NORMA JEAN & EDWARD MEER APARTMENTS | Discover Jewish Senior Life! |
Contact Amie Schulz
248-592-1146
aschulz@jslmi.org
| THE SUN WILL COME OUT TOMORROW |
Whether it’s the letdown of a favorite sports team losing the big game, or missing out on an opportunity, or facing a personal setback… don’t we all have moments when things don’t go as we had hoped?
When I sat down to write this column Sunday morning after watching our Detroit Lions fall short in their game against the Washington Commanders my thoughts turned to the residents at JSL and how they cope with setbacks. One of the signs of healthy aging is the ability to cope with disappointment. So, we asked a couple of residents about how they cope with these sorts of things.
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JSL IN THE DETROIT JEWISH NEWS x2
| Read all about "Meer Day" and "Hechtman Happy Hours" in this week's Detroit Jewish News. |
I like to keep it positive here, but someone just used my least favorite word to describe older adults – “cute,” and I’m a tiny bit irked. If we’re not currently older, we’re all on our way to getting older (with luck), but I don’t think, and maybe I’m wrong, that I’m getting cuter. I hope I’m getting wiser, more knowledgeable, more philosophical, more accepting, more loving, more humble, more of all the qualities I value. At least, that’s the goal and I’m going to keep at it ad mea v’ esrim (until 120) or however long I’m given. But I’m really not honing my cuteness, and I don’t care to be treated like a puppy now or in the future. And I suspect I’m not alone in preferring dignity to a pat on the head.
I’ve been working with several past presidents of the Women’s Auxiliary (now FRIENDS) on our 100 Years of Volunteers celebration. Yesterday, I was at the Leonard Simons Community Archive, and I was reading the minutes of some of the meetings from the1960s. The Auxiliary was a well-run organization that raised money to support the Home as well as managing an extensive corps of volunteers who planned activities, events and outings for the residents. Their mission was to “provide such additional comforts and entertainment as may be deemed necessary to the well-being of the residents of the Home.”
Those ladies were amazing. They set the pace and the tone for life at JSL. The wildly popular Live and Learn program at Meer might well be seen as a direct descendant of early auxiliary programs. Many auxiliary leaders are gone now, but several of the past presidents are still alive, and the older ones are still active well into their advanced years. Not that they’re never cute, but they are far more often thoughtful, insightful, effective, hard-working, committed volunteers. We have many volunteers in their 80s and 90s who are still going strong.
Anyway, my point is that they did and do set an inspiring example, one I’m lucky to learn from daily, and one that’s worth spending a year celebrating. I hope you’ll follow their tradition as volunteers, as leaders, and as esteemed elders.
If you’re ready to take up the mantle (and/or call bingo), please give me a call. I’d love to welcome you into their ranks.
| Can anyone name this volunteer? | And check out our volunteer page to see many of the opportunities to get involved on both our Oak Park and West Bloomfield campuses. |
Marvin's Bistro volunteer Marcia Proghovnick with Dining Services staff Christina Brown
Beth Robinson
Director
FRIENDS of Jewish Senior Life
248-592-5062
brobinson@jslmi.org
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EDWARD I. & FREDA FLEISCHMAN RESIDENCE | Come see the JSL Difference! |
Contact Janet Antin
248-967-4240
jantin@jslmi.org
| JSL ON 'GOOD MORNING AMERICA' |
Last week's "Lions Pep Rally" event has now been featured nearly 250 times across print, on air, and social media outlets, locally and nationally. Now that is a JSL 'TOUCHDOWN!'
Just a few quick links to enjoy:
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EIGHT OVER 80:
A WEEK OF INSPIRATION AND CONNECTION
| This week has been nothing short of a whirlwind as Scott Wasserman and I had the privilege of filming and interviewing five of the Eight Over 80 honorees for the 2025 gala event. Throughout these powerful conversations, I was moved by their stories, laughing and shedding tears as they shared memories from their remarkable lives. One common thread that ran through each of their narratives was their unwavering passion for and pride in their Jewish heritage. | SPECIAL EVENT @ COVILLE ASSISTED LIVING |
When It Is Time to Move into Assisted Living?
A Thoughtful Conversation for You and Your Family
Join us for an informative and supportive discussion with JSL senior living advisors about one of life's most significant decisions.
Thursday, January 30, 2025
6:00pm-8:00pm
Coville Assisted Living
15100 W. Ten Mile Rd.
Oak Park, MI 48237
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Wax ON! Hechtman residents gathered for this month's "Crafting with Tova," a Part Two session of "Melted Crayon Art." Next month, Tova (Hechtman Life Enrichment Coordinator) will lead a group in decorating window cling sun catchers. | Pretty sweet! Potatoes that is. Stuffed Sweet Potatoes with Za’atar chickpeas, whipped Tahini yogurt and pickled red onions is the healthy meal you didn’t realize was healthy -and delicious! | A 30-minute chair exercise class designed for seniors or beginners wanting the option of chair exercises. Suitable for anyone looking to get back into fitness. Ideal for older adults, those with mobility issues, or beginners. Water bottles or food cans can be used for weights if needed. | The hand and footprints in front of Los Angeles’s Chinese Theater tradition started accidentally when silent film actress Norma Talmadge stepped on wet cement. | | |
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Earl Remer
A 2014 Eight Over 80 Honoree, Earl Remer will be remembered for helping others, and that "service is an extremely important aspect of life." Throughout his dedication to the Jewish community, he helped blind children reach literacy (through Temple Beth El), conducted shiva services in more than 1,000 homes across metro Detroit, and taught a variety of people and backgrounds about the history of Jews in Michigan, inspiring many throughout the decades.
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Faye Jacobs
A 2021 Eight Over 80 Honoree, Faye Jacobs was described as "one in a million." Her loyalty and dedication to the community shone through decades-long activities, including volunteering at Karmanos for 10 years, being an active member at Beth Shalom, attending funerals of people who may not have had much family left, and spending a lot of her time visiting nursing homes. Caring, compassionate, and friendly, "Aunt Faye" - as she was called by so many - never stopped giving back.
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May their memories be a blessing. | |
Rabbi Dovid S. Polter, Community Chaplain
The Flip Side of the Coin
“Rabbi is that all you can afford?” was the response of a senior after handing her a coin to insert into the charity box.
It made me think of the flip side of the coin. A coin may have a minimum value but my daily morning coin experience sheds light on and accentuates my firm belief in a Creator.
At the beginning of COVID I was determined to improve my daily spiritual patterns. I then took on the custom established three centuries ago by the great mystic known as the Arizal of dropping a coin every weekday morning into the charity box at the very moment I recite the words “And You rule everything.” Doing so freed me from the restrictions of thinking that anything or anyone else controls the cosmos.
Dropping a coin into the charity box while reciting these words substantiates the eternal belief that You and only You G-d All-Mighty rule everything.
No longer is the coin all I can afford. Now, the coin serves as testimony and a clear declaration of my beliefs. It substantiates a life-long belief by which I live.
A coin – depending on how it’s viewed, may have entirely different value and meaning.
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Shabbat Shalom by Phone - Enjoy some inspiration.
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Rabbi Dovid S. Polter Jewish Community Chaplaincy Program Jewish Senior Life 248-592-5039 • dpolter@jslmi.org
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L’Chaim!
More than half of the residents who live in our JSL communities are considered low income or indigent. Your philanthropic support is essential to maintaining programs and services to help these older adults age with dignity and with a better quality of life. In addition, your gifts could significantly support the shortfall in the cost of pharmacy bills which are so vital to the residents’ wellness. We are so grateful for your generous gifts to Jewish Senior Life.
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Nancy Heinrich, Chief Executive Officer
Kara Powers, Chief Financial Officer
Barbra Giles, Executive Director, Strategic Initiatives
Jo Strausz Rosen, Executive Director, Development
Dianne Azzopardi, Executive Director, Human Resources
Ron Colasanti, Executive Director, Dining Services
Jennifer Staniszewski, Executive Director, Independent Residential Operations
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Eugene & Marcia Applebaum Jewish Community Campus
6710 W. Maple Road, West Bloomfield, MI 48322
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15100 W. Ten Mile Road, Oak Park, MI 48237
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