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In Loving Memory of Georgia West
As SUFU gathered for our monthly chapter meeting at the Emily Turner Library in Presque Isle this past Tuesday, a hot July day, we all took a pause. There was an empty seat where Georgia West usually sat. The chair next to it was empty too, that’s where Stewart, Georgia’s companion, sits. Just recently, they had shared with us that they were celebrating one year together.
Georgia passed away suddenly in the final days of June 2025.
Self-advocates, SUFU staff, friends, support staff, and others gathered at Personal Services of Aroostook (PSA) to celebrate Georgia’s life. A large bouquet of balloons was passed out and released outside as people came together to grieve and remember her.
Georgia rarely missed a SUFU meeting or event. Her self-advocacy skills were something we were all proud of. She often shared the uphill battles she had overcome to reach the happiness she was feeling in recent months. Georgia found joy and comfort in her shared living arrangement, where she was surrounded by a family that supported one another sitting around the table for meals, helping shovel snow, and sharing a few playful snowball fights.
She also found happiness at work. Georgia enjoyed her job at Walgreens in Presque Isle and was proud to be part of a team that valued her. She was making healthier food choices, staying physically active, and feeling better overall.
Georgia was thriving in her role as a SUFU board member. During Advocacy Day this past spring, she shared a thoughtful and powerful list of concerns with her state representative. She was setting healthy boundaries in her life, especially with her family of origin and had finally let go of the guilt that often came with that. She created distance from those who didn’t believe in her as a student or as a parent.
Georgia was a survivor.
She still had much she wanted to accomplish, but she had already achieved so much. She set her standards high and worked hard toward her goals. Even when things didn’t go as planned, Georgia didn’t give up, she kept pushing forward until she was satisfied. Despite others’ doubts, she proudly earned her bachelor’s degree and shared that achievement often.
As time passes, we know we will continue to feel Georgia’s absence. Her chair may one day be filled again, and the pain may feel a little less raw, but we will never forget Georgia.
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