JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER


August 16, 2024

12 Av 5784



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A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI


Parashat Va’Etchanan: The Text of a Prayer

 

When I lead Minyanim (services) or teach about Tefillah (prayers), I often like to play a game I call: "Where did that come from?!” Recognizing that much of our liturgy comes directly from the Torah, I like to point out where a quote originated. Sometimes I simply point if out or sometimes it is the beginning of a deeper conversation to determine whether a specific quote’s use in the prayer is the same as its meaning in the Text from which it came. 

 

Parashat Va’Etchanan stands out because much of it has found its way into our daily existence as Jews. For instance, this Torah portion contains a restatement of the Ten Commandments together with the Shema, each, in its own way, the sine qua non of our faith. But there is another quote from V'Etchanan that maintains a very important position in each of our prayer services.  It is from 4:39) The English text is: "Know this day and take it to heart that Adonai is God in heaven above and on earth below, there is no other." The Hebrew is:

 

וְיָדַעְתָּ֣ הַיּ֗וֹם וַהֲשֵׁבֹתָ֮ אֶל־לְבָבֶ֒ךָ֒ כִּ֤י יְהֹוָה֙ ה֣וּא הָֽאֱלֹהִ֔ים בַּשָּׁמַ֣יִם מִמַּ֔עַל וְעַל־הָאָ֖רֶץ מִתָּ֑חַת אֵ֖ין עֽוֹד׃

 

V’yadata ha-yom va-hasheivota el l”vavkha, ki Adonai Hu Ha-Elohim ba-shamayim mi-ma-al, v’al ha-aretz mi-takhat, ein od. 

 

Where do we see this? It is in the Aleinu, the prayer that we say at the conclusion of every service. This sentence is at the end of the first paragraph that many of us sing as a congregation in an easily recognizable tune.

 

The Aleinu prayer is, according to Rabbi Hayim Halevy Donin, “[o]ne of the noblest expressions of the universal character of Jewish monotheism”. It was written in the 3rd century and is often ascribed to the Babylonian sage, Rav. Originally intended to be said during the Musaf service on Rosh Hashanah, it became the closing prayer of each daily service during the early 13th century.

 

The piece of Va’Etchanan that is in the Aleinu reaffirms the notion that our God truly is the one and only God. When it says that Adonai is God in heaven and on earth below, the liturgy is telling us that God is the God of “everywhere” and “everything”. 

 

In the greater context of the Book of Deuteronomy, Moses is giving his final speech to the Israelites. At length, and with love, Moses is taking the Torah and synthesizing God's Commandments into his own words; in a form that humans will better be able to understand. (Indeed, human emotions abound in Deuteronomy.) As in his life, these words will enable Moses, even after his death, to be an intermediary between the people and God.

 

Knowing that the words are Moses’, every time we say the Aleinu and recite this piece of Text, it is as if Moses is calling out to us; calling to each of us. We are being reminded of the very basic nature of Torah’s message; there is One God in heaven and on earth. In this regard, it is not by accident that the first part of the Aleinu is in the present tense. It is intended to be a permanently present message; a message that transcends time. It reminds us that every day, every hour, every minute, and every second, the God to whom we find ourselves praying is the one God. 

 

One God, One Torah, One people.

 

Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay

 

SHABBAT SHALOM

Shabbat Candle

Lighting time

Friday evening

August 16, 2024

7:33 PM


Friday, August 16, 2024



Shabbat Nachamu

Shabbat after Tish’a B’Av (Shabbat of Consolation) 


JOIN US FOR

SERVICES

On the Beach

in Loveladies

just south of St. Clare's Church

Bring your own chair

6:00 PM


IN PERSON

& ON ZOOM


In case of inclement weather

Services will be conducted at the JCC at 6:00 PM. Check the office answering machine for any updates


Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT


IN PERSON

&

ON ZOOM


Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday,

August 17, 2024

9:00 AM

IN PERSON

&

ON ZOOM


Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SHABBAT



TORAH READING

Parashat Vaetchanan

Deuteronomy 3:23-7:11

Vaetchanan (“I Pleaded”) opens as Moses describes his pleading with God to be allowed into the Land of Israel. Moses warns the Israelites not to pursue idolatry and recounts the giving of the Ten Commandments. The portion also contains the Shema, a declaration of faith and a central text in Jewish prayer.

Here is Parshah


HAFTORAH

Isaiah 40:1-26

This week’s haftorah is the first of seven consoling the Jewish people. After the Three Weeks of darkness and destruction, G‑d consoles us through the words of His prophet Isaiah. Each week, the consoling grows more and more powerful.

Here is the Haftorah


.HAVDALLAH

8:30 PM

ON ZOOM ONLY

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

HAVDALLAH


WEEKDAY SERVICES

Monday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation

from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday- Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT


SUNDAY, AUGUST 18


Pickleball

See times below


Dance Program with Marsha

7:00 PM

*****


MONDAY, AUGUST 19


Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 PM

for August 19 and 26 ONLY



TUESDAY, August 20


Pickleball

See times below

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WEDNESDAY, August 21


Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 PM


WAX Book Discussion

4:00 PM

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THURSDAY, August 22


Pickleball

SEE TIMES BELOW



Torah Study with Rabbi

11:00 AM


Intermediate Hebrew with Ira

2:00 PM


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FRIDAY, August 23


Studying the Prophets

with Rabbi Jay

9:00 AM



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CLICK HERE FOR FRIDAY PROPHETS CLASS


MAH JONGG & CANASTA


WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM


MONDAYS

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 PM

for August 19 and 26 ONLY


HERE IS THE

SCHEDULE TO ACCOMODATE ALL LEVELS OF PLAYERS


Tuesdays

3-4 Beginner and Skills Practice

 4-5 Regular Play, All Skill Levels

5-6 Experienced Players, Singles


Thursdays

10:30-11:30 Beginners and Skills Practice

11:30-12:30 Regular Play, All Skill Levels

12:30-1:30 Experienced Players, Singles


Sundays  

 10-11 Beginners and Skills Practice

  11-12 Regular Play, All Skill Levels

12-1 Experienced Players, Singles

 



Reminder: Pickleball for

members only!

SUMMER BAZAAR

Our Summer Bazaar was a great success. The weather was perfect for walking around to check out the items for sale, the quality of the merchandise was upscale, the flow of shoppers was constant and the volunteers enjoyed their time together in the kitchen and at the JCC table.


Many thanks to our Bazaar Chair EXTRAORDINAIRE Howard Babbitt and staff members Mary Beth Krieger and Diane Parzych.


Saluting our Volunteers:


Joanne Babbitt

Stan Berman

Ron Buskirk

Art Davis

Cliff Denker

Jill Denker

Elys Dreyfus

Howard Fructerman

Jon Geier

Diane Hoffman

Paul Levine

Ina Morgenthal

Ina Morgenthal

Malenie Piscetelli & Natalie

Don Pripstein

David Shatz

Karen Shatz

Rose Valentine


And of course Rabbi Jay who circluated all day greeting and answering questions from members and vistors alike.


Special praise from Chair Howard Babbitt: "Don Pripstein, Jon Geier, and Ron Buskirk deserve extra praise for being there before 6 and organizing what could have been a chaotic mess. And Paul Levine was always there as needed. Most of all, Marybeth was irreplaceable. There from before 6 until at least 5 and just everywhere, doing everything."


The WAX + Kitchen Crew:


Diane Hoffman

Joyce Levine

Noralyn Carroll

Bev Rosenberg

Marybeth Krieger

Lynn Berman

Diane Parzych

Renee Ward

Jon Geier

Suzy Geier

Cliff Denker

Jill Denker

Sue Davis

Judy Lipman

Bunny Kaufman

Marlene Matz

Robin Kanis

Ruth Turner

Hannah Kosky

Diane Buskirk


Friday, August 16

Shabbat on the Beach at Loveladies

6:00 PM


Sunday, August 18

Marsha Chazin Dance Program

7:00 PM


Tuesday, August 20

WAX Brunch

Drift Beach Bar & Restaurant

11:00 AM


Wednesday, August 21th

WAX Book Discussion

4:00 PM


Friday, August 23

Shabbat on the Beach at Spray Beach

6:00 PM


Friday, August 30

Shabbat on the Beach at Spray Beach

6:00 PM


LOOK FOR INFORMATION ABOUT A

TRADITIONAL SHABBAT DINNER

SPONSORED BY THE MEMBERSHIP COMMITTEE

SEPTEMBER 13TH


 

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HONEY FROM THE HEART

A WAX FUNDRAISER



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Get ready for some sizzling ballroom dancing on Sunday, August 18 at 7:00 - 9:00 PM

at the JCC on LBI.

Marsha Chazin, who is a member of our congregation and is a competitive ballroom dancer will be performing with her professional partner Bob Gui. It should be a lot of fun. Also, they will be teaching the basic steps to the swing dance and cha-cha. Looking forward to seeing you there.


Put a little fun in your life. Try dancing.


RSVP: Jill Denker (973) 214-2767


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JCC WOMEN’S AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION

 WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM

NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING


Wednesday, August 21th at 4:00 PM

Discussion Leader: TBA

Vignettes on Life: Reflections of a Septuagenarian

By: Carol Karkavy


In her new memoir Carol Harkavy has combined her love of writing, her journal entries spanning forty-five years, and her timeless wisdom to create a book of reflections and life lessons. She invites readers to take a peek into her humor, hopes, dreams, frustrations, fears, and anxieties that are openly revealed in this no-holds-barred, coming-of-old-age memoir. The author's goal is to impress upon younger readers the importance of not being late for the dance and to encourage older readers to realize that it is never too late to follow your heart. Nelson Mandela's quote, "It always seems impossible until it's done" is a constant reminder of what we can achieve if we are determined and motivated to persevere. Self-doubt, uncertainty, and negativity are our own self-imposed enemies and must be recognized and overcome before they paralyze us in such a way that prevents us from following our passion. Vignettes on Life will not only inspire readers of all ages to follow their dreams but will also share ageless wisdom with them to help guide them through this complicated maze we call "life."


WE ARE EXCITED TO AGAIN THIS YEAR TO HOST

TWO FILMS AT THE JCC. SEE FILMS AND DATES BELOW.

Again this year with our participationn

in the PJP Consortium,

you can visit Jewish communities around the world virtually.

COMING THIS SEPTEMBER

To Order your Shirts or Caps, Click Here
To pay by credit card on the JCC Website

CONGREGATION NEWS

The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Sidney Levine

Sadie Taub*

Gladys Abrams

Leslie Blint

Rima Demby

Frank Fink*

Alvin Hurwitz*

Bernard Miller

Gertrude Oertell

Thelma Petter

Jay Max Starr, MD

Lawrence Troum

Louis Alexander

Deborah H. Barsh

Leon Isanuk*

Barbara Carey

Dr. Jerome Cohen

Sophie Cohen

Sophie Litt

Benjamin Parker

Burt Schwait

Molly Young*

Angela Dicicco

Betty Jonas

Rosalind Mularz

Gertrude Serepca*

Yetta Elman

Martin Ferber*

Cecile E. Kessler

Arnold Rifkin

Barton Bloom

Louis Katz

Robert Warren*


We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about 45 minutes to an hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.


*Denotes yahrzeit plaque which will be lit this week

Steven Hartman

August 17

Andrea Seidler

August 17

Warren K. Racusin

August 19

Andrew Rosenbloom

August 22

 

Hugh & Hedda Chairnoff

August 19

62nd Anniversary

Herbert & Carol Zemble

August 19

62nd Anniversary

Alan & Robin Kanis

August 20

52nd Anniversary

Fred & Jodi Rothman

August 20

41st Anniversary

Mark Tilbor & Jacqueline Margolis

August 21

23rd Anniversary

Richard & Eileen Feldgus

August 23

60th Anniversary


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CONTACT: 

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CARING COMMITTEE


This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.


Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349 

YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.

Go to jccoflbi.org - community - forms

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb z"l and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2024 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW



JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP


OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Jon Geier

Treasurer- Stu Cofsky*

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Lorna Klein*

Paul Levine

Ken Podos


Terri Robinovitz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

Rose Valentine

Ken Yudman*


WOMEN'S AUXILIARY


President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst

Representative to the Bpard - Sondi Pripstein


*New Board Members


JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2

CLOSED THURSDAY


NO JCC BUSINESS DONE

ON SHABBAT

NO


 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Irene Babst