Jewish Community Center of Long Beach Island E-Letter


December 24, 2021
20 Tevet 5782



A TORAH MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI
This may sound a bit weird, but you know that feeling you get when you are away from home for a long time and you find yourself for the first-time getting into your “comfortable” clothes and sitting in your favorite chair? Or when you go to your favorite pizza place and eat that perfect slice that you haven’t had in ages? Or when you get to spend some time with that friend whom you just never seem to see enough? It is a feeling of anticipation, of joy, of familiarity; and yet you often notice something you hadn’t seen before. This is how I feel each year as we start to read the Book of Exodus. 

I have been studying Torah, in a serious way, for around 30 years now and for a reason I cannot quite explain, the Book of Exodus is the piece of Torah that excites me the most. Perhaps it’s the epic nature of the central story. It tells of the advancement of the underdog, it teaches the importance of freedom, it shows us a nation forming, it exalts in the revelation. Or maybe it is that it essentially tells the story of the love of God for a particular people. Whatever the reason, my attachment to this Book of the Torah is visceral.

I am moved this year by the way the book begins. It lists the names of Jacob/Israel and his twelve sons. We already know them and, yet, we are given the names again. Indeed, the Rabbis call the Book of Exodus, “Shemot”, “names”. But why?

I think it is because we are about to shift to a big story that will shift the history of the Israelites. The Book begins by reminding us (and maybe the enslaved Israelites) where the Israelites came from. The Torah is saying: “You will be moving on, but you are forever connected to your past.” It is an important part of the story and it is an important part of who we are. I will be discussing more about this tomorrow at Kabbalat Shabbat services at 6:00.

Inasmuch as this Shabbat is Christmas for our Christian friends, much of the world will be closed down. This presents an excellent opportunity to study some Torah! Read the Torah portion here: https://www.sefaria.org/Exodus.1.1?lang=bi&aliyot=0
You will recognize most of it. It is relatively long, so you don’t have to read all of it. After you are done, look at my questions below. Extra credit to anyone who sends me an answer.

1)    Why are we given a genealogy at the very beginning when we just had one two weeks ago in Parashat Vayigash?
2)    Why did the Children of Israel multiply so quickly?
3)    How is it possible that Joseph was forgotten by a new Pharaoh?
4)    Did the Children of Israel do anything wrong to make the new Pharaoh suspect that they might be a problem in the future?
5)    How is it that the Israelites kept growing stronger even after they were being harassed and enslaved?
6)    Who are Puah and Shifrah? And are they Hebrew midwives, or midwives to the Hebrews?
7)    Is Pharaoh unbalanced? A midwife’s job is to bring life into this world. How likely would she be to kill the baby that she just birthed?
8)    How were the midwives rewarded by God?
9)    Who is commanded to throw the male babies into the water and whose babies are being thrown in?
10)What is it that Moses’ mother sees that enables her to come to the conclusion that Moses was “good”?
11)Have you noticed that all of the heroes in the first part of this story are women? (The midwives, Moses’ mother, Moses’ sister, Pharaoh’s daughter)
12)How did Pharaoh’s daughter know the baby in the basket was a Hebrew baby?
13)How old was Moses when his mother brought him back to Pharaoh’s daughter?
14)Did Moses know he was a Hebrew when he killed the Egyptian who had beaten the Hebrew slave?
15)Why did the Hebrews who were fighting the next day chastise Moses instead of thank him?
16)How long did it take Moses to get to Midian?
17)Is it funny that after Jethro learns that an Egyptian (Moses) has come to the aid of his daughters, that he tells his daughters to bring Moses so he can eat bread? (Given the fact that by the end of this story everyone will be eating Matzah).
18)The Hebrews were slaves for a very long time. Why did it take God so long to heart their moaning and to remember the covenant with Abraham Isaac and Jacob?
19)Why was there a fire in a thorn bush?
20)Why is it that Moses notices the bush?
21)Why does God call Moses’ name twice?
22)Why does God require Moses to take off his shoes?
23)Why does God choose Moses?
24)Why does God need Moses, or anyone else for that matter?
25)Why does Moses initially reject the task that God sends him on? (I know what he says in the Text, but how does one say “no” to God?
26)Why does Moses need to have a name for God?
27)What is the deal with God’s name, “I am that I am”, or, “I shall be what I shall be”?
28)God tells Moses to go to the Elders of Israel and tell them that God sent him. If you were the Elders of Israel, what would be your reaction to this statement from the former prince turned murderer, turned runaway?
29)What is God’s problem with Pharaoh?
30)Why does God make Moses take the staff and turn it into a snake? Why doesn’t God just do this Himself? 
31)What is the staff?
32)Why does Moses claim to be slow of speech?
33)Why does God get angry with Moses when Moses asks God to send someone else?
34)Why is Aaron necessary to the story?
35)Why does Jethro let his son-in-law leave without even a little argument?
36)We have read many stories about the First born son bowing to the younger son. Why does God refer to Israel as His first-born son?
37)If you were the Hebrews and Moses’ and Aaron’s actions made your life harder, how would you feel about Moses and Aaron? How would you feel about the God who sent them?

Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay
SHABBAT SHALOM

Candle lighting Time
Friday evening,
December 24, 2021
4:18 PM
So. Ocean County
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Friday evening
December 24, 2021
6:00 PM
ZOOM ONLY

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December 25, 2021
Services
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 Torah Reading:
Parashat Shemot
Exodus 1:1-6:1
Here is the Reading
Parashat Shemot tells of the Israelites' affliction in Egypt, the hiding and rescuing of the infant Moses, Moses in Midian, the calling of Moses, circumcision on the way, meeting the elders, and Moses before Pharaoh.
Haftorah
Isaiah 27:6-28:13, 29:22-23
Here is the Haftorah

Stu Lehrer will be chanting the Haftorah

TORAH STUDY
following services at @10:45 AM
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 Torah Study
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 Sunday - Thursday
Ma'ariv Service
7:30 PM

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Monday- Friday
Shacharit Service
8:15 AM
Sunday at 9:00 AM

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To all those who made donations of food and supplies to the St. Francis Food Bank. Donations are still needed and appreciated.
Here is one of the carts of food brought to St. Francis by some of our members in Mirage.
THIS WEEK'S ACTIVITIES


NO RABBI'S
CLASSES THIS WEEK

TUESDAY 12/28
12:30 - 4 PM
Open Mah jongg/Canasta


THURSDAY 12/30

2:00 PM Beginning Hebrew with Ira

Three interesting programs took place last week. Sunday Afternoon at the Movies had a nice turnout to watch this award winning film, Train of Life. Thank you to Ira Morgenthal for putting this program together.

Wednesday night many of you joined a few thousand Zoomers to hear the CAMERA seminar led by Jonah Cohen on how to respond to Antisemetic rhetoric in social and professional situations. A facinating and helpful program!!!! It was very exciting to see our logo listed with the other organizations who sponsored the program (see below). Thank you to David Shatz for bringing it to our attention.

Last and certainly not least, the WAX book review beautifully led by Marlene Herman stimulated a very interesting discussion. So many of those on Zoom had memories of their stays in the Catskill Hotels and shared them. In addition, there was a discussion about sharing our own stories with our children and grandchildren. There are several books/albums available to help you to put them into writing or you can create your own memory book. Here are some quetions to get you going. Don't wait until it is too late!!!!
  • “When did you know what you wanted to spend your life doing?” ... 
  • “Do you have any regrets?” ... 
  • “What is love?” ... 
  • “What is your favorite life accomplishment?” ... 
  • “How do you know if you're on the right path in life?” ... 
  • “What is the best advice you ever received?”

Taken from www.joincake.com

Jewish Community Center of Long Beach Island is pleased to present
Lainie Kazan
Up Close and Personal
Sunday, January 30, 2022
8:00 PM EST - Zoom
Arnold Brasch
Rose Dondershine*
Margie Miller
Katy Poster*
Abner Silver*
Sam Beckerman
MaryAnn Blum
William Carey
Laura B. Dicicco
Leo Labran
Melvin Margolis
Shirley Slomovitz
Beatrice Chazin
Jeanne Goldstein
Robert Heller
Edna Katz
William Markowitz*
Edward R. Spencer*
Rose Kanis
Betty Berger*
Ira Berger
Barbara Black
Bette Cohen*
Stanton Einhorn
Mark Fisch
Lenore Light
Albert Margent
Jean Schiller
Betty Glassman Sitzer*
Rebecca Weinstein
Beatrice Bernstein
Elaine Dover
Albert Fagan*
Barbara Frank

In this Zoom era, we have been able to have a daily minyan at 8:15 AM and at 7:30 PM and on Shabbat. We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.
Cake
Richard Feldgus
December 25
Lynn Levitt
December 25
Debra Belena
December 26
Marsha Chazin
December 26
Carol Koransky
December 26
Mark Rosenbloom
December 26
Shelly Roseff
December 27
Stuart Steigerwald
December 27
Joyce Levine
December 28
Carolyn Racusin
December 28
Barry Sherman
December 28
Kerry Iris
December 29
Natty Lapidus
December 29
Samuel Sisenwine
December 30
Joan Blattner
December 31
 
Jay & Barbara Berman
December 26th
62nd Anniversary
Clifford & Jill Denker
December 30th
37th Anniversary


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CARING COMMITTEE
  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.
Please contact Chairperson,
Debby Schweighardt
if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member
that needs our help.
973-634-5349 

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES

PAVERS
Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building
8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"

SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:
Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.
Purchase a personalized paving stone
in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.

Please contact Diane Hoffman
with your order or with any questions:


PRAYER BOOKS
There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.
See Order form here: Prayer Book


TRIBUTES
SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF
See order form here: TRIBUTES


TREE OF LIFE
Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE
Bronze Leaf $90
Silver Leaf $126
Gold :Leaf $180


ENDOWMENT FUND

Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.

Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.

A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.
 
Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 


YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 
Here is the order form: 


KOL HAKAVOD

Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD

JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC support our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
JCC INFORMATION

THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT
2411 Long Beach Boulevard (24th Street)
Spray Beach, NJ 08008
Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550
web site: www.jccoflbi.org  
  
THE OFFICE IS OPEN TUESDAY AD THURSDAYS
FROM 10 - 2
CONTINUE TO USE THE PHONE OR EMAIL WITH REQUESTS.
OUR OFFICE STAFF WILL BE CHECKING IN REGULARLY.


 Staff:
 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager
  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member
Kitchen Manager: Susan Berube


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CONTACT INFORMATION:
  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

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