Kehillat Ohr Tzion

Rabbi Shlomo Schachter

Parashat Vayishlach

President Jeff Schapiro

13 Kislev 5785

Davening Schedule

Friday, December 13


Mincha & Kabbalat Shabbat: 4:30 pm

Earliest Candle Lighting: 3:48 pm

Candle Lighting: 4:22 pm

Sunset: 4:40 pm


Saturday, December 14


Shacharit: 9:00 am (sharp)


Kiddush is sponsored by KOT in honor of Shari Steinhorn.


Pre-Mincha Class: after Kiddush 

Mincha: 12:30 pm

Havdala: 5:29 pm

Ma'ariv: 5:40 pm


Sunday, December 15


Shacharit: 8:30 am


Thursday, December 19


Shacharit: 6:45 am



Donations


No donations this week.


Please remember to drop off your Dash's receipts in the bag in the shul foyer.


Contacts


President: Jeff Schapiro 

jefrs@verizon.net



Rabbi: Shlomo Schachter

rabbischachter75@gmail.com


Newsletter: Joseph Enis

je.jfed@gmail.com


Chesed: Mireille Schapiro

mireilleschapiro2@gmail.com


Fun/Fund: Beth Weiss

bmweiss516@gmail.com

 

Publicity: Phyllis Steinberg

phyllismksteinberg@gmail.com

  

Social Action: Phyllis Steinberg

phyllismksteinberg@gmail.com

 

Web Site: Karen Marks

ohrtzionwebsite@gmail.com

  

Kiddush Sponsorships: Cheryl Stein 

clslaw@gmail.com



Web Site: www.OhrTzion.org

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From the President:


This week the board passed a balanced budget for 2025 with NO dues increase! The next step is for the congregation to vote on the proposal. Watch your emails for a survey monkey survey where you will have the opportunity to vote. I encourage everyone to take this opportunity to vote in favor of the proposed budget.


 I know that some of you voiced concern about not receiving your shul bills sent to you. Those will be coming out soon, but many of you have been very diligent in sending in payments anyway. Please continue to do so, this helps us pay for the necessary upkeep of the shul. It is much appreciated.


We are proud to announce that we will be having a very special enhanced Kiddush (with cholent) this Shabbat in honor of Shari Steinhorn who has done an amazing job of helping to keep our kehillah safe by being our "door keeper" as well as entertaining any children who may attend. We thank her for all her attentiveness as well as keeping Officer Brian from entering to get at the egg salad!


Save the date of January 4th as we are planning a Malave Malka Motzie Shabbat. It will be held at the home of Mark and Barb Chazen. Should be a good time for all. Watch for the time to be announced.


Finally, this week's football game is once again scheduled for Sunday at 4:25pm. Therefore the Sunday night class will be scheduled for 7:30pm as opposed to the original time of 7:00pm. Why does everything revolve around football?


Shabbat Shalom,

Jeff

 

From the Rabbi:



It’s not everyday that you find a 'Baal Teshuva' whose spiritual path back to Jewish observance was catalyzed on the gridiron. Much less a rabbi who found his passion for helping others by coaching football. Yet, rare as it might be (I'm actually not the only one any more!), here I am.


My love of God and Torah and my love for the game have contributed to one another greatly. I even have a book brewing about the Biblical origin and spiritual significance of football. (We'll talk about that more on Superbowl Sunday - Go Bills!)


There’s also things in Torah that I would have never noticed as being so special if I hadn’t learned similar lessons on the football field.  


There’s one inspirational phrase so oft-repeated among football players and coaches that it’s become totally cliche. I heard a version of this ‘sermon’ from different coaches almost every year, both in highschool and college, and I made a point to give it myself every year with my Judean Rebels and with Team Israel. It’s a whole string of cliches, but it's all true.  So now, I'm giving to you.


There’s no such thing as “I can’t”. 

Maybe “I don't know how”. Maybe, “I'm scared to”. Maybe even “I'm not strong, or fast or disciplined enough…YET”. But there’s no “I can't”.  


People say the definition of insanity is doing the same thing again and again and expecting different results. NO! We call that practice! That's how we improve ourselves, by doing the same things again and again, and as we repeat them we get better at them. We improve ourselves every day.  


Whether you think you can or you think you can't, you're right! Which wolf will you feed? 


The only thing that stops us is not believing in ourselves. We got this! We've put in the practice; we've done the hard work. All we have is all we need - believe in ourselves, support each other and push through adversity. Come what may, we will march on, because we know the greatness we are capable of. We know the magnificent splendor of our destiny. We will rise to every challenge knowing we can do it because GOD IS WITH US!!.  


Nice speech - but is it in the locker room or in shul? And do you know who gave this speech first? I'll give you a clue, it's in Parshat Vayishlach... He's been called an Angel, The Spirit of Esav, the Yetzer HaRa, the inner adversary, Yaakov’s conscience… We don't know his name, but we do know that he wrestled with our Father Yaakov all night long, and it was he that first gave Yaakov - and us - the name Yisrael.


It's a well known teaching principle that the first time a word appears in the Torah really defines the essence of the word. This lesson of “You Can Do It” is the very reason we are called Yisrael. And this being the first “Yisrael” in The Torah, this lesson sits at the very core of our identity. 


(Genesis 32:24-29) And Jacob was left alone, and a man wrestled with him until the break of day. When he saw that he could not not prevail, he touched his hip socket, and Jacob’s hip was put out of joint as he wrestled with him. Then he said, “Let me go, for the day has broken.” But he said, “I will not let you go unless you bless me.” And he said to him, “What is your name?” And he said, “Jacob.” Then he said, “Your name shall no longer be called Jacob, but Yisrael, for you have striven with God and with men, ותוכל, and YOU CAN DO IT!!” 


This intense moment is so perfectly ambiguous with its use of him/he/his pronouns that you get the sense that it's all the same guy. Like Yaakov is wrestling with his twin self. This word root, יכל, generally means ‘to be capable of” or “can do”. So we can see Yaakov's 'injury' as an embodied somatic expression of “seeing he can't”. And Yisrael, is so called “because you have striven with God and with men, ותוכל and YOU CAN DO IT!!” 


Our very identity as Yisrael is knowing that " We Can". Our prophesied destiny is entirely unstoppable. Mashiach coming is inevitable. So in every generation we wrestle on, knowing that the dawn WILL come. No matter the foe; whether external like the Greeks of Chanukah or Esav’s Rome - or inside ourselves, be it doubt, fear, apathy or denial, We Can! We will overcome, because we strive with God and with people’. It doesn't say נגד ‘against’, it says עם, ‘with’. We strive ‘with’ people - all together, and together ‘with' God. 


Shabbat Shalom,

Coach Schachter



Classes This Week


NOTE: The Thursday evening class is paused until further notice.





Shul & Community Notes & Events


Social Action Committee's annual food collection is underway! FeedMoreWNY has again left a barrel in the shul foyer. They are most in need of these items: cereal, peanut or other nut butters, canned tuna or chicken, canned soups, stews and chili, canned fruit and veggies, boxed mac and cheese, pasta and rice. Thanks as always for your generosity!


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