Contributing Columnist

Sheila Weisel