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JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER





May 15, 2026

28 Iyar 5786

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OF THE SHABBAT REMINDER

Candle Lighting Time

(Southern Ocean County)

Shabbat Eve

Friday, May 15, 2026

7:46 PM

SHABBAT WITH RABBI/CANTOR CECELIA BEYER IS CANCELLED


Friday

May 15, 2026

SERVICES

6:00 PM

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT


Service Kol HaKahal

(Voice of the Congregation)

Rose Valentine

NO ONEG

JOIN ME (ROSE) FOR DINNER

AFTER AT THE DINER ACROSS THE BOULEVARD



Saturday

May 16, 2026

SERVICES

9:00 AM

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

 Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services and Torah Study

SATURDAY MORNING


TORAH READING

Parashat Bamidbar 

Numbers 1:1-4:20

Bamidbar (“In The Desert”) is the first Torah portion in the Book of Numbers. It describes God's command to take a census and details the camping formation of the Israelites in the desert. It also begins to enumerate the responsibilities of the Levites when transporting the Mishkan (Tabernacle).

Here is the Portion


HAFTORAH

I Samuel 20:18-42

The usual haftarah for Parashat Bamidbar echoes the Torah reading’s setting and themes. However, because Bamidbar falls on the day before Rosh Chodesh this year, a special haftarah is read instead. The events in this alternate reading featuring David, Jonathan, and King Saul, also begin on the day before Rosh Chodesh.

Here is the Haftorah


TORAH QUESTION?


This Torah portion describes the preparation involved in relocating the Tabernacle. What might the mobility of this sacred space convey about the concept of holiness?

 

WEEKDAY SERVICES


Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday - Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT


Shavuot marks the completion of the seven-week Omer count after Passover. It commemorates the momentous giving of the Torah at Mount Sinai, while also serving as a biblical harvest festival. Common traditions include all-night Torah study, eating dairy foods, and reading the

Book of Ruth.

SERVICES

Thursday, May 21st - 7:30 PM

In-Person and on Zoom

Shavuot Services

and then

A Night of Study

(Tikkun Leil Shavuot)

Jewish Views on Sex lead by

Rabbi Michael S. Jay

Psalm 78:38 lead by Stu W. Lehrer


Friday, May 22nd - 9AM

In-Person and on Zoom

7:30 PM Zoom Only


Saturday, May 23rd - 9AM

In-Person and on Zoom

Yizkor recited at approx. 10:45 AM


SUNDAY, May 17

Pickleball

10 AM - 1 PM

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TUESDAY, May 19

Pickleball

10 AM - 1 PM

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WEDNESDAY, May 20

MAH JONGG/CANASTA

12:30 PM

WAX Book Club

4:00 PM

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THURSDAY, May 21

Pickleball

10:00 AM - 1 PM

Torah Study

11:00 AM


 

SECURITY TRAINING DATES


Stop The Bleed 

June 4th, 10-12:30

Active Threat Training 

June 25th 10-12:30

JFED will be conducting both programs!


CLICK HERE TO SIGN UP FOR PROGRAMS



Wednesday, May 20

WAX Book Club

4:00 PM


Friday, June 5

Family Shabbat Dinner

6:30 PM


Wednesday, June 10

Interfaith Concert with the Island Singers

St. Francis of Assisi Parish

7:00 PM


Friday, June 12

WAX Brunch

11:00 AM


Monday, June 15

Drawing with Joyce Smith 


Wednesday, June 17

WAX Book Group

4:00 PM


Sunday, June 28

Welcome Back Brunch

10:00 AM


PICKLEBALL

Sundays, Tuesdays and Thursdays

10 - 1

MAH JONGG & CANASTA 

WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM 


CLICK HERE FOR A WAX CALENDAR OF EVENTS

WAX BOOK DISCUSSION GROUP

Wednesday, May 20th at 4:00 pm

Discussion Leader: TBA

The Book of Lost Hours

By Hayley Gelfuso


Enter the time space, a soaring library filled with books containing the memories of those have passed and accessed only by specially made watches once passed from father to son—but mostly now in government hands. This is where eleven-year-old Lisavet Levy finds herself trapped in 1938, waiting for her watchmaker father to return for her. When he doesn’t, she grows up among the books and specters, able to see the world only by sifting through the memories of those who came before her. As she realizes that government agents are entering the time space to destroy books and maintain their preferred version of history, she sets about saving these scraps in her own volume of memories. Until the appearance of an American spy named Ernest Duquesne in 1949 offers her a glimpse of the world she left behind, setting her on a course to change history and possibly the time space itself.


In 1965, sixteen-year-old Amelia Duquesne is mourning the disappearance of her uncle Ernest when an enigmatic CIA agent approaches her to enlist her help in tracking down a book of memories her uncle had once sought. But when Amelia visits the time space for the first time, she realizes that the past—and the truth—might not be as linear as she’d like to believe.

The Federation is offering an incentive for our members to attend the Let's Connect event on June 17. For each $36 ticket purchased, the JCC will receive a donation from the Federation of $18. 

MAH JONGG TOURNAMENT SIGN UP FORM

BUY YOUR COMEDY SHOW TICKETS NOW


NEW ITEMS IN THE GIFT SHOP


HOLDERS FOR MATCH BOOK FOR CANDLE LIGHTING

MEZZUZAHS FOR CHILDREN'S ROOM

STERLING SILVER NECKLACES MADE IN iSRAEL


The gift shop is open during office hours

M-F 10 - 2.


CONGREGATION NEWS

The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Larry Liebowitz 

Leona Adelman

Louis Gilman

Lilian Herman

Betty Lander

Esther Epstein*

Gussie Meyerson*

Phyllis Sora Wittenberg Lehrer

Lance Brusilow

Blanche Lambert*

Dr. Philip Hillel Lewis*

Miriam Bloom

Sophia Dobrow

Ruth Friedman*

Adele Graboyes

Wilma Lang*

Sheldon Lipsitz

Michael Weinman

Philip Applebaum

Shirley Guttman Frankfurt*

Abraham Fruchtman*

Bernard Gerstenblatt

Leah Jacobs*

Harry J. Luterman

Hyman Rubin*

Bob Shrank

Mini Starr*

Leo Wasserman

Fay Baker*

Libby Gurian*

Dora Seidler

Abe Bernstein

Ruth Brill*

Irving Fingerman

Esther Myers

Shirley Rosner*

George Sesso


We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral.

"May God remember forever our dear ones who have gone to their eternal rest. May they be at one with the One who is life eternal. May the beauty of their lives shine for evermore, and may our lives always bring honor to their memory."


Cake


 

Lisa Abramson

May 16

Mark Schlossman

May 16

Barbara Sesso

May 16

Francine Braun

May 18

Susan Carson

May 18

Ina Telles

May 18

Benjamin Margulies

May 20

Kim Hirsh

May 21

Carol Barsh

May 22

Lawrence Garb

May 22

Michael Miller

May 22

 

 

Stuart & Lori Steigerwald

May 18

46th Anniversary


SHARE YOUR NEWS AND PICTURES

CONTACT: 

rvalen1963@aol.com


CARING COMMITTEE

This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.

Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help. 973-634-5349


Olivia Trudy Valentine

granddaughter of

Rose & Rudy z"l Valentine

Clemson University

majoring in Criminal Justice with a minor in Spanish

Graduation

We would love to include graduation information about your children and grandkids in our weekly email. Please send details - name of graduate and school. You can include a picture as well.

Mia Paris

granddaughter of

Maxine & Don z"l Paris

University of Georgia

with honors in Journalism and Business


We would like to expand our Caring Committee to reach out to folks who need a "how are you doing?" call once and a while. Please contact

Debby Schweighardt

973-634-5349 if you are interesting in participating



GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2025 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW


BE A PART OF THE WOMEN'S AUXILLARY

2026 DUES FORM HERE


JCC FUNDS

Scroll down to see the new Ner Tamid Fund


Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.


ENDOWMENT FUND

This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.


GENERAL FUND

Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.


KOL HAKAVOD FUND

Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.



RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND

This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.


ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND

The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.



NER TAMID FUND

The Ner Tamid Fund was established in 2025 as part of the JCC’s 75th Anniversary Celebration. Its purpose is to fund necessary maintenance or improvement of our beautiful JCC building as well as the Parsonage. To ensure that the JCC remains an Eternal Light for the Jewish Community on and off the island and in Southern Ocean County generally, please consider making a separate donation to the Ner Tamid Fund, or allocating a small portion of your High Holiday donation to that fund.

 

JCC LEADERSHIP



OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Jon Geier

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Lorna Klein

Ken Podos

Sondi Pripstein

Terri Robinovitz

David Shatz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

Rose Valentine

Ken Yudman


WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Lorna Klein

Joyce Levine

Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst



Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader


JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2




 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager




BULLETIN:

LATEST BULLETIN



PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Mary Beth Krieger

Contributing Articles by

Stu Lehrer