JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER


June 23, 2023

4 Tamuz 5783

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A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI

P’sukei D’Zimrah 4, Mizmor L’Todah, A Psalm of Praise


We are in the middle of the P’sukei D’Zimrah section of the weekday Shacharit Service. This section is mostly about praising God. Last week we saw that the liturgy strung together pieces of many Psalms which, when read together, focused on praise of God by Israel, and on Israel being helped by God. This week we are looking at a section with just one Psalm. It is Psalm 100, Mizmor L’Todah, A Psalm of “Praise” or “Thanksgiving”. 


Psalm 100 was recited in the Temple when a person brought a Thanksgiving offering (Korban Todah) after being saved from danger. How important is a prayer of gratitude? In Midrash Rabbah Tzav, 9, it says “In the future, even though all things on earth will be in such an ideal state that there will be no more cause for prayers…, prayers of gratitude…will nevertheless [continue to be said].”


Today, when a person is saved from a fatal illness, or returns from a risky journey, he/she recites the Gomel blessing. The Rabbis, instituted Psalm 100 in our daily prayers as an expression of thanks for the many unrecognized miracles that God performs on our behalf every day. Thus, when we recite it, we are acknowledging that life, itself, is a wondrous event and that we should continually express gratitude to God. We call it the “attitude of gratitude”. Here it is in Hebrew and English:


מִזְמוֹר לְתוֹדָה הָרִֽיעוּ לַיהוָֹה כָּל־הָאָֽרֶץ: עִבְדוּ אֶת יְהֹוָה בְּשִׂמְחָה בֹּֽאוּ לְפָנָיו בִּרְנָנָה: דְּעוּ כִּי־יְהֹוָה הוּא אֱלֹהִים הוּא עָשָֽׂנוּ וְלוֹ (וְלֹא) אֲנַֽחְנוּ עַמּוֹ וְצֹאן מַרְעִיתוֹ: בֹּֽאוּ שְׁעָרָיו בְּתוֹדָה חֲצֵרֹתָיו בִּתְהִלָּה הֽוֹדוּ לוֹ בָּרְ֒כוּ שְׁמוֹ: כִּי־טוֹב יְהֹוָה לְעוֹלָם חַסְדּוֹ וְעַד־דֹּר וָדֹר אֱמוּנָתוֹ:


A Psalm of thanksgiving:

Shout for joy to Adonai, all people on earth.

Worship Adonai in gladness,

come before God with joyous song.

Know that Adonai is God who fashioned us.

We are God’s people, the flock that God tends.

Enter God’s gates with gratitude,

Adonai’s courtyards with praise.

Give thanks to God, bless God’s Name

for Adonai is good,

God’s loving kindness is eternal,

God’s faithfulness endures for all generations.


One of the goals of daily prayer is to teach us to be grateful. Why do you think this is necessary? 

Try an exercise for a week, starting on Sunday. Every day, write down something that you are grateful for. At the end of the week, on shabbat, review what you have recorded. I would love to find out if you learned anything!!


Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay



Candle Lighting time

Friday evening

June 23, 2023

8:10 pm

(So. Ocean County)


JOIN US FOR

SERVICES


Friday Night

June 23, 2023

Services

6:00 PM

IN PERSON ON THE BEACH AT 24TH STREET

SPRAY BEACH

AND

ON ZOOM

We will notify you if things change due to the weather.

We will then bring the

Beach inside!!!!!


Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday Morning

June 24, 2023

9:00 AM

Services

IN PERSON AND ON ZOOM

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SHABBAT MORNING



TORAH READING

Here is the Reading

Parashat Korach

Numbers 16:1-18:32

Here is the Parshah

PARSHAH


Parashat Korach recounts the rebellion of Korach (a cousin of Moses and Aaron), Dathan, Abiram, and 250 of their followers. Some rebels are swallowed by the ground, while others are consumed by a fire from God and others die in a plague. The portion ends by describing gifts given to priests and Levites.



HAFTORAH

I Samuel 11:14-12:22 

Here is the Haftorah

HAFTORAH


HAVDALLAH

Saturday evening

8:45 PM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

HAVDALLAH

Sunday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

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join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday- Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM


Sunday at 9:00 AM

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join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT


THIS SUNDAY MORNING

SERVICES ARE ON THE BEACH AT 24TH STREET AT 9:00


Click Here to Respond to Membership Brunch

Lots of new and interesting things were learned at the Maritime Museum Tour set up by the WAX.


UPCOMING EVENTS


June 25

Welcome Back Brunch


June 27

WAX Brunch


June 29

JCC George Markey Concert


June 30

Shabbat on the Beach (Loveladies)

CLICK HERE FOR A LIST OF SUMMER EVENTS


Please note correction:

Sunday June 25 Brunch begins at 10:00 AM

July 7

Shabbat on the Beach

(Spray Beach)


July 9

Interview with Susan Shapiro


July 11, 18. 26

Dance Fitness Class


July 12

Bazzar


July 14

Shabbat on the Beach (Loveladies)


July 19

WAX Book Discussion


July 21

Shabbat Dinner


July 23

Simon Mandel Concert


July 25

WAX Brunch at Wally's


July 28

Shabbat on the Beach

(Spray Beach)


PICKLEBALL

NO PICKLEBALL THIS SUNDAY


THURSDAY AT 10:00 AM


Reminder: Pickleball for members only!


MAH JONGG & CANASTA

WEDNESDAYS

12:30 TO 4:00 PM

 THIS WEEK'S ACTIVITIES



SUNDAY, June 25

Welcome Back Brunch

10:00 AM


TUESDAY, June 27

WAX Compassion Cafe Brunch

9:30 AM


WEDNESDAY, June 28

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 AM - 4:00 PM


following Ma'ariv

7:45 PM

Study with with Rabbi Jay

"Jewish Wisdom"

using the book

by Rabbi Joseph Telushkin



THURSDAY, JUNE 29

Pickleball

10:00 AM


Torah Study with the Rabbi

11:00 AM 


NEW INTERMEDIATE HEBREW CLASS WITH IRA

2:00 PM

Contact Ira for more information

inaira213@gmail.com


GEORGE MARKEY CONCERT

7:30 PM


CLICK HERE TO JOIN WEDNESDAY CLASS
CLICK HERE TO JOIN THURSDAY CLASS

JCC WOMEN’S AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION

 WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM

Thank you to Elsa Dreyfus for leading a very interesting discussion of "My Mother's Secret".



NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING


Wednesday, July 19th

"Signal Fires"

by Dani Shapiro

Discussion Leader: TBA


Signal Fires opens on a summer night in 1985. Three teenagers have been drinking. One of them gets behind the wheel of a car, and, in an instant, everything on Division Street changes. Each of their lives, and that of Ben Wilf, a young doctor who arrives on the scene, is shattered. For the Wilf family, the circumstances of that fatal accident will become the deepest kind of secret, one so dangerous it can never be spoken.

FUTURE BOOKS


Wednesday, August 16th

Rebel Daughter

By Lori Banov Kaufmann


A Zoom link will be sent shortly before the event.

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SPONSORSHIP OF OUR SUMMER CONCERT SERIES

IS STILL AVAILABLE


George Markey - Thursday June 29th at 7:30 PM

Vocalist

Simon Mandel - Sunday, July 23 at 7:00 PM

Magician

Wendy & Rik- Sunday, August 20 at 7:30 PM

Vocal Duo



SPONSOR LEVELS

Bronze $500 - Two Tickets for Any Performance

Silver $1000 - Four Tickets for Any Performance

Gold $1500 - Six Tickets for Any Performance


Sponsors will get preferred seating and will be acknowledged

in the Shabbat Reminder

To sponsor or questions email 2023atjcc@gmail.com


ALL DONATIONS ARE APPRECIATED


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CONGREGATION NEWS

Look for Yahrzeits, Birthdays and Anniversaries in a separate mailing tomorrow.

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CARING COMMITTEE
  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.
Please contact Chairperson,
Debby Schweighardt
if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help. 973-634-5349 

SHEILA'S CORNER....

Sheila Weisel is a Contributing Columnist

to the Shabbat Reminder

DO UNTO OTHERS

 

  Before the saying "what goes around comes around" was ever "a thing" I learned from my mother what that means. When I was a little girl some 70 years ago I used to cry when one of my friends or cousins were mean to me. I was quiet and shy and never argued or fought with anyone. The reason for that was because my mom always told me to treat other people the way I would like them to treat me. I never wanted anyone to treat me badly so I was always nice to everyone. I came from a large family and was one of 34 first cousins on my mother's side and one of 8 cousins on my dad's side. My mom's family all lived in approximately a six block radius to our grandparents.   My grandmother passed away when I was only 4 years old and we moved into my grandparents' apartment since it was a lot larger than ours and my mom could take care of her disabled dad. A lot of aunts, uncles and cousins visited every day. I was never lonely or bored. My brother and I got along famously because at the end of each day we were both too tired to disagree with each other. One day when I was about 12 years old, one of my female cousins who always made me cry said something to me that hurt so badly that I couldn't stop crying. I heard my mother say something I never heard her say before to anyone. She told my cousin to go home and not to come back until she learned how to be a nice person. Although she stayed away for about a week she came back with my aunt. She didn't even try to apologize to me and I couldn't feel it in my heart to forgive her and didn't speak to her for seven years. I never told my mother or anyone else what she said to me and nobody knows to this day. I eventually forgave her and ended up being the matron of honor at her wedding but that friendship didn't last very long. Her words were always very cruel and hurtful and she didn't have a good thing to say about anyone for any reason. I can't be friends with a person who makes people feel bad about themselves.


  Mom's words stuck with me. I still treat people the way I want them to treat me. If I see someone in distress I try to help, if I am at a party and notice someone sitting alone and nobody is talking to that person, I go over and start a conversation.


  The other day a woman ran out of gas in front of my house. When Harris went out to get the mail she came out of her car and told him that she had to wait in her car for the police to arrive and help her. I felt so bad that she was sitting in a hot car that I sent Harris back outside with a cold bottle of water to give her. I don't know if it made her feel a little better about her situation or not, but I treated her the way I would want someone to treat me.


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YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.

Go to jccoflbi.org - community - forms

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES

PAVERS
Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building
8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"

SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:
Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.
Purchase a personalized paving stone
in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.

Please contact Diane Hoffman
with your order or with any questions:


PRAYER BOOKS
There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.
See Order form here: Prayer Book


TRIBUTES
SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF
See order form here: TRIBUTES


TREE OF LIFE
Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE
Bronze Leaf $90
Silver Leaf $126
Gold :Leaf $180


ENDOWMENT FUND

Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.

Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.

A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.
 
Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 


YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 
Here is the order form: 


KOL HAKAVOD

Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD

2023 MEMBERSHIP FORMS

Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.
Here is form for renewal:

And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:


JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 
JCC LEADERSHIP

OFFICERS
President- Phil Rosenzweig
1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman
2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman
3RD Vice President- Rose Valentine
Treasurer- Ira Morgenthal
Secretary- Cliff Denker
Immediate Past President -Michael Babst

BOARD MEMBERS
Howard Babbitt 
Diane Buskirk
Mitch Frumkin

Jon Geier
Paul Levine
Donald Pripstein
Terri Robinovitz
David Shatz
Rob Van Naarden

WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk
Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll
Co-Vice President - Jill Denker
Treasurer - Suzy Geier
Secretary - Joanne Babbitt
Immediate Past President - Irene Babst
JCC INFORMATION

THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT
2411 Long Beach Boulevard
(24th Street)
Spray Beach, NJ 08008
Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550
web site: www.jccoflbi.org  
  
THE OFFICE IS OPEN
MONDAY - FRIDAY
CLOSED THURSDAY
FROM 10 - 2

 Staff:
 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager
  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member
 Diane Parzych, Staff Member
Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager


LATEST
BULLETIN:

PRAYER BOOK:
 
WEB SITE:

PAVERS:

TREE OF LIFE
  
YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

TRIBUTES:


CONTACT INFORMATION:
  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

Phil Rosenzweig, President

 
E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 
rvalen1963@aol.com 
Graphics by
Irene Babst
Contributing Columnist
Sheila Weisel