JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

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November 8, 2024

7 Cheshvan 5785




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A TORAH MESSAGE

FROM THE RABBI


In this week’s Torah portion, Lech Lecha, God tells Avram (soon to be Avraham) to “Go forth from your native land and from your father’s house to the land that I will show you.” The land, it turns out, is Canaan. At the time of his departure, Avram leaves behind his aging father. This, seemingly selfish act, is compounded by the fact that Avram’s father has already has a son who died.


The story, as it unfolds, is compelling. Avram leaves his father behind and makes a name for himself. But there is more to the story. You see, if you go back just a few verses to the end of Parashat Noach, you will see that Avram’s father actually had been travelling to Canaan when, for some unknown reason, he stops in Haran.


It is sometime after the family stops its excursion to Canaan that God tells Avram to leave. 


Sometimes we start something and, for whatever reason, we need to stop. Abraham’s journey did not start with him. It started with his father. It will continue with his son (Isaac), his grandson(Jacob), and his great grandchildren (the 12 tribes). Indeed, it continues to today.


The message is three-fold.  


First, we cannot expect to finish all of the tasks we have planned. Life just isn’t that way. Indeed, Pirkei Avot reports that Rabbi Tarfon]used to say: “It is not your duty to finish the work, but neither are you at liberty to neglect it.” If you have a worthy task, you should undertake, but you do not have to finish it. 


This leads to the second message.  You should pass your dreams on to your children or someone else.


And finally, it is okay to begin where another has ended. Indeed, by continuing his father’s journey, Avram is honoring him. Avraham’s story may be as much about finishing what his father started as it is about being commanded by God to go.


One last thing. Near the end of this Torah portion, God changes “Avram’s” name to “Avraham” and “Sarai’s” name to “Sarah”.  There are many reasons given for the change and, if you email or text me, we can find a time to discuss them. For right now, I have a simple assignment for you. If you could change your name, what would you change it to?


Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay



Thank you for all the many calls, texts and emails wishing me well after my surgery.


Rabbi Jay

Candle Lighting Time

(Southern Ocean County)

Shabbat Eve

Friday. November 8, 2024

4:30 PM

JOIN US FOR

SERVICES

Friday, November 8, 2024

7:30 PM

ON ZOOM ONLY


RABBI RICHARD HAMMERMAN WILL BE LEADING SERVICES

Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT



Saturday, November 9, 2024

9:00 AM

ON ZOOM ONLY

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SHABBAT


TORAH READING

Parashat Lech-Lecha

Genesis 12:1-17:27

Lech Lecha (“Go Forth”) recounts Abraham’s (here known as Abram) first encounter with God, his journey to Canaan, the birth of his son Ishmael, the covenant between him, his descendants, and God, and God’s commandment to circumcise the males of his household

Here is Parshah


HAFTORAH

Isaiah 40:27-41:16

The haftorah for this week discusses Abraham's journey to the land of Canaan at G‑d's behest, and touches upon Abraham's miraculous battle against the four kings, both of which are described in this week's Torah reading. It teaches the importance of not giving up.

Here is the Haftorah


WEEKDAY SERVICES


Sunday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday- Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM


Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT

NOVEMBER SERVICE SCHEDULE


Friday evenings

7:30 PM

ZOOM ONLY


Saturday Mornings

9:00 AM

November 9 & 30

ZOOM ONLY


November 16 & 23

IN PERSON

AND ON ZOOM


Holocaust Research Center Director

Irvin Moreno-Rodriquez

Nestled in the Pinelands, just off exit 44 on the GSP and about 35 minutes from LBI is Stockton University. Last Friday a group of JCCers visited the sprawling campus for a program at the Sara & Sam Schoffer Holocaust Resource Center. The group was spellbound by the presentation by the Center's Director Irvin Moreno-Rodriquez and of the work the Center is doing. Facinating was the program we saw with survivor Ed Mosberg of blessed memory. His testimony was recorded and the audience has the oportunity to ask him questions and he responds on the screen. To see this for yourselves CLICK HERE. Pictured above is the entrance to the Center (which is being renovated) with railroad tracks from the Shoah above the doors; the wall of South Jersey survivors who have passed away with their photos and stories - a pictorial Yahrzeit wall; the mural of a typical Amsterdam street as we are explained the challenges of hiding in a city of canals.


We can't go anywhere without eating, so most of the group traveled a few miles to Smithville Village to have lunch at the Smithville Inn and to walk around the shoppes. Thank you to Jill Denker for organizing this wonderful day. Pictured below is our lunch group. Jill took the picture but she is still in the photo. Can you guess where?

FROM THE EDITOR -


This is Naftali Aklum. He is a Jew - a proud Ethiopian Jew whose ancestors most likely are the decendents of the tribe of Dan who traveled to Ethiopia following the destruction of the First Temple. He is a proud Israeli who made the dangerous trek with his family to Israel at the age of one.


Last Sunday we heard his story and the story of the Ethiopian Jews on the Zoom program provided through our partnership with PJP (Partners in Jewish Programming). I was awe struck by his presentation as he took us through the plight of Jews trying to get to the Promised Land as well as their integration into the Israeli community.


I urge you to take the time to view this program. Here is the link. The password is p4^gR%PZ . If you wish to continue your education on this subject, there is an excellent film on Netflix called the "The Red Sea Diving Hotel." See the trailer below. His brother Ferede is a featured character in the film. In addition, you can help the Ethopian community in Israel by tutoring English through the organization Skilled Volunteers for Israel.


ROSE


SUNDAY, November 10

Pickleball (see times below)

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TUESDAY, November 12

Pickleball (See times below)

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WEDNESDAY, November 13

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 PM

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THURSDAY, November 15

Pickleball (See times below)


Torah Study with Rabbi Jay

11:00 AM


Davening & Duchaning Class

with Stu

7:45 PM After 7:30 Minyan


PJP Israel Series

“Between Arabic and Hebrew: Mizrahi Culture in Israel”

 8:30 PM

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FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 8

Studying the Prophets

following morning minyan


WAX Brunch at Jersey Girls

11:00 AM


PICKLEBALL SCHEDULE

Thursday, November 14 & 21

Davening & Duchaning Class

with Stu

After evening Minyan


Thursday, November 14

PJP Israel Series

“Between Arabic and Hebrew: Mizrahi Culture in Israel”

 8:30 PM


Friday, November 15

WAX Brunch at Jersey Girls

11:00 AM


Sunday, November 17

Barnegat Light Museum Lecture

2:00 PM


Wednesday, November 20

WAX Book Club

4:00 PM


Thursday, November 21

PJP John Kendrick Series

Danny Kay

8:30 PM

Pickleball for members only

Tuesdays, Thursdays, Sundays

MAH JONGG & CANASTA


WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM


CLICK HERE FOR THURSDAY TORAH STUDY
CLICK HERE FOR THURSDAY DAVENING CLASS
CLICK HERE FOR THURSDAY PJP PROGRAM DUET ON PSALMS
CLICK HERE FOR  FRIDAY PROPHETS CLASS 


Please join the JCC’s newest 2-part course:

DAVENING & DUCHANING 101

with Stu Lehrer

 

DAVENING

Take a trek through the Sidur & Chumash with our varied prayers & writings learning the eclectic customs, traditions, & laws that have been carried on from generation to generation with twists & variations from the Ashkenazic & Sephardic venues

  

DUCHANING

From the time of Aaron, the first High Priest, chosen among his many duties, to bless the Children of Israel, Birchat HaKohanim or Duchaning has been a poignant service engaging till today

  

DAVENING & DUCHANING 101 

will be conducted on Zoom only on Thursday Nights following Ma’ariv which begins at 7:30 PM

Each class will last about 30 minutes of 6 sessions each:

November 7 – 14 – 21 – December 5 – 12 & it’s free!



CLICK HERE TO JOIN THE CLASS

JCC WOMEN’S AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION

 WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM

NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING


NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING


Wednesday, November 20th at 4:00 pm

Discussion Leader: TBA

The Little Liar

By: Mitch Albom

Eleven-year-old Nico Krispis has never told a lie. His schoolmate, Fannie, loves him because of it. Nico’s older brother Sebastian resents him for both these facts.When their young lives are torn apart during the war, it will take them decades to find each other again. Nico’s innocence and goodness is used against his tightly knit community when a German officer barters Nico’s reputation for honesty into a promise to save his loved ones. When Nico realizes the consequences of the betrayal, he can never tell the truth again. He will spend the rest of this life changing names, people he loves most. Albom’s extraordinary storytelling is at its powerful best in his first novel to confront the destruction that lying can wreak both on the world stage as well as on the individual lives that get caught up in it. As The Stranger in the Lifeboat spoke to belief, The Little Liar speaks to hope, in a breathless page-turner that will break your heart open and fill it with the power of the human spirit and the goodness that lies within us all. Narrated by the voice of Truth itself, The Little Liar is a timeless story about the power of love to ultimately redeem us, no matter how deeply we blame ourselves for our mistakes.

PJP PROGRAMS


As part of the PJP consortium the JCC is privy to many outstanding programs.



Travel around the world to Jewish neighborhoods...Study the ever complex dynamics of Eretz Yisrael...Enjoy stories of famous Jewish commedians,,,,


Zoom link will be published prior to each program....

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CLICK HERE FOR THE PAVER WORK SHEET



We are very excited to add to the WAX Gift Shop items from local merchants and artisans. Stop in to look and buy one (or more) of these beautiful pieces for your home, as a gift or just for yourself. Here is a sample of some of our new products. The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.

Eileen Jacobs, Potter

Seacrest Designs

Lavina Haven Soy Candles and

Essential Oil Soaps

Mezzuzahs

Resin Bowls and Candlesticks by Seacrest Designs

CONGREGATION NEWS


The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Beatrice Brody

Philip Petter

Marvin Schub

Mary Sisenwine

Anna Stuhl

Francis Wallach

Arthur Wichman

Donna Greenberg

Joseph Hirschman

Harry Liebowitz

Minnie Miller*

Lillian Callet*

Klara Myers Furman

Gloria Gates

Herman Paris

Susan Dondershine

Shirley Millstein Fruchtman*

Ethel Salonsky

Manny Grossman

Matthew Muscente

Judith Pripstein*

Albert Rutman*

Norma Schey

Betty Steigerwald


We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.

CLICK HERE FOR EVENING SERVICE
CLICK HERE FOR MORNING SERVICE
Cake

Harold Farin

November 10

Mark Pass

November 12

Debra Levy

November 14


Gerard & Robin Genna

November 9

34th Anniversary

Harris & Michelle Goldman

November 11

24th Anniversary

Marc & Judith Landis

November 15

26th Anniversary 

HAROLD FARIN

90 YEARS YOUNG

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AND PICTURES


CONTACT: 

rvalen1963@aol.com


CARING COMMITTEE

  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.

Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349 

YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.


Go to jccoflbi.org - Giving/Pay

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2024 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW



JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP



OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Jon Geier

Treasurer- Stu Cofsky

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Lorna Klein

Paul Levine

Ken Podos


Sondi Pripstein

Terri Robinovitz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

Rose Valentine

Ken Yudman


WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst

Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein


Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader


JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2




 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Irene Babst