JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER



June 20, 2025

24 Sivan 5785





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OF THE SHABBAT REMINDER

A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI

Right now, there is nothing more upsetting than getting pictures from my Israeli relatives with the whole family in their safe room or bomb shelter. At the same time there is nothing more uplifting. While the family is forced to cram itself into a small space, for increasingly long periods of time, in the photos they are always smiling. In the videos the kids are coloring or drawing pictures, and the adults are sending messages of love. When we ask how they are, they joke about their situation and invariably turn the conversation to express concern for our well-being due to the increased antisemitism in the world. Israelis are a wonder. The Jewish people are incomparable and indestructible.


The world has been living with Iran’s threats and actions since 1979. How is it that now, a tiny nation, a nation comprised of the one, true, minority in this world, is the nation forced to confront the evil and deal with it? And yet, that is exactly what is happening.

God willing Israel will be able to erase the threats posed by Iran. While, we have no real idea what the result of Israel’s actions will be. What I do know is that the world should be thanking Israel for attempting to do what larger, wealthier, and better equipped countries should have done long ago. 

We must stand firmly in support of Israel, as our Jewish homeland faces the challenges now unfolding there. There are certain Psalms that are recited when we are in peril. With such uncertainty in Israel and around the world, now is such a time. At all our services we recite either Psalms 121 or Psalm 130. You can find them here:


https://www.sefaria.org/Psalms.121?lang=bi

https://www.sefaria.org/Psalms.130?lang=bi


Among other things, these beautiful pieces of Text remind us that God is ever present and stands with us.

At services we also recite the following 2 prayers:


1)   The Prayer for Members of the Israel Defense Force


May God Who blessed our ancestors Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, Sarah, Rebecca, Rachel, and Leah - bless the fighters of the Israel Defense Force, who stand guard over our land and the cities of our God from the border of the Lebanon to the desert of Egypt, and from the Great Sea unto the approach of the Aravah, on the land, in the air, and on the sea.

May Adonai cause the enemies who rise up against us to be struck down before them. May the Holy One, Blessed be God, preserve and rescue our fighting men and women from every trouble and distress and from every plague and illness, and may God send blessing and success in their every endeavor.

May God grant our fighting forces salvation and crown them with victory. And may there be fulfilled for them the verse: For it is Adonai, your God, Who goes with you to battle your enemies for you to save you.

Amen; and

 

2)   A Prayer for the State of Israel


Avinu She-Bashamayim, Rock and Redeemer of the people Israel:

Bless the State of Israel, with its promise of redemption. Shield it with Your love; spread over it the shelter of Your peace. Guide its leaders and advisors with Your light and Your truth. Help them with your good counsel. Strengthen the hands of those who defend our Holy Land. Deliver them; crown their efforts with triumph. Bless the Land with peace, and its inhabitants with lasting joy.

And let us say: Amen.


Join us for services to help us pray for our homeland and our people. If you cannot join us, then please print the Psalms and prayers above. We need each other now perhaps more than we have needed each other in a very long time.


May God keep everyone safe, whether they are in the air, on land, at sea, or in shelters. And may we see the day soon when all remaining hostages are returned.


One way to bring strength to Israel is by increasing the strength of our own community and Jewish communities everywhere. Show solidarity by


1) Joining us for beach services this week on 24th Street just down from the JCC


 2) Joining us for the Welcome Back Brunch this Sunday, June 22nd at 10:00; and 3) supporting all our programming this season as we celebrate 75 years of Faith, Family, Friends and Fun. 



Am Yisrael Chai. 

Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay




SHABBAT SHALOM

Candle Lighting Time

(Southern Ocean County)

Shabbat Eve

Friday, June 20, 2025

8:09 PM

JOIN US

FOR

SHABBAT

SERVICES

6:00 PM

Services

on the Beach

on 24th Street

Bring your beach chair!

In case of inclement weather services will be held at the JCC.

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday

June 21, 2025

9:00 AM

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SATURDAY MORNING

TORAH READING

Parashat Sh’lach 

Numbers 13:1-15:41

Shelach (“Send”) tells the story of Israelite spies journeying into Canaan, the negative report they bring back, and the resulting punishment decreed upon the Israelites: to wander and die in the desert over forty years. It ends with laws about sacrifices, the story of a man who desecrates Shabbat, and the commandment to wear ritual fringes.

Here is the Parshah


HAFTORAH

Joshua 2:1-24

This week's haftorah tells the story of the spies that Joshua sent to scout the city of Jericho, prior to the Israelites' invasion of the Holy Land, a point in common with this week's Torah reading, which discusses the twelve spies that were sent by Moses years earlier to explore the Holy Land.

Here is the Haftorah


HAVDALLAH

8:45 PM

ON ZOOM ONLY

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

HAVDALLAH




WEEKDAY SERVICES


Monday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday - Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT

BLESSING OF THE FLEET

SUNDAY, June 22

NO Pickleball

Welcome Back Brunch

10:00 AM


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TUESDAY, June 24

Pickleball

3 - 6 pm

SEE NEW SCHEDULE BELOW

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WEDNESDAY, June 25

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 - 4:00 PM

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THURSDAY, June 26

Torah Study

11:00 AM

Pickleball

10 - 1

Sunday, June 22

Welcome Back Brunch

10:00 AM

Singles Club

Wednesday, July 2  

3:00 - 4:00 PM


Israeli Folk Dancing

Sunday, July 13  

7:00 - 9:00 PM


Stockton Holocaust Resource Center

Speaker: Director Irvin Moreno Rodriquez

At the JCC 

Thursday, July 17  

7:00 pm


Klezmer Band World Tour Concert 

at Harvey Cedars Bible Center

Sunday, July 20  

7:00- 9:30 PM 


WAX Brunch 

Tuesday, July 22 

11:00 AM-1:00 PM

 Venue TBD


 JCC Summer Bazaar

Wednesday, July 30


MAH JONGG & CANASTA

WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM


PICKLEBALL

Sundays, Tuesdays

and Thursdays

10 - 1


Tuesdays

3-4 PM Beginners

4 - 6 PM Experienced Players


CLICK HERE FOR UPCOMING EVENTS

THIS SPRING AND SUMMER

SURFLIGHT COMEDY SHOW

To Benefit the JCC of LBI

August 31, 2025

8:00 PM


The seats in the section set aside for the JCC have been sold out for a few months. The public will be now buying tickets for the event. If you want to sit close to the JCC section in the theater, buy your tickets NOW before the show sells out.


Contact the Surflight Box Office to order yor tickets.

609-492-9477

CONTACT HOWARD BABBITT IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO VOLUNTEER AT THE BAZAAR.

WEDNESDAY, JULY 30TH

HAB2121@GMAIL.COM

215-962-1858

BEACH SERVICES


June 20: Beach Services at Spray Beach 6 pm

June 27: Beach Services at Loveladies 6pm

July 11: Beach Services at Spray Beach 6pm

July 18: Beach Services at Loveladies at 6pm

July 25: Beach Services at Spray Beach at 6pm


August 8: Beach Services at Loveladies

August 15: Beach Services at Loveladies

August 22: Beach Services at Spray Beach

August 29: Beach Services at Spray Beach






The JCC section at Crescent Memorial Park is available for sales. Please contact Bonni Rubin-Sugarman at 609-417-7148.


We are very excited to add to the WAX Gift Shop items from local merchants and artisans. Stop in to look and buy one (or more) of these beautiful pieces for your home, as a gift or just for yourself. Here is a sample one of our new products. The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.


CALL PAUL LEVINE WITH ANY QUESTIONS

484-802-0586

SEE ORDER FORM BELOW

CONGREGATION NEWS



The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Howard Breslow

Adrienne Cantor

Eldon Dondershine*

Charles Papier

Terry Polaner

Bennie Reiff*

Edward Weiss

Stanley Fink

Joseph Jagust

Rose Rudnick*

Mollie Soto

Mollie Steinberg

Meyer Dobrow

Patricia Husak*

Helen Muscente

Charlotte Rosenberg

Howard Seidler

George Wolpert

Harold Berson

Chester Goldberg

Harry Kirschner

Minnie Lipsitz

Adele Swissman

Shirley Israelite

Betty Sampson

Malcom Zlotkin*

Albert Alexander*

Benjamin Einhorn*

Dr. H. Robert Freed*

Lillain Goodman

Lori-Ann Keating

Milka Meshulam

 

We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral.



Cake

David Pashman

June 21

Karlene Turtz

June 22

Amanda Bates

June 22

Andrea Silvershein

June 23

Phyllis Sisenwine

June 24

Carol Zemble

June 24

Elliot Greene

June 25

Alan Kanis

June 26

Martin Hochman

June 27

Norma Hochman

June 27 

Jeffrey & Karen Buchalter

June 21

33rd Anniversary

Herbert & Deanna Feinberg

June 21

66th Anniversary

Frederic & Arlene Schragger

June 22

60th Anniversary

Warren & Marlene Matz

June 23

57th Anniversary

James & Bonnie Shrager

June 23

62nd Anniversary

Barry & Bobbi Freedman

June 24

MAZEL TOV

Sharon & David Handler

on the birth of their grandson

Wes Elliot Hendler

to parents Gary & Chelsea Hendler.

All doing well and older toddler brother Mac is thrilled. 


Graduation



We would love to include pictures and information of your graduates in future Shabbat Reminders. Send to Rose by clicking here.

Joseph Goodman

Grandson of Harris & Sheila z"l Weisel

Son of Ellen & Allen Goodman

graduating from James Madison High School, Brooklyn

Attending SUNY Oneonta in the Fall

Eric Reilly

Grandson of Harris & Sheila z"l Weisel

Son of Ivy & Tom Reilly

graduating from Lynbrook High School, LI

Attending Yale University in the Fall

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AND PICTURES


CONTACT: 

rvalen1963@aol.com


CARING COMMITTEE

  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.

Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349


YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.


Go to jccoflbi.org - Giving/Pay

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2025 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW


BE A PART OF THE WOMEN'S AUXILLARY

2025 DUES FORM HERE


JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP



OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Jon Geier

Treasurer- Stu Cofsky

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Lorna Klein

Paul Levine

Ken Podos

Sondi Pripstein

Terri Robinovitz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

Rose Valentine

Ken Yudman


WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst

Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein


Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader


JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2




 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Mary Beth Kreiger

Contributing Articles by

Stu Lehrer