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JEWISH COMMUNITY
CENTER OF
LONG BEACH ISLAND
E-LETTER
FEBRUARY 20, 2026
3 Adar 5786
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A TORAH MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI
As we were discussing the Torah today at our 11:00 study time, we were talking about the importance of God’s detailed instructions for the building of the Mishkan (The portable Tabernacle that accompanied the Israelites as they wandered in the wilderness.). We were discussing why the instructions needed to be so comprehensive and I remembered that I had written about this topic previously. So, here is my previously written Essay. By the way, join Us for Torah study!!! Here is the link: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/88250553113?pwd=K2VtUHRqeHVITXV1RmJNQk9ZL3lqQT09)
Please look for a small additional message at the end of this piece of prose. At any rate, without any further ado, I present to you, “God the Builder”:
“Make me a sanctuary that I may dwell among them”. These are God’s words to Moses at the very beginning of Parashat Terumah. I have written before about the brilliance of God’s decision to have the Israelites donate the raw materials for, and to build, the portable sanctuary.
The donations from the people would ensure that each person had a physical connection to God’s dwelling place (not dissimilar from the plaques that we place in modern synagogues to indicate who donated toward a new building). By taking part in the construction of the portable tabernacle, the Israelites had the satisfaction of knowing that they were physically involved in creating God’s home; it is human nature to feel a strong connection to the things that we create. That said, God gives very precise building instructions to the Israelites as if to say, “I believe in free-will, but I’m not leaving the construction of my portable home to the whim of my human creations.”
Something else dawns on me relative to this Torah portion. God only gives very specific instructions to build one other structure in the Torah. Do you know what that was?
I will give you 3 seconds to guess. Your 3 seconds are up……The answer is Noah’s ark.
If these are the only two places in the Torah where God provides architectural plans, is there a possible connection between Noah’s ark and the Mishkan? I am not sure. In both, the instructions are detailed; however, the structures do not appear to have additional physical similarities.
They both were intended as temporary dwellings: Noah’s ark housed animals and humans (creatures of the earth) during the flood. The Mishkan housed God, the Sovereign of the heavens. The ark spent much of its time in the water, while the Mishkan spent all of its time on land. Both were portable, the Mishkan, seemingly, more so than the ark.
One connection I see is that both Noah’s ark and the Mishkan were designed to save and protect God’s creations from destruction. With the ark, this is obvious. If there were no ark, there would have been no animal left alive to continue God’s world. The saving function of the Mishkan is a bit more nuanced. In the desert, the Israelites were going to need a constant reminder of God’s presence in order to give them the strength (emotional, spiritual, and physical) to continue. The Mishkan certainly served this purpose.
So, why the exacting building instructions. Perhaps the Ark and the Mishkan both served such important functions, that God needed to make it absolutely certain that they would be built correctly. There would be no better way to ensure this than to provide the blueprints to the builders.
Thus, God’s detailed architectural plans ultimately ensured that humanity would survive the flood and that God’s chosen people would survive wandering in the desert.
God the conceiver, God the planner, God the manipulator…. God the builder.
With spring just around the corner, The JCC is beginning to warm up with activities. Join us for these two extravaganzas:
Now for my little additional message. Purim is on the evening of Monday, March 2nd. That evening we will have our annual Pizza, Pasta, and Purim celebration. We will eat a bit schmooze a bit, and read the Megillah, waiving our groggers every time we hear the evil one’s name. We always have good fun. Join us!!! (Costumes preferred, but optional.)
On Sunday, March 15th at 11:00 AM, we will have a Passover preparation program with Dr. Murray Spiegel entitled: “300 Ways to Create and Unforgettable Seder”. Murray’s innovative Seders have been featured on PBS. He will give an intriguing multimedia presentation that has inspired fun seders all around the world. Join us for a fun, participatory workshop and make your seder night…”Different from all other nights”!!
It's Adar, be happy!!!! (Mishenichnas Adar Marbim B’Simcha – When the month of Adar arrives, our joy increases)
Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay
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Candle Lighting Time
(Southern Ocean County)
Shabbat Eve
Friday, February 20, 2026
5:22 PM
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Friday
February 20, 2026
SERVICES
7:30 PM
ON ZOOM ONLY
Here is
your invitation from
Rabbi Jay to join Services
on Zoom
FRIDAY NIGHT
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Saturday
February 21, 2026
TORAH STUDY
9:00 AM
SERVICES
10:00 AM
IN PERSON AND
ON ZOOM
Here is
your invitation from
Rabbi Jay to join
Zoom services and Torah Study
SATURDAY MORNING
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TORAH READING
Parashat Terumah
Exodus 25:1-27:19
Terumah (“Donation”) opens as God tells Moses to collect donated materials in order to build a dwelling place for God called the Mishkan (Tabernacle). God describes how to build the vessels that will fill the Mishkan - including the ark, table, menorah, and sacrificial altar - as well as the Mishkan’s walls and curtains.
Here is the Portion
HAFTORAH
I Kings 5:26-6:13
The theme of constructing a special space extends beyond the Torah portion and into this week's haftarah. This reading describes the building of King Solomon's Temple in Jerusalem, detailing dimensions, building materials, and how God fits into it all.
Here is the Haftorah
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TORAH QUESTION?
In this parashah, God instructs Moses to convey to the people to "make Me a sanctuary that I may dwell among them." What do you believe it means for God to dwell among the people?
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CHOLENT LUNCH AFTER SERVICES
WEEKDAY SERVICES
Ma'ariv Service
7:30 PM
Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:
MA'ARIV
Monday - Friday
Shacharit Service
8:15 AM
Sunday at 9:00 AM
Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:
SHACHARIT
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Rabbi Jay will be in his office at the JCC after services on Saturdays. The Rabbi is also available at any time or place to schedule in-person, or virtual meetings at your convenience.
The Rabbi can be reached by call/text 973-865-9534 or email at Mjayrabrab@gmail.com
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SUNDAY, February 20
Pickleball
10 AM - 1 PM
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TUESDAY, February 24
Pickleball
10 AM - 1 PM
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WEDNESDAY, February 25
Mah jongg & Canasta
12:30 PM
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THURSDAY, February 26
Pickleball
10 AM - 1 PM
Torah Study
11:00 AM
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FRIDAY, February 27
Studying the Prophets
Following morning minyan
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Sunday, March 1
WAX Movie Afternoon
"For Your Consideration"
2:00 PM
Monday, March 2
Purim Family Dinner
6:30 PM
Friday, March 13
WAX Brunch
11:00 AM
Sunday, March 15
Passover Prep
11:00 AM
Wednesday, March 25
Baking wih Joanne
1:00 PM
Thursday, March 26
Virtual Tour of the Museum of the Southern Jewish Experience
7:30 PM
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PICKLEBALL
Sundays, Tuesdays and Thursdays
10 - 1
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MAH JONGG & CANASTA
WEDNESDAYS
12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM
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Monday, March 2nd
Pasta/Pizza/Purim
In Person and on Zoom
dress in your finest costume as we dine and read the Megillah
6:00 PM
Tuesday, March 3rd
Zoom Only
Services at 8:15 AM
including Megillah Reading
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The Best Hamantaschen Recipe Ever
By Shannon Sarna | February 29, 2012
from the Nosher
Total Time: 1 hour 40 minutes Yield: 16-20 cookies
Ingredients
- 1 stick (½ cup) unsalted butter or margarine, at room temperature
- ¾ cup granulated sugar
- 1 egg
- 1 Tbsp milk (or other non-dairy milk)
- 1 tsp vanilla extract
- 1 tsp grated lemon zest (optional)
- 1 ½ cups all-purpose flour, plus more for rolling
- ¼ tsp baking powder
- ¼ tsp salt
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Instructions
- Beat the butter and sugar together until smooth.
- Add egg, milk, vanilla and lemon zest until mixed thoroughly.
- Sift together the flour, baking powder and salt.
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Add dry mixture to wet mixture until incorporated. Note: If the dough is too soft, increase flour amount by a few Tbsp at a time until firmer.
- Form dough into a disk and cover with plastic wrap. Chill dough in the fridge for at least 1 hour or up to 24 hours.
- Dust surface with flour to keep from sticking. Roll the dough to about ¼-inch thick.
- Using a round 3-inch cookie cutter, cut out and place onto cookie sheet. To keep the dough from sticking to your cutter, dip in flour before each cut.
- Fill each round with ½ tsp of your favorite filling, and using your favorite method, pinch corners together tightly.
- Pop into the fridge for 10 minutes, or freezer for 5 minutes, to ensure hamantaschen hold their shape.
- Bake at 400°F for 7-9 minutes.
Notes
- You need to chill the hamantaschen dough for 1 hour, or up to overnight if you want to make it a day ahead.
- You can freeze the dough for 1-2 months wrapped in a double layer of plastic wrap. I would not suggest freezing already baked cookies with fillings inside.
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STU’s A-STU-TE STU-FF
PURIM: Before – During - After
Purim: this year is celebrated with Shabat Zachor on February 28; and Purim itself with the Megilah Reading Monday Night March 2 and Tuesday Morning March 3. Everyone is familiar with the story of Purim with the heroine Esther, and the hero Mordechai, and King Achaschevrus and that evil guy [boo!] whose name I won’t mention
…..here’s some fascinating stuff about Purim…..
- Megilah is one of two Books in the Tanach that never mentions God [the Song of Songs is the other]
- After Haman [boo!] and his sons were hung, Persian Law would not allow rescinding a previous law, and thus the King thereby passed legislation to allow the Persian Jews to take up arms and defend themselves
- The name Purim means ‘lots’ as that bad guy [boo!] used a lottery to pick the date to exterminate the Jews and fortunately we all know how that turned out
- Back in the day: Hamantaschen only came out in a couple of ‘flavors’ whereas now it comes in all varieties from PBJ to a Chocolate Dough filled with Dark Chocolate Fudge – Eve and Stu have actually won competitions for their unusual yummy Hamantaschen
- The Middle Ages saw Jewish communities perform Purim Schpiels or plays which evolved into the custom of donning costumes to celebrate this Festival
- It has been told that Esther and Achaschevrus had a son whom they named Darius who eventually became Darius II allowing the Jews to return to Judea [now Israel]
It is customary that on Purim that after the second reading of the Megilah, that being on the morning of Purim day, to distribute Shalach Manote, and then later in that day to attend a humongous Seudah [a Festival Feast Banquet] and somehow: fitting in to oblige getting so drunk that you can’t tell between Blessed be Mordechai and Cursed by Haman [boo!] [personally, I rather get drunk on Dark Chocolate]
To help commence with the festivities and celebrations of Purim, the congregation is invited to attend Shabat Zachor morning [February 28] wherein Stu will once again celebrate his Bar Mitzvah Anniversary with a few fun surprises!
A Chag Purim Sah’may’ach!
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Thank you to all the members who participated in our first and very successful Shallach Manos Campaign.
Look for your Purim gift which is being mailed to each of our members.
A special thank you to Stacie & Ken Podos for bringing the program to our congregation and to Mary Beth for putting the mailing together.
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Wednesday, March 18th at 4:00 pm
Discussion Leader: Rose Valentine
Queen Esther By John Irving
Esther Nacht is born in Vienna in 1905. Her father dies on board the ship to Portland, Maine; her mother is murdered by anti-Semites in Portland. Dr. Larch knows it won’t be easy to find a Jewish family to adopt Esther; in fact, he won’t find any family who’ll adopt her. When Esther is fourteen, soon to be a ward of the state, Dr. Larch meets the Winslows, a philanthropic New England family with a history of providing foster care for unadopted orphans. The Winslows aren’t Jewish, but they despise anti-Semitism. Esther’s gratitude for the Winslows is unending; even as she retraces her roots back to Vienna, she never stops loving and protecting the Winslows. In the final chapter, set in Jerusalem in 1981, Esther Nacht is seventy-six. John Irving’s sixteenth novel is a testament to his enduring ability to weave complex characters and intricate narratives that challenge and captivate. Queen Esther is not just a story of survival but a profound exploration of identity, belonging, and the enduring impact of history on our personal lives showcasing why Irving remains one of the world’s most beloved, provocative, and entertaining authors—a storyteller of our time and for all
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The Faithful: Women of the Bible
A new Fox series, “The Faithful: Women of the Bible,” is premiering on March 22, just in time for Passover and Easter.
Its first installment tells the story of the first Jewish matriarch — Abraham’s wife, Sarah, who will be played by the legendary Minnie Driver, of “Good Will Hunting” and most recently “Emily in Paris” fame. Viewers will see the story of Abraham and Sarah, and also of Hagar, who Sarah instructs to bear Abraham’s son, Ishmael, after years of infertility, only to later give birth to their son Isaac.
The second installment follows Isaac’s wife, Rebecca, and the way she treats her two sons, Esau and Jacob.
The final episode of the mini-series will tell the stories of Jacob’s two wives: older sister Leah, whom he is tricked into marrying by her father, Lavan, and her younger sister Rachel, his favorite wife. Their 12 sons would later become the 12 tribes of Israel.
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We are very excited to add to the WAX Gift Shop items from local merchants and artisans. Stop in to look and buy one (or more) of these beautiful pieces for your home, as a gift or just for yourself.
The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.
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The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:
Theodore Brod*
Mildred Grossman
Lisa Ellen Kaufman*
Israel Koller
Max Kopelman
Aaron Lox
Regina Brenman
Gilda Cousins
Frank John Lamagna
Eric Moss
Moshe Neustadt*
Steven Fisch
Martin Rosenzweig
Robert Rothschild
Irvin Babbitt
Ethel Dalinsky
Irving Newman
Lawrence Zegas
Mildred Chakrin
Gloria Cohen
H. Leonard Flam
Amanda Kanowitz*
Nellie Lehman
Isador London
Solomon Schall
Gerson Brasch*
Bernard Herman*
Robert Lapidus
Florence Marmon
Ernest H. Morgenstern*
Dr. Elias Shapiro
Morris Uniglicht
Carole Flam
Sheldon Kanis
Sylvia Kaplan
Barney Linderman
Dave Oxfeld
James Ruland Sr.
Samuel Weinberg
We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral.
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Sue Fuirst
February 21
Dana Meyers
February 21
Scott Lantzman
February 22
Malenie Piscetelli
February 22
Barbara Pyles
February 22
Patricia Adell
February 23
Wendy Lager
February 25
John Schweighardt
February 25
Joan Silver
February 26
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SHARE YOUR NEWS AND PICTURES
CONTACT:
rvalen1963@aol.com
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We would like to expand our Caring Committee to reach out to folks who need a "how are you doing?" call once and a while. Please contact
Debby Schweighardt
973-634-5349 if you are interesting in participating
CARING COMMITTEE
This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.
Please contact Chairperson,
Debby Schweighardt
if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help. 973-634-5349
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SPEEDY RECOVERY
TO
Diane Hoffman
&
Jessica Schwing
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The new mega Shoprite in Manahawkin is open. We are excited to see a section for Kosher meat and a Kosher deli slicer. Please show the folks in Shoprite that we appreciate their providing Kosher foods for our community. Read the background article below from our Ritual Chair Stu Lehrer.
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Although we have a vibrant and incredible Synagogue on Long Beach Island, the ability to obtain a wide range of Kosher products from Meat and Dairy, to Take Out delicacies; from Refrigerated and Frozen Items to Dry and Canned Goods is not but a couple of minutes away
Lakewood does have a myriad of shops and stores, eateries and restaurants as Seasons, Gourmet Glatt, and Aisle 9, etc - Toms River is beginning to offer similar offerings which is not only closer to LBI, but at least one-way: no tolls as another Seasons, Bravo Pizza, Eigners Bakeries – And then lest we forget, there’s Bingo in Brick
Another set of Kosher services falls under the enterprise banner of The Kosher Experience – There are two separate Kosher Experiences in New Jersey and what sets them apart is the ownership
The Ravitz Family owns the Cherry Hill Garden Pavillion Shop Rite and within that supermarket is a Kosher Experience – Entering that Shop Rite: one finds themselves in a Kosher Bakery with a myriad of items clearly identified as Dairy or Parve – As one continues downward toward the aisle toward the left rear, is the alcove that has Kosher Meats [both ready to cook, as well as prepared], Sushi and Fish – There is also a barrage of every kind of Kosher food item
Then there is The Kosher Experience under the auspices of the Saker Family – Manahawkin and Waretown’s Shop Rites are owned by the Saker Family – They are the owners of three Kosher Experiences in New Jersey: Neptune, East Brunswick, and Marlboro – They are similar to the Cherry Hill Garden Pavillion Shop Rite with a massive Kosher section – These three Kosher Experience stores have their own weekly specials and sales apart from any other coupons
One of the great things about The Kosher Experience is that even though they are a separate entity from the actual Shop Rite, they work in tandem with the Saker and the Ravitz Families – To bear proof to this claim is for example: when there is a sale on Salmon or Ground Meat, the Kosher Experience will honor the sale price on their similar Salmon and Ground Meat
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GIVING OPPORTUNITIES
PAVERS
Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building
8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"
SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:
PAVER FORM
Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.
Purchase a personalized paving stone
in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.
Please contact Diane Hoffman
with your order or with any questions:
dihoff1@aol.com
PRAYER BOOKS
There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.
See Order form here: Prayer Book
TRIBUTES
SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF
See order form here: TRIBUTES
TREE OF LIFE
Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE
Bronze Leaf $90
Silver Leaf $126
Gold :Leaf $180
ENDOWMENT FUND
Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.
Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.
A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.
Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly.
YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary.
Here is the order form:
YAHRZEIT
KOL HAKAVOD
Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD
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2025 MEMBERSHIP FORMS
Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.
Here is form for renewal:
RENEW NOW
And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:
JOIN NOW
BE A PART OF THE WOMEN'S AUXILLARY
2025 DUES FORM HERE
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JCC FUNDS
Scroll down to see the new Ner Tamid Fund
Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.
ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.
GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.
KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.
RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.
ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
NER TAMID FUND
The Ner Tamid Fund was established in 2025 as part of the JCC’s 75th Anniversary Celebration. Its purpose is to fund necessary maintenance or improvement of our beautiful JCC building as well as the Parsonage. To ensure that the JCC remains an Eternal Light for the Jewish Community on and off the island and in Southern Ocean County generally, please consider making a separate donation to the Ner Tamid Fund, or allocating a small portion of your High Holiday donation to that fund.
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JCC LEADERSHIP
OFFICERS
President- Phil Rosenzweig
1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman
2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman
3RD Vice President- Jon Geier
Treasurer- Stu Cofsky
Secretary- Cliff Denker
Immediate Past President -Michael Babst
BOARD MEMBERS
Howard Babbitt
Diane Buskirk
Lorna Klein
Ken Podos
Sondi Pripstein
Terri Robinovitz
David Shatz
Bonni Rubin-Sugarman
Rose Valentine
Ken Yudman
WOMEN'S AUXILIARY
President - Diane Buskirk
Treasurer - Suzy Geier
Secretary - Joanne Babbitt
Lorna Klein
Joyce Levine
Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein
Immediate Past President - Irene Babst
Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader
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