JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER


July 26, 2024

20 Tammuz 5784



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A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI


I wrote what follows a few years ago, yet it applies even more today. I ask you to read it, internalize it, and figure out how you might use this information to address the myriad issues facing us, our people, and our homeland today. As always, I look forward to you reaching out to me to discuss in detail.


There is no way to water down the scene that crosses over from last week’s Torah portion to this week. Last week, the Israelite men are enticed, by Moabite women, to participate in idol worship. God is not happy and tells Moses to kill the idolaters. Before Moses can act, an Israelite man and a Midianite woman openly have sex in front of the gathered assembly, near the Sanctuary. Without hesitation, Pinchas, the grandson of Aaron takes a spear and impales the two, inflagranti delicto. (And who says the Torah is boring?)


The Torah devotes much time to setting up courts and a legal system. And yet, in this week’s Parasha, Pinchas, literally taking matters into his own hands, works outside of the court system that God has set up. Pinchas’ extra-legal action pays off. He gets a gift of peace from God, and a plague that God had sent against the Israelites is stopped. 


One would think that the message is that vigilantism and zealotry is a good thing. However, when we look at the rest of the Torah portion, we find that the message is much more nuanced.


The very next thing that happens in the Torah, is that Moses takes another census of the Israelites. On one level, the census acts as a momentary pause for the Israelites to take stock of themselves. It is not just about the numbers, it is about finding out where they are physically, emotionally, and spiritually.


We then find, through the story of the daughters of Zelophehad, whose father dies without a male heir, that the law is amendable. Whereas the Torah had initially only provided inheritance through the sons, God shifts the law to enable inheritance through daughters when there is no son. (To our egalitarian and equal rights centered world this sounds ridiculous. But at the time, it was a sea-change in the way the world worked.)


Moses is next told that he will die shortly and, rather than lament his fate, he wants to make sure that God has a successor in place. The result is that God tells Moses that Joshua will be the next leader and Moses appoints him publicly.


The Torah portion ends with God establishing the calendar of public sacrifices, the festivals, and the holy days of biblical Israel that serve as the foundation for contemporary Judaism. It lists the basic daily and annual cycle of observance: the daily offering, Shabbat, Rosh Hodesh, Pesach, Shavuot, Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, Sukkot, and Sh’mini Atzereth.


I don’t often give a summary of the weekly Torah portion, so why am I doing it here? There is a thread of understanding that I want to point out.


1) The Israelites exist, the Torah exists, God exists.  Sometimes others (and even we) ignore these truths. 

2) Others seek to harm us and we, sometimes, even take steps to harm ourselves.  When this happens, someone needs to step up and defend us. Here it is Pinchas. 


3) When there is trouble, within or without, we must self-assess. Here the census illustrates this need.


4) Everything is subject to change and change is best achieved through conversation and thoughtful consideration. This is illustrated by the story of the daughters of Zelophehad.


5) When you come to what you think is an ending, whether it be of a relationship, a business, or a life, always consider what will happen going forward. Moses' concern that a successor be named before he dies expresses the importance of this.


6) Finally, setting forth daily, weekly, monthly, and annual ritual helps to create community and to keep us centered in a world that often spins out of control. The Shabbat and holiday cycle provides this continual stabilizing connection for us. (These are not senseless attachments to a meaningless past. They are a glue that binds our past and future together)


Our world is in a state of, seemingly, perpetual (some might say “maniacal”) flux. The truths that we understood yesterday, are not necessarily the truths that exist today. The Torah provides tools that can help us to navigate the shifting complexities that confront us.


When things are broken: Open the toolbox, pull out the appropriate tool, and repair what needs repairing.


I suspect that many or you, like me, are wondering how to best deal with the myriad issues confronting us in ever-increasing amounts. Unfortunately, none of this is new to our tradition. If you have questions or thoughts, I am here.


Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay

 

SHABBAT SHALOM

Shabbat Candle

Lighting time

Friday evening

July 26, 2024

7:56 PM


Friday, July 26, 2024


JOIN US FOR

SERVICES

On the Beach on 24th Street. Spray Beach

6:00 PM


Carl Steinberg will be joining the Rabbi with musical accompainment to the Kabbalat service.


IN PERSON

& ON ZOOM


In case of inclement weather

Services will be conducted at the JCC at 6:00 PM. Check the office answering machine for any updates


Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday,

July 27, 2024

9:00 AM

IN PERSON &

ON ZOOM

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SHABBAT


TORAH READING

Parashat Pinchas

Numbers 25:10-30:1

Pinchas opens with God’s promise of a “covenant of peace” for the zealot Pinchas, followed by a census. The daughters of Tzelofchad request and receive new laws regarding inheritance. God instructs Moses to prepare Joshua for leadership, and God describes sacrifices brought daily and on special occasions.

Here is Parshah


HAFTORAH

Jeremiah 1:1-2:3

Because we are now in The Three Weeks—the darkest and saddest time on the Jewish calendar, when both our Temples were destroyed, and unimaginable suffering and tragedy befell our people—the haftorah we read is more connected to the time than the content of the parshah.

Here is the Haftorah


Dr. Michael Lippmann will be laining the Torah portion and chanting the Haftorah

Kiddish sponsored by

Michael & Julie Lippmann

in honor of the 67th Anniversary of his bar mitzvah

HAVDALLAH

8:30 PM

ON ZOOM ONLY

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

HAVDALLAH


WEEKDAY SERVICES

Monday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation

from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday- Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT


SUNDAY, July 28

Pickleball

SEE TIMES BELOW


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TUESDAY, July 30


Pickleball

SEE TIMES BELOW

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WEDNESDAY, July 31


Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 PM


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THURSDAY, August 1


Pickleball

SEE NEW TIMES BELOW



Torah Study with Rabbi

11:00 AM


Intermediate Hebrew with Ira

2:00 PM


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FRIDAY, August 2


Studying the Prophets

with Rabbi Jay

9:00 AM



CLICK HERE FOR THURSDAY TORAH STUDY CLASS
CLICK HERE FOR FRIDAY PROPHETS CLASS


MAH JONGG & CANASTA


WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM

HERE IS THE

SCHEDULE TO ACCOMODATE ALL LEVELS OF PLAYERS


Tuesdays

3-4 Beginner and Skills Practice

 4-5 Regular Play, All Skill Levels

5-6 Experienced Players, Singles


Thursdays

10:30-11:30 Beginners and Skills Practice

11:30-12:30 Regular Play, All Skill Levels

12:30-1:30 Experienced Players, Singles


Sundays  

 10-11 Beginners and Skills Practice

  11-12 Regular Play, All Skill Levels

12-1 Experienced Players, Singles

 



Reminder: Pickleball for

members only!

FUTURE DATES


July 26th - 24th Street, Spray Beach

August 2nd - 24th St., Spray Beach

August 9th - 56th Street, Loveladies

August 16th - 56th St., Loveladies

August 23rd - 24th St., Spray Beach

August 30th - 24th St., Spray Beach


CLICK HERE FOR THE SCHEDULE OF EVENTS THIS SUMMER


WHAT A WONDERFUL WEEKEND FOR THE JCC OF LBI:


Some 100 people - including families with young ones - were at a perfect LBI evening for Kabbalat Services on the beach in Loveladies. Thank you to Marlene Herman and her young students for a dvar of Ma Tovu "How Goodly Are Your Tents".


A robust congregation on Saturday morning with Kiddush sponsored by Bunny Kaufman in memory of her husband Herman.


The weekend was completed with a musical evening with Carl Steinberg. The social hall was filled with 80 plus members and friends enjoying the music and each other's company. Thank you to the WAX for continuing to bring fun events to the JCC.


SPECIAL GUESTS AT THE CONCERT

Yonder come Miss Rosie

How in the world did you know?

By the way she wears her apron

And the clothes she wore

Umbrella on her shoulder

Piece of paper in her hand

She come to see the gov'nor

She want to free her man, oh


Let the Midnight Special shine a light on me

Let the Midnight Special shine a light on me

Let the Midnight Special shine a light on me

Let the Midnight Special shine a ever lovin' light on me


Rabbi Jay and Carl sing Sloop John B lyrics and then Adon Olam to the melody (which we usually sing at the beach services).



Hoist up the John B's sail (hoist up the John B's sail)

See how the main sail sets (see how the main sail sets)

Call for the captain ashore, let me go home

Let me go home

I wanna go home

Let me go home

MONTHLY BRUNCH WAS ATTENDED BY QUITE A FEW MAX MEMBERS LAST TUESDAY


Irene Babst was recognized for all her extraordinary efforts on behalf of the WAX. Irene and her husband Michael are moving to North Carolina


Friday, July 26

Shabbat on the Beach at Spray Beach

6:00 PM

Friday, August 2

Shabbat on the Beach at Spray Beach

6:00 PM


Sunday, August 4

Gypsy Moon Concert, Dinner and Silent Auction

5:30 PM

Friday, August 9

Shabbat on the Beach at Lovelades

6:00 PM


Sunday, August 11

Annual Congregation Meeting


Wednesday, August 14

JCC Bazaar

8:00 AM - 3 PM


Friday, August 16

Shabbat on the Beach at Lovelades

6:00 PM


Sunday, August 18

Marsha Chazin Dance Program

11:30 AM


Friday, August 23

Shabbat on the Beach at Spray Beach

6:00 PM


Friday, August 30

Shabbat on the Beach at Spray Beach

6:00 PM



YOU CAN ALSO REGISTER AND PAY FOR THE EVENT

ON OUR WEBSITE

 
CLICK HERE TO REGISTER AND PAY

SUMMER BAZAAR

WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 14TH

8:00 AM - 3:00 PM

Get ready for some sizzling ballroom dancing on Sunday, August 18 at 11:30 at the JCC on LBI.


Marsha Chazin, who is a member of our congregation and is a competitive ballroom dancer will be performing with her professional partner Bob Gui. It should be a lot of fun. Also, they will be teaching the basic steps to the swing dance and cha-cha. Looking forward to seeing you there.


Put a little fun in your life. Try dancing.


RSVP: Jill Denker (973) 214-2767

WE ARE EXCITED TO AGAIN THIS YEAR TO HOST

TWO FILMS AT THE JCC. SEE FILMS AND DATES BELOW.

Click here to Order Honey from the Heart
To Order your Shirts or Caps, Click Here
To pay by credit card on the JCC Website

CONGREGATION NEWS

The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Tracy Gardner

Ada Weiner Lepene*

Esther London

Joseph Notterman

David Silverman

Tillie Balbresky

Theodore Freedland

Simon Greenberg

Dorothy Petchenik

Milton Weinstein*

Charlotte Falkowsky

Dr. Mark Farin*

John Gottlieb*

Sidney Holtzman*

Earl Levitt

Alan J. Rubinfeld*

Max Silverman

Harry Weiner*

Elizabeth Bat Joseph

Esther Blint

Pauline Cohn

Roy H. Entin

Samuel Hochberger

Frances Indzel

Frank D. Levi*

Rose Albert*

Rose Freeman

Mary Levin

Clara Litovsky

Anne Frances Rubenstein*

A. Paul Greene

Alan Miller

Sidney Zalkind*

Gladys Babbitt

Abraham Cherins

Gertrude Foosaner

Philip Gerstenblatt

Isadore Treatman

Sidney Weinman

Kenneth Wolfe


We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about 45 minutes to an hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.


*Denotes yahrzeit plaque which will be lit this week

Toby Meyer

July 27

Stacie Podos

July 27

Pamela Scheer

July 27

Roger G. Rosenstein

July 28

Deborah Smith

July 28

Tamara Jacobson

July 29

Carl Steinberg

July 29

Shirley Anne Scharf

July 30

Elayne Simandl

July 30

Jeffrey Melin

July 31

Phyllis Cohen

August 1

Debra Horowitz

August 1

Kalman Ketzlach

August 1

Jeffrey & Ilene Greenbaum

July 30

52nd Anniversary

Bernard & Janet Barrish

August 1

RONA STEIN


on the birth of her 5th great nephew, Aiden Joseph Millstein, born July 12 to Ted and Jaimie Millstein of Margate, NJ. Ted is the son of her brother Sid Millstein.

RON MARR

CARING COMMITTEE


This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.


Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349 

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YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.

Go to jccoflbi.org - community - forms

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb z"l and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2024 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW



JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP


OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Rose Valentine

Treasurer- Ira Morgenthal

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Jon Geier


Paul Levine

Ken Podos

Terri Robinovitz

David Shatz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman



WOMEN'S AUXILIARY


President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst



JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2

CLOSED THURSDAY


NO JCC BUSINESS DONE

ON SHABBAT

NO


 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Irene Babst