JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER



June 6, 2025

10 Sivan 5785






SHABBAT DINNER FRIDAY NIGHT

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A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI

What a time we had this past Shabbat and weekend. First, we started the Book of Bamidbar(Numbers). Any time we begin a new book of the Torah it is worthy of celebration.

 

On Sunday we officially kicked off our 75th anniversary programming with an Interfaith concert featuring the Island Singers and songs connected to the “Road of Life”. Over the course of the concert, I, and the clergy who joined us, offered spiritual and/or liturgical readings.

 

Joining us were Reverend Diane Burkland, Father Peter De Franco, Interim Reverend at The Episcopal Church of the Holy Innocents, Vicar Genevieve Bishop of St. Peters at the Light, Pastor Scott Bostwick of the United Methodist Churches of LBI, and Deacon Tom Foley of Christ Church in Toms River.

 

Our guests let us know that we have friends in community which was very comforting given the extreme prevalence of antisemitism that we have seen in the world lately.

 

Right after the concert, we kicked off the Shavuot holiday with study sessions in which Stu Lehrer taught about the Ohr Chadash, “A New Light” prayer that we read during morning services. I did a deep dive into the Ten Commandments during which we discussed which commandment could be deleted and, what commandment should it be replaced with. There was no consensus on which commandment should be deleted, but a majority did agree that the newly added commandment should be the requirement to eat a Reese’s Peanut Butter Cup every day.

 

On both days of Shavuot, we had wonderful attendance spearheaded by Rabi Harry Pell and the “White Plains Crew”. Finally, on Tuesday we had a very meaningful Yizkor service. Good food was served, including the Rabbi’s Moroccan Roasted Cauliflower and Maccaroni and Cheese.

 

If you did not join us for either the concert or Shavuot this year, make sure to put it on your calendar for next year!

 

By the way….As if Shabbat, and the concert, and Shavuot were not great enough, I got to spend much of Wednesday with my new grandson. Now, that was the cherry on top of an already pretty perfect cake.

 

In this week’s Torah portion, Naso, we are presented with the Priestly blessing that we still use today when blessing our children and our community. At Numbers 6:22-27 it says:

 

The Lord spoke to Moses: Speak to Aaron and his sons: Thus, shall you bless the people of Israel. Say to them:

 

The Lord bless you and protect you!

The Lord deal kindly and graciously with you!

The Lord bestow His favor upon you and grant you peace!

 

The blessing itself is very interesting. Though it was originally intended for the Kohanim (Priests) to say to the entire Israelite community, it is written in the singular form. The intention is that the blessing is given not to the group, but to each individual present.

 

God is consistently looking for direct connection and seeking relationship with each of us.

 

I think that there is a lesson here. If God is seeking individual relationships with each of us, perhaps the message is that we should be seeking deeper and more meaningful personal relationships with those around us. If the Holy One seeks connection, how much more so should we seek to connect.

 

Perhaps more importantly, we should seek to help the people with whom we are connecting. What if we replaced the word “Lord” where it appears in the blessing with “May I”

 

May I bless you and protect you!

May I deal kindly and graciously with you!

May I bestow my favor upon you and grant you peace!

 

If each of us sought to bring blessing, protection, graciousness, favor and peace, to those we meet, what a different world we would live in. What a better (holier) community we would live in.

 

Strong communities are built one relationship at a time. Strong communities exist when each individual takes it upon himself, or herself, to project the image of God in Whom we are all created. May it happen in our time.

 

Don’t forget to help us to Celebrate 75 years of Faith, Family, Friends, and Fun!

 

Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay


SHABBAT SHALOM

Candle Lighting Time

(Southern Ocean County)

Shabbat Eve

Friday,June 6, 2025

8:04PM

JOIN US FOR


SHABBAT DINNER

&

SERVICES

Shabbat Dinner

Friday

June 6, 2025

Dinner

6:30 PM

Services

7:30 PM

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday

June 7, 2025

9:00 AM

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services


TORAH READING

Parashat Nasso 

Numbers 4:21-7:89

Naso (“Take A Census”), the longest portion in the Torah, opens by detailing responsibilities of the Levites. It also describes laws of a woman suspected of adultery (sotah), the Nazirite, and the priestly blessing. The portion ends by listing the gifts that heads of tribes bring to the Mishkan (Tabernacle)

Here is the Parshah


HAFTORAH

Judges 13:2-25

This week's haftorah describes the birth of Samson, a lifetime nazirite. A condign haftorah for this week's reading, which discusses all the laws of the nazirite.*

Here is the Haftorah


*Nazirite, (from Hebrew nazar, “to abstain from” or “to consecrate oneself to”), among the ancient Hebrews, a sacred person whose separation was most commonly distinguished by his uncut hair and his abstinence from wine.


HAVDALLAH

8:30 PM

ON ZOOM ONLY

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

HAVDALLAH

WEEKDAY SERVICES


Monday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday - Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

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join Zoom services:



A lovely afternoon was enjoyed at the JCC last Sunday. The Island Singers provided an inspiring "Road of Life Concert" while local clergy (see picture above) shared words of strength and hope. Thank you to the Program Committee for organizing the event.

SUNDAY, June 8

Pickleball

10 - 1

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TUESDAY, June 10

Pickleball

10 - 1

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WEDNESDAY, June 11

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 - 4:00 PM

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THURSDAY, June 12

Torah Study

11:00 AM


Pickleball

10 - 1


FRIDAY, June 13

WAX Welcome Back Brunch

11:00 AM


Friday, June 6

JCC Family Dinner and Service

6:30 PM


Friday, June 13

WAX Welcome Back Brunch

11:00 AM


Sunday, June 15

Blessing of the Fleet

5:30 PM


Wednesday, June 18

WAX Book Discussion

4:00 PM


Sunday, June 22

Welcome Back Brunch

10:00 AM

MAH JONGG & CANASTA

WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM


PICKLEBALL

Sundays, Tuesdays

and Thursdays

10 - 1


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THIS SPRING AND SUMMER


Blessing of the Fleet


Sunday, June 15, 2025 

5:30 PM

Barnegat Light Yacht Basin; 1701 Bayview


An interdenominational service where fishing and recreational boats are blessed. Local fishing boats take folks out on the bay. Rabbi Jay will be giving the invocation.



Wednesday, June 18th at 4:00 PM

Discussion Leader: TBA

Does the Soul Survive

By: Rabbi Elie Kaplan Spitzer


Near-death experiences? Past-life regression? Reincarnation?

 Are these sorts of things Jewish?


With a blend of candor, personal questioning, and sharp-eyed scholarship, Rabbi Elie Kaplan Spitz relates his own observations and the firsthand accounts shared with him by others, experiences that helped propel his journey from skeptic to believer that there is life after life. From near-death experiences to reincarnation, past-life memory to the work of mediums, Rabbi Spitz explores what we are really able to know about the afterlife, and draws on Jewish texts to share that belief 

in these concepts—so often approached with reluctance—is in fact true to Jewish tradition. “The increasing interest and faith in survival of the soul may grow into a cultural wave that is as potentially transformative for society as the civil rights movement and feminism. A renewed faith in ‘the soul’s journeys’ will call for a reassessment of our priorities and will enable traditional religions to renew and 

transform their adherents.


Wednesday, July 16th at 4:00 pm

Discussion Leader: Debby Schweighardt

*IN PERSON AT THE JCC LIBRARY AND ON ZOOM

Maine Characters

By Hannah Orenstein


Wednesday, August 13th at 4:00 pm

Discussion Leader: TBA

*IN PERSON AT THE JCC LIBRARY AND ON ZOOM

Red Dog Farm

By Nathaniel Ian Miller

BEACH SERVICES


June 13 – Beach Services at Loveladies 6pm

June 20: Beach Services at Spray Beach 6 pm

June 27: Beach Services at Loveladies 6pm

July 11: Beach Services at Spray Beach 6pm

July 18: Beach Services at Loveladies at 6pm

July 25: Beach Services at Spray Beach at 6pm


ugust 8: Beach Services at Loveladies

August 15: Beach Services at Loveladies

August 22: Beach Services at Spray Beach

August 29: Beach Services at Spray Beach


The Federation has arranged for a fun program to come to Ocean County, the hilarious one-man-show: My Son The Waiter. This is for one night only on Thursday, June 19th.


Let's celebrate and laugh together as a community. After the past few years, we can use some uplifting humor.  


The play at the Strand starts at 7:30 PM. You can buy general tickets - but donors to the Jewish Federation of $100 or more can get discounted VIP tickets and a special pre-show light dinner reception at 6:00pm.






The JCC section at Crescent Memorial Park is available for sales. Please contact Bonni Rubin-Sugarman at 609-417-7148.


We are very excited to add to the WAX Gift Shop items from local merchants and artisans. Stop in to look and buy one (or more) of these beautiful pieces for your home, as a gift or just for yourself. Here is a sample one of our new products. The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.


CALL PAUL LEVINE WITH ANY QUESTIONS

484-802-0586

SEE ORDER FORM BELOW

CONGREGATION NEWS



The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Jake Herzig

Bertram Stern Lowe

Gertrude Miller

Eve Robinson

Terry Shapiro

Lena Sobelsky

Anna Gubar*

Benyamin Livshits*

Edward Oertell

Jeanne Paris

Beverly Rosenstein

Jennie Schlanger*

Leo Baron

Morris Brounstein

Sadie Chalek

Bernard Diamond

Jenny Kessler

Diane Korn

Sondra Meshulam

Helen Rothman

Ida Schreiber

Avram Shatz

David Cohen

Muriel Rubin

Dr. Lowell Gottlieb Saferstein

Joseph Shatz

William Feather*

Jessica Fields

Celie Nelson

Samuel Starr*

Grace Berman

Dr. Raul Fleischmajer

Hilde Hess Lewisohn

Sylvia Marcus

Gene Mendlow*

Ida Opatosky

Leonard Ostreicher

Murray Rosenthal

Barbara Cohen

Max Faich

Joseph Herman

 


We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral.



Cake

Phyllis Lishnoff

June 7

Beverly Rosenberg

June 7

Seymour Koslowsky

June 8

Marjie Carnevale

June 10

Shari Garfinkel

June 11

Roberta Kaplan

June 11

Steven Powitz

June 13

Linda Silverman

June 13 

Roy & Ellen Konwiser 

June 7

61st Anniversary

Sylvain Nakkab & Myrna Hernandez

June 7

33rd Anniversary

Michael & Julie Lippmann

June 8

56th Anniversary

Michael & Toby Slomovitz

June 9

46th Anniversary

David & Debra Horowitz

June 10

30th Anniversary

Seymour & Susan Koslowsky

June 10

58th Anniversary

Samuel & Phyllis Sisenwine

June 10

63rd Anniversary

Carl & Elaine Steinberg

June 12

48th Anniversary

Stewart & Hana Cofsky

June 13

61st Anniversary

Steven & Carolyn Ross

June 13

44th Anniversary

Peter & Deborah Smith

June 13

57th Anniversary

DEB & DAVID LEVY

 41ST ANNIVERSARY

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CONTACT: 

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CARING COMMITTEE

  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.

Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349


YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.


Go to jccoflbi.org - Giving/Pay

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2025 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW


BE A PART OF THE WOMEN'S AUXILLARY

2025 DUES FORM HERE


JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP



OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Jon Geier

Treasurer- Stu Cofsky

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Lorna Klein

Paul Levine

Ken Podos

Sondi Pripstein

Terri Robinovitz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

Rose Valentine

Ken Yudman


WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst

Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein


Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader


JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2




 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Mary Beth Kreiger

Contributing Articles by

Stu Lehrer