JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER



May 23, 2025

25 Iyar 5785



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OF THE SHABBAT REMINDER

A Prayer for Remembrance and Peace on Memorial Day



Our God and God of our ancestors,

as we observe another Memorial Day in America,

bless us with the gifts of memory and understanding,

that we may appreciate the true meaning of this day,

an annual occasion to honor the brave men and women

who gave their lives for our country

and for their fellow citizens.


God of compassion,

let those who made the ultimate sacrifice,

so that we may live in freedom,

rest in peace,

honored by a grateful nation.

Remember their parents,

partners,

children

and all the loved ones they left behind.

Protect and comfort them;

bring them peace.


God of justice,

remind us of the debt we owe

to those who lost their lives in the defense of our nation,

and to the families that go on without them.

Fill the heart of every American

with pride in those who served,

and caring concern for their survivors.


May it be Your will

that every American be re-dedicated

to the task of building a nation

worthy of the sacrifices made by our honored dead.

And may it be Your will, also,

that all of us pursue a just peace throughout the world,

so that no more lives are lost in armed conflict

anywhere in Your creation.


“A Prayer for Remembrance and Peace on Memorial Day, by David Abernethy” is shared through the Open Siddur Project 


A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI

For me, it has been a long and sad day. It was a day in which someone expressed that they were suffering from terrible depression. It was a day of speaking with someone about an unfavorable medical diagnosis. It was a day of helping a family to prepare for the funeral for their wife/mother who passed yesterday. And it was the day that the world learned of the brutal murder of Sarah Milgrim, Z”L and Yaron Lischinsky, Z”L, two Israeli Embassy officials, who were in love, and have been taken from their families and from our collective future.


We Jews have always known that this is what “Globalize the Intifada”, and “Free, free Palestine” would lead to. We have known this story for millennia. It is in our DNA. And yet, even though I knew it was bound to happen, this murder has left me heartbroken, outraged, and at a loss for what to say or do.


The sickening irony is that these two beautiful young souls, who were about to become engaged, were murdered as they were leaving an event hosted by the American Jewish Committee to facilitate conversations on how Christians, Jews, Muslims and Israelis can help the Palestinian people. They wanted to help find a solution. 


The tolerance of escalating rhetoric, and concomitant actions, against Jews in this country and around the world, should concern everyone. The lack of a purposeful effort on the part of the world to address this very real issue is maddening. It should leave us concerned for the safety of Jews everywhere. However, I am more concerned about the impact of all this on our children and grandchildren. 

The death of two innocent people, who were killed solely because they attended an American Jewish Committee event, is hard to process. But here is the response that we need to have.


We cannot not hide. 

We must continue to be proud Jews.

We must continue to support Israel.

We must continue to express our Jewish identity.

We need to loudly and vigorously call out those who (even only verbally) seek our destruction.

We need to “Do Jewish” every day.

We need to let the world know that we are not going anywhere. 


As my colleague Rabbi Matthew Gewirtz wrote in a post on Facebook: “We are a resilient people, and we will not be paralyzed by the terror.


With thanks to minyannaire, Marlene Herman, this morning we recited Psalm 121, which reads in part:


I turn my eyes to the mountains;

from where will my help come?

My help comes from the LORD,

maker of heaven and earth.


Lastly, this is not a time to be alone. This is a time that we need community. When we come together in solidarity, the help that God provides, as expressed in the Psalm, comes from each of us. 


Please join us at Kabbalat Shabbat services on Friday evening at 7:30. We will have some special prayers to say and try to begin the process of making Sarah’s and Yaron’s memories a blessing.


We are in person and on Zoom.

Remember: #ITZAMITZVAH!


I look forward to seeing you.


Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay


SHABBAT SHALOM

Candle Lighting Time

(Southern Ocean County)

Shabbat Eve

Friday, May 23, 2025

7:53 PM

JOIN US FOR

SERVICES

Shabbat Mevarchim Chodesh Sivan


Friday

May 23, 2025

Services

7:30 PM

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday

May 24, 2025

9:00 AM

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services


TORAH READING

Behar-Bechukotai 

Torah Portion: Leviticus 25:1-27:34

Behar (“On The Mountain”) details the laws of the sabbatical year (Shemita), when working the land is prohibited and debts are forgiven. It also sets out laws of indentured servitude and of the Jubilee year (Yovel), when property reverts to its original ownership. Bechukotai (“In My Laws”) is the final Torah portion in the Book of Leviticus. It begins describing blessings that follow obedience to God's laws and curses that come with desecration of them. It ends with laws of vows and consecration of people and property.

Here is the Parshah


HAFTORAH

Jeremiah 16:19-17:14

The haftorah discusses the punishments that await those who disregard G‑d's law, and the blessings that are the lot of those who follow the Creator's wishes. This follows the theme of this week's Torah reading which details at length the blessings and curses.

Here is the Haftorah


HAVDALLAH

8:30 PM

ON ZOOM ONLY

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

HAVDALLAH

WEEKDAY SERVICES


Monday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday - Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT 

YOM YERUSHALAYIM

Monday, 26 May 2025.


Jerusalem Day (Yom Yerushalayim) is an Israeli national holiday commemorating the reunification of Jerusalem and the establishment of Israeli control over the Old City in June 1967. The Chief Rabbinate of Israel declared Jerusalem Day a minor religious holiday to thank G-d for victory in the Six-Day War and for answering the 2,000-year-old prayer of “Next Year in Jerusalem”.



SHAVUOT SERVICES



7:30 PM – Zoom and In-Person

Shavuot Services

and then

A Night of Study

(Tikkun L’el Shavuot)




Monday and Tuesday

June 2nd and 3rd


9AM (In-Person and Zoom)

7:30 PM – Zoom Only


June 3rd

Yizkor recited at approx. 11:00 AM

(In-Person and Zoom)



John Kenrick Program "Screen to Stage

CLICK HERE

Passcode: LM17E7*=

 

PJP Israel Series "A Constitution for Israel?" with Don Seeman

CLICK HERE

Passcode: RQ1fVx=4


SUNDAY, May 25

Pickleball

10 - 1


Sunday, May 25

Blessing of the Pets

10:00 AM

******


TUESDAY, May 27

Pickleball

10 - 1

******


WEDNESDAY, May 28

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 - 4:00 PM

*******


THURSDAY, May 29

Torah Study

11:00 AM


Pickleball

10 - 1


Sunday, May 25

Blessing of the Pets

10:00 AM

Sunday, June 1

Interfaith Singers at the JCC

4:00 PM


Wednesday, June 4

Singles Club

3:00 PM


Friday, June 6

JCC Family Dinner and Service

6:30 PM


Friday, June 13

WAX Welcome Back Brunch

11:00 AM


Sunday, June 15

Blessing of the Fleet

5:30 PM


Wednesday, June 18

WAX Book Discussion

4:00 PM


Sunday, June 22

Welcome Back Brunch

10:00 AM

MAH JONGG & CANASTA

WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM


PICKLEBALL

Sundays, Tuesdays

and Thursdays

10 - 1


CLICK HERE FOR UPCOMING EVENTS

THIS SPRING AND SUMMER

JCC WOMEN’S AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION

 WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM

NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING


Wednesday, June 18th at 4:00 PM

Discussion Leader: TBA

Does the Soul Survive

By: Rabbi Elie Kaplan Spitzer


Near-death experiences? Past-life regression? Reincarnation?

 Are these sorts of things Jewish?


With a blend of candor, personal questioning, and sharp-eyed scholarship, Rabbi Elie Kaplan Spitz relates his own observations and the firsthand accounts shared with him by others, experiences that helped propel his journey from skeptic to believer that there is life after life.  From near-death experiences to reincarnation, past-life memory to the work of mediums, Rabbi Spitz explores what we are really able to know about the afterlife, and draws on Jewish texts to share that belief 

in these concepts—so often approached with reluctance—is in fact true to Jewish tradition.  “The increasing interest and faith in survival of the soul may grow into a cultural wave that is as potentially transformative for society as the civil rights movement and feminism. A renewed faith in ‘the soul’s journeys’ will call for a reassessment of our priorities and will enable traditional religions to renew and 

transform their adherents.


LOOK FOR INFORMATION ABOUT

THESE OTHER SUMMER EVENTS

July 17: Irvin Moreno Rodriquez, Director Stockton Holocaust Resource Center 7pm


July 30: JCC Summer Bazaar with Susan Shapiro hosting a Book Signing



August 21: Tour of Harvey Cedars Bible Center (HCBC) – 10am



BEACH SERVICES


June 13 – Beach Services at Loveladies 6pm

June 20: Beach Services at Spray Beach 6 pm

June 27: Beach Services at Loveladies 6pm

July 11: Beach Services at Spray Beach 6pm

July 18: Beach Services at Loveladies at 6pm

July 25: Beach Services at Spray Beach at 6pm

August 8: Beach Services at Loveladies

August 15: Beach Services at Loveladies

August 22: Beach Services at Spray Beach

August 29: Beach Services at Spray Beach


The Federation has arranged for a fun program to come to Ocean County, the hilarious one-man-show: My Son The Waiter. This is for one night only on Thursday, June 19th.


Let's celebrate and laugh together as a community. After the past few years, we can use some uplifting humor.  


The play at the Strand starts at 7:30 PM. You can buy general tickets - but donors to the Jewish Federation of $100 or more can get discounted VIP tickets and a special pre-show light dinner reception at 6:00pm.






The JCC section at Crescent Memorial Park is available for sales. Please contact Bonni Rubin-Sugarman at 609-417-7148.


We are very excited to add to the WAX Gift Shop items from local merchants and artisans. Stop in to look and buy one (or more) of these beautiful pieces for your home, as a gift or just for yourself. Here is a sample one of our new products. The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.


CALL PAUL LEVINE WITH ANY QUESTIONS

484-802-0586

SEE ORDER FORM BELOW

CONGREGATION NEWS



The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Josephine Cramer

Dr. Harry Herman*

David Kaplan

Elizabeth Piwosky

Isidor Rothstein

Bernice Szanger*

Elaine Frand

Martin Garb

Abraham Joseph Kates*

Jerome Stanley Katz*

Herbert Kramer

Kate Alexander

Mark Babbitt

Richard Gardner, MD

Vera Lipman

28 Harry Solomon*

28 Judith Weinstein

Leona Adelman

Louis Gilman

Lilian Herman

Betty Lander

Esther Epstein*

Gussie Meyerson*

Phyllis Sora Wittenberg Lehrer

Lance Brusilow

Blanche Lambert*

Dr. Philip Hillel Lewis*

Miriam (Mimi) Bloom

Sophia Dobrow

Ruth Friedman*

Adele Graboyes

Wilma Lang*

Sheldon Lipsitz

Michael Weinman

 

We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral.



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LOOK FOR LISTING OF BIRTHDAYS AND ANNIVERSARIES IN A SEPARATE EMAIL TOMORROW.

SUZIE & JON GEIER

48th ANNIVERSARY

April 28

PROM PICTURE

May 1973

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CONTACT: 

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CARING COMMITTEE

  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.

Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349


CARING COMMITTEE

  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.

Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349


YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.


Go to jccoflbi.org - Giving/Pay

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2025 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW


BE A PART OF THE WOMEN'S AUXILLARY

2025 DUES FORM HERE


JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP



OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Jon Geier

Treasurer- Stu Cofsky

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Lorna Klein

Paul Levine

Ken Podos

Sondi Pripstein

Terri Robinovitz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

Rose Valentine

Ken Yudman


WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst

Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein


Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader


JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2




 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Mary Beth Kreiger

Contributing Articles by

Stu Lehrer