A little over a year ago, Beth Emet congregants began assisting an Afghan refugee family resettle here. Congregants helped furnish their apartment, stock their pantry, linen closet, and toy shelves. Others served as mentors and tutors, introducing the family to their new land, culture, language, transportation, and many new-fangled gadgets that we all take for granted. It has been quite a journey for the family and for those of us who have been their guides and in some ways, Mishpacha—extended family members.     

This week’s Torah Portion, Ki Tisa, tells the story of Moses going up to Mt. Sinai to receive the Ten Commandments, only to return to his people who, in their impatience and distrust, built the Golden Calf. The Israelites were often stiff-necked and impatient living as refugees, while they wandered in the desert. Clearly, they were often frustrated, and who wouldn’t be, with the slow pace of change during their wandering. Likewise, Moses became impatient and furious at his people when he came down the mountain.

While the situation is not the same as the refugee family’s experience, they have certainly been frustrated and disheartened at times. Likewise, due to cultural differences, government obstacles, and just plain old lack of understanding, we, as volunteers have also struggled to be patient in various situations. We lean on each other for support, good humor, and step back when needed.  How terribly frustrating it must be to be ‘dropped ‘ in a totally foreign culture, with extended family still back in Afghanistan. And, I’m sure that we have also tried their patience! But, we got beyond that and admire various aspects of each of the family members. In their own way, they also care about us and are certainly grateful for the help they have received. 

This Friday night is Refugee Shabbat, where you will have the opportunity to hear from Alison Finkel, who has been our fearless leader. I think all of the volunteers are in agreement of our admiration for Alison's leadership, creativity for solving problems, and truly taking this family under her and our wings. We have all been on a terrific, if not perfect, journey (like all journeys)! 

Shabbat Shalom,

Rosalie Greenberger