JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

E-LETTER



September 5, 2025

12 Elul 5785





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A MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI


Last week, as the month of Elul began, we started blowing the Shofar every morning. I used to do this, mostly by myself, on the 24th Street beach. I would get some interesting looks from others who happened to be on the beach at 7:00 in the morning. Now, at the conclusion of our Zoom services in the morning, Stu Lehrer blows the shofar for all who are assembled on the link.  Each time it is a special moment.


Inasmuch as the Shofar’s call is a reminder of the importance of this time of year to us, individually and communally, the fact that there are more who are experiencing the daily “toot” is a good thing. Join us! Minyan starts at 8:15 am but, if you are busy, come on at about 8:45 to hear the Shofar. If you want to hear the Shofar separately, reach out to the office and they will arrange for me or Stu to blow the Shofar for you.


Parashat Ki Tetzeh is full of important ideas which are intended to help the Israelites (and ultimately us) to become a holy nation. One message of this portion might go overlooked because it is not specifically spelled out. However, I believe it is a key to who we are as a people. The principle can be found in the following verse:


If you see your kinsman’s donkey or ox fallen on the road, do not ignore it; you must help him raise it. (Deut. 22:4)


At first blush, one might read this verse and think, “Of course it’s nice to help someone in need.” But, look at the verse closely and consider what it is really saying. It cannot be denied that a fallen animal means that the animal is in danger. But it also means that the owner may suffer (economically or physically). Now, if one is walking quickly to work, or if someone has someplace that he/she “needs” to be, it would be very easy to “ignore” the fallen animal and walk by. However, the Torah is saying, Moses is saying, and God is saying: “YOU CANNOT IGNORE A PROBLEM THAT IS IN FRONT OF YOU!”


So the verse requires us to help our kinsman. What is the bigger message being given? Rabbi Jonathan Sacks explained it best:


…[I]ts real significance lies in telling us what (Israelite) society should look like. It is a place where people are good neighbors, and are willing to help even a stranger in distress. Its citizens care about the welfare of others. When they see someone in need of help, they don’t walk by.


The verse is not just about the fallen animal and the animal’s owner. It is telling us about anyone in need of help. The Torah is requiring us to be vigilant in our support of those around us. Our tradition requires us to continually call out: “Hineini”, “I am here”. 


As we continue to prepare for the High Holy Days, remember that the biggest present you can give to anyone is your presence.   


REMEMBER #ITZAMITZVAH!


Shabbat Shalom - Rabbi Michael S. Jay


If you, or someone you know, cannot make it to services to hear the Shofar during Elul or Rosh Hashanah, please do not hesitate to contact the Synagogue Office so that either Rabbi Jay or Stu W Lehrer can make arrangements to sound the Shofar for you, or them, personally!


Contact the office here


If you wish to order a lulav and esrog for Sukkot, please contact the Rabbi.

Candle Lighting Time

(Southern Ocean County)

Shabbat Eve

Friday, September 5, 2025

7:03 PM

JOIN US

FOR

SHABBAT

SERVICES


Friday

September 5, 2024

7:30 PM

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join Services

on Zoom

FRIDAY NIGHT

Saturday

September 6, 2025

9:00 AM

IN PERSON AND

ON ZOOM

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services


BABY NAMING THIS SHABBAT

Gabriella Gianna

Daughter of

Benjamin & Danielle Small

Granddaughter of

Len & Sheila Small

TORAH READING

Parashat Ki Teitzei 

Deuteronomy 21:10-25:19

Ki Teitzei (“When You Go Out”) contains numerous laws, more than appear in any other Torah portion. These include laws about the treatment of a captive woman, returning lost objects, forbidden mixtures, the erection of a rooftop fence, rape, collateral, and workers’ wages.

Here is the Torah Reading


HAFTORAH

Isaiah 54:1-10

The reading is taken from the uplifting verses of consolation at the end of the book of Isaiah. In it the prophet poetically directs his comforting words to the city of Jerusalem, personifying her and addressing her as a loving wife and devoted mother.

Here is the Haftorah


HAVDALLAH

8:00 PM

ON ZOOM ONLY

Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

HAVDALLAH



WEEKDAY SERVICES


Monday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday - Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT


ROSH HASHANAH

Erev Rosh Hashanah

Monday, September 22


YOM KIPPUR

Kol Nidre

Wednesday, October 1


The countdown to the High Holy Days began on the first day of Elul (8/25) with the blowing of the Shofar each morning at Shacharit Services (morning minyan) until the day before Rosh Hashonah (except on Shabbos).


We look forward to a special Yom Tov at the JCC of LBI including a traditional Break the Fast following the final shofar blowing.


Here is the link to the registration form if you want to print, fill out and return it by mail.

HIGH HOLIDAY LETTER AND ORDER FORM


Here is the link to make your Holy Day reservations on our website.

CLICK HERE TO REGISTER AND PAY ON LINE



Shana Tova - May it be a good year!



PREPARING THE SYNAGOGUE FOR THE HOLIDAYS


Just as we make our homes ready for the Jewish Holidays, it is a tradition at the JCC to polish the torah silver (crowns, breast plates, yads) in preparation for these holiest of days.


Join us on Wednesday morning, September 10, at 11:00 to polish our torah adornments, have a little lunch and afterward, if you want, play some mah jongg or canasta




On Sunday, September 21st we will have in-person morning services beginning at 9 AM. When services conclude, we will be preparing the Synagogue for High Holy Day services by replacing the Siddurim and the Chumashim with the Machzorim. We will additionally be setting the chairs in the Social Hall.


We can use your help!


Don’t worry about heavy lifting because there will be other vital tasks to be done that do not require strenuous work. Please join us! We appreciate your helping out with this tremendous Mitzvah!




ONE-BOWL HONEY CAKE


This one-bowl honey cake is an easy Rosh Hashanah dessert that bakes up tender and moist. It keeps for up to a week and travels well, making it a perfect High Holiday gift. With a beautiful bronze, sugar-speckled exterior, this simple honey cake doesn’t even need frosting! 

  •  Total Time: 1 hour 5 minutes  Yield: Serves 8-10


Ingredients

  • nonstick cooking spray
  • 1 cup granulated sugar + extra for prepping the pan
  • 3 large eggs, at room temperature
  • 1 cup honey
  • 1 cup vegetable oil
  • ¾ cup strong brewed coffee
  • 2 ½ cups all-purpose flour
  • 2 tsp baking powder
  • ½ tsp baking soda
  • ½ tsp kosher salt
  • 2 tsp ground cinnamon
  • ½ tsp ground cloves


Instructions

  1. Preheat the oven to 350°F. Spray a Bundt or tube pan with nonstick cooking spray. If using a tube pan, cut a parchment circle to fit the bottom and spray again. Pour in a few tablespoons of sugar and tap the pan to coat, adding more sugar if needed.
  2. Using the whisk attachment of an electric mixer, whisk the eggs till combined. Add 1 cup of the sugar, the honey, vegetable oil and coffee and whisk again till well combined. 
  3. Add the remaining ingredients and whisk till smooth and well blended. Pour the batter into your prepared pan and bake the cake till a tester comes out clean, about 50 minutes.
  4. Cool the cake in the pan on a wire rack for 20 minutes. Place another rack on top of the pan and carefully turn over to release the cake. Remove and discard the parchment paper, then re-invert the cake so it is upright. Cool completely before serving. 

Notes

  • To store the cake, wrap in plastic wrap and keep at room temperature for up to one week.

from the nosher

SUNDAY, September 7

Pickleball

10 AM - 1 PM

******

MONDAY, September 8

Evening of Music with Carl Steinberg

7:00 PM


TUESDAY, September 9

Pickleball

3 - 6 PM

******

WEDNESDAY, September 10

Polishing Torah Silver & Lunch

11:00 AM

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 - 4 PM

WAX Book Group

4:00 PM

****

THURSDAY, September 11

Torah Study

11 AM

Pickleball

10 AM - 1 PM


FRIDAY. September 12

Studying the Prophets

following morning minyan


Monday, September 8

7:00 PM

Evening of Music with Carl Steinberg


Wednesday, September 10

11:00 AM

Polishing Torah Silver & Lunch

4:00 PM

WAX Book Group


Friday, September 12

6:30 PM

Shabbat Dinner


Friday, September 19

11:00 AM

WAX Brunch

LBI Table


Sunday, October 5

John Kendrick's Broadway Series

Oklahoma

8:30 PM


Friday, October 17

WAX Brunch

11:00 AM


Sunday, October 19

The Jewish Museum, NY – “Afterlives: Recovering the Lost Stories of Looted Art”

1:00 PM


Wednesday, October 22

Boscov's Friends Helping Friends


Monday, October 27

Adult Education: Davening 101

7:45 PM



MAH JONGG & CANASTA

WEDNESDAYS

12:30 PM TO 4:00 PM


PICKLEBALL

Sundays and Thursdays

10 - 1

Tuesdays

3-4 PM Beginners

4 - 6 PM Experienced Players


LOOK FOR INFORMATION ABOUT A SPECIAL

PICKLEBALL TOURNAMENT



What a wonderful final event for our 75th Anniversary. Thanks you to all our members and friends who filled the Surflight for the Comedy Night. It was so special to greet friends in the lobby before the show and to hear the laughter that filled the room.

WAX BOOK CLUB

Wednesday, September 10th at 4:00 pm

Discussion Leader: TBA

The Avengers: A Jewish War Story

By Rich Cohen

In 1944, a band of Jewish guerrillas emerged from the Baltic forest to join the Russian army in its attack on Vilna, the capital of Lithuania. The band, called the Avengers, was led by Abba Kovner, a charismatic young poet. In the ghetto, Abba had built bombs, sneaking out through the city's sewer tunnels to sabotage German outposts. Abba's chief lieutenants were two teenage girls, Vitka Kempner and Ruzka Korczak. At seventeen, Vitka and Ruzka were perhaps the most daring partisans in the East, the first to blow up a Nazi train in occupied Europe. Each night, the girls shared a bed with Abba, raising gossip in the ghetto. But what they found was more than temporary solace. It was a great love affair. After the liquidation of the ghetto, the Avengers escaped through the city's sewage tunnels to the forest, where they lived for more than a year in a dugout beside a swamp, fighting alongside other partisan groups, and ultimately bombing the city they loved, destroying Vilna's waterworks and its powerplant in order to pave the way for its liberation.


Leaving a devastated Poland behind them, they set off for the cities of Europe: Vitka and Abba to the West, where they would be instrumental in orchestrating the massive Jewish exodus to the biblical homeland, and Ruzka to Palestine, where she would be literally the first person to bring a first hand account of the Holocaust to Jewish leaders. It was in these last terrifying days--with travel in Europe still unsafe for Jews and the extent of the Holocaust still not widely known--that the Avengers hatched their plan for revenge. Before it was over, the group would have smuggled enough poison into Nuremberg to kill ten thousand Nazis. The Avengers is the story of what happened to these rebels in the ghetto and in the forest, and how, fighting for the State of Israel, they moved beyond the violence of the Holocaust and made new lives.


From Rich Cohen, one of the preeminent journalists of his generation and author of the highly praised Tough Jews, a powerful exploration of vindication and revenge, of dignity and rebellion, painstakingly recreated through his exclusive access to the Avengers themselves. Written with insight, sensitivity, and the moral force of one of the last great struggles of the Second World War, here is an unforgettable story for our time.



We have an exciting upcoming event on October 22, 2025, and I need your help and support. 

 

Boscov’s Department Stores are sponsoring “Friends Helping Friends”, a 1 day only in store and on-line shopping event. For a $5 (or more, if you like) donation to Women’s Auxiliary, you will receive a 25% off Shopping Discount Pass! All proceeds from your donation go to the Women’s Auxiliary! This is a win-win for everyone! You get to do your shopping at a discounted price (Chanukah is right around the corner), and Women’s Auxiliary raises funds to help the JCC!

 

Boscov’s stores are located in Toms River, Egg Harbor Township, Monmouth, Moorestown, and Woodbridge in New Jersey, as well as Neshaminy and Plymouth Meeting in Pennsylvania.

 

I have a supply of the Shopping Passes, so please reach out and support our event!

 

Thank you,

Joanne Babbitt

215-962-3688 (cell; call or text)

609-312-7439 (home)

Jb_toot@att.net

HONEY FROM THE HEART


Jewish Museum Series


This is the first of the Zoom programs brought to our members through our participation in PJP (Partners in Jewish Programming). Look for more information about future Museum programs including "American Jewish Soldiers and the Liberation of the Concentration Camps” and Museum of the Southern Jewish Experience – “Stories from the Museum of the Southern Jewish Experience” 

Sunday, October 19 @ 1:00 PM

The Jewish Museum, NY – “Afterlives: Recovering the Lost Stories of Looted Art”

 

During World War II, untold numbers of artworks and pieces of cultural property were stolen by Nazi forces. After the war, an estimated one million artworks and 2.5 million books were recovered. Many more were destroyed. This exhibition chronicles the layered stories of the objects that survived, exploring the circumstances of their theft, their post-war rescue, and their afterlives in museums and private collections.


Afterlives includes objects looted from Jewish collections during the war, including works by such renowned artists as Pierre Bonnard, Paul Cézanne, Marc Chagall, Gustave Courbet, Paul Klee, Franz Marc, Henri Matisse, Pablo Picasso, and Camille Pissarro. The Jewish Museum has also commissioned four contemporary artists to create new works that address the resonance of the exhibition’s themes: Maria Eichhorn, Hadar Gad, Dor Guez, and Lisa Oppenheim. Treasured pieces of Judaica, including rare examples of Jewish ceremonial objects from destroyed synagogues, will also be on view, as well as rarely seen archival photographs and documents that connect the objects to history.


75 years after the Second World War, Afterlives explores how surviving artworks and other precious objects were changed by those events, and how they have moved through time, bearing witness to profound historical ruptures while also acting as enduring carriers of individual expression, knowledge, and creativity. The exhibition follows the paths taken by works of art across national borders, through military depots, and in and out of networks of collectors, looters, ideologues, and restitution organizations.


Coming in January 2026, we will also be bringing to our members a PJP series entitled " Jewish Art with Evgenia Kempinski"


Evgenia Kempinski is a professional Jewish tour guide, born and raised in St. Petersburg, Russia. With over fifteen years of experience guiding Jewish heritage tours in her hometown, she has developed a deep passion for uncovering and sharing the stories of the Jewish Diaspora. With her family she spent six enriching years living in Israel and now resides in Barcelona, continuing her mission to connect people with Jewish history and culture around the world. She is the founder of the Online Jewish Travel Club, a vibrant community that brings together Jews from different countries through a shared love of travel, art, and Jewish heritage.






The JCC section at Crescent Memorial Park is available for sales. Please contact Bonni Rubin-Sugarman at 609-417-7148.

NEW Beautiful mah jongg bags


We are very excited to add to the WAX Gift Shop items from local merchants and artisans. Stop in to look and buy one (or more) of these beautiful pieces for your home, as a gift or just for yourself. The gift shop is open during office hours M-F 10 - 2.

PAVERS

CALL PAUL LEVINE WITH ANY QUESTIONS

484-802-0586

SEE ORDER FORM BELOW

CONGREGATION NEWS


The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Israel Gendel

Hannah Kagel

Alvin Smolker

Richard Deutsch

Seymour Fruchterman*

William Meisler

Max Ungar

Charles Alexander

Zachary Lieberman

Regina Kalmuk Millstein*

Milton Schiff

Felice Stein

Bessie Steinberg

Jack Streich

Doris Block

David Gaulton

Klara Newman*

Mary Pokras

Norman Abramson

Spencer Denker

Stanley Finkel*

Margaret Fox

Harriet Kravetz

Samuel Lachs

Lizette Harnick Miller

Raymond Berman

Harry Bernstein

Naomi Chilton

Stephen Gubar*

Richard Kaplan

Walter Karp

Michael Kolb

Frances Morgenstern

Clara Robinson

Israel Segal

Gertrude Lebovitz

Lillian Mandell

Solomon Opatosky

Henry Pacharz*

Dora Price

Vivian Sherman



We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral.

CARING COMMITTEE

  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.

Please contact Chairperson,

Debby Schweighardt

if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help.

973-634-5349


Cake

Roy Konwiser

September 6

Debbie Gilman

September 8

Robert Levitt

September 8

Howard Rothenberg

September 8

Terri Robinovitz

September 9

Theodore Finkelthal

September 10

Robert Slotnick

September 10

Elaine Sussman

September 10

George Karp

September 11

Julie Lippmann

September 11

Alyssa Sablosky

September 11

Laura Wechsler

September 11

William Klein

September 12

Steven Ross

September 12

Bradley Evan Stein

September 12


Morton & Roberta Scott

September 6

Kim Hirsh & Jonathan Fingerhut

September 9

2nd Anniversary

Nathan & Karen Fink

September 10

47th Anniversary

Mark & Lisa Schlossman

September 11

43rd Anniversary

Ira & Lois Fox

September 12

43rd Anniversary


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CONTACT: 

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Sue Rubinfeld celebrates her birthday at dinner with her JCC girl friends.

YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.


Go to jccoflbi.org - Giving/Pay

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES


PAVERS

Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building

8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"


SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:

PAVER FORM

Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.

Purchase a personalized paving stone

in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.


Please contact Diane Hoffman

with your order or with any questions:

dihoff1@aol.com



PRAYER BOOKS

There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.

See Order form here: Prayer Book



TRIBUTES

SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF

See order form here: TRIBUTES



TREE OF LIFE

Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE

Bronze Leaf $90

Silver Leaf $126

Gold :Leaf $180



ENDOWMENT FUND


Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.


Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.


A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.

 

Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 



YAHRZEIT PLAQUES

Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 

Here is the order form: 

YAHRZEIT



KOL HAKAVOD


Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD


2025 MEMBERSHIP FORMS


Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.

Here is form for renewal:

RENEW NOW


And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:

JOIN NOW


BE A PART OF THE WOMEN'S AUXILLARY

2025 DUES FORM HERE


JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 

JCC LEADERSHIP



OFFICERS

President- Phil Rosenzweig

1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman

2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman

3RD Vice President- Jon Geier

Treasurer- Stu Cofsky

Secretary- Cliff Denker

Immediate Past President -Michael Babst


BOARD MEMBERS

Howard Babbitt 

Diane Buskirk

Lorna Klein

Ken Podos

Sondi Pripstein

Terri Robinovitz

David Shatz

Bonni Rubin-Sugarman

Rose Valentine

Ken Yudman


WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk

Treasurer - Suzy Geier

Secretary - Joanne Babbitt

Lorna Klein

Joyce Levine

Representative to the Board - Sondi Pripstein

Immediate Past President - Irene Babst



Rabbi Michael S. Jay, Spiritual Leader


JCC INFORMATION


THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT

2411 Long Beach Boulevard

(24th Street)

Spray Beach, NJ 08008

Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550

email: jccoflbi@gmail.com

web site: www.jccoflbi.org  

  

THE OFFICE IS OPEN

MONDAY - FRIDAY

FROM 10 - 2




 Staff:

 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager

  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member

 Diane Parzych, Staff Member

Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager



LATEST

BULLETIN:

BULLETIN


PRAYER BOOK:

Prayer Book

 

WEB SITE:

JCC WEB SITE


PAVERS:

PAVER FORM 


TREE OF LIFE

TREE

  

YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

YAHRZEIT PLAQUES


KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

KOL HAKAVOD


TRIBUTES:

TRIBUTES 



CONTACT INFORMATION:

  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

mjayrab@gmail.com


Phil Rosenzweig, President

prosenzweig@sanddlawyers.com 


 

E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 

rvalen1963@aol.com 

Graphics by

Mary Beth Kreiger

Contributing Articles by

Stu Lehrer