JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER


August 9, 2024

5 Av 5784



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YAUGUST 13, 2024 - 9 Av 5784

A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI

This week we have the privilege of starting to read the last book of the Torah, Deuteronomy. It is unique because much of it is told in Moses’ voice as he retells portions of the story and the laws that are already contained in the preceding books. 

 

You might wonder why Moses should need to repeat the stories and the laws. I think it is because by telling the story in his words, Moses adds a human element that did not really exist in the first 4 books.  For example, it is Moses who expresses the very human element of “loving” God that we see in the Shema.  

 

Generally, when we start a new book of the Torah, there is joy. However, the joy is tempered this year because this week we started the Month of Av, and Tisha B’Av (the ninth of Ave) begins this coming Monday evening, August 12th. The 9th of Av is known as the saddest date on the Hebrew calendar because it is the date on which both the First and Second Temples were destroyed. Our tradition also notes other disasters that have occurred on this date. Among others, the expulsions of the Jews from England and Spain were tied to the 9th of Av.

 

Tisha B’Av services will begin on Monday evening at 7:30 pm. It is the tradition, to refrain from wearing leather shoes, to light a candle, to sit on the floor (if possible), and chant Eicha (the Book of Lamentations). If you join us on the Zoom link you can perform all these traditions in your homes. PLEASE JOIN US IN PERSON OR ON ZOOM!

 

As always, if you want to lead a part of the service or read some of Eicha, just let me know.

 

As we prepare for this most somber of days, it is wholly appropriate to remember the negative events of our past and to consider that Israel is in the middle of a war that is likely to expand, and that hostages (living and dead) have now been held for over 300 days. But we should also view Tisha B’Av as a time to think about how we might repair the world, and to recognize that, despite all that has befallen our people, we are still here and thriving. Let’s get to work.

 

Shabbat Shalom and tzom kal (easy fast on Tisha B’Av)

 

Rabbi Michael S. Jay


SHABBAT SHALOM

Shabbat Candle

Lighting time

Friday evening

August 9. 2024

7:41 PM


Shabbat Chazon

Shabbat of Prophecy/

Shabbat of Vision


Shabbat Chazon is named for the “Vision of Isaiah over Judah and Jerusalem” (Book of Isaiah 1:1-27) that is read as the Haftarah on this Shabbat at the end of the three weeks between dire straits, which precede the mournful fast of Tisha B’Av. It is also called black sabbath due to Isaiah’s prophecy of rebuke predicting the destruction of the first temple in the siege of Jerusalem and its status as the saddest shabbat of the year (as opposed to the white sabbath, Shabbat Shuvah, immediately preceding Yom Kippur).



Friday, August 9, 2024


JOIN US FOR

SERVICES


SHABBAT ON THE BEACH HAS BEEN CANCELLED DUE TO WEATHER CONCERNS


SERVICES WILL HELD

AT THE JCC

6:00 PM

IN PERSON

&

ON ZOOM


Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday,

August 10, 2024

9:00 AM

IN PERSON

&

ON ZOOM


Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SHABBAT



TORAH READING

Parashat Devarim

Deuteronomy 1:1-3:22

Here is Parshah


HAFTORAH

Isaiah 1:1-27

Here is the Haftorah


.HAVDALLAH

PM

ON ZOOM ONLY

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

HAVDALLAH


WEEKDAY SERVICES

Monday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation

from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday- Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT

Tisha B'Av, the 9th day of the month of Av, is the saddest day on the Jewish calendar, on which we fast, deprive ourselves and pray. It is the culmination of the Three Weeks, a period of time during which we mark the destruction of the Holy Temple in Jerusalem


Service at the JCC and on Zoom

Monday, August 12

7:30 PM

The Book of Eicha

(Lamentations)

will be recited


CLICK HERE FOR SERVICE


SUNDAY, AUGUST 11

Pickleball

NO PICKLEBALL THIS SUNDAY


JCC ANNUAL

CONGREGATION MEETING

10:00 PM

*****


TUESDAY, August 13


Pickleball

NO PICKLEBALL THIS TUESDAY

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WEDNESDAY, August 14


NO Canasta & Mah Jongg


BAZAAR

8 AM - 3 PM

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THURSDAY, August 15


Pickleball

SEE TIMES BELOW



Torah Study with Rabbi

11:00 AM


Intermediate Hebrew with Ira

2:00 PM


ROSH CHODESH WOMEN'S PROGRAM

7:00 PM


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FRIDAY, August 16


Studying the Prophets

with Rabbi Jay

9:00 AM



CLICK HERE FOR THE ANNUAL MEETING
CLICK HERE FOR THURSDAY TORAH STUDY CLASS
CLICK HERE FOR FRIDAY PROPHETS CLASS


MAH JONGG & CANASTA


WEDNESDAYS

NOT THIS WEEEK

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM

HERE IS THE

SCHEDULE TO ACCOMODATE ALL LEVELS OF PLAYERS


Tuesdays

3-4 Beginner and Skills Practice

 4-5 Regular Play, All Skill Levels

5-6 Experienced Players, Singles


Thursdays

10:30-11:30 Beginners and Skills Practice

11:30-12:30 Regular Play, All Skill Levels

12:30-1:30 Experienced Players, Singles


Sundays  

 10-11 Beginners and Skills Practice

  11-12 Regular Play, All Skill Levels

12-1 Experienced Players, Singles

 



Reminder: Pickleball for

members only!


FUTURE DATES


August 16th - 56th St., Loveladies

August 23rd - 24th St., Spray Beach

August 30th - 24th St., Spray Beach

The Gypsy Duet Event last Sunday night was a

HUGE SUCCESS!!!

It is not often when everyone says it went perfectly.

Great music

Delicious Food

Exciting Silent Auction & Gift Basket Items

Congratulations to the Programming Committee chaired by David Shatz with committee members Jill Denker, Diane Hoffman and Beverly Miller. Also helping make the evening a triumph were Noralyn Carroll, Bonni Rubin-Sugarman, Paul Levine, Mike Miller and Cliff Denker as well as the office staff - Leslie, Marybeth and Diane P. for keeping track of the reservations and making sure the room was set up perfectly.


Special kudos to the "Cucumber Ladies" Karen Shatz, Marlene Matz and Ruth Turner who helped Diane Hoffman and her house guest Elena Orgel turn a large harvest of cucumbers into a delicious cucumber dill salad which was added to the menu Sunday evening.


The donors to the Silent Auction and Basket Bonanza are added significantly to the event being a financial success. Our appreciation to: Gloria Cantor, Joyce & Paul Levine, Marlene & Warren Matz, Karen & David Shatz, Karen Fink, Sherry Fruchterman, Phyllis Sisenwine, Phyllis Cohen and Elliot Greene.


Sunday, August 11

Annual Congregation Meeting


Wednesday, August 14

JCC Bazaar

8:00 AM - 3 PM


Thursday, August 15

Rosh Chodesh Women's Program

7:00 PM


Friday, August 16

Shabbat on the Beach at Lovelades

6:00 PM


Sunday, August 18

Marsha Chazin Dance Program

11:30 AM


Friday, August 23

Shabbat on the Beach at Spray Beach

6:00 PM


Friday, August 30

Shabbat on the Beach at Spray Beach

6:00 PM


LOOK FOR INFORMATION ABOUT A

TRADITIONAL SHABBAT DINNER

SPONSORED BY THE WAX

SEPTEMBER 6TH


 

SUNDAY, AUGUST 11

10:00 AM

9:30 FOR COFFEE AND A NOSH

CLICK HERE TO JOIN THE MEETING

We hope you will make your way down to the JCC next Wednesday. Your support of the vendors ultimately supports the JCC.




HONEY FROM THE HEART

A WAX FUNDRAISER



CLICK HERE TO ORDER HONEY FROM THE HEART

Get ready for some sizzling ballroom dancing on Sunday, August 18 at 7:00 - 9:00 PM at the JCC on LBI.

Marsha Chazin, who is a member of our congregation and is a competitive ballroom dancer will be performing with her professional partner Bob Gui. It should be a lot of fun. Also, they will be teaching the basic steps to the swing dance and cha-cha. Looking forward to seeing you there.


Put a little fun in your life. Try dancing.


RSVP: Jill Denker (973) 214-2767


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WE ARE EXCITED TO AGAIN THIS YEAR TO HOST

TWO FILMS AT THE JCC. SEE FILMS AND DATES BELOW.

Again this year with our participationn

in the PJP Consortium,

you can visit Jewish communities around the world virtually.

To Order your Shirts or Caps, Click Here
To pay by credit card on the JCC Website

CONGREGATION NEWS

The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Sy Frand

Ann D. Horowitz

Shirley Rose

Stan Wiernik

John Dzuna

Walter Sadowsky

Rudi Cohen

Irwin Moses*

Joseph Schiller

Leslie Barrish

Elaine Gonsalves

Tola Herszenberg

Nellie Lichtenberg

Jennie Oxfeld

Jeannette Shapiro

Sam Glasser

Arthur Goldman

Abbey Koseff

Benjamin Price

Rebecca Rosner

Nathan Stone*

Howard Tittlebaum

Evelyn Bookman*

Leah Harab Budker*

Max Dreyfus*

Shirley Fischer

Sol Daniel Gussin

Judith Katz

Doris Morton

Clara Waxman*

Frank Dondershine

Herb Josephson*

Mary D. Klein

Emil Mendlow

Esther Saden

Carl Sher*



We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about 45 minutes to an hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.


*Denotes yahrzeit plaque which will be lit this week

Roberta Abramowitz

August 13

Adam Fishman

August 13

David Robinovitz

August 13

Lynn Sherman

August 13

Sheila Small

August 14

Gloria Canter

August 16

 

Marc & Ruthellen Rubin

August 11

51st Anniversary

Marc & Audrey Wisotsky

August 12

40th Anniversary

Stewart & Susan Fisher

August 13

35th Anniversary

Robert & Lauren Snyder

August 14

47th Anniversary


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CONTACT: 

rvalen1963@aol.com


CARING COMMITTEE


This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.


Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349 

YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.

Go to jccoflbi.org - community - forms

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb z"l and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2024 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW



JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP


OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Rose Valentine

Treasurer- Ira Morgenthal

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Jon Geier


Paul Levine

Ken Podos

Terri Robinovitz

David Shatz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman



WOMEN'S AUXILIARY


President - Diane Buskirk

Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll

Co-Vice President - Jill Denker

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst



JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2

CLOSED THURSDAY


NO JCC BUSINESS DONE

ON SHABBAT

NO


 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Irene Babst