Jewish Community Center of Long Beach Island E-Letter


September 16, 2022
19 Elul 5782





COUNTDOWN TO THE HIGH HOLIDAYS
10 DAYS TO GO!!!!!!!!
SPEND THE HIGH HOLIDAYS
HERE AT THE JCC OF LBI
CLICK BELOW FOR THE HOLIDAY CALENDAR AND ORDER FORMS FOR TICKETS, BOOK OF REMEMBRANCE AND HOLIDAY GREETINGS

YOU CAN NOW REGISTER AND PAY FOR YOUR HIGH HOLIDAY SEAT/ZOOM HOOKUP ON LINE!!!
YOU CAN ALSO INCLUDE YOUR NAMES FOR THE BOOK OF REMEMBRANCE AND YOUR HOLIDAY GREETINGS TO THE CONGREGATION ON THIS FORM . IT IS A SIMPLE AND CONVENIENT PROCESS WITH THE NEW INTERACTIVE FORM BELOW
WE ARE ADDING A FAMILY PACKAGE THIS YEAR
IN THE SOCIAL HALL

2 TICKETS FOR PARENTS ($100 EACH)
SEATS FOR ALL CHILDREN UNDER
BAR MITZVAH AGE (ADDITIONAL $50)
TOTAL: $250

*ALL CHILDREN WHO HAVE BEEN BAR MITZVAH
ARE AN ADDITIONAL $100 EACH.


You can hear the sound of the shofar every morning (but Shabbat) during the month of Elul. It is sounded at the end of the Shacharit Service between 8:45 - 9:00 (Sunday morning between 9:45 - 10:00)


A TORAH MESSAGE FROM
THE RABBI

This week’s Torah portion, Ki Tavo, contains a list of the blessings that will be Israel’s if the people obey God’s laws, and a list of punishments that will await Israel if the people do not obey God’s laws. Moses’ underlying message is that, where Torah is concerned, we are in control of whether we receive blessings or punishments. It is our choice to follow the law and it is our choice not to follow the law.  Thus, in many respects, we control our own destinies.
 
This is the time of year that our tradition requires us to do a personal accounting in preparation for Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. (In Hebrew this is called Heshbon Hanefesh, literally an “accounting of the soul”) It is also our choice whether or not to take this personal review seriously. One of the reasons we listen to the shofar every morning in the month of Elul is that it reminds us to perform this exercise. 
 
The following prayer is contained in Mahzor, Lev Shalem (The prayer book we are using this year for Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur)):
 
May the Cry of the shofar shatter our complacency.
May the cry of the shofar penetrate our souls.
May the cry of the shofar break the bonds of all that enslaves us.
May the cry of the shofar destroy the idols we have placed at the forefront of our lives.
May the cry of the shofar awaken us to the things we have done wrong.
May the cry of the shofar summon us to a life of responsibility.
May the cry of the shofar elicit the response, “Here I am.”
May the cry of the shofar remind us that we can change.
May the cry of the shofar penetrate our hearts.
May the cry of the shofar bring blessing to us, the people who hear its call.
 
Pinocchio had Jiminy Cricket; we have the shofar. (There is a children’s book in there somewhere.)
 
The shofar reminds us every morning to do a thorough review. Whether it is the shrill physical sound, or the memories it evokes, the shofar simply cannot be ignored.
 
You can participate in this daily ritual. To hear the shofar, join us any morning Sunday thru Thursday. The morning service starts at 8:15. (Sunday morning is at 9:00) The shofar will be blown right around 8:45. (9:30 on Sunday)(It is perfectly okay if you only have time to hear the shofar!)
 
When we hear the shofar the goal is to make sure that we look at ourselves and make efforts to change that which can be changed. God willing the process will help us to speak kindly or act kindly. Perhaps it will help us to repair what is broken.
 
In God’s plan, ultimately, it is our choice to look at who we are and it is our choice to do what we do. Let the shofar prompt us to do the work that we need to do. 
May we hear the shofar and be energized to be our best selves..
 
Tekia Gedolah!
 
Shabbat Shalom – Rabbi Michael S. Jay
The Saturday night before Rosh Hashanah
September 17, 2022
8:00 PM
ON ZOOM ONLY
Havdallah
Program
Selichot Service

A special program with
Ira Morgenthal:
A look back at the JCC trip to Israel in 2018
with slides and commentary
Candle Lighting time
Friday evening
September 16, 2022
6:45 PM
(So. Ocean County)

JOIN US FOR
SERVICES
Friday night
September 16, 2022
6:00 PM
IN PERSON
AND
ZOOM

Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to join
Zoom services

Saturday Morning
September 17, 2022
9:00 AM
IN PERSON
AND
ZOOM

Here is
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to join
Zoom services

Torah Reading:
Parashat Ki Tavo
Deuteronomy 26:1-29:8
Here is the Reading

Ki Tavo (“When You Come”) opens by describing the ceremony of the first fruit offering (bikkurim) and the declaration made upon the completion of tithing. It concludes with a detailed description of blessings that follow obedience to God's laws and curses that come with their desecration.

Haftorah
Isaiah 60:1-22
Here is the Haftorah

Saturday evening
September 17, 2022
8:00 PM

Havdallah
and
Selichot

ZOOM ONLY
Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:
AND
SELICHOT

Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:

Sunday - Thursday
Ma'ariv Service
7:30 PM
Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:

Monday- Friday
Shacharit Service
8:15 AM
Sunday at 9:00 AM


Here is 
your invitation from 
Rabbi Jay to
join Zoom services:
THIS WEEK'S ACTIVITIES


MONDAY 9/19
Preparing for the High Holy Days with Rabbi Jay
10:00 AM
“This Is Real And You Are Completely Unprepared” by Rabbi Alan Lew

WEDNESDAYS
Mah jongg/Canasta continues
12:30 PM

ALL OTHER CLASSES CANCELLED FOR THIS WEEK

October 6
PJP 8-Part Zoom Series
Part II

October 9
18 Mile Run

October 13
WAX Membership Bruch

October 19
Boscov"s
Friends Helping Friends
HERE IS THE FORM FOR YOU TO PRINT, FILL OUT
AND SEND IN WITH YOUR CHECK
OR

YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT THE INFORMATION ON LINE FOR YOUR PAVER AND MAKE YOUR PAYMENT AS WELL
The JCC will once again be participating in the PNJ Consortium. An exciting 8-part series is being made available to our congregation.
THE JCC WILL HAVE A WATER STATION AGAIN THIS YEAR IN FRONT OF OUR BUILDING. JOIN US IN ENCOURAGING THE RUNNERS AS THEY HONOR THE ISRAELI OLYMPIC ATHLETES MURDERED IN MUNICH IN 1972. CALL THE OFFICE TO LET US KNOW YOU WILL BE PARTICIPATING.
CONGREGATION NEWS
The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening

Lillian Cofsky
Eva Diesenhaus
Willy Hupert
Harrie Kronenberg
Alan Kronenberg
Hannah Esh Lowe
Beverly Edythe Schoen
William Seidler
Jerome Shapiro
David Corson
Pauline Ellis Cramer
Beatrice Ferber*
Eli Golden*
Charles Hudes
Martin Levine
Paula Polishook
Betty Pomerantz
Jeffrey Chairnoff
Jack Estes
Charles Kaplan
Belle Meisler
Saul Babbitt
Julia Herman*
Jimmy Kagel
Jack Lang
Sadie Bodanji
Martha Horowitz
Anne Kanowith
Sydell Levy
John E. Frankfurt*
Rose Taube Lehrer
Rose Danon
Kyle Frand
Hilda Kelsen
 
 *Memorial plaque will be lit this week.

In this Zoom era, we have been able to have a daily minyan at 8:15 AM and at 7:30 PM and on Shabbat. We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.
Ann Newman
September 18th
Mark Chazin
September 22nd
Rabbi Paula Drill
September 22nd
Cliff Farin
September 22nd
Suzanne Katz-Kinzler
September 22nd
Ruthellen Rubin
September 22nd
Howard Babbitt
September 23rd
Charles Hirsh
September 23rd
 
Paul & Joyce Levine
September 17th
27th Anniversary
Peter & Dana Langerman
September 22nd
37th Anniversary

JANET & HOWARD COHEN
on the marriage of their daughter
Shelly Joy
to Matthew Stuart Brodsky
SHARON & DAVID HANDLER
on the birth of their grandson
Mac Joseph Handler
The parents are
Chelsea & Gary Handler.
Baby Blocks
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AND PICTURES

CONTACT: 

CARING COMMITTEE
  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.
Please contact Chairperson,
Debby Schweighardt
if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help. 973-634-5349 
YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.

Go to jccoflbi.org - community - forms

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES

PAVERS
Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building
8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"

SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:
Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.
Purchase a personalized paving stone
in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.

Please contact Diane Hoffman
with your order or with any questions:


PRAYER BOOKS
There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.
See Order form here: Prayer Book


TRIBUTES
SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF
See order form here: TRIBUTES


TREE OF LIFE
Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE
Bronze Leaf $90
Silver Leaf $126
Gold :Leaf $180


ENDOWMENT FUND

Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.

Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.

A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.
 
Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 


YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 
Here is the order form: 


KOL HAKAVOD

Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD

2022 MEMBERSHIP FORMS

Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.
Here is form for renewal:

And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

To pay on line
Click on PAY ON LINE
Fill in your information and then
go to Donation Details - then
Other and type in 2022 Membership

JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
JCC LEADERSHIP

OFFICERS
President- Phil Rosenzweig
1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman
2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman
3RD Vice President- Rose Valentine
Treasurer- Ira Morgenthal
Secretary- Cliff Denker
Immediate Past President -Michael Babst

BOARD MEMBERS
Howard Babbitt *
Diane Buskirk*
Mitch Frumkin*

Jon Geier
Paul Levine
Donald Pripstein
Terri Robinovitz*
David Shatz
Rob Van Naarden

WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk
Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll
Co-Vice President - Jill Denker
Treasurer - Suzy Geier
Secretary - Joanne Babbitt
Immediate Past President - Irene Babst
JCC INFORMATION

THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT
2411 Long Beach Boulevard
(24th Street)
Spray Beach, NJ 08008
Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550
web site: www.jccoflbi.org  
  
THE OFFICE IS OPEN
TUESDAY - FRIDAY
FROM 10 - 2
 Staff:
 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager
  Mary Beth Krieger
 Diane Parzych
Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager
MARY BETH & LESLIE
DIANE
LATEST
BULLETIN:

PRAYER BOOK:
 
WEB SITE:

PAVERS:

TREE OF LIFE
  
YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

TRIBUTES:


CONTACT INFORMATION:
  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

Phil Rosenzweig, President

 
E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 
rvalen1963@aol.com 
Graphics by
Irene Babst