JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER




November 22, 2024

21 Cheshvan 5785




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Happy thanksgiving

A Prayer for the Thanksgiving Feast

From Talking to God by Rabbi Naomi Levy



For the laughter of children,

For my own life breath,

For the abundance of food on this table,

For the ones who prepared this sumptuous feast,

For the roof over our heads,

The clothes on our backs,

For our health,

And our wealth of blessings,

For this opportunity to celebrate with family and friends,

For the freedom to pray these words

Without fear,

In any language

In any faith,

In this great country,

Whose landscape is as vast and beautiful as her inhabitants.

Thank You, God, for giving us all these. Amen



A TORAH MESSAGE

FROM THE RABBI


This week’s Torah portion is about what happens after the death of our matriarch, Sarah. Though it is about her death, the portion starts with the phrase, “The Life of Sarah”. If the Torah portion is all about what happens after her death, why would it start with the phrase: “The Life of Sarah?”


There are many possible responses to this question, but I think that the simplest answer is also the most useful.


It starts with “The life of Sarah” because, when someone passes, we should not focus on the death of that person. Instead, it is best for us to focus on that person’s life. We want to conjure up memories of what our loved one did while alive. We want to remember the funny things that happened and the good things that happened. We want to remember the jokes, and the laughs, the songs, and the dancing. We want to remember the vibrancy and the intimacy. 


The memories bring our loved ones near to us. So near, that we believe we can touch, see, hear, and smell the one we’ve physically lost.  When we remember a person, a loved one, a life, it creates a smile in our very soul.


The answer is clear. Yes, Sarah died. But remembering her life, all 100 years, and 20 years, and 7 years of it, is what we need to do to help us to live our best lives.


Death is a moment in time. The memories of the life lived fill a universe.


Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay



Join the Pickleball Group for Minyan at the JCC at 9 AM this Sunday. Enjoy Bagels. Lox, Cream Cheese, Coffee amd Tea. Play, Learn to Play or just enjoy schmoozing. Hope to see you there!!!!!

Candle Lighting Time

(Southern Ocean County)

Shabbat Eve

Friday. November 22, 2024

PM

JOIN US FOR

SERVICES

Friday, November 22, 2024

7:30 PM

ON ZOOM ONLY

Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday, November 23, 2024

9:00 AM

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SHABBAT


TORAH READING

Parashat Chayei Sara

Genesis 23:1-25:18

The portion opens as Sarah dies and Abraham buys the Cave of Machpelah to bury her. Abraham sends his servant to find a wife for Isaac. The servant meets Rebecca at a well, and Rebecca returns with the servant to marry Isaac.

Here is Parshah


HAFTORAH

I Kings 1:1-31

This week's haftorah describes an aging King David, echoing this week's Torah reading, which mentions that "Abraham was was old, advanced in days.

Here is the Haftorah


WEEKDAY SERVICES

NO SERVICES THANKSGIVING DAY


Sunday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday- Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT



Brunch at Jersey Girls, Beach Haven last Friday.


A special story evolved at brunch. To hear the story I'm calling "When Saba met Zippi" CLICK HERE


A very informative Sunday afternoon was spent at the Barnegat Museum Lighthouse. Thanks to the talk by curator Reilly Sharp and docent Mark Lipman we know so much more of the history of the North End of our Island. Special kudos to Joyce Levine and Judith Lipman for the beautiful and delicious fruit and cheese platter they created and to Noralyn Carroll for putting this program together.


Thank you to Rabbi Jay for leading a facinating WAX discussion of the book "The Little Liar" by Mitch Albom. Here is the video of the program.


Kol Hakavod to the WAX for their wonderful programming and events.


The JCC section at Crescent Memorial Park is available for sales. Please contact Bonni Rubin-Sugarman at 609-417-7148.



SUNDAY, November 24

Pickleball (see times below)

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TUESDAY, November 26

Pickleball (See times below)

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WEDNESDAY, November 27

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 PM


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THURSDAY, November 28

ALL EVENTS CANCELLED

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FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 29

NO Studying the Prophets



PICKLEBALL SCHEDULE

Friday , December 6

Shabbat Dinner

6:30 PM

Sponsored by Harold Farin

in honor of his 90th Birthday


Sunday, December 8

PJP Travel Program

Jewish Yemen

1:00 PM


Thursday, December 12

PJP Israel Program

Political Dynamics of the Israeli-Palestinian Conflict

8:30 PM


Wednesday, December 18

WAX Book Club

4:00 PM


Thursday, December 19

PJP John Kendrick Series

Joan Rivers

8:30 PM


Friday, December 20

WAX Brunch at Kubels

11:30 AM


Thursday, December 31

New Year’s Eve Party at the JCC

8:30 PM

Pickleball for members only

Tuesdays, Thursdays, Sundays

MAH JONGG & CANASTA


WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM


JCC WOMEN’S AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION

 WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM

NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING


NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING


Wednesday, December 18th at 4:00 pm

Discussion Leader: TBA

Sacred Trash: The Lost and Found World of the Cairo Geniza

By: Adina Hoffman and Peter Cole


One May day in 1896, at a dining-room table in Cambridge, England, a meeting took place

between a Romanian-born maverick Jewish intellectual and twin learned Presbyterian

Scotswomen, who had assembled to inspect several pieces of rag paper and parchment. It was the unlikely start to what would prove a remarkable, continent-hopping, century-crossing saga, and one that in many ways has revolutionized our sense of what it means to lead a Jewish life.

In Sacred Trash, MacArthur-winning poet and translator Peter Cole and acclaimed essayist Adina Hoffman tell the story of the retrieval from an Egyptian genizah, or repository for worn-out texts, of the most vital cache of Jewish manuscripts ever discovered. This tale of buried scholarly treasure weaves together unforgettable portraits of Solomon Schechter and the other heroes of this drama with explorations of the medieval documents themselves—letters and poems, wills and marriage contracts, Bibles, money orders, fiery dissenting tracts, fashion-conscious trousseaux lists, prescriptions, petitions, and mysterious magical charms. Presenting a panoramic view of nine hundred years of vibrant Mediterranean Judaism, Hoffman and Cole bring modern readers into the heart of this little-known trove, whose contents have rightly been dubbed “the Living Sea Scrolls.” Part biography and part meditation on the supreme value the Jewish people has long placed on the written word, Sacred Trash is above all a gripping tale of adventure and redemption.


PJP PROGRAMS


As part of the PJP consortium the JCC is privy to many outstanding programs.



Travel around the world to Jewish neighborhoods...Study the ever complex dynamics of Eretz Yisrael...Enjoy stories of famous Jewish commedians,,,,


Zoom link will be published prior to each program....

CLICK HERE FOR THE PAVER WORK SHEET



We are very excited to add to the WAX Gift Shop items from local merchants and artisans. Stop in to look and buy one (or more) of these beautiful pieces for your home, as a gift or just for yourself. Here is a sample of some of our new products. The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.

Eileen Jacobs, Potter

Seacrest Designs

Lavina Haven Soy Candles and

Essential Oil Soaps

Mezzuzahs

Resin Bowls and Candlesticks by Seacrest Designs

CONGREGATION NEWS


The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Helene Geier

Martin Samwick

Naomi Greenberg

Alex Hirsch

Elaine Ives-Cameron

Susan Ossanna

David Plotkin

Joseph Sherman

Max Silver

Manuel Smith*

Rhea Britz*

Gladys Krechovitz*

Abraham Lazar

Evelyn B. Sholin

Paul Starr

Jerome Szanger*

Harold Eiser

Mildred Greenwald*

Ernst Halpern

Yetta Houzman

Isadore Isaac Levy

Glen Medvin*

Claire Seavey

Irving Shapiro

Eli Starr, MD

Sophia Ehrlich

Nisson Ben-Avraham

Ida Koupf

Gail Merson

Julius Rosenthal

Laurence Sherman

Sidney Miller

Dave Rothenberg

 

We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.

CLICK HERE FOR EVENING SERVICE
CLICK HERE FOR MORNING SERVICE
Cake

Renee Van Naarden

November 23


Dale Morgenstern

November 25


Judy Nelson

November 25


Howard Cohen

November 26


Michelle Ehrich

November 26


Robert Finkel

November 26


Adam Meyers

November 26


Eleanore Elephant

November 27


Joshua Braun

November 28


Rachel Freiberg Leventhal

November 28


Sondi Pripstein

November 28

Steven & Arlene Silverman

November 23

39th Anniversary

David & Sharon Hendler

November 25

40th Anniversary

Martin & Norma Hochman

November 25

65th Anniversary

Gerald Faich & Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

November 28

11th Anniversary

MAZEL TOV


DON PRIPSTEIN

on the

birth of his great grandson

Wesley Thomas Manchin

son of Lindsay Thomas & Christian oManchin

grandson of Elaine Pripstein Thomas


LYNN & BARRY SHERMAN

on the birth of their grandson

Harris Lewis Sherman



SHARE YOUR NEWS

AND PICTURES


CONTACT: 

rvalen1963@aol.com


CARING COMMITTEE

  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.

LYPlease contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349 

FEDERATION NEWS....

TO RESERVE A TICKET CLICK HERE

YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.


Go to jccoflbi.org - Giving/Pay

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2024 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW



JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP



OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Jon Geier

Treasurer- Stu Cofsky

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Lorna Klein

Paul Levine

Ken Podos


Sondi Pripstein

Terri Robinovitz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

Rose Valentine

Ken Yudman


WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst

Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein


Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader


JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2




 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Irene Babst