JEWISH COMMUNITY

CENTER OF

LONG BEACH ISLAND

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May 25, 2023

5 Sivan 5783





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A PRAYER FOR MEMORIAL DAY


Our God, God of our ancestors, we thank you for the numerous blessings you have bestowed upon our nation. Out of the many nations of the world, our country has been blessed with a singular opportunity - to demonstrate how peoples of many faiths and heritages can live side by side, and enrich one another's lives through friendship and the sharing of our unique traditions.


We are united this day in a solemn act of gratitude: to those who have served in our nation's defense, to those who have risked their personal safety to save the lives of others, and above all to those who have died serving this country. Their sacrifices are forever remembered by us and by our children for generations to come. We do not forget.


Our hearts go out to those serving today in our armed forces, and to their families. Those of us who are veterans of previous wars, know best of all what they must be feeling, what their spouses and children are feeling, what they pray for. In all our many faiths, we are united in this: our prayers are with those who serve our country today. We ask God that they may return speedily and in good health and safety to their loved ones.


And may God grant each of us the wisdom to uphold this nation's virtues, that it may continue to serve as a beacon of liberty and harmony between peoples, for all the world to see. Amen.


Rabbi Dr. Laurence Milder

A SPECIAL SHAVUOT MESSAGE


I was going to provide a talk about what it was like being both the Rabbi and the father at the wedding of Samantha and Reid. I will leave this for next week’s Shabbat Reminder. (Hint it was awesome, holy, and terrifying all at the same time).

 

Inasmuch as Shavuot is starting this evening (Thursday, May 25th), I thought it would be nice to share a Shavuot piece written by my predecessor, Rabbi Jack Friedman (Z”L). Rabbi Jack did a lot to lay the foundation for what the JCC is today. I really like the insight honesty of what he wrote in 2012.  I am certain that he would be proud of all the Torah that emanates from the JCC today from so many different people. Let me know your thoughts about what Rabbi Jack has written.

 

Shabbat Shalom and Chag Shavuot Sameach – Rabbi Michael S. Jay 

The two-day holiday of Shavuot begins on Saturday night, May 26. Shavuot celebrates the revelation of the Torah on Mount Sinai. One of the questions asked is: “Who wrote the Torah?” One of the editors of the Etz Hayim Bible answered the question saying, “People.” If so, then what was the role of God?” To which the editor replied, “God enables genius. The Torah is a work of spiritual genius.”

 

When I was a young student in the Yeshiva, I was taught that God wrote the Torah letter by letter and gave it to Moses. As I began to delve deeper into its teachings, I felt a conflict with that teaching. I began to see that the Torah unfolded over time, reflecting historical settings, until it was finalized into a magnificent spiritual blueprint for a meaningful life.

Each day when I study the Torah, over and over again, from the

beginning to its end, I see in it the vessel of values. I see the details of its teachings expressing values that bring us closer to God and to our fellow human beings. When I read the words, “And God said,” it indicates our understanding of God’s will and values.

 

Human understanding is continually unfolding by the changing conditions in life and adding new insights. The study of Torah is a continuous discovery and when we read through it each year, from beginning to end, we find new meanings.

 

The Torah is God’s love letter to us. I believe that people wrote it, but the wisdom of Torah emerged intuitively from reaching beyond ourselves and hearing the still small voice of God lovingly guiding us to meaningful living. The genius of the Torah is that it is relevant in every generation – the past, the present and the future.

 

I see myself as an “evolutionary Jew.”

I live with the tradition of the past and the change for the present.

I believe that people are the vessels of God, able to hear the will of

God, and be God’s partner here on earth.

I believe that God in some wonderful way revealed the Torah, but it is

not God’s final word.


I believe that the Torah challenges us to honor the past, to live in the

present and to discover even greater wisdom in the future.

I believe that the Torah requires us to interpret its teachings and to form

a system of values that strengthens the bonds to the world around us.


I believe that the study of Torah brings forth the best that we can be. I believe that the Torah wants us to do the best we are capable of

doing.


I believe that the Torah’s teachings are continually evolving, calling to

us, “you shall be holy, for I the Eternal am holy.”


I believe that Shavuot is the time when we need to pledge anew the words of our ancestors at Mount Sinai, “We will do and we will

learn.”


Rabbi Jacob Friedman

Shavuot 2012

Rabbi Jacob Friedman, fondly known as "Rabbi Jack", was the spiritual leader of the JCC of LBI community for 10 years. He passed away on November 27, 2012 just a few months after he wrote this artcle.

CHAG SHAVUOT SAMEACH


Candle Lighting time

Thursday evening

May 25, 2023

7:55 pm

(So. Ocean County)


JOIN US FOR

SERVICES


Thursday Night

May 25, 2023

Services

7:30 PM

8:00 - 9:00 PM

Shavuot Hour of Learning

with Stu Lehrer and

Rabbi Jay


ZOOM ONLY


Here is your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV



Friday, May 26, 2023

Services

9:00 AM

followed by a traditional Shavuot dairy Kiddish


IN PERSON AND ON ZOOM


Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SHAVUOT MORNING


SHABBAT SHALOM AND CHAG SAMEACH



Candle Lighting time

Friday evening

May 26, 2023

7:55 pm

(So. Ocean County)


JOIN US FOR

SERVICES


Friday Night

May 26, 2023

Services

7:30 PM


IN PERSON AND ON ZOOM


Here is 

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

FRIDAY NIGHT


Saturday Morning

May 27, 2023

9:00 AM

Services


IN PERSON AND ON ZOOM


Here is

your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to join

Zoom services

SHABBAT MORNING


YISKOR WILL BE RECITED AT 10:30 AM


Services will be followed by a traditional Shavuot dairy Kiddish


We will joined for Shavuot by Rabbi Harry Pelll and the group from White Plains, NY. They add so much ruach (spirit) to our holiday celebration. We are so glad to welcome them back to the JCC each year.


NO HAVDALLAH SERVICE

THIS WEEK


Sunday - Thursday

Ma'ariv Service

7:30 PM

Here is your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

MA'ARIV


Monday- Friday

Shacharit Service

8:15 AM

Sunday at 9:00 AM

Here is your invitation from 

Rabbi Jay to

join Zoom services:

SHACHARIT


Thank you to Cara Levine for a very informative presentation about the important topic of Human Trafficing.


Last Friday night, Cantor Geller lead services and included two pieces of the litergy to the tune of the Beach Boys. So appropriate for the JCC of LBI and so much fun.


For those who missed the interesting PJP Program Virtual Tour of Jewish Berlin, here is a link for you to view it: BERLIN Passcode: #yu%6yJs. The last program of the PJP travel series is a toure of Jewish Amsterdam on June 11th.


CALL OR EMAIL DIANE BUSKIRK TO MAKE YOUR RESERVATION


856-952-5940

EMAIL

UPCOMING EVENTS

June 4

WAX Paid Up Brunch


June 9

Shabbat on the Beach (Loveladies)


June 11

WAX Walk the Bridge


June 16

Shabbat Dinner


June 22

WAX Maritime Museum Visit


June 21

WAX Book Discussion


June 23

Shabbat on the Beach (Spray Beach)


June 25

Welcome Back Brunch


June 27

WAX Brunch


June 29

JCC George Markey Concert


June 30

Shabbat on the Beach (Loveladies)


PICKLEBALL

SUNDAY & THURSDAY

AT 10:00 AM


MAH JONGG & CANASTA

WEDNESDAYS

12:30 TO 4:00 PM

 THIS WEEK'S ACTIVITIES



SUNDAY, MAY 28

Pickleball

10:00 AM


MONDAY, May 29

Foundations for a Thoughtful Judaism: Practice

A Hartman Class with Rabbi Jay

10:00 AM


WEDNESDAY, MAY 31

Canasta & Mah Jongg

12:30 AM - 4:00 PM


following Ma'ariv

7:45 PM

Study with with Rabbi Jay

"Jewish Wisdom"

using the book

by Rabbi Joseph Telushkin



THURSDAY, JUNE 1

Pickleball

10:00 AM

Torah Study with the Rabbi

11:00 AM 

NEW INTERMEDIATE HEBREW CLASS WITH IRA

2:00 PM

Contact Ira for more information

inaira213@gmail.com



MONDAY CLASS 
WEDNESDAY CLASS
THURSDAY CLASS

MARK THESE DATES ON YOUR CALENDAR


FRIDAYS AT 6:00 PM


June 9 - 56th Street, Loveladies

July 23 - 24th Street, Spray Beach

June 30 - 56th Street, Loveladies

July 7 - 24th Street, 24th Street,Spray Beach

July 14 - 56th Street, Loveladies

July 28 - 24th Street, Spray Beach

August 4 - 56th Street, Loveladies

August 11 - 24th Street, Spray Beach

August 25 - 24th Street, Spray Beach


WEATHER PERMITTING


JCC WOMEN’S AUXILIARY: BOOK GROUP DISCUSSION

 WEDNESDAYS AT 4:00 PM

NEXT BOOK REVIEW MEETING


Wednesday, June 21st

My Mother’s Secret: A Novel of the Jewish Autonomous Region

By Alina Adams

Discussion Leader: Elsa Dreyfus


As her revolutionary neighbor mysteriously disappears during Josef Stalin's Great Terror purges, 18-year-old Regina suspects that she's the Kremlin's next target. Under cover of the night, she flees from her parents' communal apartment in 1930s Moscow to the 20th century's first Jewish Autonomous Region, Birobidzhan, on the border between Russia and China. Once there, Regina has to grapple with her preconceived notions of socialism and Judaism.

FUTURE BOOKS


Wednesday, July 19th

Signal Fires

By Dani Shapiro


Wednesday, August 16th

Rebel Daughter

By Lori Banov Kaufmann


A Zoom link will be sent shortly before the event.

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CONGREGATION NEWS

The following names will be read by the Rabbi on Friday evening:


Bernice Gold – Kenneth Gold

Muriel Krampf – Eve Lehrer

Ethel Lenkowsky – David Lenkowsky

Albert Rosenfeld*

Ike Schwaff* - Arleen Moffitt

Irene Epstein

Florence Koransky

Harry Kotler

Douglas Cole

Isaac Freedman

Jacob Shaer

Rose Shaer

Josh Braun

Sidney Denbo

Samuel Kanowith

Anita D. Klaiman*

Gloria Shapiro

Harry Sobelsky

Bertram Stern Lowe

Gertrude Miller

Eve Robinson – Larry Robinson

Terry Shapiro

Lena Sobelsky

Anna Gubar*

Benyamin Livshits*

Edward Oertell

Jeanne Paris

Beverly Rosenstein

Jennie Schlanger*

Leo Baron

Morris Brounstein

Sadie Chalek

Bernard Diamond

Jenny Kessler

Diane Korn

Ida Schreiber

Avram Shatz

Jake Herzig

 


We encourage you to join us on the day of your loved one’s yahrzeit. In the morning, the service is about ½ hour beginning at 8:15 and in the evening at 7:30 until about 7:45. Rabbi will be glad to say the traditional El Malei Rachamim prayer for you, which is recited during the funeral, going up to the grave of the departed, Yizkor remembrance day and other occasions on which the memory of the dead is recalled. You are also welcome to share with the minyan some special memories of your loved one.

EVENING SERVICE
MORNING SERVICE
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Karen Shatz

May 27

Zee Jay Greenspan

May 28

Sylvain Nakkab

May 30

Arleen Moffitt

May 31

Bernard Rothman

May 31

Lawrence Lerner

June 2


Gary & Denni Koupf

May 27

45th Anniversary

Stephen & Rhonda Lang

May 27

44th Anniversary

Mark & Masha Chazin

May 28

56th Anniversary

Jon & Suzanne Geier

May 28

46th Anniversary

Edward & Marlene Herman

May 30

41st Anniversary

 


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CARING COMMITTEE
  This committee acts as a support system for congregation members facing illness and other personal situations that need to be addressed.
Please contact Chairperson,
Debby Schweighardt
if you are in need of assistance or if you know of a JCC member that needs our help. 973-634-5349 

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A FOLLOW UP ON OUR RECENT PROGRAM ABOUT THE TURTLES


TURTLES

YOU CAN NOW FILL OUT A GIVING FORM AND PAY ON LINE IN ONE SIMPLE PROCESS.

Go to jccoflbi.org - community - forms

GIVING OPPORTUNITIES

PAVERS
Inscribe a paver at the front entrance to the building
8" X 4", 8" X 8" and 12" X 12"

SEE UPDATED ORDER FORM:
Become a permanent part of the JCC landscape.
Purchase a personalized paving stone
in honor of your family or in memory of a loved one.

Please contact Diane Hoffman
with your order or with any questions:


PRAYER BOOKS
There are still High Holiday Prayer Books and Chumashim available to be purchased in memory or honor of someone or something. The cost of a Prayer Book is $72 each and $120 for an Eitz Hayim Chumash. The donation includes an affirmation sticker in the book and an acknowledgement letter or letters.
See Order form here: Prayer Book


TRIBUTES
SEND ONE OF OUR TRIBUTES IN HONOR OR IN MEMORY OF
See order form here: TRIBUTES


TREE OF LIFE
Add a leaf (leaves) to our beautiful Tree of Life located in the Social Hall. See the order form here: TREE OF LIFE
Bronze Leaf $90
Silver Leaf $126
Gold :Leaf $180


ENDOWMENT FUND

Herb and Selma z”l Shapiro established the first individual Endowment Fund in memory of his father, as part of the JCC’s Endowment Fund portfolio.

Since then, three additional individual Endowment Funds have been established. Other members are encouraged to also provide for the future of our JCC by establishing similar funds. Please consider adding to this number.

A donation of at least $50,000 to the endowment fund will allow the donor to name one of the funds as the donor wishes. All such named funds will be joined together to be part of the Endowment Fund portfolio.
 
Endowment funds are necessary to ensure the continuation and well being of our congregation. All members are encouraged to help this important effort by contributing to this portfolio, whether as a specific named individual fund, or as a general donation. The donation can be spread over one, two, or three years, and can be paid via check, donation of appreciated stock, wills, or from the RMD of your IRA or 401K account. Your gift to the fund can be sent to the JCC Office. Please mark your check accordingly. 


YAHRZEIT PLAQUES
Space is available for memorial plaques on the yahrzeit boards in the Sanctuary. 
Here is the order form: 


KOL HAKAVOD

Please consider being a part of this campaign to supplement the clergy needs of our congregation. This is a separate, voluntary commitment and is additional to our low annual dues obligation. HERE IS THE LINK TO BRING UP THE DONATION FORM KOL HAKAVOD

2023 MEMBERSHIP FORMS

Your support is so important to the continued success of the JCC.
Here is form for renewal:

And if you have been reading our Shabbat Reminder and other communications and have not yet joined our congregation, here is the new member form:


JCC FUNDS

Your gift to the JCC supports our Clergy, our Congregation and the Community.

ENDOWMENT FUND
This fund was established to assure the continuity of our JCC, and our ability to continue providing a full-service congregation to serve the Jewish people of the area. While a donation of any amount is encouraged, a donation of at least $50,000 allows the donor to name a special or specific Endowment Fund in memory or honor of a specific person event, or family.

GENERAL FUND
Donations to this fund are not earmarked but placed in the general administrative account. Donations to this fund can be in honor or memory of a person, event, or family.

KOL HAKAVOD FUND
Donations to this campaign supplement the clergy needs of our congregation.

RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
This fund, managed by the rabbi, allows donors to enable the rabbi to do the work of tzedakah in response to the needs of individuals, organizations and the community.

ZENA & JERRY JAY KIDDISH FUND
The Zena and Jerry Jay Kiddush Fund was established in memory of Rabbi Jay's parents to help provide funds for our Saturday morning kiddushes.
 
JCC LEADERSHIP

OFFICERS
President- Phil Rosenzweig
1ST Vice President-Sherry Fruchterman
2ND Vice President-Diane Hoffman
3RD Vice President- Rose Valentine
Treasurer- Ira Morgenthal
Secretary- Cliff Denker
Immediate Past President -Michael Babst

BOARD MEMBERS
Howard Babbitt 
Diane Buskirk
Mitch Frumkin

Jon Geier
Paul Levine
Donald Pripstein
Terri Robinovitz
David Shatz
Rob Van Naarden

WOMEN'S AUXILIARY

President - Diane Buskirk
Co-Vice President - Noralyn Carroll
Co-Vice President - Jill Denker
Treasurer - Suzy Geier
Secretary - Joanne Babbitt
Immediate Past President - Irene Babst
JCC INFORMATION

THE JCC OF LBI IS LOCATED AT
2411 Long Beach Boulevard
(24th Street)
Spray Beach, NJ 08008
Telephone: 609-492-4090 FAX: 609-492-7550
web site: www.jccoflbi.org  
  
THE OFFICE IS OPEN
MONDAY - FRIDAY
CLOSED THURSDAY
FROM 10 - 2

 Staff:
 Leslie Dinkfelt, Office Manager
  Mary Beth Krieger, Staff Member
 Diane Parzych, Staff Member
Susan Berube, Kitchen Manager


LATEST
BULLETIN:

PRAYER BOOK:
 
WEB SITE:

PAVERS:

TREE OF LIFE
  
YAHRZEIT PLAQUE FORM:

KOL HAKAVOD DONATION FORM

TRIBUTES:


CONTACT INFORMATION:
  Rabbi Michael S. Jay

Phil Rosenzweig, President

 
E-mail Editor: Rose Valentine 
rvalen1963@aol.com 
Graphics by
Irene Babst
Contributing Columnist
Sheila Weisel