JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER


August 23, 2024

19 Av 5784



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A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI


At the very beginning of Parashat Eikev Moses tells the Israelites that: “[I]f you obey these rules and observe them carefully, the Lord your God will maintain faithfully for you the covenant that He made with your fathers. (God) will love you, bless you, and multiply you...”.


At first blush we might look at the text and consider that it is yet another, “if/then” proposition. We are being told that if we follow the rules, then we will be rewarded.


However, there is an important underlying connection being made here that one might overlook if it were not specifically pointed out. God is not acting on a promise that God made to “these” Israelites, rather the covenant being maintained was made generations earlier to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. 


Moses’ speech is important because it forces the Children of Israel to recognize that the gifts bestowed upon them were coming to them through the actions of their ancestors. While they are reminded of how their lives have been impacted by Abraham’s, Isaac’s, and Jacob’s relationships with God hundreds of years earlier, they are also forced to recognize that they hold their ancestors’ legacy in their hands.


It is only if the Children of Israel perform well, that God’s promise to Abraham, that his descendants will be as numerous as the stars in the heavens, will come to fruition. But it was only by Abraham’s good actions that the Children of Israel exist in the first place. 


The intergenerational symbiosis is very real. It is so real, in fact, that the Children of Israel should have recognized that what they did would have an impact on their descendants. (But this does not always seem to have been the case.) Torah never lets us forget that the future and the past are inextricably intertwined.


It is easy to read the Torah and see the connection. But there is a bigger lesson being taught by the Text. If we each lived our lives recognizing that, but for the actions of our parents, grandparents, great grandparents, we would not be where we are today, it would force us to garner respect and appreciation for the ideals of those who came before us.


At the same time, if we are cognizant of the fact that our children, grandchildren, great grandchildren, will be impacted by the things we do today, perhaps we might do things differently?


The Torah tells a story, but it is not a storybook. While the narrative is always important, and provides lesson upon important lesson, there is often (always) an underlying, larger, message. The Torah thus becomes a lens through which we can view the things we do. Our lives are not just about us. They are about the lives of those who preceded us and they are about the lives of those who will come after us. Torah provides the thread that binds us all together.

Seeing to the physical, emotional, and spiritual health of our children and grandchildren is paramount to our own well-being. As the next generation goes off to school in these challenging times, please bestow the following blessing upon them:


A PARENT’S BLESSING FOR SENDING A CHILD OFF TO COLLEGE IN THESE

CHALLENGING TIMES

Rabbi Naomi Levy


May you go off to college in peace,

My it be a time of growth, learning, and wisdom,

A time of new friendships, adventures, and fun.

And through it all, May God bless you and protect you.

Amid this time of hatred and division on campus

May you always be proud to be a Jew, connected to your People and your Faith.

Know that you are strong, thoughtful and courageous,

Trust in yourself,

And remember you are never alone.

Turn to friends who will support you,

Mentors who will teach and guide you

And remember I am always here for you.

May God bless the path you take,

May all your efforts lead to success,

May your studies never cease.

May any challenges you face strengthen your character and your determination.

May God bless your body with health and your soul with joy,

May God watch over you night and day and shield you from all harm.

May all your prayers be answered.

Amen



Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay


SHABBAT SHALOM

Shabbat Candle

Lighting time

Friday evening

August 23, 2024

PM


Friday, August 23, 2024




JOIN US FOR

SERVICES

On the Beach at 24th Street

in Spray Beach

Bring your own chair

6:00 PM


IN PERSON

& ON ZOOM


In case of inclement weather

Services will be conducted at the JCC at 6:00 PM. Check the office answering machine for any updates


Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT


IN PERSON

&

ON ZOOM


Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday,

August 24, 2024

9:00 AM

IN PERSON

&

ON ZOOM


Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SHABBAT



TORAH READING

Torah Portion: Deuteronomy 7:12-11:25

In Eikev (“As a Result”), Moses recounts events that happened in the desert, including the manna, the golden calf, and Aaron's death. Moses describes the blessings God will bestow upon the Israelites if they follow God’s law and the punishments they will encounter if they disobey. 

Here is Parshah


HAFTORAH

Isaiah 49:14-51:3 

This week's haftorah is the second of a series of seven "haftorot of Consolation." These seven haftarot commence on the Shabbat following Tisha b'Av and continue until Rosh Hashanah. 

Here is the Haftorah


.HAVDALLAH

8:30 PM

ON ZOOM ONLY

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

HAVDALLAH


WEEKDAY SERVICES

Monday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation

from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday- Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT


SUNDAY, AUGUST 25


Pickleball

See times below

*****


MONDAY, AUGUST 26


Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 PM

for August 26 ONLY



TUESDAY, August 27


Pickleball

See times below

******


WEDNESDAY, August 28


Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 PM

*********



THURSDAY, August 29


Pickleball

SEE TIMES BELOW



Torah Study with Rabbi

11:00 AM


Intermediate Hebrew with Ira

2:00 PM


***********


FRIDAY, August 30


Studying the Prophets

with Rabbi Jay

9:00 AM



CLICK HERE FOR THURSDAY TORAH STUDY CLASS
CLICK HERE FOR FRIDAY PROPHETS CLASS


MAH JONGG & CANASTA


WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM


MONDAYS

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 PM

for August 26 ONLY


THE THURSDAY MORNING PICKLEBALL GANG

HERE IS THE

SCHEDULE TO ACCOMODATE ALL LEVELS OF PLAYERS


Tuesdays

3-4 Beginner and Skills Practice

 4-5 Regular Play, All Skill Levels

5-6 Experienced Players, Singles


Thursdays

10:30-11:30 Beginners and Skills Practice

11:30-12:30 Regular Play, All Skill Levels

12:30-1:30 Experienced Players, Singles


Sundays  

 10-11 Beginners and Skills Practice

  11-12 Regular Play, All Skill Levels

12-1 Experienced Players, Singles

 



Reminder: Pickleball for

members only!

MARSHA AND HER PARTNER BOB GAI

MARSHA AND HER LIFE PARNER MARK


DANCING WITH MARSHA



We were treated to a wonderful evening of dance with Marsha Chazin and her partner Bob Gsi demonstrating various dances. In addition, dance instructor Myra Pineda, got us on the dance floor to learn the Cha cha and Lindy.

MARSHA WILL PARTNER BOB AND DANCE INSTRUCTOR

MARSHA AND HER RABBI

MICHAEL JAY


Friday, August 23

Shabbat on the Beach at Spray Beach

6:00 PM


Friday, August 30

Shabbat on the Beach at Spray Beach

6:00 PM



Sunday, September 8

Federation Film Festival

Film: "Less Than Kosher"

7:00 PM


Sunday, September 15

Showing of the movie “Screams Before Silence”

10:00 AM


Monday, September 16

Meet & Greet: Activities for JCC singles, widows and widowers.

at JCC 3:00-4:30 PM


Sunday, September 22

PJP Program

Travel the Jewish World

Jewish Copenhagen

12:30 PM


Sunday, September29

Federation Film Festival

Film: "No Name Restaurant"

7:00 PM


 

CLICK HERE FOR A COMPLETE CALENDAR OF EVENTS

COUNT DOWN TO THE HIGH HOLIDAYS


Rosh Hashanah

Wednesday evening, October 2, 2024

Thursday, October 3, 2024

Friday, October 4, 20024


Yom Kippur

Friday evening, October 11, 2024

Saturday October 12, 2024


LOOK FOR THE JCC HIGH HOLIDAY BROCHURE IN YOUR MAIL NEXT WEEK


Wednesday nights in September, after evening minyan, prepare for the High Holidays with Cantor Geller for 20 minutes. We’ll focus on a different prayer each week. We will review melodies and words so we will be able to join in more confidently during services.  


  • September 4 Only on Kol Nidre Eve: Singing the refrain of “Ya-a-le”.
  • September 11 Israel in Our Hearts: Prayers for the State of Israel and for Hostages
  • September 18 Only at Neilah: Singing “El Norah Alilah”.
  • September 25 Like the Angels Sing:  Kedusha meaning and melodies
  • No musical experience or Hebrew reading required.





HONEY FROM THE HEART

A WAX FUNDRAISER



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WE ARE EXCITED TO AGAIN THIS YEAR TO HOST

TWO FILMS AT THE JCC. SEE FILMS AND DATES BELOW.

Again this year with our participationn

in the PJP Consortium,

you can visit Jewish communities around the world virtually.

COMING THIS SEPTEMBER

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CONGREGATION NEWS

The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Jack Blecher

Myer Elgart*

Joseph Friedland

Sophie Neustadt*

Leslie Kaufman

Sue Aronson

Sylvia Davis

Adam Marc Kreiger*

Julio Litovsky

Sidney Pripstein*

Louis Greenwald*

Celine Kolb

Grace Petter

Tillie Schoenberger

Samuel Bell*

Lena Levison*

Samuel Richman

Morris Rosner

Miriam Blaher

Nathan Dondershine*

Lydia Garay

Shirley Halpern

David Hochman

Mildred Rosenthal

Dr. Harvey Rothman

Irwin Schneider

Myron Shapiro



We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about 45 minutes to an hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.


*Denotes yahrzeit plaque which will be lit this week

Cindy Hoffman Bergman

August 24

Martin Bergman

August 24

Ilene Greenbaum

August 25

Faye Deutsch

August 26

Sheri Jay

August 27

Lynn Berman

August 29

Paul Brenman

August 29

Alan Jay

August 29

Robert Snyder

August 29

Jason Wasserman

August 29


Joel & Barbara Werbel

August 24

56th Anniversary

Elliot & Janet Greene

August 26

53rd Anniversary

Joel Rosenberg & Jill Ratner

August 28

41st Anniversary

Adam & Naomi Fishman

August 30

38th Anniversary

Harry & Lynn Fryckberg

August 30

44th Anniversary

Phillip & Joanne Glass

August 30

54th Anniversary

 

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CONTACT: 

rvalen1963@aol.com


CARING COMMITTEE


This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.


Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349 


YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.

Go to jccoflbi.org - community - forms

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb z"l and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2024 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW



JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP


OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Jon Geier

Treasurer- Stu Cofsky*

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Lorna Klein*

Paul Levine

Ken Podos


Terri Robinovitz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

Rose Valentine

Ken Yudman*


WOMEN'S AUXILIARY


President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst

Representative to the Bpard - Sondi Pripstein


*New Board Members


JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2

CLOSED THURSDAY


NO JCC BUSINESS DONE

ON SHABBAT

NO


 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Irene Babst