JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

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July 4, 2025

8 Tamuz 5785





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A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI

The opening paragraph of the Declaration of Independence provides:


We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights, that among these are life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.


Have you ever taken a moment to consider how incredible that sentence is. No country before, or since, has stated it better. While far from perfect, no country has, in practice, been better to its citizens, including us Jews.


Unimpressed with what the Declaration of Independence means to the Jewish people? Look at what President George Washington wrote to the Jewish people of Newport in 1790:


It would be inconsistent with the frankness of my character not to avow that I am pleased with your favorable opinion of my Administration, and fervent wishes for my felicity. May the Children of the Stock of Abraham, who dwell in this land, continue to merit and enjoy the good will of the other Inhabitants; while every one shall sit in safety under his own vine and Fig tree, and there shall be none to make him afraid. May the father of all mercies scatter light and not darkness in our paths, and make us all in our several vocations useful here, and in his own due time and way everlastingly happy.


Because of the 24-hour news cycle, social media, and because of the huge surge in antisemitism and the seeming acceptability of hate toward the Jewish people, it may be harder to recognize how lucky we are to be living in this country, at this time. Even with its the flaws, America the beautiful still represents the best of what humanity can dream. Can we do better? Of course. We should each make it a goal to make it a better country today than it was yesterday, and a better country tomorrow than it is today. We call this Tikkun Olam. It is a core value of our people to make the world better.


Read the prayer below, which was written in 1945, and hear the echoes of its message today. The work of “creating a more perfect union” continues.


Do not forget to help the JCC celebrate 75 years of Fatih, Family, Friends, and Fun. There are many, many opportunities for you to assist the JCC to continue its mission of enriching Jewish life on and around our beautiful Island!


A Prayer for the Fourth of July written by Rabbi Mordechai Kaplan in 1945

(From the Open Siddur Project Opensiddur.org)


That America Fulfil the Promise of Its Founding

O God, who is Liberator and Redeemer, Lawgiver and Judge,

who rules over all mankind

and presides over the destinies of nations,

we invoke your continued blessing on our Republic,

which your grace called into being,

and your love has sustained to this day.


May America remain loyal

to the principles of the Declaration of Independence,

and extend their application

to ever widening areas of life.


Keep out of our life all manner of oppression,

persecution, and unjust discrimination;

save us from religious,

racial and class conflicts;

may our country be a haven of refuge

to the victims of injustice and misrule.


Instruct us in the art of living together,

of reconciling differences of opinion

and averting clashes of interest,

of helping one another

to achieve a harmonious and abundant life.


Give us the wisdom to elect to leadership capable,

conscientious (people), (people) of integrity

who will govern our people

according to your law of righteousness.


Bless the enterprise of the American people,

that they may utilize the natural resources of the land

for the highest good of all (people).


May America be ever hospitable

to new revelations of truth in science and philosophy,

ever sensitive to the appeal of beauty in nature and art,

ever responsive to the call of duty

and the spirit of religious consecration and worship;


And may Americans so love their country

that they shall withhold no sacrifice required

to safeguard its life and to fulfil its promise;


That the Star-Spangled Banner,

the symbol of our American democracy,

may ever wave o’er the land of the free

and the home of the brave.


Shabbat Shalom and Happy Fourth of July – Rabbi Michael S. Jay



(PS: Don’t forget to join the JCC for our beach service next Friday, July 11th, at 6:00 PM, on 24th street in Spray Beach! On July 4th we are in the building at 6:00 PM)

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SHABBAT SHALOM

Candle Lighting Time

(Southern Ocean County)

Shabbat Eve

Friday, July 4, 2025

8:09 PM

JOIN US

FOR

SHABBAT

SERVICES

Friday

July 4, 2024

6:00 PM

Services

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday

July 5, 2025

9:00 AM

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SATURDAY MORNING

BABY NAMINGS


Nora & Lucy Shubert

daughters of

Rachael & Jeff Shubert sister of Blake

granddaughters of

Lori & Stuart Steigerwald


The kiddish is sponsored by the Steigerwalds in celebration of this special milestone



TORAH READING

Parashat Chukat 

Numbers 19:1-22:1

Chukat (“Law Of”) opens by describing the process of burning the red heifer and using its ashes for purification. It also tells the stories of the deaths of Miriam and Aaron, Moses’ striking of a rock to bring forth water, a plague of venomous snakes, and battles against the Emorite kings Sihon and Og.

Here is the Parshah


HAFTORAH

 Judges 11:1-33 

This week's haftorah describes how the people of Israel were attacked by the nation of Ammon. The Israelites engaged Jephtah to lead them in battle against this military threat. Jephtah first sent a missive to Ammon, declaring his peaceful intentions. In his message, he also discussed the Israelites' conquest of the lands of Sichon and Og, victories which are related in this week's Torah reading. 

Here is the Haftorah


NO HAVDALLAH

THIS WEEK


WEEKDAY SERVICES


Monday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday - Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT

AN UPDATE FROM ISRAEL FROM THE OCEAN COUNTY FEDERATION DIRECTOR KEITH KRIVITZKY


June 27, 2025


Dear Friends,


I wanted to share another update with you from Israel – a few days now after the ceasefire.


It is amazing what a difference a few days can make. Earlier this week, most people were staying near their homes, stores and restaurants were closed, traffic was light.


And now?


It is like everyone is out and about almost in a frenzy. Restaurants are packed late into the night. Buses are running on a normal schedule and traffic is definitely back.


Click here to continue reading...




SUNDAY, July 6

Pickleball

10- 1

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TUESDAY, July 8

Pickleball

3 - 6 pm

SEE NEW SCHEDULE BELOW

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WEDNESDAY, July 9

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 - 4:00 PM

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THURSDAY, July 10

Torah Study

11:00 AM


Pickleball

10 - 1

Israeli Folk Dancing

Sunday, July 13  

7:00 - 9:00 PM


Stockton Holocaust Resource Center

Speaker: Director Irvin Moreno Rodriquez

At the JCC 

Thursday, July 17  

7:00 pm


Klezmer Band World Tour Concert 

at Harvey Cedars Bible Center

Sunday, July 20  

7:00- 9:30 PM 


WAX Brunch 

Tuesday, July 22 

11:00 AM-1:00 PM

 Venue TBD


 JCC Summer Bazaar

Wednesday, July 30

MAH JONGG & CANASTA

WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM


PICKLEBALL

Sundays and Thursdays

10 - 1

Tuesdays

3-4 PM Beginners

4 - 6 PM Experienced Players


CLICK HERE FOR UPCOMING EVENTS

THIS SPRING AND SUMMER

SURFLIGHT COMEDY SHOW

To Benefit the JCC of LBI

August 31, 2025


8:00 PM


Contact the Surflight Box Office to order your tickets.

609-492-9477


When you order your tickets, you can request to sit near the JCC section. The JCC will receive a portion of the revenue from ALL seats sold in the theater. 


BEACH SERVICES


July 11: Beach Services at Spray Beach 6pm

July 18: Beach Services at Loveladies at 6pm

July 25: Beach Services at Spray Beach at 6pm


August 8: Beach Services at Loveladies

August 15: Beach Services at Loveladies

August 22: Beach Services at Spray Beach

August 29: Beach Services at Spray Beach


PLEASE REGISTER FOR THE ACTIVITIES BELOW WITH THE QR CODE. JUST POINT TO THE QR ON EACH FLYER

WITH YOUR PHONE CAMERA.

A YELLOW LINE WILL APPEAR. THEN CLICK.

THE REGISTRATION FORM WILL APPEAR

FOR YOU TO FILL OUT.





The JCC section at Crescent Memorial Park is available for sales. Please contact Bonni Rubin-Sugarman at 609-417-7148.


We are very excited to add to the WAX Gift Shop items from local merchants and artisans. Stop in to look and buy one (or more) of these beautiful pieces for your home, as a gift or just for yourself. Here is a sample one of our new products. The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.



Finally! The 2024 Pavers are being installed. 


Thank you to all those who patiently waited to see the end result of their thoughtful donations.


We are now starting our 2025 campaign - here is the link to the order form.


CALL PAUL LEVINE WITH ANY QUESTIONS

484-802-0586

SEE ORDER FORM BELOW

CONGREGATION NEWS



The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Meyer Chazin*

Leon Flumenbaum

Aranka Goldhammer

Judith Ann Kessler*

Etta Kessler

Harry Miller*

Irving Robinson

Evelyn Nelson Schwartz

Seymour Swissman

Harry Gottlin

Gerald Katz

Mitchell Erlich Silverman*

Shirley Rosen Denker

Betty Goldstein

Florrie Levison

Zolman Okner

George Starr*

George Strikowsky

Mae Faich

Mary Cohen

Larry Gordon

Anna Koller

Dov Koller

Mark Richard Becker

Alan Diamond

Spencer Levin

Ellen Goldstein

Pauline Hurwitz

Harry Koss

Sylvia Ross




We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral.



"May God remember forever our dear ones who have gone to their eternal rest. May they be at one with the One who is life eternal. May the beauty of their lives shine for evermore, and may our lives always bring honor to their memory."


Cake

Elaine Steinberg

July 5

Joanne Babbitt

July 6

Dale Tebeleff

July 7

Jeffrey Buchalter

July 8

Horace Barsh

July 9

Benjamin Riffle

July 9

Korey Lind

July 11

Fay Slotnick

July 11

Jane Taffet

July 11

 

Michael & Beverly Miller

July 5

55th Anniversary

Max & Pamela Scheer

July 5

49th Anniversary

Alan & Karlene Turtz

July 10

41st Anniversary

Malenie & Mike Pisctelli

NOW AND THEN


Graduation


We would love to include pictures and information of your graduates in future Shabbat Reminders. Send to Rose by clicking here.

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AND PICTURES


CONTACT: 

rvalen1963@aol.com


CARING COMMITTEE

  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.

Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349


Outdoor Items:Bikes, Surf Boards and More


Saturday 7/5 9:00 AM - 12 PM

146 E Long Beach Blvd. Loveladies

Call Sherry for more information 908-377-7314


Look for future information for sale of household items

YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.


Go to jccoflbi.org - Giving/Pay

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2025 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW


BE A PART OF THE WOMEN'S AUXILLARY

2025 DUES FORM HERE


JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP



OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Jon Geier

Treasurer- Stu Cofsky

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Lorna Klein

Paul Levine

Ken Podos

Sondi Pripstein

Terri Robinovitz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

Rose Valentine

Ken Yudman


WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst

Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein


Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader


JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2




 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Mary Beth Kreiger

Contributing Articles by

Stu Lehrer