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JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER


July 14, 2023

25 Tamuz 5783

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A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI

I asked and you delivered. I wrote about Ashrei and asked you to send me your favorite verses. Could more have responded? In short, yes. But the emails received, the verses chosen, and the reasons given are excellent.


Part of being a Rabbi is learning Torah from you. Your Torah makes me a better Rabbi and a better person. But it is more than that. You end up teaching each other. This helps to strengthen the community. Thank you!


I will give your responses in order of receipt.  I am not using the names of those who responded because I did not ask permission to use their names. 


The first person was impressed with my expert use of Jewish guilt to force you to engage.

Her favorite was:


“Your kingdom shall last for ever and ever, and Your rule shall extend into each and every generation.”

מַלְכוּתְךָ מַלְכוּת כָּל עֹלָמִים, וּמֶמְשַׁלְתְּךָ בְּכָל דּוֹר וָדֹר

Malkhutekha malkhut kol olamim, umemshaltekha b’khol dor vador


She expressed her reasoning as:


I believe these words help to remind me that although we live in tumultuous times, there is hope for the future. Because of the political trials we are going through in (our country) today, I often experience sudden moments of fear about the present, but also about the years ahead for my children and grandchildren. If I could only remember this verse on a daily basis, and thereby visualize that Hashem remains above us all, now and in the future, “…into each and every generation…,” perhaps those anxious moments could periodically be put to rest.


This is a beautiful interpretation which sees Ashrei prayer as hopeful. For some, prayer can help to strengthen their vision of the future.


The second person was very unimpressed with my Ashrei/Osprey wordplay:


Despite your "osprey bird of ‘prey’, not ‘pray’", I will respond to your request.

My favorite (verse) is:


חַנּוּן וָרַחוּם יהוה, אֶרֶךְ אַפַּיִם וּגְדָל חָסֶד

Khanun v’rakhum Adonai, erekh apayim u’gdahl khased

The Lord is gracious and merciful, slow to anger and abounding in loving-kindness.


For me, "loving-kindness" is a call to us to (actually) practice (“loving-kindness”) since it serves as a much-needed antidote for a toxic world.


This thoughtful interpretation sees the Ashrei Prayer as providing ways to live a meaningful life. For some, prayer helps to guide us how to live better lives.


The third person picked two verses which, I believe, actually speak to each other.


My favorite two verses in this prayer are The following:


All of your creatures Shall praise you. The faithful shall Continually bless you.

יוֹדוּךָ יהוה כָּל מַעֲשֶׂיךָ, וַחֲסִידֶיךָ יְבָרְכוּכָה

Yodukha Adonai kol ma’asekha, v’khasidekha y’varkhukha


And this one:


Adonai supports all who stumble and Uplifts all who are bowed down

סוֹמֵךְ יהוה לְכָל הַנֹּפְלִים, וְזוֹקֵף לְכָל הַכְּפוּפִים

Someikh Adonai l’khol ha-noflim, v’zokeif l’khol ha-kefufim


These two verses are beautifully juxtaposed. Together they show that the Ashrei prayer expresses that God and humanity are in relationship. We praise God, and God supports us. For some, prayer helps us connect to the divine.


The last person is interested in studying the various translations of the prayers. She likes the first verse using this translation:


What happiness to be in Your house, To sing Your praise, to belong to Your people!

What happiness to worship God!

אַשְׁרֵי יוֹשְׁבֵי בֵיתֶךָ, עוֹד יְהַלְלוּךָ סֶּלָה

אַשְׁרֵי הָעָם שֶׁכָּכָה לּוֹ, אַשְׁרֵי הָעָם שֶׁיהוה אֱלֹהָיו


Ashrei yoshvei veitekha, ode yehalelukha selah

Ashrei ha’am shekakhah lo, ashrei ha’am she’Adonai elohav


This translation expresses that the Ashrei’s overriding theme: To have the freedom to feel close to God and to praise God is a privilege. In this context, worshipping God leads to happiness.


For some, prayer leads to exultation.


What a joy for the teacher to be taught.


Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay

Candle Lighting time

Friday evening

July 14, 2023

8:06 pm

(So. Ocean County)

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SERVICES


Friday Night

July 14, 2023

Services

6:00 PM

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56TH STREET IN

LOVELADIES

AND

ON ZOOM

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We will then bring the

Beach inside!!!!!


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FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday Morning

July 15, 2023

9:00 AM

Services

IN PERSON AND ON ZOOM

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your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SHABBAT MORNING


TORAH READING

Parashat Matot-Masei 5783

Numbers 30:2-36:13

Here is the Parshah

PARSHAH


Matot (“Tribes”) opens with laws about vows, and continues to describe the Israelites’ war against the Midianites and the allocation of spoils. The tribes of Reuben and Gad request to dwell outside of the Land of Israel, and Moses acquiesces on the condition that they help conquer it. Masei (“Travels”), the final Torah portion in the Book of Numbers, opens with a list of places that the Israelites traveled in the desert. God commands the Israelites to destroy idolatry in the Land of Israel, outlines Israel’s boundaries, and details the laws of cities of refuge for accidental killers.


HAFTORAH

Jeremiah 2:4-28, 3:4 

Here is the Haftorah

HAFTORAH


HAVDALLAH

Saturday evening

8:45 PM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

HAVDALLAH


Sunday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday- Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM


Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT


TISHA B'AV

Wednesday evening

July 26

8:00 PM

Reading of Eicha

A FABULOUS WEEK FOR THE JCC OF LBI,

FOR OUR MEMBERS AND THE COMMUNITY

An Interview with Susannah Marren aka Susan Shapiro Barash

Bagel & Lox Bowl
Savory Breakfast Bowl

Thank you to everyone who joined us for the interview with Susan Marren. We had a great showing in house and on Zoom. Susan, who was raised here on LBI and the daughter of real estate developer Herb Shapiro and Selma Shapiro, is a delightful person to interview. She shared with us her how the Island was when she was growing up as well the facinating setting and characters in her new novel "Maribelle's Shadow". A brunch of bowls was served (Savory Breakfast Bowl and Bagel & Lox Bowl), which everyone enjoyed (see recipes above).


Susan has donated two of her books which are available to borrow in the JCC Office.

Thank you to our interviewer, Rose Valentine and our brunch helpers Diane Buskirk, Diane Hoffman and Irene Babst.


Sunday evening, a full house at the JCC and 30 households on Zoom heard IDF Retired Brigadier General (res.) Amir Avivi, founder and CEO of the Israel Defense and Security Forum, emphasize the need for Jews to be proud of our heritage and history. Among other things, he provided an analysis of the challeges facing Israel and the Jewish world. Thank you to David Shatz for setting up this important program.

JULY BAZAAR


Quality Vendors and Great Volunteers


Thank you to our Bazaar volunteers last Wednesday and especially to our Chair Diane Hoffman, WAX leaders Diane Buskirk and Irene Babst, Staff Point Person Mary Beth Krieger and staff members Diane Parzych and Leslie Dinkfelt for a wonderful job of organizing this important fund raiser.


THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!

Lynn Berman

Stanley Berman

Ruth Turner

Terri Rabinovitz

Renee Ward

Eileen Feldgus

Cookie Gomer

Cookie Botwinick

Herb Botwinick

Karen Shatz

David Shatz

Ken Abend

Art Davis

Sue Davis

Julia Farin

Maxine Paris

Howard Babbitt

Joanne Babbitt

Ira Morgenthal

Ina Morgenthal

Noralyn Carroll

Beverly Miller

Marlene Matz

Ron Buskirk

Michael Babst

Eve Lehrer

Stu Lehrer

Lisa Riley

Paul Levine

Bunny Kaufman & Misha

Bonnie Sugarman

Suzie Geier

Jon Geier

Beverly Rosenberg

Margorie Fagan

Judy Lipman

Kathy Stepplecher

Ina Telles

Barbara Sesso

Don Pripstein

Ron Marr

Rose Valentine



Please forgive us if we left someone out.



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UPCOMING EVENTS



July 14

Shabbat on the Beach (Loveladies)


July 18, 26

Dance Fitness Class


July 19

WAX Book Discussion


July 21

Shabbat Dinner

Speaker: Dr. Eric Mandel


July 23

Simon Mandel Comedy-Magician Show


July 25

WAX Brunch at Wally's


July 28

Shabbat on the Beach

(Spray Beach)




CLICK HERE FOR UPDATED LIST AND DETAILS ON THIS SUMMER'S EVENTS

August 1, 8, 15, 23

Dance Fitness Class


August 4

Shabbat on the Beach

(Loveladies)


August 9

"Today's Jewish Grandparents"

with Rabbi Richard Address


August 1, 15 and 23

Dance Fitness Class


August 9

Bazzar


August 11

Shabbat on the Beach

(Spray Beach)


August 13

Annuaal Congregation Meeting


August 16

WAX Book Discussion


August 18

Shabbat Dinner

Speaker from StandWithUs


August 20

Wendy & Rik Concert


August 21

Rosh Chodesh Women's Group


August 22

Active Shooters Training


August 25

Shabbat on the Beach

(Spray Beach)


August 27

WAX Membership Brunch

Speaker: Dr. Phyllis Cohen



PICKLEBALL

SUNDAY AND

THURSDAY AT 10:00 AM


Reminder: Pickleball for members only!


MAH JONGG & CANASTA THIS WEEK


MAH JONGG & CANASTA

WEDNESDAYS

12:30 TO 4:00 PM

 THIS WEEK'S ACTIVITIES



SUNDAY, July 16

Pickleball

10:00 AM


TUESDAY, July 18

Fitness Class

10:00 AM


WEDNESDAY, July 19

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 - 4:00 PM


Wax Book Review

4:00 PM


THURSDAY, July 20

Pickleball

10:00 AM


Torah Study with the Rabbi

11:00 AM 


NEW INTERMEDIATE HEBREW CLASS WITH IRA

2:00 PM

Contact Ira for more information

inaira213@gmail.com



CLICK HERE FOR WAX BOOK DISCUSSION
CLICK HERE TO JOIN THURSDAY CLASS

JCC WOMEN’S AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION

 WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM

NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING


Wednesday, July 19th

"Signal Fires"

by Dani Shapiro

Discussion Leader: TBA


Signal Fires opens on a summer night in 1985. Three teenagers have been drinking. One of them gets behind the wheel of a car, and, in an instant, everything on Division Street changes. Each of their lives, and that of Ben Wilf, a young doctor who arrives on the scene, is shattered. For the Wilf family, the circumstances of that fatal accident will become the deepest kind of secret, one so dangerous it can never be spoken.

FUTURE BOOKS


Wednesday, August 16th

Rebel Daughter

By Lori Banov Kaufmann


A Zoom link will be sent shortly before the event.

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CONGREGATION NEWS


The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Alan Miller

Sidney Zalkind*

Gladys Babbitt

Abraham Cherins

Gertrude Foosaner

Philip Gerstenblatt

Isadore Treatman

Sidney Weinman

Kenneth Wolfe

Benjamin Garb

Gerald Katz

Molly Lang

Marilyn Lerner*

Harry Prebluda

Janet Rothenberg

Nathan Stokes

Rose Telles

Jack Bendavid

Fannie Bzezensky*

Helen Finestone

Roy Finestone

Tillie Fischer

Edward Liebowitz

Anna Bloom

Samuel Goodman

Helga Melin

Jack Morgan

Philip Heinish

David Rifkin

Adele Rosenberg

Jodie R. Rothman

 

We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.

CLICK HERE FOR EVENING SERVICE
CLICK HERE FOR MORNING SERVICE
Cake

Lenore Lox

July 15

Martha Schleifer

July 15

Melvin Benjamin

July 16

Jerry Greenspan

July 16

Irving Gross

July 18

Robin Kanis

July 18

Paula Lieber

July 19

Jamie Wasserman

July 19

Susanna Lachs Adler

July 20

Jill Grunewald

July 20

Alan Golombek

July 21

Norman Shapiro

July 21

Robert Simandl

July 21

 

BEST WISHES TO

DIANE & JOHN PARZYCH

on the birth of their grandson

Luca Christensen to

Stephanie & Shawn Christensen

Diane is a staff member

at the JCC of LBI

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CONTACT: 

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CARING COMMITTEE
  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.
Please contact Chairperson,
Debby Schweighardt
if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help. 973-634-5349 

YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.

Go to jccoflbi.org - community - forms

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES

PAVERS
Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building
8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"

SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:
Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.
Purchase a personalized paving stone
in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.

Please contact Diane Hoffman
with your order or with any questions:


PRAYER BOOKS
There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.
See Order form here: Prayer Book


TRIBUTES
SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF
See order form here: TRIBUTES


TREE OF LIFE
Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE
Bronze Leaf $90
Silver Leaf $126
Gold :Leaf $180


ENDOWMENT FUND

Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.

Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.

A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.
 
Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 


YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 
Here is the order form: 


KOL HAKAVOD

Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD

2023 MEMBERSHIP FORMS

Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.
Here is form for renewal:

And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:


JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
JCC LEADERSHIP

OFFICERS
President- Phil Rosenzweig
1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman
2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman
3RD Vice President- Rose Valentine
Treasurer- Ira Morgenthal
Secretary- Cliff Denker
Immediate Past President -Michael Babst

BOARD MEMBERS
Howard Babbitt 
Diane Buskirk
Mitch Frumkin

Jon Geier
Paul Levine
Donald Pripstein
Terri Robinovitz
David Shatz
Rob Van Naarden

WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk
Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll
Co-Vice President - Jill Denker
Treasurer - Suzy Geier
Secretary - Joanne Babbitt
Immediate Past President - Irene Babst
JCC INFORMATION

THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT
2411 Long Beach Boulevard
(24th Street)
Spray Beach, NJ 08008
Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550
web site: www.jccoflbi.org  
  
THE OFFICE IS OPEN
MONDAY - FRIDAY
CLOSED THURSDAY
FROM 10 - 2

 Staff:
 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager
  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member
 Diane Parzych, Staff Member
Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager


LATEST
BULLETIN:

PRAYER BOOK:
 
WEB SITE:

PAVERS:

TREE OF LIFE
  
YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

TRIBUTES:


CONTACT INFORMATION:
  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

Phil Rosenzweig, President

 
E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 
rvalen1963@aol.com 
Graphics by
Irene Babst
Contributing Columnist
Sheila Weisel