JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER



June 27, 2025

1 Tamuz 5785





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A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI

Parashat Korach begins with a rebellion by Korach, Datan, Abiram, On and 250 chieftains against the leadership of Moses and Aaron. This they did despite the fact that it is clear that Moses and Aaron have been chosen by God for the task of leading the people. What is a community to do when people, without proper authority, attempt to usurp or overthrow the chosen leaders? God’s answer is swift and complete. The Deity opens the ground, and the usurpers and their supporters are swallowed immediately. God’s message is that when leaders are appointed, it is not up to others, without authority, to take matters into their own hands. 


I provide the above as a reminder of what is usually the focal point of this Torah portion. While the above lesson resonates with me for several reasons, I want to focus on something a bit more nuanced. 


In the middle of the Korach pericope, Moses and Aaron refer to God as: “The Source of the breath of all Flesh”. It is a strange appellation, but it is fitting. You might recall from the book of Genesis that God breathed life into Adam. So, in fact, according to the Torah, God is, in fact, the “Source of the Breath of all flesh”.  We acknowledge the importance of this in our liturgy. As I often point out during the Saturday morning service, the Nishmat Kol Chai prayer, during which we sing that “the breath of every living being praises God”, is, in part, an acknowledgement of our gratefulness to God for having breathed life into us.


Breath is our basic life support system. If we breathe we live, if we don’t breathe we cannot live. And breath, like God, is something we can neither see nor touch. For a Jew, breath and God compose our very essence. If God is the universal source of life, breath becomes a source of life for each individual.


The Rhythm of life flows in and out with our breath. If we choose, we can connect with the Holy One with each inhale and exhale. Indeed the four-letter name we use for God, the Tetragrammaton, actually provides a wonderful platform for which to do a meditative breathing exercise. (I believe that I first learned this meditation from Rabbi Paula Mack-Drill). We pronounce it Adonai, but it is spelled Yud-Hey-Vav-Hey. If we pronounce the letters we will note that Yud is an exhale – Hey is an inhale – Vav is an exhale – and Hey is an inhale. So if you rhythmically say the letters, in order, you will be breathing while spelling out God’s name. Do it slowly and elongate each letter.  As you do this, clear your mind of distractions and consider the holy nature of each breath.


This year the JCC is celebrating 75 years of Faith, Family, Friends, and Fun. All those years ago, God breathed life into this congregation through the actions of a few people who wanted the Jewish community in and around our beautiful island to be vibrant and full of life. With the help of God, what a job they did! And what a job you, my gentle readers, are doing even today. Keep up the good work and keep breathing life into your JCC of LBI.


It is possible to find God in each breath we take. Breathe out, Breathe in, Breathe out, Breathe in. Breathe for yourself, Breathe for building and sustaining a community, Breathe to help others breathe, and Breathe for God.


Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay

WELCOME BACK BRUNCH



A welcome Welcome Back Brunch was enjoyed by 83 JCC members last Sunday morning. Folks got a chance to catch up on their news and to connect with other members. It was a nice touch to have recent Southern graduate Grant Rapinsky playing background on our JCC piano. Grant will be entering Princeton University this Fall. Thank you to the Membership Committee for planning this annual event.


CONTACT HOWARD BABBITT IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO VOLUNTEER AT THE BAZAAR.

WEDNESDAY, JULY 30TH

HAB2121@GMAIL.COM

215-962-1858


SHABBAT SHALOM

Candle Lighting Time

(Southern Ocean County)

Shabbat Eve

Friday, June 27, 2025

8:00 PM

JOIN US

FOR

SHABBAT

SERVICES

6:00 PM

Services

on the Beach

in Loveladies

just south of St. Clare's Church

Bring your beach chair!

In case of inclement weather services will be held at the JCC.

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday

June 28, 2025

9:00 AM

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SATURDAY MORNING



BAT MITZVAH OF

AMELIA BATES

Daughter of

Amanda & Brian Bates


Learn about Amelia...

My name is Amelia Bates and I am a 7th grader at Washingtonville Middle School. I am an all-around competitive dancer, a flute player, a runner on my middle school’s modified teams and a Cadette Girl Scout. I love to spend my summers on Long Beach Island and spending time with my family and friends.


I have been at Monroe Temple Torah School since kindergarten and I am excited to become bat mitzvahed in June. I will make my bat mitzvah in Long Beach Island on June 28th at the Jewish Community Center.  


For my mitzvah project, I am organizing a food drive for the Country Kids Food Pantry, located in Washingtonville, NY. I have selected this project because I have been volunteering at the food pantry for the last few years and understand the needs of many in the community. I will be placing a collection box at the temple and would appreciate any non-perishable food donations to support my project.


TORAH READING

Parashat Korach 

Numbers 16:1-18:32

Parashat Korach recounts the rebellion of Korach (a cousin of Moses and Aaron), Dathan, Abiram, and 250 of their followers. Some rebels are swallowed by the ground, while others are consumed by a fire from God and others die in a plague. The portion ends by describing gifts given to priests and Levites. 

Here is the Parshah


HAFTORAH

I Samuel 11:14-12:22

The Haftarah discusses the appointment of King Saul and the people's request for a king, mirroring Korach's challenge to Moses' leadership. It emphasizes that the king's success, and the nation's, depends on adherence to God's law. 

Here is the Haftorah


HAVDALLAH

8:45 PM

ON ZOOM ONLY

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

HAVDALLAH




WEEKDAY SERVICES


Monday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday - Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT



SUNDAY, June 29

Pickleball

10- 1

******

TUESDAY, July 1

Pickleball

3 - 6 pm

SEE NEW SCHEDULE BELOW

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WEDNESDAY, July 2

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 - 4:00 PM


Singles Club

3:00 - 4:00 PM

******


THURSDAY, July 3

Torah Study

11:00 AM


Pickleball

10 - 1

Singles Club

Wednesday, July 2  

3:00 - 4:00 PM


Israeli Folk Dancing

Sunday, July 13  

7:00 - 9:00 PM


Stockton Holocaust Resource Center

Speaker: Director Irvin Moreno Rodriquez

At the JCC 

Thursday, July 17  

7:00 pm


Klezmer Band World Tour Concert 

at Harvey Cedars Bible Center

Sunday, July 20  

7:00- 9:30 PM 


WAX Brunch 

Tuesday, July 22 

11:00 AM-1:00 PM

 Venue TBD


 JCC Summer Bazaar

Wednesday, July 30


MAH JONGG & CANASTA

WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM


PICKLEBALL

Sundays and Thursdays

10 - 1

Tuesdays

3-4 PM Beginners

4 - 6 PM Experienced Players


CLICK HERE FOR UPCOMING EVENTS

THIS SPRING AND SUMMER

SURFLIGHT COMEDY SHOW

To Benefit the JCC of LBI

August 31, 2025

8:00 PM


The seats in the section set aside for the JCC have been sold out for a few months. The public will be now buying tickets for the event. If you want to sit close to the JCC section in the theater, buy your tickets NOW before the show sells out.


Contact the Surflight Box Office to order yor tickets.

609-492-9477

BEACH SERVICES


June 27: Beach Services at Loveladies 6pm

July 11: Beach Services at Spray Beach 6pm

July 18: Beach Services at Loveladies at 6pm

July 25: Beach Services at Spray Beach at 6pm


August 8: Beach Services at Loveladies

August 15: Beach Services at Loveladies

August 22: Beach Services at Spray Beach

August 29: Beach Services at Spray Beach


PLEASE REGISTER FOR THE ACTIVITIES BELOW WITH THE QR CODE. JUST POINT TO THE QR ON EACH FLYER

WITH YOUR PHONE CAMERA.

A YELLOW LINE WILL APPEAR. THEN CLICK.

THE REGISTRATION FORM WILL APPEAR

FOR YOU TO FILL OUT.





The JCC section at Crescent Memorial Park is available for sales. Please contact Bonni Rubin-Sugarman at 609-417-7148.


We are very excited to add to the WAX Gift Shop items from local merchants and artisans. Stop in to look and buy one (or more) of these beautiful pieces for your home, as a gift or just for yourself. Here is a sample one of our new products. The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.


CALL PAUL LEVINE WITH ANY QUESTIONS

484-802-0586

SEE ORDER FORM BELOW

CONGREGATION NEWS



The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


George Cofsky

William Ginsburg

Jesse Halpern

Elayne Leventhal

Rose Lichtenstein

Rose Sherwin*

Joseph Dicicco Sr.

Albert Jaffe*

Isadore Shrensel*

Edward Mashberg

Jacob Plon*

David Scheer

Theodore Shapiro

Betty Sher*

Rebecca Weiner

Paul Schwartz

I. Sidney Sherwin*

Morris Turek

Minnie Abromowitz

Harry Feldgus

David H. Klaiman*

Joseph Sadon

Bradford Saivetz*

Melvin Mauskopf

Max Strassman*



We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral.



"May God remember forever our dear ones who have gone to their eternal rest. May they be at one with the One who is life eternal. May the beauty of their lives shine for evermore, and may our lives always 

bring honor to their memory."

Cake

Nathan Fink

June 28

Vicki Baty

June 29

Joshua Zalkind

June 29

Susan Chaikin

June 30

Michael Lippmann

June 30

Richard Schey

July 2

Lois Miller

July 3

David Shatz

July 4

Arthur & Susan Davis

June 28

61st Anniversary

Richard & Joyce Davis

June 29

34th Anniversary

Adam & Dana Meyers

June 29

40th Anniversary

Shanin & Tracey Specter

June 29

39th Anniversary

Alvin & Ronnie Konner

June 29

Michael & Sheri Jay

July 2

38th Anniversary

Mark & Heather Pass

July 2

Joshua & Kim Braun

July 3

25th Anniversary

Harvey & Sara Ritter

July 3

54th Anniversary

Alan & Ellen Jay

July 4

40th Anniversary

 

MAZEL TOV TO

Justin Brasch

winner of the Democratic Primary

in the New Rochelle NY

Mayoral Race. Justin has been a JCC member for over 50 years.

Graduation



We would love to include pictures and information of your graduates in future Shabbat Reminders. Send to Rose by clicking here.

Caden Benjamin Valentine

Grandson of Rose & Rudy z"l Valentine

Son of Heidi & Joe z"l Valentine

graduated from Allentown High School NJ

Jack Crane-Hoffman

Grandson of

Barnett z"l and Diane Hoffman

graduated from Friends Seminary NYC and going to Vanderbilt U.

Tyler Brahe

Grandson of

Barnett z"l & Diane Hoffman

graduated from Paul D. Schreiber High School, Port Washington,NY and gong to Rutgers GO RU!!

SHARE YOUR NEWS

AND PICTURES


CONTACT: 

rvalen1963@aol.com


CARING COMMITTEE

  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.

Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349


YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.


Go to jccoflbi.org - Giving/Pay

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2025 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW


BE A PART OF THE WOMEN'S AUXILLARY

2025 DUES FORM HERE


JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP



OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Jon Geier

Treasurer- Stu Cofsky

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Lorna Klein

Paul Levine

Ken Podos

Sondi Pripstein

Terri Robinovitz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

Rose Valentine

Ken Yudman


WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst

Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein


Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader


JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2




 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Mary Beth Kreiger

Contributing Articles by

Stu Lehrer