JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER



March 28, 2025

28 Adar 5785



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ALL FOR HOME AND HOME FOR ALL


I submitted this essay last year for publication. However, stumbling on it this year, I realize that, since the JCC is celebrating its 75th Anniversary, it really is most appropriate for this year. I hope you will agree.


The very last line of the Book of Exodus provides much information about God’s intended relationship with the Israelites and the Jewish world. Therein it says:


(T)he cloud of God would be on the Mishkan (Holy Tabernacle) by day, and fire would be on it at night, before the eyes of ALL of the House of Israel in ALL their journeys.


By telling us that God is present day and night we are, in effect, learning that God is always available. However, God’s presence is not limited to any one Israelite or group of Israelites. God is present to “ALL” of the House of Israel and at “ALL” places and times.


This simple sentence provides a foundational concept for what our JCC is and should be. Synagogues are the modern day version of the Mishkan. While we don’t (as a general rule) see God in the form of a cloud or fire, we do have a sanctuary with an Eternal Light. We may not have the Ark of the Pact carrying the Ten Commandments, but we do have an ark that holds our Torah scrolls (and a likeness of the Ten Commandments hung above the ark). We may not have Priestly garments, but we do have Tallitot.


When the JCC was created 75 years ago, it was not created for the use or benefit of a select group of people. Similarly, when the new building was dedicated, it was not dedicated for the use or benefit of a select group of people. The intention was to create a community and a destination where anyone could come to pray, or to learn, or to be Jewishly recharged, or to be culturally stimulated.


In addition, today, some folks come to be in the kitchen to cook, while others come to be in the kitchen while playing pickleball.


The JCC, like the Ocean to which it is so near, has a strong gravitational pull. Like the Lighthouse in Barnegat which steers ships away from a dangerous shore, the JCC should be a beacon to all Jews everywhere that brings them safely in from wherever they are. This goal has never been more important than it is today.


As a community, we have an obligation to our biblical ancestors, to our more recent founders, and to God, to make sure that in all we do, we ensure that our “tabernacle” can be seen, and used, by “ALL the House of Israel and at ALL times”.


God seeks relationship with us and desires that we be in (good) relationship with each other. Presence, vision, kindness, and a resolve to do what is correct, should always be on our minds and in our actions.


The Jewish people: Celebrating thousands of years welcoming God in our midst.

The JCC of LBI: Celebrating 75 years of Faith, Family, Friends.


A home. A heart. A sanctuary. A place for us. A place for God.


Chazak! Chazak! Venischazeik! (Be Strong! Be Strong! And may we be strengthened)


Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay


April 13

April 14

April 19

April 20 - Yiskor


Services In person and on Zoom

Candle Lighting Time

(Southern Ocean County)

Shabbat Eve

Friday, March 28, 2025

6:52 PM

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SERVICES

Shabbat HaChodesh 


Shabbat HaChodesh precedes the first of the Hebrew month of Nisan during which Passover is celebrated. Exodus 12:1-20 and the laws of On the first day of Nisan, G-d presented the first commandment of how to “sanctify the new moon” for the onset of Rosh Chodesh and thus Nisan becomes the first month of the Jewish year (counting by months).


Friday

March 28, 2025

Services

7:30 PM

ZOOM ONLY

Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday

March 29, 2025

9:00 AM

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SHABBAT


TORAH READING

Parashat Pekudei 

Exodus 38:21-40:38,

12:1-20

Pekudei is the final Torah reading in the Book of Exodus. It describes the making of priestly garments worn in the Mishkan (Tabernacle) and the completion of its construction. At God’s command, Moses erects the Mishkan and puts its vessels in place, and God's presence fills the Mishkan. 

Here is Parshah I

Here is Parshah II


HAFTORAH

Ezekiel 45:16-46:18

This special haftorah is a prophecy regarding the Paschal Offering that will be brought during the Messianic Era, reflecting the theme of the Hachodesh Torah reading—Moses' command to the Israelites in Egypt to prepare and bring the Paschal lamb.

Here is the Haftorah


HAVDALLAH

7:30 PM

ON ZOOM ONLY

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your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

HAVDALLAH


WEEKDAY SERVICES

Monday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Sunday - Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT



READ RABBI JAY'S ARTICLE IN THE JEWISH JOURNAL: PASSOVER HEROES.

CLICK HERE TO VIEW

COUNTDOWN TO PASSOVER


FIRST SEDER: Saturday, April 12

SECOND SEDER: Sunday, April 13



5 Steps to Get Your Passover and Spring Cleaning On

from jamiegeller.com


While you are already cleaning for Passover you might as well go full spring clean and declutter with these 6 steps. 


1. Plan -Start by planning out when and where you will clean each day and put it on your calendar. Generally, it is best to start in the least used rooms, work towards the bedrooms and bathrooms, and end with the kitchen. 


2. Don't Do It Alone - Don't let your kids, grandkids or husband get away without helping out. Everyone should be responsible for a space — their own and/or another — but do each room as a group or in pairs. Turn cleaning into quality family time.  


3. Have Fun -Plan some games to make it more exciting. Have a contest to see who can clean the best and rate them on speed, thoroughness, and final results. Hide something like a new toy at the bottom of your kids' closets so they have to clean to find it. Give young kids their own sponge and spray bottle of water and vinegar to clean after you declutter. Play some music and take dancing breaks. End the day with a reward, like going out for dinner. 


4. Clear Out - Even though we started this to clean for Passover, we are using it as a way to clean up our home in every sense of the word. Go through everything you own and put them into one of 3 places: neatly in a place they belong, in the trash, or in a donation bag. Big tip: If you haven't worn or used it in a year, get rid of it — this applies to everything in your home, even food, spices, and appliances.


5. Get Help - While you must be the one to go through all your closets and drawers it is okay to bring in the reinforcements (cleaning professionals) to do the heavy lifting once you have cleared the clutter, especially if you don't have confidence in your sweeping and mopping skills like me. 


6. Take Pictures - Make sure to take some before and after pictures and share them with us on this post and/or on social media. It will inspire others to get moving and cleaning. 


14 Make-Ahead Passover Dishes to Freeze for a Stress-Free Holiday

From meatballs to brisket and matzah ball soup


from The Nosher

See one of the recipes below. Click here for the entire article



The Best Matzah Lasagna

Total Time: 1 hour Yield: Serves 6-8


Ingredients

6–7 sheets matzah

3 ½ cups (1 jar/25 oz) marinara or your favorite tomato sauce

2 (16 oz) containers whole-milk ricotta

1 cup chopped basil + more for garnish

4–5 sprigs thyme, leaves removed from stems, about 2 tsp

1 large egg

1 tsp kosher salt

½ tsp black pepper, or to taste

5 cups (16 oz) shredded low-moisture mozzarella

1 ½ cups (5 oz) shredded cheddar cheese

¼ cup grated parmesan (optional)


Instructions

Preheat the oven to 375°F. 

Add the ricotta, chopped basil, thyme, egg, salt and pepper to a bowl, and mix until just combined.

Assemble the lasagna in a 9”x13” casserole dish that is at least 2.5”-3” deep. Start by adding 1 cup of the marinara to the bottom of the dish. Layer two sheets of matzah on the bottom, break as needed to fit them into a single layer. Top the matzah with 2 cups of the ricotta mixture (half of the mixture), and smooth it into an even layer with an offset spatula or the back of a spoon. Evenly top the ricotta with 2 cups of shredded mozzarella and ½ a cup of shredded cheddar. 


Repeat the process by dolloping 1 cup of sauce over the shredded cheese. Top the sauce with two sheets of matzah, the remaining 2 cups of the ricotta mixture, followed by 2 cups of shredded mozzarella, and ½ a cup of shredded cheddar.


For the last layer, top the cheese layer with two sheets of matzah, then finish it off with the remaining tomato sauce (if you enjoy a saucier lasagna, you can add an additional cup of tomato sauce over the top before you finish it off with the shredded cheeses). Add the remaining 1 cup of mozzarella and ½ cup of cheddar. Finally, sprinkle the parmesan over the top.

Cover the lasagna with foil, and bake for 30 minutes covered.

Uncover the lasagna and bake for an additional 15-20 minutes or until browned and bubbly on top. Allow to cool for 15 minutes before serving so that the lasagna can set and hold its shape.


Notes

This recipe requires one full jar of marinara, but if you like a saucier lasagna, add an additional cup (or a small 8 oz jar) of tomato sauce to the top of the lasagna.


To make the lasagna ahead, bake for 30 minutes covered, remove from the oven and allow to fully cool. Refrigerate or freeze the lasagna. If refrigerated, reheat at 375°F for 15 minutes covered, and 15 uncovered; and if it’s frozen, reheat for 20 minutes covered, and 20-25 minutes uncovered.



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SUNDAY, March 30

Pickleball 10 - 1

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TUESDAY, April 1

Pickleball

10 - 1

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WEDNESDAY, April 2

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 PM


Singles Group

3:00 PM

In person only

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THURSDAY, April 3

Torah Study

11:00 AM


Pickleball

10 - 1

CLICK HERE FOR THURSDAY MORNING TORAH STUDY


Wednesday, April 2

Singles Group Meeting

3:00 PM


Friday, April 4

Shabbat Dinner

6:30 PM


Wednesday, April 16

WAX Book Review

4:00 PM



Friday, April 25

WAX Luncheon

12:00 Noon

at Kubel's


Tuesday, April 29

Paint & Sip

10:00 AM


SEE DETAILS ON THE ABOVE ACTIVITIES IN THE FLYERS BELOW


MAH JONGG & CANASTA

WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM


April 9, 23. May 21, 28. 

Play starts at 11am and ends at 1:45  


PICKLEBALL

Sundays, Tuesdays

and Thursdays

10 - 1


NO PICKLEBALL 4/13 AND 4/20


CLICK HERE FOR UPCOMING WAX EVENTS

THIS SPRING AND SUMMER

REGISTER HERE FOR THE SHABBAT DINNER

JCC WOMEN’S AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION

 WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM

NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING

Wednesday, April 16th at 4:00 PM

Discussion Leader: TBA

Book: Eternal Life By: Dara Horn


Rachel is a woman with a problem: she can’t die. Her recent troubles—widowhood, a failing business, an unemployed middle-aged son—are only the latest in a litany Continued on page 23 2 3 Volume 18/ Issue 2 JCC Women Auxiliary: Book Group Discussion – continued Wednesday at 4:00 PM Eternal Life by Dara Horn spanning dozens of countries, scores of marriages, and hundreds of children. In the 2,000 years since she made a spiritual bargain to save the life of her first son back in Roman-occupied Jerusalem, she’s tried everything to free herself, and only one other person in the world understands: a man she once loved passionately, who has been stalking her through the centuries, convinced they belong together forever. But as the twenty-first century begins and her children and grandchildren—consumed with immortality in their own ways, from the frontiers of digital currency to genetic engineering—develop new technologies that could change her fate and theirs, Rachel knows she must find a way out.

LOOK HERE FOR 75TH ANNIVERSARY UPDATES

WE NEED HELP!  The 75th Anniversary planning committee and is looking for help preparing a media presentation for the August 10 Gala. If you, your teenage children, or you know someone who has this skill please let us know. We have news clippings, video interviews, pictures etc regarding the 75 years of JCC history on the island. Compensation will be provided. Please call Jon Geier at 703-589-2440 or Diane Hoffman at (732-742-2881). Thanks so much.



COMEDY SHOW

We are excited that our first JCC section is sold out. An additional section has been put aside and will be available to JCC members until ticket sales are open to the public. Seats can then be purchased in the rest of the theater. Remember comedy shows at the Surflight are usually sold out.

ABOUT THE COMEDIANS...


Robin Fox

New Jersey Stand-Up Comedian Robin Fox spent 17 years as a full-time mom and dieting. Then one day, Robin gave up dieting and decided to make her life long dream of being a comedian a reality. Today she is happier than she can ever remember and will never look back! Original and funny, she talks from her heart about the frustrations of suburban living, marriage, and being an empty nester. No longer is she willing to just be the funniest mom on her New Jersey cul-de-sac. This New Jersey mom is now a regular on the comedy scene playing at the top clubs in NYC and performing nationally.


Joe Bublewicz

A 20 year veteran of the national comedy circuit, Joe’s ability to take you on a tour of life’s absurdities will create an atmosphere of non-stop laughter by blending just the right mix of sarcasm, logic, and personality into a hilarious stand-up performance. His creative humor and sardonic style of comedy has made him a favorite at all the major comedy chains throughout the country. It’s a night out that will leave you wanting more.


Wayne Cotter

Wayne Cotter is a veteran of the talk shows, having appeared dozens of times with both David Letterman and Jay Leno. A top nationally touring comedian, Wayne hosted the Fox Television Network series “Comic Strip Live” for many years, and has been nominated as “Best Standup Comedian” in the American Comedy Awards. Although he studied Electrical Engineering at the University of Pennsylvania and began a career with a New Jersey computer company, before long Wayne started moonlighting as a Philadelphia comedian. He continued this double life for some time, and ultimately came to the visionary conclusion that the computer industry was going nowhere and left town to pursue showbusiness full time.





The JCC section at Crescent Memorial Park is available for sales. Please contact Bonni Rubin-Sugarman at 609-417-7148.



We are very excited to add to the WAX Gift Shop items from local merchants and artisans. Stop in to look and buy one (or more) of these beautiful pieces for your home, as a gift or just for yourself. Here is a sample of some of our new products. The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.


CONGREGATION NEWS



The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Edward Brinberg

Morris Herman

Felix Horowitz

Robert Muscente

David Polinsky

Anita L. Ross

Sam Wittenberg

William Berger*

Hannah S. Cohen

Bernice Franks*

Alvin Kaplan

T. Daniel Lang*

Jacob Liebenberg

Isadore Opatosky

Joseph Schlanger*

Marvin Henry Weinberger*

Ethel Zwillman

Ann Celnik

Chaya Cohen

Samuel Kreiger

Leslie Siegel

Sam Singer

Richard Sugarman

Michael Beck*

Louis Cohen

Irving List*

Lillian Barham

Edward Greenberg

Charles Miller

Fannie Shapiro

Ruth Weisberger

Lawrence Alpert*

Charlotte Chazin*

Minnie Einhorn*

Martin Hartman

Sheila Kleinfeld

Fred Pollack

Jeanette Rosen

Dora Weinstein

Isadore Abend

Mary Halpern

Herbert Iris

Irving Maginsky

Marion Rosenzweig

Leon Shechtman


We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45.Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral.

CLICK HERE FOR EVENING SERVICE
CLICK HERE FOR MORNING SERVICE
Cake

Philip Garfinkel

March 29

Meryl Gindin

March 29

Charles Moss

March 31

Rudolph Valentine

April 1

Lewis Chakrin

April 2

Joel Gold

April 2

Steven Goldsmith

April 3

Linda Sclarow

April 3

Hugh Chairnoff

April 4

Maxine Paris

April 4


Jeff Sussman & Patricia Adell

March 29

44th Anniversary

John & Debra Schweighardt

April 1

24th Anniversary

Philip & Shari Garfinkel

April 2

19th Anniversary

 

BAR MITZVAH PROJECT


Joanne & Howard Babbitt's grandson, Jonah, will be called to the Torah as a Bar Mitzvah this summer. For his project, Jonah is collecting new or gently used sneakers for those less fortunate. If you are "closet cleaning", and would like to help Jonah reach his goal of 250 pairs, please contact Joanne or Howard and they will be happy to pick them up from you.



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AND PICTURES


CONTACT: 

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CARING COMMITTEE

  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.

Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349


AROUND THE OCEAN COUNTY

JEWISH COMMUNITY....

YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.


Go to jccoflbi.org - Giving/Pay

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2025 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW


BE A PART OF THE WOMEN'S AUXILLARY

2025 DUES FORM HERE


JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP



OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Jon Geier

Treasurer- Stu Cofsky

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Lorna Klein

Paul Levine

Ken Podos


Sondi Pripstein

Terri Robinovitz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

Rose Valentine

Ken Yudman


WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst

Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein


Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader


JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2




 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Mary Beth Kreiger

Contributing Articles by

Stu Lehrer