JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

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July 7, 2023

18 Tamuz 5783

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A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI

P’sukei D’Zimrah 6, Ashrei


Before we begin this week, I still have not heard from many or you from my exercise 2 weeks ago. (Hint, I asked you to, for a week, write down one thing that you were grateful for each day.)


Inasmuch as it is often one of the first prayers we learn in Hebrew school, Ashrei is probably somewhat familiar to many of us. Since we are on LBI, the home to many ornithological species, now is as good a time as any to make an important clarification.  “Ashrei” is a prayer. It is not to be confused with “Osprey”, which is a bird of prey.


Back to our Shabbat message: According to the Talmud, Ashrei is so important that if you recite it the prescribed 3 times a day (Twice in the morning service and once in the afternoon service), you will be assured a place in the world to come.


Why is it so important? According to My People’s Prayerbook, vol. 3, (p. 118):


The reason…is that this psalm is an alphabetic acrostic and that it celebrates the providential sustenance of God: “You open your hand, and satisfy every living being” (Ps. 145:16). The Alphabetic order would ensure that it would be easy to remember; the central verse expresses our hope that God at least provide for our basic needs, without which we could hardly have the luxury to anticipate that our spiritual needs be met….


Rather than list the entire Psalm, I am providing my 3 favorite verses:


דּוֹר לְדוֹר יְשַׁבַּח מַעֲשֶׂיךָ וּגְבוּרֹתֶֽיךָ יַגִּֽידוּ:

One generation lauds Your works to another,

acclaiming your mighty deeds.

(This expresses the importance of our grandparents and parents to us and the concomitant importance of us to our children and grandchildren. The possibilities for positive influence are never-ending.)


סוֹמֵךְ יְהֹוָה לְכָל־הַנֹּפְ֒לִים וְזוֹקֵף לְכָל־הַכְּ֒פוּפִים

Adonai supports all who stumble,

and uplifts all who are bowed down.

(God is modeling how we should be. We should be supporters of those who need us.)


קָרוֹב יְהֹוָה לְכָל־קֹרְ֒אָיו לְכֹל אֲשֶׁר יִקְרָאֻֽהוּ בֶאֱמֶת:

God is near to all who call,

To all who call to God in truth.

(Yes, God will respond when we call. But we need to come to God with integrity and honesty.)


What are your favorite verses of Ashrei? Look at the prayer and let me know.  Click here for the full text of the Ashrei: https://www.myjewishlearning.com/article/complete-text-of-ashrei/

And, please, respond better than you did on the last assignment! (it’s called throwing the Rabbi a bone.)


Pray Ashrei, Ashrei pray. 

Happily, dwell in the prayer,

said three times a day.


More on Ashrei next week.


Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay


Candle Lighting time

Friday evening

July 7, 2023

8:09 pm

(So. Ocean County)

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Friday Night

July 7, 2023

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6:00 PM

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FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday Morning

July 8, 2023

9:00 AM

Services

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SHABBAT MORNING


TORAH READING

Here is the Reading

Parashat Pinchas

Numbers 25:10-30:1

Here is the Parshah

PARSHAH


Pinchas opens with God’s promise of a “covenant of peace” for the zealot Pinchas, followed by a census. The daughters of Tzelofchad request and receive new laws regarding inheritance. God instructs Moses to prepare Joshua for leadership, and God describes sacrifices brought daily and on special occasions. 



HAFTORAH

Jeremiah 1:1-2:3 

Here is the Haftorah

HAFTORAH


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HAVDALLAH

Saturday evening

8:45 PM

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join Zoom services:

HAVDALLAH

Sunday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

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join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday- Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM


Sunday at 9:00 AM

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join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT


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UPCOMING EVENTS

July 7

Shabbat on the Beach

(Spray Beach)


July 9

Interview with Susan Shapiro


July 18, 26

Dance Fitness Class


July 12

Bazzar


July 14

Shabbat on the Beach (Loveladies)


July 19

WAX Book Discussion


July 21

Shabbat Dinner

Speaker: Dr. Eric Mandel


July 23

Simon Mandel Concert


July 25

WAX Brunch at Wally's


July 28

Shabbat on the Beach

(Spray Beach)

CLICK HERE FOR A LIST AND DETAILS ON THIS SUMMER'S EVENTS

August 1, 8, 15, 23

Dance Fitness Class


August 4

Shabbat on the Beach

(Loveladies)


August 9

"Today's Jewish Grandparents"

with Rabbi Richard Address


July 11, 18. 26

Dance Fitness Class


August 9

Bazzar


August 11

Shabbat on the Beach

(Spray Beach)


August 16

WAX Book Discussion


August 18

Shabbat Dinner

Speaker from StandWithUs


August 20

Wendy & Rik Concert


August 21

Rosh Chodesh Women's Group


August 22

Active Shooters Training


August 25

Shabbat on the Beach

(Spray Beach)


August 27

WAX Membership Brunch

Speaker: Dr. Phyllis Cohen



PICKLEBALL

SUNDAY AND

THURSDAY AT 10:00 AM


Reminder: Pickleball for members only!


NO MAH JONGG & CANASTA THIS WEEK


MAH JONGG & CANASTA

WEDNESDAYS

12:30 TO 4:00 PM


 THIS WEEK'S ACTIVITIES



SUNDAY, July 9

Pickleball

10:00 AM


Interview with author Susan Shapiro (Maren)

11:00 AM

In the Library


MONDAY, July 10

Speaker: Retired IDF Brigidier General Res.Amir Avivi

7:30 PM

In the Santuary


TUESDAY, July 11

Beginning Fitness Class postponed until July 18


WEDNESDAY, July 12


JULY BAZAAR

8:00 AM - 3 PM


NO Canasta & Mah Jongg



THURSDAY, July 13

Pickleball

10:00 AM


Torah Study with the Rabbi

11:00 AM 


NEW INTERMEDIATE HEBREW CLASS WITH IRA

2:00 PM

Contact Ira for more information

inaira213@gmail.com



CLICK HERE FOR SUNDAY WITH SUSAN
CLICK HERE TO JOIN THURSDAY CLASS
REGISTER HERE TO JOIN SUSAN AT THE JCC 
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Brigadier General (res.) Amir Avivi is the founder and CEO of IDSF-Habithonistim. After retiring from the IDF in 2017 with 30 years of military, counter-terrorism, and national defense experience, Avivi, together with other high-ranking retired officers, founded IDSF, which has rapidly grown into a movement of more than 3,000 reserve officers and operators from the IDF, Mossad, Shin Bet, and Israeli Police who all promote a realistic vision of national security needs based on objective military principles.

FIRST FITNESS CLASS POSTONED UNTIL JULY 18

JCC WOMEN’S AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION

 WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM

NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING


Wednesday, July 19th

"Signal Fires"

by Dani Shapiro

Discussion Leader: TBA


Signal Fires opens on a summer night in 1985. Three teenagers have been drinking. One of them gets behind the wheel of a car, and, in an instant, everything on Division Street changes. Each of their lives, and that of Ben Wilf, a young doctor who arrives on the scene, is shattered. For the Wilf family, the circumstances of that fatal accident will become the deepest kind of secret, one so dangerous it can never be spoken.

FUTURE BOOKS


Wednesday, August 16th

Rebel Daughter

By Lori Banov Kaufmann


A Zoom link will be sent shortly before the event.

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CONGREGATION NEWS


The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Irwin J. Pripstein*

Joseph Goldstein

Gertrude Gondelman

Irving Hirschfeld

Harry Jacobson*

David Srager

Jacob Weiner

Henry Zlotkin*

Tracy Gardner

Ada Weiner Lepene*

Esther London

Joseph Notterman

David Silverman

Tillie Balbresky

Theodore Freedland

Simon Greenberg

Dorothy Petchenik

Milton Weinstein*

Charlotte Falkowsky

Dr. Mark Farin*

John Gottlieb*

Sidney Holtzman*

Earl Levitt

Alan J. Rubinfeld*

Max Silverman

Harry Weiner*

Elizabeth Bat Joseph

Esther Blint

Pauline Cohn

Roy H. Entin

Samuel Hochberger

Frances Indzel

Frank D. Levi*

Rose Albert*

Rose Freeman

Mary Levin

Anne Frances Rubenstein*

 

 

We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.

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Cake

Jeffrey Buchalter

July 8

Horace Barsh

July 9

Benjamin Riffle

July 9

Scott Karp

July 10

Korey Lind

July 11

Jane Taffet

July 11

Carolyn Fleischer

July 12

Judith Sara Landis

July 12

Phillip Belena

July 14

Lois Fox

July 14

Renison Gonsalves

July 14


Alan & Karlene Turtz

July 10

39th Anniversary

Philip & Evelyn Stern

July 11

58th Anniversary


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CARING COMMITTEE
  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.
Please contact Chairperson,
Debby Schweighardt
if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help. 973-634-5349 

We have a wonderful collection of books for you to borrow from the JCC Library including these recommended reads: "Jewish Literacy" by Rabbi Joseph Telushkin, "My Live with Chagall" by Virginia Haggard-Leirens, "Devita's Harp" by Chaim Potok, "The History of Jewish Folklore" by Nathan Ausubel and "Isaac Bashevis Singer: The Magician of West 86th Street" by Paul Kresh. Thank you to Stu Lehrer for these suggestions.

YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.

Go to jccoflbi.org - community - forms

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES

PAVERS
Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building
8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"

SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:
Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.
Purchase a personalized paving stone
in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.

Please contact Diane Hoffman
with your order or with any questions:


PRAYER BOOKS
There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.
See Order form here: Prayer Book


TRIBUTES
SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF
See order form here: TRIBUTES


TREE OF LIFE
Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE
Bronze Leaf $90
Silver Leaf $126
Gold :Leaf $180


ENDOWMENT FUND

Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.

Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.

A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.
 
Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 


YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 
Here is the order form: 


KOL HAKAVOD

Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD

2023 MEMBERSHIP FORMS

Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.
Here is form for renewal:

And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:


JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
JCC LEADERSHIP

OFFICERS
President- Phil Rosenzweig
1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman
2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman
3RD Vice President- Rose Valentine
Treasurer- Ira Morgenthal
Secretary- Cliff Denker
Immediate Past President -Michael Babst

BOARD MEMBERS
Howard Babbitt 
Diane Buskirk
Mitch Frumkin

Jon Geier
Paul Levine
Donald Pripstein
Terri Robinovitz
David Shatz
Rob Van Naarden

WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk
Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll
Co-Vice President - Jill Denker
Treasurer - Suzy Geier
Secretary - Joanne Babbitt
Immediate Past President - Irene Babst
JCC INFORMATION

THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT
2411 Long Beach Boulevard
(24th Street)
Spray Beach, NJ 08008
Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550
web site: www.jccoflbi.org  
  
THE OFFICE IS OPEN
MONDAY - FRIDAY
CLOSED THURSDAY
FROM 10 - 2

 Staff:
 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager
  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member
 Diane Parzych, Staff Member
Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager


LATEST
BULLETIN:

PRAYER BOOK:
 
WEB SITE:

PAVERS:

TREE OF LIFE
  
YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

TRIBUTES:


CONTACT INFORMATION:
  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

Phil Rosenzweig, President

 
E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 
rvalen1963@aol.com 
Graphics by
Irene Babst
Contributing Columnist
Sheila Weisel