JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER



July 25, 2025

29 Tamuz 5785








WEDNESDAY JULY 30TH

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OF THE SHABBAT REMINDER

In Matot-Masei, The Torah recalls the 40-year journey of the Israelites as they wandered in the desert and slowly headed toward the Promised Land. We are a people who have always journeyed. From the moment that Abraham was first told to leave his fathers home, until the moment that the Israelites stood looking into the Promised Land, our people were always on the move.


But the journey did not stop once our ancestors entered the Promised Land. Once inside the land, we needed to conquer the Canaanites, the Jebusites, the Hittites, etc. Once the land was conquered, neighboring tribes and countries were constantly attacking our ancestors.


We were ultimately dispersed by the Babylonians, but were able to return within 70 years. We were then conquered by the Romans and forced to disperse for nearly 2,000 years. During this time we were journeying. We moved from country to country. We moved from home to home. We were welcomed in and then kicked out. Welcomed in and then kicked out. Welcomed in and then kicked out.


Finally, we returned to our land.


Because of our history, we inherently know that a time and a place is just that; a time and a place. We see our life as a journey; each relationship as a journey, Each hour as a journey.  Live each day of the journey as if it is the day that you will enter the Promised Land. But also live it as if it is the day that you will be kicked out of the promised land.


The goal is simply to take the journey and recognize that our journey merges with the journeys of those before us and the journeys of those to come. From Abraham to us to whom? God only knows.


Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay

 

BEACH SERVICES

at 6:00 PM


July 25: Beach Services at Spray Beach

August 8: Services at Loveladies

August 15: Services at Loveladies

August 22: Services at

Spray Beach

August 29: Services at Spray Beach


Tisha B'Av Services

Saturday evening, August 9

SHABBAT SHALOM

Candle Lighting Time

(Southern Ocean County)

Shabbat Eve

Friday, July 25, 2025

7:58 PM

JOIN US

FOR

SHABBAT

SERVICES

Friday

July 25, 2024

6:00 PM

Services on the Beach

at 24th Street

Spray Beach

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM


Bring your beach chair!

In case of inclement weather services will be held at the JCC.


Rick Abrams will be joining us at services as our musical guest

Shabbat Dinner at the JCC following services

sponsored by

Sherry & Howard Fruchterman

Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday

July 26, 2025

9:00 AM

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SATURDAY MORNING



TORAH READING

Parashat Matot-Masei 

 Numbers 30:2-36:13, 28:9-15

Matot (“Tribes”) opens with laws about vows, and continues to describe the Israelites’ war against the Midianites and the allocation of spoils. Masei (“Travels”), the final Torah portion in the Book of Numbers, opens with a list of places that the Israelites traveled in the desert. God commands the Israelites to destroy idolatry in the Land of Israel, outlines Israel’s boundaries, and details the laws of cities of refuge for accidental killers. 

Here is the Torah Reading

Matot/Masei

HAFTORAH

Jeremiah 2:4-28, 3:4

This Haftorah describes God's indictment against Israel for their idolatry and forsaking Him. It explores the consequences of their actions and the futility of turning to false gods for help. 

Here is the Haftorah

Part 1/Part 2

HAVDALLAH

8:45 PM

ON ZOOM ONLY

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

HAVDALLAH

WEEKDAY SERVICES


Monday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday - Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT


KLEZMER EVENT AT THE HARVEY CEDARS BIBLE CENTER


" This was one of the most meaningful JCC of LBI events that I have experienced in my 25 years as a congregation member."

Rose Valentine


Last Sunday evening, we were treated to an inspiring performance by the Whirled Music Klezmer Band. Not only did they play songs in Yiddish and Hebrew but in English, French and Spanish as well. The evening was topped off with the audience members forming a circle around the room and dancing to an Israeli favorite. Take the time to click on the video above to view the

"ruach" felt by everyone there.


The performance was enhanced by the setting at the Bible Center and the marvelous sound system (we wish we had at the JCC). Thank you to the generosity of John Oldham, the Executive Director for opening the doors of their chapel to us and for greeting us so warmly that evening.


A special thank you to Jill Denker and Bonni Rubin Sugarman for organizing this not to be forgotten JCC event.


NO PICKLEBALL

OR MAH JONGG/CANASTA

THIS WEEK

******

WEDNESDAY, July 30

Annual Bazzar

8 AM - 3 PM

*****

THURSDAY, July 31

Torah Study

11 AM

Pickleball

10 AM - 1 N



 JCC Summer Bazaar

Wednesday, July 30

8 AM - 3 PM

Sunday, August 10

75th Anniversary Gala


Wednesday, August 13

WAX Book Club

4 PM


Sunday, August 17

Annual Congregation Meeting

10 AM


Tuesday, August 19

WAX Brunch

11 AM -1 PM

Jersey Girls Kitchen & Market


Thursday, August 21

Tours of Harvey Cedars

Bible Center

10 AM and 11 AM


Sunday, August 31

Comedy Nite at the Surflight

8:00 PM

MAH JONGG & CANASTA

WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM


PICKLEBALL

Sundays and Thursdays

10 - 1

Tuesdays

3-4 PM Beginners

4 - 6 PM Experienced Players


Electric Sign on Ocean Blvd and 68th Street

Thank you to Long Beach Township for provding this publicity free of charge.

WAX BOOK DISCUSSION GROUP

THIRD WEDNESDAY OF EACH MONTH

Wednesday, August 13th at 4:00 pm

Discussion Leader: TBA

*IN PERSON AT THE JCC LIBRARY AND ON ZOOM

Red Dog Farm

By Nathaniel Ian Miller


Growing up on his family’s cattle farm in western Iceland, young Orri has gained an appreciation for the beauty found in everyday things: the cavorting of a newborn calf, the return of birdsong after a long winter, the steadfast love of a good (or tolerably good) farm dog. But the outer world still beckons, so Orri leaves his nononsense Lithuanian Jewish mother and his taciturn father, Pabbi, to attend university in Reykjavík. Pabbi is no stranger to cycles of life and death, growth and destruction. He is pursued by the memory of a volcanic eruption and its aftermath, and so many years of hard-scrabble farming have left their mark. Jaded, and no longer able to find joy in his way of life, Pabbi falls into a depression soon after Orri goes away to school. Orri, feeling adrift and aimless at the end of his first semester, comes home.


For the first time, Pabbi allows Orri to help him run the farm. Despite their conflicting attitudes, Orri and Pabbi must learn to work together. Meanwhile, Orri meets a kindred spirit on the internet: Mihan, a part-time student. Over time—and countless texts and phone calls—their connection deepens. By year’s end, Orri must decide whether he wants to—or should—return to university, and what a future with Mihan would hold, if she’ll have him.

THE 10 AM TOUR HAS ONLY 3 SPOTS LEFT. THE 11 AM TOUR HAS 10 OPENINGS. USE THE QR CODE IN THE ABOVE FLYER TO REGISTER.

SURFLIGHT COMEDY SHOW

To Benefit the JCC of LBI

August 31, 2025

8:00 PM


Contact the Surflight Box Office to order your tickets. 609-492-9477


When you order your tickets, you can request to sit near the JCC section. The JCC will receive a portion of the revenue from ALL seats sold in the theater. 

HONEY FROM THE HEART





The JCC section at Crescent Memorial Park is available for sales. Please contact Bonni Rubin-Sugarman at 609-417-7148.

Beautiful new jewelry item


We are very excited to add to the WAX Gift Shop items from local merchants and artisans. Stop in to look and buy one (or more) of these beautiful pieces for your home, as a gift or just for yourself. The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.

PAVERS

CALL PAUL LEVINE WITH ANY QUESTIONS

484-802-0586

SEE ORDER FORM BELOW

CONGREGATION NEWS



The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Anna Bloom

Samuel Goodman

Helga Melin

Jack Morgan

Philip Heinish

David Rifkin

Adele Rosenberg

Jodie R. Rothman

Elaine Salant

Beatrice Busch*

Anne Einhorn

Barry Mandell

Eleanor Cohen

Max Selsky*

Sy Frand

Ann D. Horowitz

Fred Mandell

Shirley Rose

Stan Wiernik

John Dzuna

Walter Sadowsky

 

We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral.



Cake

Toby Meyer

July 27

Stacie Podos

July 27

Pamela Scheer

July 27

Roger G. Rosenstein

July 28

Deborah Smith

July 28

Tamara Jacobson

July 29

Carl Steinberg

July 29

Shirley Anne Scharf

July 30

Elayne Simandl

July 30

Jeffrey Melin

July 31

Phyllis Cohen

August 1

Debra Horowitz

August 1

Kalman Ketzlach

August 1 

Jeffrey & Ilene Greenbaum

July 30

53rd Anniversary

Bernard & Janet Barrish

August 1st

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AND PICTURES


CONTACT: 

rvalen1963@aol.com

CARING COMMITTEE

  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.

Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349

YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.


Go to jccoflbi.org - Giving/Pay

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2025 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW


BE A PART OF THE WOMEN'S AUXILLARY

2025 DUES FORM HERE


JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP



OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Jon Geier

Treasurer- Stu Cofsky

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Lorna Klein

Paul Levine

Ken Podos

Sondi Pripstein

Terri Robinovitz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

Rose Valentine

Ken Yudman


WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst

Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein


Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader


JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2




 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Mary Beth Kreiger

Contributing Articles by

Stu Lehrer