JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER

April 12, 2024

4 Nisan 5784

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A SHABBAT MESSAGE FROM CANTOR SARA GELLER

I look forward to sharing Shabbat services with all of you!


This Shabbat we will read part of Tazriah, about various skin afflictions.  It is generally accepted that these skin diseases are to be understood metaphorically as the consequence of ‘lashon hara’ – literally, evil speech.


It’s very divisive when we say mean things to each other, or about each other.  ‘Lashon hara’ isolates its targets from the community at large. So, just as the person diagnosed with a skin disease was isolated from the community, the person who says mean things deserves to be isolated from polite society. If you say mean things about others, you will suffer some kind of retribution.


‘Lashon hara’ can be something true or untrue. Vague statements like: “It’s a shame so-and-so had those legal problems” are considered ‘lashon hara.’ ‘Lashon hara’ also includes bringing up embarrassing topics to someone. Rabbinic literature describes two such situations. First, we are not supposed to remind people of their, or their family’s previous bad acts for which they have repented. Second, if we are talking to a Jew-by-choice we are not supposed to talk about, or ask about, their decision to become Jewish. When you think about it, it’s possible to say a lot of things that make people uncomfortable or hurt their feelings.


So, just as the High Priest had to inspect the hair and skin repeatedly and in minute detail, we can examine each of our words as we seek to speak ‘lashon tov’, good speech, rather than ‘lashon hara’.


I will talk more about good speech and evil speech on Friday night and Shabbat morning.


Sara Geller


Cantor Geller will be leading servces this Shabbat while Rabbi and Sheri are away for a familt wedding.


Shabbat Candle

Lighting time

Friday evening

April 12, 2024

7:14 PM


JOIN US FOR SERVICES

THIS SHABBAT

with

Cantor Sara Geller


Friday, April 12, 2024

6:30 PM

for this week

ON ZOOM ONLY


Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday,

April 13, 2024

9:00 AM

ON ZOOM ONLY


Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SHABBAT


TORAH READING

Parashat Tazria 5784

 Leviticus 12:1-13:59

Tazria (“She Bears Seed”) opens by describing the purification process for a woman after childbirth. It then describes different forms of tzaraat, a discoloration condition on skin or clothing, and the requirement of an infected person to dwell alone outside the camp and be inspected by a priest.

Here is Parshah


HAFTORAH

II Kings 4:42-5:19 

This week's haftorah describes how a prophet miraculously cured an Aramite general of his tzara'at ailment.

(click here for the whole story)

Here is the Haftorah



NO HAVDALLAH THIS WEEK


WEEKDAY SERVICES


Monday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


PLEASE NOTE THERE WILL BE NO EVENING MINYANS SCHEDULED FOR SUNDAY NIGHTS.

IF YOU NEED A MINYAN TO SAY KADISH, PLEASE CONTACT

RABBI JAY OR STU LEHRER.


Monday- Friday

Shacharit Service

NEW 7:45 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT

SUNDAY, APRIL 14

Pickleball

10:00 AM


WAX Lecture Series

Chuck Sidwa, PA

"Aging, the Sun & your Skin"

2:00 PM

On Zoom

*****

NO MONDAY CLASS THIS WEEK


TUESDAY, APRIL 16

Pickleball

3:00 PM


Beginning Hebrew

with Ira

******



WEDNESDAY, APRIL 17

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 PM


WAX Book Club

4:00 PM

On Zoom

**********


THURSDAY, APRIL 18

Pickleball

10:00 AM


Intermediate Hebrew with Ira

2:00 PM

***********


FRIDAY, APRIL 19


Studying the Prophets with Rabbi Jay

9:00 AM


Last Signing Class

10:00 AM

In person only



CPR Class

12:00 NOON

In person


CLICK HERE FOR SUNDAY WAX LECTURE
CLICK HERE FOR WEDNESDAY WAX BOOK  CLUB
CLICK HERE FOR FRIDAY PROPHETS CLASS

MAH JONGG & CANASTA


WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM

PICKLEBALL


SUNDAY 10:00 AM

TUESDAY 3:00 PM

THURSDAY 10:00 AM


Reminder: Pickleball for

members only!

COUNTDOWN TO PASSOVER



FIRST SEDER - Monday April 22

SECOND SEDER- Tuesday, April 23




The NEW JewBelong Haggadah It has everything you need for a unique, meaningful and fun Seder

 

The JewBelong Haggadah includes all of the traditional parts, plus:

  • Songs!
  • A blessing for Israel
  • JewBelong’s original skit that makes the Passover story exciting and memorable for all ages
  • A fabulous dinner conversation-starter
  • Coffee to wake us up to the Ten Plagues of Antisemitism
  • And more!

 

It is no longer available to order and printed but you can download it for free HERE and print it at home, Staples or wherever your heart desires.



Matzah Lasagna (from theThe Nosher)


Total Time: 1 hour Yield: Serves 6-8


Ingredients

6–7 sheets matzah

3 ½ cups (1 jar/25 oz) marinara or your favorite tomato sauce

2 (16 oz) containers whole-milk ricotta

1 cup chopped basil + more for garnish

4–5 sprigs thyme, leaves removed from stems, about 2 tsp

1 large egg

1 tsp kosher salt

½ tsp black pepper, or to taste

5 cups (16 oz) shredded low-moisture mozzarella

1 ½ cups (5 oz) shredded cheddar cheese

¼ cup grated parmesan (optional)


Instructions

Preheat the oven to 375°F. 

Add the ricotta, chopped basil, thyme, egg, salt and pepper to a bowl, and mix until just combined.

Assemble the lasagna in a 9”x13” casserole dish that is at least 2.5”-3” deep. Start by adding 1 cup of the marinara to the bottom of the dish. Layer two sheets of matzah on the bottom, break as needed to fit them into a single layer. Top the matzah with 2 cups of the ricotta mixture (half of the mixture), and smooth it into an even layer with an offset spatula or the back of a spoon. Evenly top the ricotta with 2 cups of shredded mozzarella and ½ a cup of shredded cheddar. 

Repeat the process by dolloping 1 cup of sauce over the shredded cheese. Top the sauce with two sheets of matzah, the remaining 2 cups of the ricotta mixture, followed by 2 cups of shredded mozzarella, and ½ a cup of shredded cheddar.


For the last layer, top the cheese layer with two sheets of matzah, then finish it off with the remaining tomato sauce (if you enjoy a saucier lasagna, you can add an additional cup of tomato sauce over the top before you finish it off with the shredded cheeses). Add the remaining 1 cup of mozzarella and ½ cup of cheddar. Finally, sprinkle the parmesan over the top.

Cover the lasagna with foil, and bake for 30 minutes covered.

Uncover the lasagna and bake for an additional 15-20 minutes or until browned and bubbly on top. Allow to cool for 15 minutes before serving so that the lasagna can set and hold its shape.


Notes

This recipe requires one full jar of marinara, but if you like a saucier lasagna, add an additional cup (or a small 8 oz jar) of tomato sauce to the top of the lasagna.

To make the lasagna ahead, bake for 30 minutes covered, remove from the oven and allow to fully cool. Refrigerate or freeze the lasagna. If refrigerated, reheat at 375°F for 15 minutes covered, and 15 uncovered; and if it’s frozen, reheat for 20 minutes covered, and 20-25 minutes uncovered.

UPCOMING ACTIVITIES

Friday, April 12

1 - 3 PM

WAX Luncheon

High Tea at the Lizzie Rose Tea Room


Sunday, April 14

2:00 PM

WAX Lecture Series

Chuck Sidwa, PA

"Aging, the Sun and your Skin"


Wednesday, April 17

4:00 PM

WAX Book Club


Friday, April 19

10:00 AM

Signing Class


Friday, April 19

12 - 4 PM

CPR Class

Zoom Link

LEARN SIGNING WITH

ANTHONY DEFRANCO

at the JCC



FRIDAYS

10:00 AM - 11:AM

LAST CLASS

April 19, 2024



Another program brought to you by the JCC Women's Auxiliary



JCC WOMEN’S AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION

 WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM

NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING

Thank you to Sondi Pripstein for so skillfully leading the March discussion.


Wednesday, April 17

"The Genius of Israel" by Dan Senor and Saul Singer

Discussion Leader: TBA


Why do Israelis have among the world’s highest life expectancies and lowest rates of “deaths of despair” from suicide and substance abuse? Why is Israel’s population young and growing while all other wealthy democracies are aging and shrinking? How can it be that Israel, according to a United Nations ranking, is the fourth happiest nation in the world? Why do Israelis tend to look to the future with hope, optimism, and purpose while the rest of the West struggles with an epidemic of loneliness, teen depression, and social decline?


Dan Senor and Saul Singer, the writers behind the international bestseller Start-Up Nation, have long been students of the global innovation race. But as they spent time with Israel’s entrepreneurs and political leaders, soldiers and students, scientists and anti-government activists, ultra-Orthodox Jews, Tel Aviv techies, and Israeli Arabs, they realized that they had missed what really sets Israel apart.


Moving from military commanders integrating at-risk youth and people who are neurodiverse into national service, to high-performing companies making space for working parents, from dreamers and innovators launching a duct-taped spacecraft to the moon, to bringing better health and climate solutions to people around the world, The Genius of Israel tells the story of a diverse society built around the values of service, civic engagement, and belonging.


Widely admired for having the world’s highest density of high-tech start-ups, Israel’s greatest innovation may not be a technology at all, but Israeli society itself. Understanding how a country facing so many challenges can be among the happiest provides surprising insights into how we can confront the crisis of community, human connectedness, and purpose in modern life.


Bold, timely, and insightful, Senor and Singer’s latest work shines an important light on the impressive resilience of Israeli society in the face of external and internal challenges—and what other countries can learn.

Thanks to our membership in the PJP we are able to enjoy a variety of programs. No need to register in advance.

PJP HOLOCAUST PROGRAM


Thursday, May 2 @ 8:30 PM

“How a Torah Changed My Life Forever” with Sheila Pallay

 

Rescued from the Shoah and now 250 years old, a Czech Torah sat before her. As she reached out to touch that Torah, Sheila felt a sudden, unanticipated and intense personal connection with generations past. Those who had held in their hands that very Torah. Chanted from it. Kissed it. And carried it around their synagogue with great pride. It was this seminal event that changed her life forever. Sheila spent 3 1/2 months in the Czech Republic visiting synagogues that once housed the Holocaust Torahs now housed in our synagogues and photographing what is left Judaically after the Shoah. She and Julius Mũller collaborated on a book, “Life Beyond the Shadows, The Legacy of the Czech Torah Scroll and the Renewal of Jewish Life in Czechia”.

 

Sheila Pallay was introduced to photography during her college days. Although her career path took her in a different direction, she has always loved to photograph. Sheila and her husband share their love of adventure and feel fortunate to be able to travel and explore our amazing world. One of her greatest pleasures is capturing magical moments in faraway places. Although Sheila is primarily a self-taught photographer, she has taken many courses and workshops to improve her skills, including courses on composition at the New School in NYC and International Center for Photography in NYC and Photoshop at a local community college. She graduated from The Rhode Island School of Design certificate program in digital photography. 

CLICK HERE TO JOIN THE PROGRAM
PJP Series "What Jews Think”

2023-2024

Thursday, May 9 @8:30 PM Dr. Shira Billet,

Jewish Theological Seminary

“How Jewish Philosophers Think about Troubling Traditions”


This session will introduce Jewish philosophy as a means of grappling with what I call troubling traditions. Traditions refer to sacred texts that are authoritative for us in some significant way. They are „troubling“ when they conflict with other strong beliefs we hold, be they epistemic beliefs about what is true or false, moral beliefs about right or wrong, or political beliefs about how we ought or ought not to live. We will look at methods that Jewish philosophers have articulated in attempting to resolve these contradictions, and gain insight into the history and practice of Jewish philosophy. Shira Billet is Assistant Professor of Jewish Thought and Ethics at the Jewish Theological Seminary of America. Her research focuses on the work of nineteenth-century German Jewish philosopher, Hermann Cohen, his ethical and Jewish thought, and the history of Jewish philosophy broadly. Join Zoom Meeting https://us02web.zoom.us/j/86099814024?pwd=UWdvMWMrM3JHeWtCckY0MFVHQVl

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CONGREGATION NEWS

The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Lawrence Alpert*

Charlotte Chazin*

Minnie Einhorn*

Martin Hartman

Fred Pollack

Jeanette Rosen

Dora Weinstein

Isadore Abend

Mary Halpern

Herbert Iris

Irving Maginsky

Marion Rosenzweig

Leon Shechtman

Benjamin Epstein*

Shirley Feather*

Rita Haas

Lena Hirschman

Esther Ketzlach

Irving Klein

Bertha Stern Landau

Rhona Rothschild

Jennie Silverman*

Saul Silverman*

Brenda Swissman

Benjamin Fruchtman*

Charles Kasselman*

Henry Kelsen

Bernard Mihtz

Fred Adler

Charlotte Dzuna

Betty Husak

Harry Kaplan

Cora Korb*

Harriet Rothman

Cynthia Bloom

Helen Klein*

William Poster*

Irving Sampson*

Stanley Blum

Ed Davis

Milton Kamler

Gerald Schaer

Cecil Weiner

 

We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 7:45 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.



CLICK HERE FOR EVENING SERVICE
CLICK HERE FOR MORNING SERVICE
Cake

Karen Foreman

April 13

Karl Mayro

April 13

Frederic Schragger

April 14

Arthur Abramowitz

April 15

Gail Meltzer

April 15

Donald Pripstein

April 15

Viki Pashman

April 16

Sandy Slotnick

April 16

Hedda Chairnoff

April 17

Suzanne Geier

April 17

Alan “Jake” Weinberg

April 17

Martin Weinberg

April 18

Ellen Jay

April 19

Lisa K. Marinelli

April 19 

Rudolph & Rose Valentine

April 13

61st Anniversary

Rose & Rudy Valentine

Renewal of Vows 2013

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CONDOLENCES TO JCC OF LBI MEMBER


JILL GREENWALD

on the passing of her father

Edward George Brinberg.

A combat WWll Veteran and Morse Code specialist, he communicated from the USS Ancon in Normandy and The Philippines to Generals Eisenhower and McArthur.


Family and friends are invited to attend a funeral service for Ed on Friday, April 12, 2024 at 11:15 AM at Tilghman funeral home at 52 Main Street, New Egypt, New Jersey 08533, followed by a 12:30 PM military service at BGWCD Veteran Memorial Cemetery located at 350 Province Line Road, Wrightstown, NJ 08562. Visitation will be held from 11 AM to 12 PM at the funeral home. 


TO READ ABOUT ED BRINBERG, CLICK HERE


"May God remember forever our dear ones who have gone to their eternal rest. May they be at one with the One who is life eternal. May the beauty of their lives shine for evermore, and may our lives always bring honor to their memory."

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YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.

Go to jccoflbi.org - community - forms

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb z"l and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2023 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW



JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
JCC LEADERSHIP

OFFICERS
President- Phil Rosenzweig
1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman
2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman
3RD Vice President- Rose Valentine
Treasurer- Ira Morgenthal
Secretary- Cliff Denker
Immediate Past President -Michael Babst

BOARD MEMBERS
Howard Babbitt 
Diane Buskirk
Mitch Frumkin

Jon Geier

Paul Levine

Ken Podos

Terri Robinovitz

David Shatz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman



WOMEN'S AUXILIARY


President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst

JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2

CLOSED THURSDAY



 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Irene Babst

Contributing Columnist

Sheila Weisel