JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER



August 29, 2025

5 Elul 5785








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OF THE SHABBAT REMINDER

A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI


Justice, Justice Shall you pursue.


This is what we read in the third verse of this week’s Torah portion, Shoftim. But how does one pursue justice this week? How does one mention justice?


I go into Shabbat with such sadness. I am heartbroken for the children who were attending back-to-school Mass at the Church of Annunciation when a shooter opened fire. Two children were murdered and 20 people were injured, mostly children. I have asked God to comfort the families of the dead and the injured. But here is the problem: The murdered and the injured were all praying in a church when this evil befell them. How does anyone reconcile that?


We Jews know the pain and disorientation that comes from the heinous violation of sanctified space. The US has seen at least three major synagogue shootings in the last 7 years alone. (Tree of Life in Pittsburgh, PA; Chabad of Poway, CA; and Congregation Beth Israel, Colleyville, TX)


Though the shooter targeted a Catholic school, the hateful evidence of anti-Jewish and anti-Zionist writing on the weapon, and a host of other extreme material left behind, are chilling.


There are many ways to fight against this and similar acts, and I pray that we find a way to put an end to them. In the meantime, I pray that the Church of Annunciation and its surrounding community find goodness, love and light. May they be resilient and find the strength to embrace the preciousness of each life. May the injured be healed speedily and completely, spiritually, physically, and emotionally. May those who have suffered loss be comforted and strengthened and may the memory of those whose lives were taken way too soon, always be for a blessing.


I cry for the children, I cry for their families, I cry for the church, I cry for the community, I cry for my Catholic and Christian friends, and I cry for people of faith everywhere. The pain is immeasurable.


My dear readers, it is the month of Elul. It is a time in which we traditionally work on ourselves to seek ways to become better people.


On this Shabbat and in the weeks to come, my request is that part of our “self-correcting” include extending our hands to our Christian friends and neighbors who are hurting.


Pursue justice, but have Rachmanus(empathy).


Remember #ITZAMITZVAH


Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael Jay


ROSH HASHANAH

Erev Rosh Hashanah

Monday, September 22


YOM KIPPUR

Kol Nidre

Wednesday, October 1


The countdown to the High Holy Days began on the first day of Elul (8/25) with the blowing of the Shofar each morning at Shacharit Services (morning minyan) until the day before Rosh Hashonah (except on Shabbos). See video below of Rabbi blowing the shofar. Think about playing it to begin your morning.


We look forward to a special Yom Tov at the JCC of LBI including a traditional Break the Fast following the final shofar blowing.


Members and previous Holy Day ticket holders should have received the 5786/2025 Holiday Packet in the mail. Here is the link to the registration form if you want to print, fill out and return it by mail. HIGH HOLIDAY LETTER AND ORDER FORM


Shana Tova - May it be a good year!



Candle Lighting Time

(Southern Ocean County)

Shabbat Eve

Friday, August 29, 2025

7:14 PM

JOIN US

FOR

SHABBAT

SERVICES


Friday

August 29, 2024

6:00 PM

Services on the Beach

on 24th Street

Spray Beach

FINAL BEACH SERVICE THIS YEAR

with musician

Carl Steinberg


Bring your beach chair!

In case of inclement weather services will be held at the JCC.


IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

A parallel service at 6:00 PM will be held on Zoom led by Ira Morgenthal

Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT

Saturday

August 30, 2025

9:00 AM

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SATURDAY MORNING


TORAH READING

Parashat Shoftim 

Deuteronomy 16:18-21:9

Shoftim (“Judges”) discusses guidelines of leadership, opening with a command to appoint judges and continuing to detail laws of kings, priests, and prophets. It also describes laws relating to cities of refuge for accidental killers, false witnesses, warfare, and the rite performed in a case of unsolved murder. 

Here is the Torah Reading


HAFTORAH

Isaiah 51:12-52:12

The haftorahs of the past two weeks open with Israel's complaint that they have been abandoned by G‑d. Israel is not content with consolations offered by the prophets — instead they demand that G‑d alone comfort them. In response, this week's haftorah begins with G‑d's response: "I, indeed I, will comfort you."

Here is the Haftorah


HAVDALLAH SERVICES

in the JCC back

parking lot

8:30 PM

S'MORES AND MORE



WEEKDAY SERVICES


Monday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday - Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT


SUNDAY, August 31

Pickleball

10 AM - 1 PM

Comedy Night at the Surflight

8:00 PM

******

TUESDAY, September 2

Pickleball

3 - 6 PM

******

WEDNESDAY, September 3

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 - 4 PM

****

THURSDAY, September 4

Torah Study

11 AM

Pickleball

10 AM - 1 PM

Sunday, August 31

Comedy Nite at the Surflight

8:00 PM

Monday, September 8

7:00 PM

Evening of Music with Carl Steinberg


Wednesday, September 10

WAX Book Group

4:00 PM


Friday, September 12

6:30 PM

Shabbat Dinner


Friday, September 19

11:00 AM

WAX Brunch

LBI Table


ROSH HASHANAH

Erev Rosh Hashanah

Monday, September 22


YOM KIPPUR

Kol Nidre

Wednesday, October 1


MAH JONGG & CANASTA

WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM


PICKLEBALL

Sundays and Thursdays

10 - 1

Tuesdays

3-4 PM Beginners

4 - 6 PM Experienced Players


SURFLIGHT COMEDY SHOW

To Benefit the JCC of LBI

August 31, 2025

8:00 PM


Contact the Surflight Box Office to order your tickets. 609-492-9477


When you order your tickets, you can request to sit near the JCC section. The JCC will receive a portion of the revenue from ALL seats sold in the theater. 

WAX BOOK CLUB

Wednesday, September 10th at 4:00 pm

Discussion Leader: TBA

The Avengers: A Jewish War Story

By Rich Cohen

In 1944, a band of Jewish guerrillas emerged from the Baltic forest to join the Russian army in its attack on Vilna, the capital of Lithuania. The band, called the Avengers, was led by Abba Kovner, a charismatic young poet. In the ghetto, Abba had built bombs, sneaking out through the city's sewer tunnels to sabotage German outposts. Abba's chief lieutenants were two teenage girls, Vitka Kempner and Ruzka Korczak. At seventeen, Vitka and Ruzka were perhaps the most daring partisans in the East, the first to blow up a Nazi train in occupied Europe. Each night, the girls shared a bed with Abba, raising gossip in the ghetto. But what they found was more than temporary solace. It was a great love affair. After the liquidation of the ghetto, the Avengers escaped through the city's sewage tunnels to the forest, where they lived for more than a year in a dugout beside a swamp, fighting alongside other partisan groups, and ultimately bombing the city they loved, destroying Vilna's waterworks and its powerplant in order to pave the way for its liberation.


Leaving a devastated Poland behind them, they set off for the cities of Europe: Vitka and Abba to the West, where they would be instrumental in orchestrating the massive Jewish exodus to the biblical homeland, and Ruzka to Palestine, where she would be literally the first person to bring a first hand account of the Holocaust to Jewish leaders. It was in these last terrifying days--with travel in Europe still unsafe for Jews and the extent of the Holocaust still not widely known--that the Avengers hatched their plan for revenge. Before it was over, the group would have smuggled enough poison into Nuremberg to kill ten thousand Nazis. The Avengers is the story of what happened to these rebels in the ghetto and in the forest, and how, fighting for the State of Israel, they moved beyond the violence of the Holocaust and made new lives.


From Rich Cohen, one of the preeminent journalists of his generation and author of the highly praised Tough Jews, a powerful exploration of vindication and revenge, of dignity and rebellion, painstakingly recreated through his exclusive access to the Avengers themselves. Written with insight, sensitivity, and the moral force of one of the last great struggles of the Second World War, here is an unforgettable story for our time.



We have an exciting upcoming event on October 22, 2025, and I need your help and support. 

 

Boscov’s Department Stores are sponsoring “Friends Helping Friends”, a 1 day only in store and on-line shopping event. For a $5 (or more, if you like) donation to Women’s Auxiliary, you will receive a 25% off Shopping Discount Pass! All proceeds from your donation go to the Women’s Auxiliary! This is a win-win for everyone! You get to do your shopping at a discounted price (Chanukah is right around the corner), and Women’s Auxiliary raises funds to help the JCC!

 

Boscov’s stores are located in Toms River, Egg Harbor Township, Monmouth, Moorestown, and Woodbridge in New Jersey, as well as Neshaminy and Plymouth Meeting in Pennsylvania.

 

I have a supply of the Shopping Passes, so please reach out and support our event!

 

Thank you,

Joanne Babbitt

215-962-3688 (cell; call or text)

609-312-7439 (home)

Jb_toot@att.net

HONEY FROM THE HEART


Jewish Museum Series


This is the first of the Zoom programs brought to our members through our participation in PJP (Partners in Jewish Programming). Look for more information about future Museum programs including "American Jewish Soldiers and the Liberation of the Concentration Camps” and Museum of the Southern Jewish Experience – “Stories from the Museum of the Southern Jewish Experience” 

Sunday, October 19 @ 1:00 PM

The Jewish Museum, NY – “Afterlives: Recovering the Lost Stories of Looted Art”

 

During World War II, untold numbers of artworks and pieces of cultural property were stolen by Nazi forces. After the war, an estimated one million artworks and 2.5 million books were recovered. Many more were destroyed. This exhibition chronicles the layered stories of the objects that survived, exploring the circumstances of their theft, their post-war rescue, and their afterlives in museums and private collections.


Afterlives includes objects looted from Jewish collections during the war, including works by such renowned artists as Pierre Bonnard, Paul Cézanne, Marc Chagall, Gustave Courbet, Paul Klee, Franz Marc, Henri Matisse, Pablo Picasso, and Camille Pissarro. The Jewish Museum has also commissioned four contemporary artists to create new works that address the resonance of the exhibition’s themes: Maria Eichhorn, Hadar Gad, Dor Guez, and Lisa Oppenheim. Treasured pieces of Judaica, including rare examples of Jewish ceremonial objects from destroyed synagogues, will also be on view, as well as rarely seen archival photographs and documents that connect the objects to history.


75 years after the Second World War, Afterlives explores how surviving artworks and other precious objects were changed by those events, and how they have moved through time, bearing witness to profound historical ruptures while also acting as enduring carriers of individual expression, knowledge, and creativity. The exhibition follows the paths taken by works of art across national borders, through military depots, and in and out of networks of collectors, looters, ideologues, and restitution organizations.


Returning this Fall is the popular series with John Kenrick as he brings us back stage with stories of Broadway.


October 5 - Oklahoma

October 21 - South Pacific

November 9 - Fiddler

All at 8:30 p.m.


Coming in January 2026, we will also be bringing to our members a PJP series entitled " Jewish Art with Evgenia Kempinski"


Evgenia Kempinski is a professional Jewish tour guide, born and raised in St. Petersburg, Russia. With over fifteen years of experience guiding Jewish heritage tours in her hometown, she has developed a deep passion for uncovering and sharing the stories of the Jewish Diaspora. With her family she spent six enriching years living in Israel and now resides in Barcelona, continuing her mission to connect people with Jewish history and culture around the world. She is the founder of the Online Jewish Travel Club, a vibrant community that brings together Jews from different countries through a shared love of travel, art, and Jewish heritage.


Thank you to everyone who brought food and supplies to the JCC in support of the Food Pantry at St. Francis Community Center in Brant Beach. Please continue to help stock their shelves as they provide food for those in need. We ask you to drop off your donations directly to the Pantry. Their hours are:

Monday – Thursday: 10:00 AM - 2:00 PM





The JCC section at Crescent Memorial Park is available for sales. Please contact Bonni Rubin-Sugarman at 609-417-7148.

NEW Beautiful mah jongg bags


We are very excited to add to the WAX Gift Shop items from local merchants and artisans. Stop in to look and buy one (or more) of these beautiful pieces for your home, as a gift or just for yourself. The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.

PAVERS

CALL PAUL LEVINE WITH ANY QUESTIONS

484-802-0586

SEE ORDER FORM BELOW

CONGREGATION NEWS


A follow-up to last week's story about the visit to the JCC by Morty Simon, son of one of the early members of our synagogue. Morty sent this article about his father, Dr. Henry Simon, and how he rescued the Torahs when the Baldwin Hotel was on fire.

The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


David Cramer

Aalan Glass

Leonard Piscetelli

Shirley Pollack

Gertrude Sanders

Louis Abromovitz

Harold Cohn

Abraham Frank

George Katz

Sylvia “Tippi” Brinberg*

Rae Hochman

Ethel Kates*

Elsie Lox

Rose Luterman

James Patrician

Morris Steinberg

Emil Koupf

Frances Lilienfeld*

Billie Snyder

Mindy Greenbaum

Philip Nelson

Arlene Strikowsky

Gertrude Ettman

Jerry Karp

Anne Millstein*

Stephen Zelin



We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral.

Cake

Yvonne Finkelthal

August 31

Barry Hartman

August 31

Rita Fleischmajer

September 2

Sue Rubinfeld

September 3

Celia Salzman

September 3


Adam & Naomi Fishman

August 30

39th Anniversary

Harry & Lynn Fryckberg

August 30

45th Anniversary

Phillip & Joanne Glass

August 30

55th Anniversary

Stephen & Ronda Gilbert

September 1

56th Anniversary

Jeffrey Bernstein & Korey Lind

September 2

41st Anniversary

Barry & Carol Hartman

September 3

46th Anniversary


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AND PICTURES


CONTACT: 

rvalen1963@aol.com


Fran & Kurt


Remembering Fran Lilienfeld whose yahrzeit is this week, pictured here with her companion Curt Kelly. She was ever present at services in the back of the old synagogue. For most of her life, Fran was a professional singer and entertainer who went under the stage name "Frantic Fran". She was one of a kind!!!!

CARING COMMITTEE

  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.

Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349

YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.


Go to jccoflbi.org - Giving/Pay

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2025 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW


BE A PART OF THE WOMEN'S AUXILLARY

2025 DUES FORM HERE


JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP



OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Jon Geier

Treasurer- Stu Cofsky

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Lorna Klein

Ken Podos

Sondi Pripstein

Terri Robinovitz

David Shatz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

Rose Valentine

Ken Yudman


WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Lorna Klein

Joyce Levine

Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst



Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader


JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2




 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Mary Beth Kreiger

Contributing Articles by

Stu Lehrer