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JEWISH COMMUNITY
CENTER OF
LONG BEACH ISLAND
E-LETTER
December 12, 2025
22 Kislev 5786
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A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI
It all started with: “A whole bunch of latkes, my father’s recipe”. It was Eight words, one for each day of the holiday. And it seems trite enough, but it hit somewhere in my kishkes. Let me explain. I was texting with Jon Geier about our JCC Shabbat Hanukkah Dinner on Friday, December 19th (Join us!). We were planning the evening and ultimately, as it always seems to do with us Jews, the topic turned to food and Jon wrote that he would be making the latkes. “A whole bunch of latkes, my father’s recipe.”
My Neshama was humming, forcing me to pay attention. Ultimately, I realized that this simple text drove home to me what Hanukkah is about. Yes, it is about the Maccabees and their great and surprising victory over the Greek army. And yes, it is about the re-dedication of the Temple after the Greeks defiled it. And yes, it is about the miracle of the oil that, when lit, was supposed to last for one day but lasted 8.(Hence eight nights of lighting a menorah).
But what now hit me was that it is also about personal tradition, and memories, and smells, and sounds, and tastes. It’s about laughter and hugs, and singing, and giving gifts, and opening gifts.
Remembering why we, as the Jewish, celebrate the holiday, and how we traditionally do so, is important. But equally important are those very personal connections. Dad’s latkes, Grandma’s Sufganiyot(jelly donuts), the way grandpa stacked the logs in the fireplace, the way Uncle Moishe handed out the gelt. Football in the cold. Using the Menorah our daughter made in kindergarten.
The tradition is passed down in many ways. But regardless of the way it is passed, the connective tissue is very strong. For one person the holiday is about the latkes. To someone else, the same holiday, is about lighting a specific Menorah. To another person it is opening gifts or eating Sufganiyot. The Hanukkah story itself (as important as it is to me, your humble Rabbi), becomes the background (albeit a strong background) to the things that become important to each of us individually.
It is important feel connected all the way back to Judah Maccabee and to understand the holiday’s genesis. It is necessary to light the menorah in memory of strength and the re-dedicated Temple. It is important to sing the Hanukkah songs and spin the dreidel. But it is equally vital that we create, for us, and for our children, and for our grandchildren, those very personal memories that will light our internal candles which will then light the candles of the next generation.
Jon’s father’s latkes recipe connects Jon and his family to Jon’s dad, and to innumerable generations before him. At the same time, it also connects him to the holiday and to the Jewish people. It’s not a just recipe. It is Torah and it is prayer.
Our traditions have always been a foundation for each Jew. I now realize through “A whole bunch of latkes, my father’s recipe”, that each Jew can be a foundation for our traditions.
I have one more thought:
This year, in view of the continuing increase in antisemitic rhetoric, please do not forget an important mitzvah for Hanukkah, pirsumei nisa, publicizing the miracle. A core principle of Hanukkah is emphasizing the mitzvah (commandment) to openly display the holiday's miracles, most famously by placing the Menorah ( Hanukkiah ) in a window or doorway so passersby can see the lights. This act of public witness combats attempts to suppress Jewish identity, turning the private miracle into a public declaration of God's hidden presence in the world. To do this, our Menorah’s should be placed in a window or doorway for the world to see that we are remembering our holiday, God’s miracles, and that our light will not be doused.
Shabbat Shalom and Chag Urim Sameach (A Happy Festival of Lights) – Rabbi Michael S. Jay
| Rabbi Jay will be in his office at the JCC after services on Saturday. The Rabbi is also available at any time or place to schedule in-person, or virtual meetings at your convenience. The Rabbi can be reached by call/text 973-865-9534 or email at Mjayrabrab@gmail.com | | | |
Candle Lighting Time
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Shabbat Eve
Friday, December 12, 2025
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December 12, 2024
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TORAH READING
Parashat Vayeshev
Genesis 37:1-40:23
Vayeshev (“He Settled”) begins the story of Joseph, describing his rivalry with his brothers, slavery in Egypt, and imprisonment after his master’s wife frames him in response to Joseph’s refusal of her advances. It also contains the story of Tamar, her husbands, and her father-in-law, Judah.
Here is the Portion
HAFTORAH
Amos 2:6-3:8
In this Haftorah you read about the transgression of " selling a righteous man for silver, and a destitute one for the sake of a pair of shoes”. The Midrash tells us that the meaning of the verse is in fact a description of what happened at the sale of Joseph many centuries earlier. The brothers had indeed “sold an innocent man for silver and a destitute one for the sake of a pair of shoes,” for according to the Midrash, after selling Joseph for twenty silver pieces, each brother took two pieces and bought with them a pair of shoes.
Here is the Haftorah
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Hanukkah begins when the sun goes down on
Sunday, Dec. 14, 2025
and lasts until sundown on
Monday, Dec. 22, 2025.
1st Candle at 4:56pm Southern Ocean County
Mark your calendars!
From Dec. 14–22, 2025, it’s time to light the menorah,
spin the dreidel,
and eat all the latkes you can handle.
Gather your family and friends,
swap some stories,
laugh a lot,
and enjoy every bit of this Festival of Lights.
from Jewbelong
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Jewbelong’s Hanukkah Guide includes
the traditional blessings,
plus updated ones for each night
that you’ll actually relate to,
and two fun skits.
CLICK HERE TO DOWNLOAD
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Chanukah’s defining commandment
pirsum ha-nes
(publicly proclaiming the miracle) asks us to put our menorahs in our windows for all to see.
We'd love to share your Chanukah pictures with the congregation. Just forward them to rvalen1963@aol.com
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Sheet Pan Latkes
Prep Time 15 minutes Cook Time 12 minutes
Total Time 30 minutes
from jamiegeller.com
Servings
4 Servings
Equipment
Ingredients
- ¼ cup extra virgin olive oil
- 2 medium russet potatoes (about 1 pound total), grated and squeezed dry
- 1 small onion grated
- 1 large egg beaten
- 1 tablespoon all-purpose flour
- 1 teaspoon kosher salt
- ¼ teaspoon freshly cracked black pepper
Instructions
- Preheat oven to 400 ℉. Pour ¼ cup evoo in a half sheet pan (or a sheet pan that fits in your oven). Place pan in oven for ten minutes until evoo is hot.
- In a medium bowl, combine grated potatoes, onions, egg, flour, salt and pepper. Mix well.
- Remove hot pan from oven and scoop out ⅛ cup batter onto baking pan to make about 8 latkes.
- Place in oven and “fry” for 6 minutes or until edges are golden brown. Remove pan from oven, use a spatula to flip the latkes and cook an additional 4-6 minutes. Serve hot.
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Easy Jelly Donut Recipe
Using premade biscuit dough makes sufganiyot easier than ever to make at home.
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Total Time: 10 minutes Yield: 24 mini or 8 large
Ingredients
- 1 package refrigerated biscuit dough
- vegetable oil, for frying
- jam, prepared pudding, Nutella or other filling
- powdered sugar
Instructions
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Heat around 3 inches of oil in a large, deep pan over medium-high heat (oil should be 350°F). To see if the oil is hot enough, use a thermometer or place wooden skewer into the oil. If small bubbles appear, it’s ready for frying.
- Remove biscuits from the can. To make small donuts, cut into rounds using a soda cap or other small circular device. Or you can fry the biscuits as is.
- Drop the small donuts in 5-6 at a time; for full biscuits, 2-3 at a time. Fry for 1-2 minutes on each side, until just golden brown.
- Using a spider or slotted spoon, remove from oil and place on a wire rack. Allow to cool completely.
- Stick a wooden skewer into one side of each donut and create space inside by wiggling it around gently.
- Fill a piping bag with your filling of choice and gently insert into the hole. Gently squeeze filling into each donut.
- Dust with powdered sugar.
Notes
You will need a wooden skewer and a piping bag for this recipe.
from theNosher
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SUNDAY, December 14
Pickleball
10 AM - 1 PM
PJP Shtetl Series
1:00 PM
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TUESDAY, December 16
Pickleball
10 AM - 1 PM
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WEDNESDAY, December 17
WAX Book Club
4:00 PM
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THURSDAY, December 18
Pickleball
10 AM - 1 PM
Torah Study
11:00 AM
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FRIDAY, December 19
Studying the Prophets
following morning minyan
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Friday, December 12
WAX Brunch
at Beach Bum
11:00 AM
Sunday, December 14
PJP Shtetl Series
“Exploring the Lives of Jewish Children in Eastern Europe”
1:00 PM
Wednesday, December 17
WAX Book Club
Alliyah: A Jewish Family Saga
by Harold Emanuel
4:00 PM
Friday, December 19
Hanukah Shabbat Dinner
6:00 PM
Wednesday December 31
New Year's Eve Celebration
8:30 PM
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MAH JONGG & CANASTA
WEDNESDAYS
12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM
NO GAMES UNTIL JANUARY 7
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PICKLEBALL
Sundays, Tuesdays and Thursdays
10 - 1
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NEW LIST OF
2026 JCC OF LBI EVENTS
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Sunday, December 14 @ 1:00 PM
“Exploring the Lives of Jewish Children in Eastern Europe”
Discover the rich tapestry of Jewish childhood in the shtetl, exploring daily life, family traditions, and the community bonds that shaped the futures of young lives in Eastern Europe.
Evgenia Kempinski is a professional Jewish tour guide, born and raised in St. Petersburg, Russia. With over fifteen years of experience guiding Jewish heritage tours in her hometown, she has developed a deep passion for uncovering and sharing the stories of the Jewish Diaspora. With her family she spent six enriching years living in Israel and now resides in Barcelona, continuing her mission to connect people with Jewish history and culture around the world. She is the founder of the Online Jewish Travel Club, a vibrant community that brings together Jews from different countries through a shared love of travel,art, and Jewish heritage.
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"Jewish Panama" with David Mizrachi Fidanque
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"Virtual Tour of the Weitzman National Museum of American Jewish History"
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DEADLINE FOR RESERVATIONS FOR DINNER
MONDAY DECEMBER 15
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Wednesday, December 17th at 4:00 pm
Discussion Leader: TBA
Aliyah: A Jewish Family Saga
By Harold Emanuel
Unfolding Jewish Journey: From Warsaw to Manhattan, Hermanski Family Battles Adversity, Embraces America, Engages in History, Preserves Faith & Tradition.
Immerse yourself in the captivating narrative of Aliyah - A Jewish Family Saga, which chronicles the tumultuous journey of 16-year-old Lazar Hermanski and his
12-year-old brother, Mendel. The tale begins in the heart of the 1881 Warsaw Christmas Day pogrom, a turning point that propels the young protagonists and his soon-to-be wife, 14-year-old Daria Solov, to seek an uncertain future in Manhattan's Lower East Side. While the Hermanskis strive to blend into the fabric of American society, they grapple with maintaining their Jewish traditions. The struggle between preserving their heritage while acclimating to their new homeland forms the crux of the narrative. Aliyah - A Jewish Family Saga paints a vivid picture of an era filled with change and opportunity, making it an engaging read for those interested in historical novels that explore the complexities of immigration, cultural assimilation, and the resilience of the human spirit.
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BOOKS TO GIFT YOUR CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDREN
both available on Amazon
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If you have a middle school child in your family, we would like to recommend that you share this new novel with them. It is entitled "Don't Feed the Lion" and was written by Bianna Golodryga and Yonit Levi. Just published, it is geared to middle school students and is a "much needed young reader’s novel dealing with antisemitism." according to the Jewish Journal.
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This soccer book was written to honor the life and legacy of Alyssa Alhadeff, a young woman whose love for the game radiated through every step she took on the field. Authored by Lori Alhadeff, Alyssa's mother, and JCC member and Alyssa's grandmother, Terri Robinovitz, all proceeds are donated to MakeOurSchoolsSafe.
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We are very excited to add to the WAX Gift Shop items from local merchants and artisans. Stop in to look and buy one (or more) of these beautiful pieces for your home, as a gift or just for yourself.
The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.
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484-802-0586
SEE ORDER FORM BELOW
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STU’s A-STU-TE SAYINGS HANUKKAH
Hanukkah begins Sunday Night-December 14 – We are sure everyone knows the story of Hanukkah but here are some Hanukkah Funakah stu-ff for you
· Back in the day, Rabbi Hillel and Rabbi Shamai who were BFFs disagreed on how to light our candles [or oil wicks] – Rabbi Shamai said we light 8 on the 1st night, then 7 on the 2nd and so on – Rabbi Hillel felt it should be 1 on the1st night then progressively with an additional candle until the 8th night. Rabbi Hillel thought that we should increase the light each night. [we follow Rabbi Hillel].
· Why 8 days? It is said that when the Jews conquered the enemy to re-dedicate the Holy Temple [Hanukkah means dedication; the holiday, in part, celebrates the re-dedication of the Temple], they found a jar of oil that would keep the Menorah lit for just one day. Miraculously it remained lit for 8 days! [who doesn’t like miracles?] – Actually, it took 8 days to make the olives into the pure oil needed to light the Menorah.
· The Menorahs that are in every Synagogue have 7 branches – What we use to light the candles or oil wicks on Hanukkah is actually called a “Hanukkia”.
· Oil plays an integral part of our celebrating the Festival of Lights which explains one reason why we cook our delicacies, such as Latkes and Sufgayanote [donuts], in ‘shemen’ [oil]
· As with everything Jewish, there are a myriad of reasons for why things happen and are done as with the Dreidel – First the 4 sides of the dreidel has the Hebrew letters of Nun, Gimel, Hey, Shin which stands for Nas HaGadol, Ha’yah, Sham or “A Great Miracle Happened There”, meaning “Israel”. whereas in Israel, the Dreidels have a Pey instead of a Shin which changes the phrase to: “A Great Miracle Happened Here”, meaning Israel.
· One explanation of the advent of the Dreidel goes back to the days when Jews were forbidden to study their holy texts. To avoid the rule, they posed a sentry outside their houses of study and, when the soldiers approached, the warning went out and the Learners would hide their Talmuds and Tanakhs, and bring out their toy tops. When the soldiers approached the scene, they would mock the Jews. But when the evil marauders left, the clever Jews returned to their learning and studies.
· Hanukkah falls in 2 Hebrew months: Kislev and Tevet – When the new month of Tevet [Rosh Chodesh] lands on Shabat Hanukkah: we then remove 3 Torahs from the Ark as we have a plethora of appropriate Torah readings – This occurrence happens so rarely that it’s literally just a few times in a century
Happy Hanukkah to all – May all your Dreidel spins land on Gimel – May you enjoy the sweet delicacies including gelt, & enjoy the gift of religious freedom!
Stu Lehrer
Ritual Chair
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The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:
Garret Emanuel Davis
Fred Lewisohn
Phyllis Schwartz
Albert Goldberg*
Emil Goldstein*
George Lakin
Charles Barsh
Helen Eisen
Ray Farin
Jack Newman*
John Patrician
M. Charles Ross
Arlene F. Scharf
May Barry
Ralph Celebre
Saul Hurwitz
Leanore S. Klein*
Jerome Odenheimer*
Stella Pervin*
Temi Saivetz*
Philip Schleifer
Samuel Tucker
Rachel Cherins
Herman Glassman*
Sol Grossman
Martha Rosenblith
Lionel Wolpert
Joseph Blumenthal*
Vivian Cohen
Arnold Schwartz
Marcia Yankowitz
Shari Tanya Zalkind*
Stanley Antonoff
Robert Salzman
Nathan Shapiro
Harvey Sherman
Joseph Valentine*
We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral.
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Arthur Davis
December 13
Larry Spitzer
December 13
Marlene Herman
December 14
Ruth Hochberger
December 15
Philip Rosenzweig
December 16
Stanley Spitzer
December 16
Martin G. Bershtein
December 18
Erez Halevah
December 19
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CARING COMMITTEE
This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.
Please contact Chairperson,
Debby Schweighardt
if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.
973-634-5349
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GIVING OPPORTUNITIES
PAVERS
Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building
8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"
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PAVER FORM
Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.
Purchase a personalized paving stone
in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.
Please contact Diane Hoffman
with your order or with any questions:
dihoff1@aol.com
PRAYER BOOKS
There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.
See Order form here: Prayer Book
TRIBUTES
SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF
See order form here: TRIBUTES
TREE OF LIFE
Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE
Bronze Leaf $90
Silver Leaf $126
Gold :Leaf $180
ENDOWMENT FUND
Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.
Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.
A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.
Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly.
YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary.
Here is the order form:
YAHRZEIT
KOL HAKAVOD
Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD
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JCC FUNDS
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Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.
ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.
GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.
KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.
RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.
ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
NER TAMID FUND
The Ner Tamid Fund was established in 2025 as part of the JCC’s 75th Anniversary Celebration. Its purpose is to fund necessary maintenance or improvement of our beautiful JCC building as well as the Parsonage. To ensure that the JCC remains an Eternal Light for the Jewish Community on and off the island and in Southern Ocean County generally, please consider making a separate donation to the Ner Tamid Fund, or allocating a small portion of your High Holiday donation to that fund.
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JCC LEADERSHIP
OFFICERS
President- Phil Rosenzweig
1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman
2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman
3RD Vice President- Jon Geier
Treasurer- Stu Cofsky
Secretary- Cliff Denker
Immediate Past President -Michael Babst
BOARD MEMBERS
Howard Babbitt
Diane Buskirk
Lorna Klein
Ken Podos
Sondi Pripstein
Terri Robinovitz
David Shatz
Bonni Rubin-Sugarman
Rose Valentine
Ken Yudman
WOMEN'S AUXILIARY
President - Diane Buskirk
Treasurer - Suzy Geier
Secretary - Joanne Babbitt
Lorna Klein
Joyce Levine
Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein
Immediate Past President - Irene Babst
Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader
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